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BF ANNOUNCE GF IS CHEATING INFRONT OF A CROWD

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So, my girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me with my very own of a best friend.

I was part of a local band that did gigs for bars and coffee shops around town. And during those times, my ex (who was my girlfriend then) joined us from time to time on both the gigs and even rehearsals/practices and needless to say, she got close to all my other band mates including my former best friend who was also in the band. By then, I started noticing how she would constantly get close to my best friend by being flirty with him in front of me. Needless to say, I became jealous. So, I did what any good boyfriend would do, and talk to her nicely about her behavior. But, she blew me off, and even had the audacity to scream at me and say that I was being too “un-trusting.” So, I decided to let it slide, since I knew she was a very touchy person to everyone.

But after a while, she started spending too much time on her phone, laughing and smiling all the while. And my best friend would start missing rehearsals for our gigs. It was unusual of him since he was a pretty dedicated guy when it came to our band. And each time he misses a session, my ex would be away as well. I started getting suspicious after seeing signs of cheating from her. I didn’t want to suspect her nor my best friend having an affair, but there are so many things pointing to it.

So, I decided to take action. I wanted to find out the truth. So, I secretly took her phone and checked her DMs in Instagram and Facebook. Lo and behold, there it is. The conversation between her and my best friend ranged from flirty to raunchy. Needless to say, I was fuming. I decided to take a picture of the DMs as proof of her infidelity.

So, out of the blue, I decided to do something for our upcoming 2nd anniversary. We had a gig on the day of the anniversary so I told her that she could come with us after the gig to celebrate. During rehearsals, I told the band that I would like to sing a few solo songs for my girlfriend during the gig. They agreed to it, and that includes the GUY she was cheating with.

He even wished us a happy anniversary. All the while, I was resisting the urge to bash his head with my guitar. Little did they know, I was planning to sing a few original songs about cheating to see how she would react.

The day came and we did the gig. We finished up all our setlist, and that was the moment for my small bit for her. While on the mic, I announced to the crowd in the bar that it was our anniversary, and people cheered with congratulations. I pretty much “thanked” her for the 2 years she’s been with me and all that jazz. She was even beaming at me as if she knew nothing about what she’s done. So, I started singing one of the original songs I wrote for her. As expected, her smile turned to a frown slowly as she realized that I wrote these songs for her. She then stood up in the middle of one of my songs fuming in anger. She came in front of me screaming her head off. Pretty much expected of her reaction. I told her that I knew what she was doing with my best friend and asked her why did she do that. She kept denying it, until I pulled out my phone and showed her the conversation she’s been having with him. She became silent in front of the crowd. I pulled up the mic and announced to everyone, “Thanks for the two years, B. This is goodbye.”

After more than 3 years has passed since that incident, many things have happened. Me, kicking her out of our place, ending my friendship with the so called “best friend”, and sadly the disbandment of our group to pursue other things. But, hey!

Single life is happy, and I’m still doing some music. But it’s just more of a hobby. Looking back, I can never understand why cheaters do this.

GF OBSSESS WITH BRINGING SPECIAL TOWEL TO HOTEL

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I’m 31 this year and my gf is 25, we have been dating for about 2 years.

My GF has beautiful hair that seems a lot more low maintenance than most women I know. She doesn’t use all a hundred different hair products, nor does she blow dry it. It honestly doesn’t take her long to style her hair or anything. However, she always insist on using this special towel to dry her hair.

She insists that she can’t use any regular towel for her hair. She gets mad if I use her hair towel as a regular towel too. She says that the towel should only be used for hair. She even bought an extra one of these towels that she keeps in her drawer at my place. She also takes the towel with her when she goes on vacation.

I usually don’t mind it, since the towel doesn’t take up much space, and it better than listening to a hair dryer all the time. But it’s a bit weird because I don’t know anyone else who has a towel just for their hair.

When we were clearing our leave, we decided to go a staycation. Before the trip, I asked my GF to leave her towel at home since we’ll be staying at a hotel. It would seem weird to be a towel to a hotel where there is already plenty of towels.

