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WOMAN MARRIED 8 YEARS, STILL FEELS NERVOUS WHEN HUSBAND LOOKS AT HER

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A woman shared how she has been married to her husband for 8 years and she still feels butterflies in her stomach whenever he looks at her.

Here is the story

I have the biggest crush on my husband.

I know people are going to come here and be like well yeah, it’s your husband, like obviously I love him.

But there’s a difference in loving someone, and having a crush on them.

And I have a crush on my husband.

8 years we’ve been together. 8 years. And I still can’t stop staring at him and thinking he’s the most handsome guy, and when he stares back I still get butterflies and feel myself blush.

He makes me giddy and nervous. Not nervous in a bad way, but nervous in a I just want him to lean in and kiss me kinda way. Like my phone buzzed and I hope it’s him kinda way.

And when we go out, I find myself struggling to find the perfect outfit because I want to look just right and I’ll spend forever curling my hair til it’s perfect.

I don’t know. I know I’m being gushy. But I don’t really care.

He’s currently working on some paperwork and I’m sitting in the room with him. We haven’t said anything, but I can’t stop glancing up at him from my phone and just wondering how, out of all people, I get to be his wife.

I married that guy.

How awesome is that?

GIRLS GET GHOSTED BY A MODEL AND WONDERS WHY SHE GOT GHOSTED

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I didn’t know I was his rebound till he ghosted me. I was seeing this guy for a few months. He was a model and very good looking.

He was a friend of my schoolmate. I regret getting together with him too soon else I would have noticed something wasn’t right. He pursued me not long after we first met. He bought me flowers and chocolates and cute stuff during that time. I really thought he liked me. He brought me to meet his family and friends and I let him meet my family too. He even talked about getting a pair of couple rings but I refused. I wanted to wait till we reach our first year anniversary or a special occasion. But he surprised me with a simple ring for me to wear anyway. I felt what we had was so intense.

A few more months into the relationship he mentioned he needed to meet his ex to settle some issues because they share a pet and she can’t keep the pet anymore. He told me about his ex when I asked but I guess I asked the wrong questions. I didn’t know he broke up with her just weeks before meeting me. Then weeks past, he started to contact me less. He took longer to reply me. Once he arranged to meet me and failed to show up. I was worried because he was uncontactable. I actually thought he got into an accident and called a mutual friend.

Only to find out he was with that mutual friend. He told me he forgot about our date and asked me to go home. He didn’t even say sorry to me. He said he needed a few days to himself. I waited a week and called his phone because he was not responding to my texts. A girl picked up his call. I was furious. I asked if she was his ex. She said no, she’s someone else. He can’t even be bothered to tell me it’s over.

I kept wondering what did I do wrong. I felt so lost for a while. I managed to slowly get over it and started to feel happy again. I even started to meet other people and had put him in the past until he texted me. He wanted to meet. I told him to leave me alone and blocked him.

Just when I’m happy again why is he back? I feel I am back to the day when he made another person tell me it’s over. He used me. Why is he doing this to me? Please don’t buy a girl a ring and get a middleman to break up with her. It’s hurtful and disgusting and plain horrible.

MAN WANTS TO IMPRESS HIS DATE BY RENTING A CAR, END UP SHE FOUND OUT & DUMP HIM

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It was the night of my first date with Sarah (let’s call her Sarah). I had been crushing on her for weeks, and I was determined to make it a spectacular night. I wanted to show her I was sophisticated and had some money to burn.

I made the decision to rent a luxury car for the night.

After doing some research, I came across a car rental company that had a great selection of luxury cars. I was able to rent a 2017 BMW for the night. I was so excited to show her the car, and I knew she would be impressed.

When I arrived to pick Sarah up, she was absolutely taken aback by the car. She had a big smile on her face and asked me how I was able to afford such a nice car. I quickly responded with a laugh, saying I had saved up some money to rent it for the night.

