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MAN DISABLED AFTER SAVING GF FROM SPEEDING CAR, THEN SHE DUMPS HIM AFTER THAT

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I’m leaving my disabled boyfriend who saved my life at the cost of his own.

Three years ago, my boyfriend and I were walking down a wet and busy road on holiday in Thailand when a car swerved at a violent speed, trying to avoid a stupid biker stopping on his phone in the treacherous weather that it was.

My boyfriend being the quick thinking man he is saw my frozen, terrified body in the direct vicinity of the moving car, and he jumped in front of me, pushing me away from the impact at the same time.

I was left with some nasty grazes, but other than that I was fine. My boyfriend was left paralysed from the waist down.

He now lives life in his wheelchair. He has been diagnosed with PTSD from the accident and often has flashbacks in which he’ll scream and sweat.

He is distant and cold. His mental health is, to put it lightly, very bad. He spends most of his time on his PlayStation and we haven’t been physically intimate for months.

He says he can’t enjoy physical intimacy anymore. He says he doesn’t enjoy it, with being the way he is. I’ve tried to tell him I still think he’s gorgeous and no attraction is lost. He doesn’t believe me.

He has gained a lot of weight and finds no value in healthy life choices anymore. I feel like I’m living with my best friend who I’m in love with but like I’m in some sort of friend zone. He says I’m being paranoid. It’s him, not me. He tells me he loves me.

He says he doesn’t resent me. All of my friends talk about how lucky I am and how he loves me so much, but I think that’s messed up because they have no idea what it’s like to be in a partnership with someone who is paralysed.

My feelings are just as strong for him as they are when I fell in love with him. But I can’t do it anymore. I am exhausted. I will forever be known as the woman who left her disabled boyfriend after he saved her life at the cost of his own.

PLANE MAKES EMERGENCY LANDING AFTER PASSENGER LAOSAI & IT FLOWS DOWN AISLE

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In a bizarre turn of events on September 1st, a Delta Airlines plane en route from Atlanta to Barcelona found itself in an unprecedented situation.

Two hours into the transatlantic flight, what can only be described as a “biohazard” incident forced the pilot to make an emergency landing.

A “Biohazard” Alert

The ordeal began when air traffic control received a message from the pilot, alerting them to a grave situation on board, according to Insider.

In an audio recording via LiveATC.net, the pilot calmly stated, “We’ve had a passenger who’s had diarrhea all the way through the airplane.”

The severity of the situation was further validated when a Federal Aviation Authority flight strip, confirmed the report. The chilling words on the strip read, “Passenger diarrhea all over aircraft.”

Comments by passengers who claimed to be on the same flight painted a surreal picture of the incident. Apparently, the diarrhea was so extensive that it “dribbled down” the plane aisle, creating an unimaginable scene of discomfort and chaos.

An Unscheduled Detour

In response to the alarming situation, the pilot took the necessary action and made the tough decision to divert the flight back to Atlanta. This unscheduled detour was deemed necessary to address the biohazard situation and ensure the safety and well-being of everyone on board.

The consequences of this emergency landing were felt by all passengers and crew members. After landing in Atlanta, they were transferred onto another plane, causing an eight-hour delay in their travel plans.

Instead of arriving in Spain as planned, they reached their destination at 5:10 pm the next day, exhausted and inconvenienced.

It remained uncertain whether the passenger with distressed bowels had managed to board the new flight. The incident had undoubtedly left everyone involved shaken and perplexed.

A Traumatic Experience

A TikTok user, claiming to have been on the affected aircraft, posted a video showing the evacuated plane with absorbent towels lining the aisle. In the video, she described the incident as “traumatic” and emphasized that “things were not okay.”

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Delta Airlines’ Response

Delta Airlines officials confirmed that the aircraft had indeed faced a “medical issue” and had to be redirected to Atlanta for cleaning.

In a statement to Insider, a Delta spokesperson said, “Our teams worked as quickly and safely as possible to thoroughly clean the airplane and get our customers to their final destination. We sincerely apologize to our customers for the delay and inconvenience to their travel plans.”