Since we planned to leave early in the morning, GF spent the night at my place. I noticed that she packed the towel she kept at my place in her suitcase. When she was asleep, I took the towel out. She didn’t notice the towel was gone until after we got to my parent’s house.

I thought it was okay, and my GF didn’t seem mad at all during the whole trip. However, when we got back at my place, my GF got into her car and drove off without saying goodbye. She texted me later saying she’s mad at me because of that stupid towel and she needs some space. I keep calling and texting her, but she won’t respond.

My friends think she’s being overly dramatic, but my GF isn’t that type of person. Now I’m wondering if I messed up.

Here are what netizens think:

  • 100% it’s about him not seeing her as an equal. Even if there is no real reason for her to need a special towel besides that she likes it, his behavior is breakup worthy to me. If he’ll do this over a towel that he thinks she doesn’t need, what else will he take away from her?
  • there seem to be a lot of posts on here about men undermining women because of their hair routine, especially curly haired women with a different routine. It’s so gross. Different hair has different maintenance needs.

3 SEND TO SGH AFTER HOKKIEN MEE STALL GOES UP IN FLAMES AT HOUGANG COFFEE SHOP

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Introduction

In a chilling incident that unfolded on a seemingly ordinary Sunday afternoon, a fire broke out at a coffee shop in Hougang, Singapore, sending three individuals to the hospital. The incident, which occurred at Block 805 Hougang Central, sent shockwaves through the neighborhood.

The Scene Unfolds

At approximately 2:40 pm on that fateful Sunday, the SCDF received a distress call alerting them to a fire at Block 805 Hougang Central. The fire had already begun to engulf a coffee shop stall located on the first floor of the building. The situation was dire, and immediate action was required to prevent further devastation.

Heroic Actions

Amidst the chaos and danger, a heroic coffee shop worker sprang into action. With unwavering courage, they swiftly shut off the gas stove that had fueled the flames. This act of bravery and quick thinking likely prevented the fire from spreading further and potentially causing even greater harm.

Victims of the Incident

Despite the swift response from the SCDF and the courageous actions of the coffee shop worker, the incident still resulted in casualties. One person was rushed to the Singapore General Hospital, while two others were taken to Sengkang General Hospital. The severity of their injuries and their current conditions were not immediately disclosed.

The Aftermath

In the aftermath of the incident, the affected coffee shop stall, particularly the Hokkien mee stall, remained closed for business. The physical and emotional scars left by the fire will undoubtedly take time to heal. Investigations into the cause of the fire are likely to follow, as authorities seek to prevent similar incidents in the future.

F&B MANAGER ARRESTED AFTER STEALING OVER $110K FROM RESTAURANT

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A 32-year-old man finds himself in hot water as he faces arrest for his suspected involvement in a case of criminal breach of trust as a servant. The unfolding story sheds light on a troubling incident that occurred on October 5, 2023, at 6.23 pm. This article delves into the details of this case, the implications, and what could lie ahead for the accused.

The Allegations Unveiled

On the fateful evening of October 5th, 2023, the local authorities received a distressing call. It was a call that would set into motion a series of events that would change the life of a 32-year-old man forever. This individual, who was employed as the sales manager of a well-known restaurant, stood accused of a grave offense – misappropriating the restaurant’s sales proceeds, amounting to approximately $113,000.

Breach of Trust: A Devastating Betrayal

The accused, who had been entrusted with the crucial responsibility of collecting the restaurant’s sales proceeds, allegedly deviated from the path of honesty and integrity. Instead of safeguarding the financial interests of the establishment, he purportedly used the money for his own personal gains, betraying the trust that had been placed in him.

Swift Action and Arrest

Swift action was taken by the authorities to investigate these allegations. Officers from the Central Police Division initiated a thorough examination of the case immediately after receiving the report. Within the same day, they successfully apprehended the man, seeking to bring him to justice for his alleged actions.