We had an amazing night. We went to a fancy restaurant, drove around town with the top down, and even stopped for some ice cream. It was one of the best nights of my life.

The next day, I was feeling really good about myself. I had impressed Sarah and had a great time. Little did I know, Sarah had found out that I had rented the car.

She called me later that day and asked me if I had actually rented the car. I was taken aback and didn’t know how to respond. After some uncomfortable silence, I finally admitted that I had rented the car.

Sarah was not happy. She told me that she felt like I was trying to show off and make her think I was someone I wasn’t. She said she couldn’t be with someone who was so materialistic.

I was devastated. I had tried to impress her and it had backfired. I apologized and begged her to give me another chance, but she refused. She said she didn’t want to date someone who was so shallow and materialistic.

After that night, I learned an important lesson. Money can’t buy happiness, and it certainly can’t buy love. Trying to impress someone with money is a surefire way to end up alone.

I never did hear from Sarah again, but I still think about that night and the lesson I learned. It’s a reminder to always be myself and not try to be something I’m not. Money can’t buy love, but it can certainly ruin it.

GIRL FOUND OUT MUM IS CHEATING ON DAD WITH COWORKER, FEELS LOST

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I learned that my mom is cheating on my dad. What should I do?

My mom (43F) is an accountant and my dad (44M) owns a small business. They’ve been married for 22 years.

Last weekend, one of my friends told me that my mom and some guy checked into a hotel he worked in.

My mom was supposed to be at a company seminar in a different city. My friend sent me their pictures, and I looked around in her socials. Sure enough, I found him in LinkedIn. He is her co-worker.

I accessed her Google photos account (she has her passwords written near her computer), and there were photos of them at various places when she was supposed to be at company events and stuff, going back to 2 years.

What should I do now?

Netizens’ comments

  • Talk to your dad. Tell him what your friend said and show him the pics.

Don’t give your mum a chance to delete the evidence and gaslight your dad by going to her first.

  • Just tell dad and share everything you have/know. And then back off they’ll handle the relationship from there.

People are saying talk to your mom but let’s be real. She’s lied this long she’ll lie more/minimize her behaviors/actions.

Tell pops and let him sort it out.

Rough position to be in.

  • Don’t tell your mom first. Then she gets the chance to delete all the evidence. Tell your dad what your friend said and show him what you’ve found and he can take it from there

3 MEN WERE ARRESTED FOR INVOLVEMENT IN ASSISTING ILLEGAL MONEY LENDERS

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The Police have arrested three men, aged between 22 and 26, for their suspected involvement in assisting in the businesses of unlicensed moneylending syndicates.

On 29 November 2023, officers from the Criminal Investigation Department and Police Intelligence Department conducted simultaneous raids at several locations island-wide and arrested the three men for assisting several unlicensed moneylending syndicates. They are believed to have facilitated the activities of the unlicensed moneylending syndicates by sending out unsolicited SMSes, using Singapore-registered mobile numbers, to offer loans from unlicensed moneylenders. 

Preliminary investigations revealed that during the period from 1 September 2023 to 6 November 2023, the three men had sent about 50,000 to 150,000 SMSes daily on behalf of the unlicensed moneylending syndicates to random Singapore-registered mobile numbers. A laptop, a modem pool, mobile phones and more than 600 SIM cards were seized from the three men during the operation.

Two of the three men will be charged in court on 1 December 2023. Police investigations against the third man are ongoing. 

Under the Moneylenders Act 2008, first-time offenders found guilty of carrying on or assisting in a business of unlicensed moneylending shall be punished with imprisonment term of up to four years, a fine of not less than $30,000 and not more than $300,000, and caning of not more than six strokes. 

The Police will continue to take tough enforcement actions against those involved in the unlicensed moneylending business, regardless of their roles, and ensure that they face the full brunt of the law.

Members of public are advised to stay away from unlicensed moneylenders and not to work with or assist them in any way. The public can call the Police at ‘999’ or the X-Ah-Long hotline at 1800-924-5664 if they suspect or know of anyone who could be involved in unlicensed moneylending activities.

