Let me start by saying this: while we haven’t been dating for too long, I will say she has got to be one of the most loving and genuine people I have ever met. I’ve never seen or had a hint of her behavior eventually turning out like this and I’m kind of disgusted right now.

We met up at my apartment and decided that we were both starving so we went to go get some food. Fast forward to us getting there, we pull up to the drive-through and she’s got the music blasting all the way up until the employee starts our order.

She immediately rang off her order not giving the dude a chance to plug it into the system and I say “dang, give him a minute”. I work in the restaurant industry so I know how annoying it is for people to order like that.

We then pull up to the window and the cashier hands her the drinks and when they hand her hers, she’s like “uhh? I order a large. That don’t look like a large.”

In a rude tone. The cashier says it is, and she’s going on about how they need bigger cups and whatnot. At this point I’m starting to get embarrassed that she’s talking to him like that, and I just sit back in my seat.

Then she’s asks for sauces and apparently the restaurant implemented a new policy about giving away too many sauces and he’s trying to tell her that and she’s like “well then just double up on the ranch and honey mustard, and one of the other ones” which is pretty much exactly what the guy explained he can’t do but he gave it to her anyway to avoid the conflict. She didn’t even say thank you when we left.

On the ride back home I tell her “you didn’t have to have an attitude with the guy. He said it was store policy there’s nothing he can do about it, he just works there.” then she says she didn’t think she was being rude and apologizes to me and but my blood is boiling from embarrassment so the ride home is silent. When we get home she is mad bc I confronted her about it and decides she wants to go home.

All I can think about is how she complains about rude customers at her job but then turns around and does this then has the nerve to get mad that she got called out on her nonsense. I don’t even know if I want to continue seeing her at this point. I literally cannot be with someone who is so rude to someone just trying to do their job but on the other hand, I’m hoping this was a one-off thing and I don’t know if I should apologize for confronting her like that..

Trying to be very brief because I have limited time.

I work Mon-Thursday so we tend to have my stepson stay (Fri-Sun) and school holidays. He’s 10 however is on the spectrum, I tend to do most of the childcare but this is because I have more understanding and patience when it comes to autism – my husband has love for his son but not really much understanding.

So I’ve picked our son up from school Friday and I’m in front of everyone he yanks down my top, thankfully I was able to catch my top before I actually flashed anything.

One of the other mothers complained to our son’s biological mother and I got texts complaining, insulting me and saying it was inappropriate of me as I was not wearing a bra and I should know this since I work with children – I work with 2-5-year-olds and I wear a bra to work as I’m aware that they like cuddles.

I told her that son has enough understanding of the world, he’s been assessed and I talk to his teachers, that he shouldn’t be yanking down my top.

She genuinely believes I should not be a teacher knowing that I was going to be around children that what I do in my home is my choice but not in public etc.

Genuinely wondering how am I in the wrong? This world is just so judgemental.

Here are what netizens think:

• Let me get this straight, on your day off, you went to pick up your son, who pulled your top down while you was hanging 10(braless), which didn’t expose your actual breast and someone has a problem with that? Tell her 2 words and the second word is off

• just ignore her she sounds like the type whose going to be a b.. to her kids stepmom. I’m assuming there’s a good reason your husband divorced her.

According to the Police media release, two men were charged for their suspected involvement in operating an unlicensed massage establishment along Upper Serangoon Road.

Raided

Ang Mo Kio Police Division conducted the operation between 8 March 2021 and 11 August 2021, the 54-year-old and 64-year-old man were each found to be allegedly operating a unit providing massage services without a valid licence.

The 64-year-old man was charged in court on 23 March 2022 with carrying on a business of providing massage services in an establishment for massage without a valid licence under Section

The 54-year-old man will be charged in court on 30 March 2022 with carrying on a business of providing massage services in an establishment for massage without a valid licence.

The offence carries a fine not exceeding S$10,000, imprisonment of up two years, or both. For repeat offenders, the offence carries a fine not exceeding S$20,000, imprisonment of up five years, or both.