A Pattern of Misconduct

The case takes an even more alarming turn as it is revealed that this is not an isolated incident. The accused is also under investigation for a similar offense at a different restaurant, where he had misappropriated an astonishing sum of over $500,000. This pattern of misconduct raises questions about the extent of his involvement in financial wrongdoing and the potential scale of the damage caused.

Legal Consequences Await

The legal consequences for the accused are severe. He is set to face charges in court on October 7, 2023, under Section 408 of the Penal Code 1871 for the offense of criminal breach of trust as a servant. This section of the law holds that anyone convicted of such an offense may face imprisonment for a term that may extend to 15 years, in addition to a substantial fine.

The Implications

The arrest of this 32-year-old sales manager sends a strong message about the seriousness with which the legal system views acts of betrayal and financial misconduct, especially when they involve individuals placed in positions of trust. It underscores the importance of vigilance in the workplace and the need for businesses to implement robust financial controls to prevent such occurrences.

POLICE WARN OF MALWARE THROUGH SALE OF FOOD ONLINE, 11 VICTIMS LOSE $ 403K

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The Police have observed an emerging variant of malware scam where victims would respond to alleged fraudulent advertisements of food items, many of which were posted on Facebook, and be redirected to fake Sheng Siong and FairPrice Group applications (Apps). Since September 2023, at least 11 victims have fallen prey, with total losses amounting to at least $403,000. The Police have received reports of scams involving fraudulent advertisements of food items, many of which were posted on Facebook. Members of the public are advised to be wary of such fraudulent advertisements on Facebook. 

Conversation between the victim and scammer

In these cases, victims would come across advertisements on Facebook promoting food items such as rice, cookies, duck, etc. Upon clicking on the link on the said advertisement, the victims were redirected to WhatsApp whereby the “sellers” would engage victims and be directed to download an Android Package Kit (APK) over WhatsApp or be directed to malicious links to download the APK to place orders for the food items. The APK is an app created for Android’s operating system. The malicious app of concern resembles the FairPrice Group and Sheng Siong apps. Please refer to Annex A for images of these fake apps. After downloading and installing the APK file (which includes granting the app accessibility services), the scammers will be able to access the victim’s device remotely to steal banking credentials and passwords. Victims were also instructed to make a PayNow/bank transfer to make payment/deposit for the food items or become a member or to pay for delivery. Subsequently, victims discovered unauthorised transactions from their banking accounts.

The Police would like to remind members of the public of the danger of downloading apps from third-party or dubious sites. Members of the public are advised to adopt the following precautionary measures:

ADD – ScamShield to protect yourselves from scam calls and SMSes. Add anti-virus applications and ensure that these apps are updated to scan for the latest malware. Also ensure your devices’ operating systems and applications are updated regularly to be protected by the latest security patches. Please refer to Annex B for the list of recommended anti-virus apps. Disable “Install Unknown App” or “Unknown Sources” in your phone settings and do not grant permission to persistent pop-ups that request for access to your device’s hardware or data. 

CHECK – For scam signs with official sources (e.g. ScamShield WhatsApp bot @ https://g.gov.sg/scamshield-bot, call the Anti-Scam Helpline on 1800-722-6688, or visit www.scamalert.sg). Only download and install applications from official app stores (i.e., Google Play Store for Android). Be wary if asked to download unknown apps in order to purchase items on Facebook. Check the developer information on the app listing as well as the number of downloads and user reviews to ensure it is reputable and legitimate. 

TELL – Authorities, family, and friends about scams. Report the suspicious content or advertisement to Facebook. Initiate in-app blocking by reporting the number linked to the advertisement to WhatsApp. Lastly, report any fraudulent transactions to your bank immediately.

If you have already downloaded and installed the app (which includes granting the app accessibility services) or suspect that your phone is infected with malware, please take the following steps:

  1. Turn your phone to “flight mode”. Check that Wi-Fi is switched off and do not switch it on.
  2. Run an anti-virus scan on your phone.
  3. Check your bank account/Singpass/CPF etc for any unauthorised transaction(s) using other device(s). 
  4. If there are unauthorised transaction(s), report to the bank, relevant authorities, and lodge a Police report. 
  5. After completing steps a-c, if you believe that your phone has not been infected with malware, you may resume usage of your phone. As a further precaution, you may consider doing a “factory reset” of your phone and changing important passwords. 