CYBER CRIMINALS DEEP-FAKED 300 DOCTORS FACE ON “VIDEO” TO EXTORT THEM FOR CASH

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In recent months, a disturbing trend has emerged in Taiwan’s medical community, where over 300 doctors have become targets of cyber extortion. Criminals, employing explicit photos manipulated with crude techniques, sought to exploit medical professionals for financial gain. Despite the poorly crafted attempt, the incident has raised concerns about the vulnerability of healthcare professionals to cyber threats.

Introduction

The medical profession is no stranger to challenges, but the latest wave of cyber threats faced by doctors in Taiwan has sent shockwaves through the community. In this article, we delve into the details of a recent extortion attempt, exploring the tactics used, the impact on the victims, and the broader implications for cybersecurity in the medical sector.

The Disturbing Trend

In the heart of Taipei, doctors at the Taipei City Hospital found themselves in the crosshairs of cybercriminals. The criminals employed a chilling strategy—sending threatening emails containing explicit photos, manipulated to feature the doctors’ faces. The intention was clear: pay up or face public humiliation.

The Poorly Crafted Extortion Attempt

While the intent was malicious, the execution was far from flawless. The photos, sourced from mainland China, displayed a lack of technical finesse, leading the targeted doctors to dismiss the threats. The poor quality of the images became evident, and a unified decision to report the incident to local law enforcement was made.

Reporting and Investigation

The swift response from the doctors triggered an investigation by local authorities. The origin of the threatening emails was traced to a Hong Kong-based email address, revealing a potentially international connection to the cybercrime. The police, committed to resolving the case, are diligently pursuing the culprits.

Origin of the Disturbing Content

The explicit images used in the extortion attempt were traced back to a broader pattern of cyber threats. Similar incidents, with identical images, had surfaced in mainland China, targeting local officials. This revelation underscores the interconnected nature of cyber threats across borders.

Cybersecurity Measures

In an era where technology permeates every aspect of our lives, professionals must be vigilant about cybersecurity. The incident serves as a wake-up call for the medical community to bolster their digital defenses. Robust cybersecurity measures can mitigate the risk of falling victim to such heinous schemes.

Impact on the Medical Community

Beyond the immediate financial threat, the incident has taken a toll on the emotional well-being of the affected doctors. The violation of privacy and the fear of public exposure have prompted medical institutions to reassess and reinforce their security protocols.

Police Progress and Regional Cooperation

The ongoing investigation has revealed the global nature of cyber threats. The collaboration between local and international law enforcement agencies highlights the necessity of regional cooperation to combat cybercrime effectively.

Doctor’s Reaction

One of the doctors targeted shared their experience, emphasizing the initial shock upon seeing the images. However, a closer inspection revealed the amateurish nature of the manipulation, leading to a sense of relief. The doctor promptly informed colleagues and instituted precautionary measures to prevent further victimization.

Precautionary Measures

In response to the incident, professionals are advised to enhance their cybersecurity practices. This includes secure communication channels, regular system audits, and employee training programs. Creating awareness within the medical community is crucial to prevent future incidents.

International Response

Comparisons with similar incidents globally highlight the need for an international response to cyber threats in the healthcare sector. Collaborative efforts, information sharing, and joint initiatives can strengthen the resilience of medical professionals worldwide.

Psychological Impact

The psychological toll on the victims cannot be overstated. Beyond the immediate fear, professionals face lasting emotional consequences. Support mechanisms, including counseling services, should be readily available to help doctors cope with the aftermath of such incidents.

Legal Consequences

As the investigation unfolds, the potential legal consequences for the perpetrators become clearer. Advocacy for stricter cybercrime laws and their consistent enforcement is essential to deter future threats and hold criminals accountable.

Public Awareness

To build a robust defense against cyber threats, public awareness is paramount. Medical institutions, alongside law enforcement agencies, should actively promote cybersecurity awareness programs. Encouraging individuals to report suspicious activities ensures a proactive approach to preventing future incidents.