My boyfriend and I have been together for the past three years, sleeping together actively for two and a half years. I have always been an A cup size, A cup on a good day, and it has never been an issue before.

I often go on his phone and look through his old Instagram stories at videos of us together when I’m feeling sentimental/romantic. To go there, you have to click a sort down bar on your profile. Right underneath the “Your Archives” button is a “Your Activities” button. That tab apparently saves all the links you click while in the app. His links were full of busty women websites. I’m not an idiot, I know how guys are and I expected him to be curious with this kind of stuff.

What hurts me is that those women look NOTHING like me. Not the chest size, not the butt size, not even the same skin colour. I went to sleep feeling like a piece of …. on a public toilet seat.

The next day, he could see something was on my mind so I told him about it. He laughed it off at first thinking I was joking until he saw how serious I was being. He didn’t apologize, he didn’t say anything really except that he didn’t know Instagram saves stuff like that. I tried to bring it up multiple times that day with no success so my self-esteem continued to fall the longer we didn’t talk. I felt the urge to end it for the first time in years (I didn’t) but you could see how bad this news hit me.

The next day, yesterday, he finally put in the effort to speak with me about it. He told me it was an addiction, that he went on once or twice a week to specifically view that category WHILE I was in the shower. Before all this, I always invited him into the shower with me. He really couldn’t be bothered to join me so I could take care of his needs and instead wanted to do it by himself to a picture on a screen.

What should I do?

I was having a typical day at work, until my wife called. She was angry and said that I was being too distant lately. I knew that I was guilty of that, but I was so busy with work that I couldn’t help it. I was so frustrated that she was bringing up the same issue again, so I blurted out, “If you don’t give me what I need, I’ll find it somewhere else.”

I didn’t realize the implications of what I had said until after I had said it. It was meant to be a joke, but it came out wrong and I could tell that my wife was hurt by it. I immediately regretted my words and tried to apologize, but she was already too upset to listen. She hung up the phone and I was left feeling guilty and embarrassed.

The truth is, I don’t think I meant what I said. I know that I love my wife and would never cheat on her. I was just frustrated and said something I didn’t mean in the heat of the moment. But I understand why my wife felt so hurt by my words. It was a careless thing to say and it made her feel like I didn’t value or appreciate her.

After that phone call, I spent a lot of time reflecting on my marriage and what I could do to make it better. I realized that I needed to be more present and attentive to my wife’s needs. I also had to learn to be more open and honest with her about my feelings. It was important for me to recognize that communication is the key to a healthy relationship.

I started making a conscious effort to be there for my wife and to make her feel appreciated. I started taking her on dates and spending more time with her. I also made sure to tell her how much I loved and appreciated her every day. I also worked on being more open with her about my feelings and needs.

I understand that my careless words hurt my wife and I am incredibly sorry for that. I am making it my mission to repair the damage that I have done and to make our marriage stronger. I want to make sure that she knows that I will never look for love or affection elsewhere. I want her to know that she is the only one I need.

No relationship is perfect and there are times when things get tough. But I am confident that if we can learn to communicate better and make an effort to be understanding and supportive of each other, we can make our marriage stronger. I want to make sure that my wife never feels like I would look for love or affection elsewhere. I want her to know that she is the only one I need.

Male waiter refused to give me the food I ordered because he “wanted to protect my slim figure”.

I love chicken, I think it is delicious. But it is NOT what I ordered. I ordered knuckles at this restaurant. When the food came out I realized that it was CHICKEN, not pork.

I flagged down my male waiter and pointed out the mistake. His response was winking at me and telling me he gave me the chicken instead because he wanted to help protect my slim figure.

From his expression you could tell he expected me to thank him for being considerate.

Instead I asked for the manager, who thankfully was a woman, and got me the pork taco salad instead.

Netizens’ comments

• As a firmer server, the only times I didn’t get someone what they wanted were 1) When we were out and 2) When they were ordering alcohol and I was cutting them off.

F that dude.Hope he got fired.

• This takes the pink tax to a whole new low!

If I pay $300 for some bougie expensive meal and they give me smaller portions just because I wear my ovaries on the inside, my fists are flying.