The retailers and the Police are working together in the fight against scams. If you have any information relating to such crimes or if you are in doubt, please call the Police Hotline at 1800-255-0000, or submit it online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness. All information will be kept strictly confidential. If you require urgent Police assistance, please dial ‘999’.

For more information on scams, members of the public can visit www.scamalert.sg or call the Anti-Scam Helpline at 1800-722-6688. Fighting scams is a community effort. Together, we can ACT Against Scams to safeguard our community!

NETIZENS DISCONTENTED WITH LIMITED $10 GAIN CITY VOUCHER USE

A netizen posted an anonymous complaint online stating that she was unable to utilise a $10 voucher that was given by a Gain City staff. When she was about to make the purchase she was told that the voucher is only valid for use on certain floors of the building.

However, It was not stated in the terms and conditions of the voucher. The last sentence of the voucher also states “Gain City Best-Electric Pte Ltd. reserves the changes and amendments to these terms and conditions without prior notice”

The netizen wrote:

Went to Gain City Megastore @ Sungei Kadut Dr together with my husband. Were given a $10 off voucher each when we reached the entrance by one of the staff.

We headed to level 7 and wanted to buy some items from there. However when we were about to make payment, we were told by the Gain City Staff that the vouchers were invalid. They said they were not aware of the promotion and it did not apply to level 7. The vouchers only apply to level 1 to 3, not 4 to 7?

We read the terms and conditions again. But the vouchers didn’t stated it was applicable for level 1 to 3 only? When we tried to query their staff, Johnny their Sales Manager was very rude and unreasonable to us. Because of their poor service and attitude, we decided to cancel the items and not to buy from them anymore.

Please, if the voucher is not applicable to level 7, then please state clearly on the vouchers. The voucher is so misleading. Will NEVER want to shop there again.

Here are what netizens think:

Just found out from my friends (neighbours) that they also kena from them few days ago. Their so called voucher is invalid at level 7. So level 7 is not part of Gain City?

Omg…. i have 5 of that similar voucher worth $50. .now I know. Won’t buy anything from there since cant use it at L7. Thanks for sharing.

This the problems when a small company grows into a huge corporation, every staffs thinks they are above all, Stay away than , that’s why sometime I like to go those smaller appliance store to buy my items

3 DOGS DIED AFTER VISIT TO FIELD IN KOVAN, ALLEGEDLY POISONED

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In a shocking turn of events, the picturesque Parry Field, an informal dog park located in the Rosyth estate, has become the center of controversy due to a series of tragic incidents. Over the past few days, several dogs have tragically lost their lives, leaving their owners devastated. Allegations are circulating that a nearby construction project may have led to contamination, resulting in the untimely demise of these beloved pets. In this article, we delve into the details of this heart-wrenching situation, exploring the events that have transpired and the community’s response.

The Setting: Parry Field and Its Significance

Before we dive into the unfortunate events, let’s take a moment to understand the significance of Parry Field. Situated on the grounds of the now-defunct Parry Primary School, this field has been a haven for both dogs and their owners in the Rosyth estate. Residents have cherished it as an informal dog park, a place for their furry companions to run and play freely.

A Construction Project Unfolds

The controversy began when the Urban Redevelopment Authority (URA) announced on September 29, 2022, that the site, including Parry Field, would be launched for public tender for a private assisted living development. This decision raised concerns among residents and dog owners in the area, as it indicated a significant change in land use.

Fast forward to June 20, 2023, when the Business Times reported that PRE 20, a subsidiary of real estate firm Perennial Holdings, had successfully won the tender for the development project. Construction soon commenced in the vicinity of Parry Field, with work taking place on the premises of the old school building.