Conclusion

The cyber extortion attempt on Taiwanese doctors serves as a stark reminder of the vulnerabilities within the medical sector. It calls for collective action, emphasizing the importance of cybersecurity, regional cooperation, and psychological support for professionals. As we navigate the digital age, safeguarding our healthcare providers becomes a shared responsibility.

WOMAN ANGRY BECAUSE HUSBAND DIED FROM SURGERY, PLANS FELL APART

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My husband died and I’m so angry right now

People keep asking me if I’m sad. No, I’m angry, he was 25 and he died in a low risk surgery that he underwent for me. He died for no reason, there is no “greater plan” and no god isn’t watching over me. He died, he’s gone for no good reason at all.

We were trying to have kids, we have a house, dogs, we had a life together that we’d both worked so hard to build and it’s gone for nothing. It’s my fault and I hate that he died to keep me alive so I’m just stuck with this anger.

This isn’t fair, it doesn’t feel real. Why was he taken out of all the people who could have died. He was good, he died trying to be good.

He was very wealthy and I’ve had multiple people reach out to me saying at least I have his money now. No, screw you. I don’t want his money, I just want my husband back.

I hate people so much right now. Constant empty platitudes, strangers on Facebook telling me how they’re sorry for my loss when I last spoke to them a decade ago.

You barely know me Sandra you cow, how can you be sorry, you just want Facebook likes for faux sympathy.

Screw this. Screw being a widow. Screw it all.

Rant over. I’m going to bite my pillow now. Screw you pillow, you don’t even support me properly and that’s all you’re supposed to do.

Netizens’ comments

  • If you don’t mind answering, what was the surgery for? Racking my brain trying to think of dangerous surgeries that aren’t preventative
    • Partial liver transplant.
      • Excuse me. That is NOT a low-risk surgery. That surgery can come with a major risk of bleeding. What exactly happened? Note – I am a doctor

HDB RESIDENT NOT HAPPY WITH NOISE FROM FUNERAL DOWNSTAIRS, “THERE ARE BABIES HERE”

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In a recent Facebook post, a disgruntled resident of an HDB estate expressed frustration over a funeral procession that allegedly disrupted the peace of the neighborhood.

The resident empathized with those mourning but called for consideration due to the disturbance caused by prolonged and loud music.

The post highlighted the resident’s concern for the presence of babies in the neighborhood and the adjacent Build-To-Order (BTO) flats.

Played music for 1 hour

According to the post, the funeral procession involved blasting music that permeated through all floors, even with doors and windows shut tight, lasting for over an hour.

An update in the post mentioned that the police had received several calls regarding the issue, and, according to the authorities, the extended loud music was deemed unacceptable.

The resident emphasized understanding the solemnity of a funeral but urged those involved to be more considerate, suggesting that playing loud music during the departure of the procession would be more appropriate than doing so while stationary for an extended period.

“I’m not being rude”

In response to accusations of rudeness, the resident referenced attempts to communicate their concerns to the funeral participants.

The post described an encounter where the resident allegedly approached the individuals responsible for the loud music, only to be met with what was described as a nonchalant attitude, symbolized by a dismissive facial expression.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Just 1 hour+ of the rest of your life. Get over it. Live and let live.
    Prob the last hour of that person’s time on earth as a whole body..
    This has been around for years.
  2. Knn like that also cannot? Then move overseas.
    People’s funeral, last few hours for the family to pay respects also want to complain. Complain nevermind, still call police. You want police arrest who? Arrest the deceased?
    Don’t be lame. Then your baby cry we also complain lah. Morning first thing let mourning people see your jiao bin face.
    What a joke.
    Don’t need issue smlj update lah. You see yourself here who give a damn about your post.
    Your family funeral you pay for service then you call the shots.
  3. The only time you can blast the music loud loud on the roads or anywhere is when you are dead! No one can complaint you. 