A Community in Mourning

Tragedy struck when multiple dogs, who had visited Parry Field recently, fell seriously ill and, in some cases, succumbed to their illnesses. It was on October 7, 2023, that Jay Lee, one of the affected dog owners, shared the heartbreaking news of the loss of their beloved cavachon, Sunkiss. In a poignant social media post, Jay Lee revealed that Sunkiss had passed away due to toxin poisoning, following a harrowing episode of seizures.

The devastating account continued with the description of Sunkiss’s futile battle for life, ultimately ending in a heart-wrenching loss. This gut-wrenching story is not isolated, as two other dog owners, whose pets were named Palo and Katie, reported similar tragedies on October 7 and October 5, respectively. The community was left in shock and grief as they grappled with the sudden and unexplained deaths of these pets.

Allegations of Contamination

As the news of these tragic incidents spread, dog owners and residents in the area began to suspect that the construction project near Parry Field might be linked to the contamination of the land. Concerns were raised that toxins or hazardous substances from the construction site could have infiltrated the field, posing a serious threat to the health of the dogs that frequented it.

Community Action and Mourning

In response to the alarming situation, the Rosyth estate community rallied together. They erected signs at Parry Field, warning dog owners of the potential dangers and urging caution. Social media platforms were flooded with posts and tributes to the late dogs, as the community expressed their grief and support for one another. The loss of these pets has deeply affected the tight-knit neighborhood, and they are determined to seek answers and justice for their furry friends.

The Road Ahead: Poised for Redevelopment

Amidst the tragedy and controversy, it’s important to remember that the land housing Parry Field is poised for redevelopment. The transformation of this area, including the old Parry Primary School premises, is expected to bring significant changes to the Rosyth estate. However, the recent events have cast a shadow over this development, and questions linger about its potential impact on the environment and the well-being of the community.

In conclusion, the situation surrounding Parry Field and the tragic deaths of multiple dogs is a heartbreaking and perplexing one. While the community mourns their beloved pets, they also seek answers and accountability. Investigations are ongoing to determine if contamination from the nearby construction project played a role in these tragic events. The Rosyth estate, once a peaceful haven for dogs and their owners, now finds itself at the center of a heartbreaking mystery.

2 MEN ARRESTED FOR CYBERCRIME, ROLEX, GOLD BARS AND CASH SEIZED

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The Police have arrested two men, aged 56 and 32 for their suspected involvement in banking-related malware cases.

Between June and September 2023, the Police received multiple reports on banking-related malware cases, which typically involved unauthorised transactions from victims’ bank accounts even though they did not divulge their one-time passwords (OTP) to anyone.

On 4 and 5 October 2023, officers from the Criminal Investigation Department conducted an enforcement operation at the residential units of both men, leading to the arrests. An array of items, including cash amounting to more than S$25,000, 15 luxury watches, gold comprising of 34 bars, seven coins, three rings and one pendant; electronic devices comprising of an iPad and five handphones; and cryptocurrencies amounting to more than S$240,000, were seized during the operation. Six bank accounts with a total balance of about S$112,500 were also frozen to prevent further misuse.

The two men will be charged in court on 6 October 2023 for the offence of acquiring property that they had reasonable grounds to believe directly represents other person’s benefits from criminal conduct, punishable under section 54(5) of the CDSA 1992. If convicted, the offence carries an imprisonment of up to 10 years, a fine of up to $500,000, or both.

Members of the public are advised against downloading applications from third party or dubious sites that can lead to malware installed into victims’ mobile phones, computers, and other Information Communications Technology (ICT) devices. Such malware has resulted in confidential and sensitive data, such as banking credentials, being stolen. To avoid being an accomplice to crimes, members of the public should reject requests by others to use your bank account or mobile lines, as you will be held accountable if these are found to be linked to unlawful activities. 

The Police will continue to take tough enforcement action against those involved in perpetrating banking-related malware cases and will ensure that they face the full brunt of the law.

MAN PIAK BEST FRIEND’S EX-GF & HAD A KID WITH HER, NOW BROKEN UP & LOST BOTH GF & FRIEND

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I dated my best friends ex-gf and now we have a baby.