ASSURANCE PACKAGE MONEY IS IN, ELIGIBLE S’POREANS RECEIVED UP TO $800 CASH EARLIER

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In a surprising turn of events, numerous Singaporeans have found themselves receiving their Assurance Package cash payouts of up to $800 well before the scheduled date of December 5th, as announced by the finance ministry earlier this year.

The Assurance Package (AP) cash payouts were expected to benefit approximately 2.9 million eligible Singaporeans, providing financial relief during these challenging times.

Early Payouts Spark Excitement

OCBC users, in particular, were the early beneficiaries of this financial windfall. Reports emerged that some OCBC users received the AP cash payouts as early as 3 am on Friday, December 1st, a full four days before the officially stipulated payment date.

This unexpected development has sparked excitement and curiosity among Singaporeans eagerly awaiting the financial relief promised by the government.

OCBC Users Lead the Way

Online forums quickly became a hub for discussions as OCBC users shared their experiences of receiving the cash payouts.

Users recounted how the funds started flowing into their accounts in the early hours of December 1st, creating a buzz of anticipation and surprise within the online community.

The early distribution by OCBC has undoubtedly added a layer of excitement to the upcoming festive season for those fortunate enough to be part of the early payout group.

DBS/POSB and UOB Users Follow Suit

Following OCBC, DBS/POSB users entered the fray, with reports indicating that their cash payouts began arriving around 4:30 pm on the same day.

Subsequently, UOB users joined the wave, reportedly receiving their funds about 30 minutes later, at approximately 5 pm.

The Assurance Package

All adult Singaporeans will get $200 to $800 from AP Cash and AP Cash Special Payment  

The Assurance Package (AP) aims to help Singaporeans tide through the period of higher inflation and cushion the impact of the GST rate increase. The package includes cash payments, rebates, Community Development Council (CDC) vouchers, and MediSave top-ups.  

Deputy Prime Minister (DPM) and Minister for Finance Lawrence Wong announced at Budget 2023 that the Government would enhance the AP to account for higher inflation and provide additional one-off support to Singaporeans in 2023 to address immediate cost-of-living concerns.

This enhancement ensures that the AP will continue to offset additional GST expenses for the majority of Singaporean households for at least five years, with around ten years offset for lower-income households.

On 28 September 2023, DPM Lawrence Wong announced an additional $1.1 billion Cost-of-Living (COL) Support Package to provide more relief for Singaporean households, especially lower- to middle-income families. This includes a $0.8 billion enhancement to the AP, which brings its total to over $10 billion. 

Adult Singaporeans aged 21 and above in 2024 will receive up cash payouts in December 2023 under the enhanced AP. 

The amount ranges from $200 to $800. About 2.9 million adult Singaporeans will receive up to $600 in AP Cash. About 2.5 million of these adult Singaporeans will also receive up to $200 in AP Cash Special Payment. 

You can check if you are eligible for the payouts here.

Eligibility

4.   For the AP Cash and AP Cash Special Payment, citizens may check their eligibility at the AP official website (go.gov.sg/assurancepackage) by logging in with their Singpass. The AP Cash and AP Cash Special Payment will be disbursed together in one lump sum in December 2023, with Singaporeans receiving up to $800 in total.

Modes of payment

Go Digital to Receive Cash Benefits Sooner 

5.   PayNow-NRIC provides added convenience and privacy for citizens to receive the cash benefits in their bank account, without having to disclose their bank account details to the sender. Since 2021, the Ministry of Finance has been using PayNow-NRIC as the default payment mode for citizens who have linked their NRIC to PayNow.  

6.   Citizens are encouraged to link their NRIC to PayNow by 19 November 2023 if they have accounts with the participating banks in Singapore. By doing so, they can receive their AP Cash and AP Cash Special Payment as early as from 5 December 2023. Please visit the AP official website for the list of participating banks and contact your bank for more details on how to link your NRIC to PayNow.  