I’ve vented to everyone in my life and I still feel terrible about this so I’m posting it here.

Back in June of 21, I hung out with my best friend and his gf everyday. We all enjoyed each others company. When he’d go to bed, I’d stick around and hangout with his girl while we drank beers.

No, we never did anything romantic. We just talked. We truly enjoyed speaking to one another and it was always innocent.

Two months after they broke up, she texts me “I Miss your presence” and I knew what that meant/would lead to.

My dumb self decided to go on with it. We went to a bar, went camping, traveled, and basically spent almost everyday together.

I truly thought she was the one which is why I basically dropped my best friend for her. We had so much in common and got along really well.

After a week, I told my friend to his face. As you’d guess, he was pissed. He knew something was off since I wasn’t hanging out with him anymore, but had no idea it was this.

I felt absolutely terrible. I still do. Hindsight is truly 20/20 because i dread that decision to this day. To make matters worse, I was partially raised by his father and mother so I didn’t just lose him – I lost my second family.

Now, me and her have a child and are broken up due to our differences (ironic). We are managing fine, but I can’t get this dark, soul-sucking feeling out of me.

I feel like a bad person that doesn’t deserve anything. Like the villain in someone else’s story. I need to fix this. I don’t know what to do which is why I’m posting this here today.

Does anyone know how I can get over this?

WOMAN END UP IN HOSPITAL & COMPANY TRIED TO NOT PAY HER SALARY FOR MONTHS

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One year- extreme methods to save up

So what happened was I got brutally retrenched during Covid time with no severance, invested in education to switch career so I could get a job, failed investments etc etc so now i don’t have savings.

After Covid, I tried to save up but unfotunately I got major illness and almost lost my life. So incurred little tickets of medical bills along the way. I only managed to pay off the bills this month. (Got a bad SME boss who even tried not to pay my salaries for months when I was bedridden)

I feel like a major failure. I am so upset, yet at the same time, I am grateful that I am alive (sort of, I am trying my best to recover). Please don’t bash me in the comment area as to why I don’t have much savings.

Now I really need to save for housing. My salary is 4000 after CPF, so it is a bit tight.

I am thinking of the following methods, anyone can recommend more methods I would be grateful:

  1. Home cook light food like cold pasta, boiled eggs, veggie to bring to work. This will save a tonne. Cut out BBT and just drink plain water.
  2. Switch all hobbies to overseas online lesson. Probably will only keep my gym card in Sg.
  3. No clothes, no makeup, no purchases for the next 1 year.
  4. Defer my Master education and certs, and study on Udemy instead
  5. No overseas trips (actually have been doing this since Covid)

Staying positive :”( Life can be really tough.

Netizens’ comments

  1. sounds good. But occasionally pamper yourself to feel good. i am sorry you are going through all these. Take good care of yourself.
  2. You are doing very well now! Just continue perservering. I am cheering you on!
    Other than cold pasta, etc, if your office have a microwave, prepare some food that you can heat up, like fried rice, ready roasted chicken (from NTUC or Cold Storage) to liven up your meals. For cold pasta, you can warm it up too, just sprinkle a teaspoon or two of water so it does not get too dry in the microwave.
    Set aside a small sum to reward yourself once a while for self-motivation.
    You didn’t mention rent or utilities, so assume you are saving on this.
  3. Plan sounds okay
    Maybe just to add
    -For mealprep, you can look at youtube or look at r/EatCheapAndHealthy to make a variety of food to cook. Make use of microwave at work if there is. If not, invest in something that keeps your food warm. Cos cold food all the time is not gd for stomach in my opinion. Just always bring water bottle with you.
    -U can occasionally indulge, e.g., buy clothes, especially when on sale. If there are clothes you wear one time and don’t like, can sell them at lower price on carousell.
    -Remember to stay healthy. Health is the most important.
    If you can go to the park or stay at home to exercise a bit every week, try to do so.
    At least you start now rather than later 🙂