7.   Those without PayNow-NRIC linked bank accounts can update their bank account information (with DBS/POSB, OCBC or UOB) at the AP official website by 27 November 2023 to receive the payment from 13 December 2023.  

Understanding the COL Package

The COL package, recently unveiled by Finance Minister Lawrence Wong on September 28, 2023, is designed to address the pressing issue of inflation that affects the everyday lives of Singaporeans. It includes a multi-pronged approach to alleviate financial stress and provide much-needed relief.

Enhancements to Assurance Package
Assurance Package (AP) Cash Special Payment· Additional payment of up to $200 cash for 2.5 million eligible adult Singaporeans
· This one-off special payment will be disbursed in December 2023, together with the existing AP Cash component.
· In total, eligible adult Singaporeans will receive up to $800 cash in December 2023.
· This will provide more support to lower- and middle-income adult Singaporeans.

28 Sep PR Final
CDC Vouchers· Additional $200 of CDC Vouchers for every Singaporean household in 2024. This will bring the total amount of CDC Vouchers to $500 for every Singaporean household in 2024
· The additional CDC vouchers will be allocated equally: $100 for spending at participating heartland merchants and hawkers, and $100 for spending at participating supermarkets.
· The 2024 CDC Vouchers should be claimed digitally at go.gov.sg/cdcv from 3 January 2024 onwards. The vouchers can be claimed any time during their validity period. Those requiring further assistance can approach their nearest Community Centre/Club (CC).
· The vouchers will expire in end-2024.
Additional Service & Conservancy Charges (S&CC) Rebate· Additional one-off 0.5-month of S&CC rebate for 950,000 Singaporean HDB households
· This will be disbursed in January 2024, together with the regular S&CC rebates.
· This will, on average, fully offset the S&CC increase in the first year of increases for 1- to 4-room HDB flats and about 85% for larger HDB flats.
Additional U-Save Rebates to cushion impact of increases in carbon tax and water price· Additional $20 per quarter of U-Save rebates from January 2024 to December 2025, or a total of $80 per year for 2 years, for 950,000 Singaporean HDB households
· These rebates will be disbursed together with the regular U-Save rebates and will cushion the impact of the increases in carbon tax and water price in 2024 and 2025.
· Over 2024–2025, the additional U-Save rebates will, on average, fully offset the increase in utility bills for 1- to 2-room HDB flats, about 80% of the increase in utility bills for 3- to 4-room HDB flats, and about 65% of the increase in utility bills for larger flats.

ANGMOH ASKS S’POREANS TO “PUT DOWN YOUR PHONES” IN MRT & BE CONSIDERATE

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In the bustling world of public transport, where individuals are perpetually connected to their phones, a US expat in Singapore, Jenna, recently took to TikTok with a heartfelt plea.

While relishing the convenience of the MRT, she shed light on a ubiquitous issue – the lack of spatial awareness caused by phone distractions during escalator transitions.

The Love-Hate Relationship with MRT

Commutes on the MRT offer a reprieve from traffic, but for Jenna, the experience takes a frustrating turn at Chinatown station.

The bottleneck during escalator transitions becomes a breeding ground for inefficiency, exacerbated by the sea of commuters engrossed in their phones.

Understanding spatial awareness is crucial to comprehend the impact of phone usage. Phones disrupt this awareness, leading to unpredictable movements and hindering the seamless flow of commuters, as highlighted by Jenna’s plea.

Acknowledging the need to dissociate is crucial. Balancing personal preferences with communal considerations is a delicate task, and Jenna urges commuters to put their phones away, if only for a moment, during critical junctures like escalator transitions.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Well said ma’am! Thats the biggest problem walking around in Singapore’s public places. Hope this vid goes viral
  2. totally agree with u, why do ppl need to watch drama while walking? especially in a crowd? everybody hv their eyes glued to the phone
  3. The walk between Esplanade and Raffles City at lunch. I swear no one looks up.
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