Passengers share their experience

GROOM PANIC ON HIS WEDDING DAY & FLED, BRIDE LEFT TO MARRY HIS DAD INSTEAD

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Weddings are often considered the happiest days in a person’s life, filled with love, joy, and the promise of a beautiful future.

However, what was supposed to be a happy day for a bride in Indonesia turned out to be a day full of embarrassment and unexpected twists.

On August 29, in Obi Islands, Indonesia, a groom got cold feet and made a hasty exit from his wedding ceremony, leaving his bride standing alone at the altar. What happened next was nothing short of astonishing.

A Father’s Unexpected Role

As the groom fled, the bride was left in a state of shock and disbelief. But amidst the chaos and confusion, her groom’s father stepped forward to fill the void left by his son’s sudden departure, according to Tribun News.

In a turn of events that no one could have predicted, the bride found herself getting solemnized with her would-be father-in-law.

It was a moment of sheer perplexity, and it left the entire wedding party and guests in disbelief.

A Costly Affair

The bride’s family had spared no expense for this momentous occasion. They had poured approximately 25 million rupiahs (equivalent to S$2,225) into the wedding preparations, with high hopes for a beautiful and memorable day. Little did they know that this day would take such an unexpected turn.

Prior to the wedding, it had become apparent that there were underlying issues in the relationship between the bride and the original groom.

Mediation and Uncertainty

In an attempt to address the issues, a mediation session involving the police had taken place. During this session, the groom expressed his willingness to marry her. This declaration only added to the confusion surrounding his sudden departure from the wedding ceremony.

The family of the bride now finds themselves in a state of uncertainty. They are faced with the dilemma of how to proceed following this shocking turn of events. Whether or not they should involve the police again remains a decision they have yet to make.

MAN SHARES HIS FEET STENCH BY PUTTING IT BESIDE WOMAN’S SEAT DURING FLIGHT

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Flying can be an exciting adventure, however, it also involves sharing a confined space with fellow passengers for an extended period.

To ensure a pleasant journey for everyone on board, it’s crucial to be considerate and adhere to basic etiquette. Unfortunately, not everyone seems to grasp this concept,

A smelly flight

A woman named Keng shared that she was on a flight from Suvarnabhumi Airport in Bangkok to Vietnam, when she found herself in an uncomfortable situation, according to Thaiger.

As the flight attendants started serving passengers, Keng noticed an unpleasant odor in the air. Initially, she suspected it might be someone removing their shoes, a common source of in-flight discomfort.

However, she soon realized the stench was emanating from the feet of a passenger seated behind her, who had boldly rested them on her armrest.

The video footage she captured reveals the extent of the issue, with the passenger’s feet nearly touching her shoulder.

Keng, feeling the discomfort intensify, attempted to shift in her seat to convey her displeasure. Unfortunately, this subtle gesture went unnoticed by the inconsiderate passenger, who continued moving his feet around.

The Viral Outrage

Growing increasingly uncomfortable, Keng made the decision to document the incident. She filmed the passenger’s feet on her armrest and her own grimace of disgust.

The video was then uploaded to TikTok, where it quickly gained widespread attention. Netizens were appalled by Keng’s ordeal, expressing their disbelief that someone would think it acceptable to invade another passenger’s space in such a manner.

Several users shared their own similar experiences, recounting instances where they had encountered inconsiderate fellow passengers.

Many advocated for notifying the cabin crew when confronted with such behavior, emphasizing the importance of seeking assistance to maintain a peaceful flight environment.

Interestingly, some users pointed out that this problem wasn’t exclusive to flights but also occurred in other public spaces, such as movie theaters.

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GIRL DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS, NO ONE HAS SAME INTERESTS

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A woman shared how she is struggling socially and doesn’t know how to make friends because nobody shares the same interests as her.

Here is the story:

I’m a 23-year-old woman and I really struggle socially, especially with other women my age. And just women in general.

I play a ton of videogames, i like plants and anything to do with aquariums or animals in general. I like to draw and listen to music a lot and I’ve recently been learning more about computers in general.

But…that’s about it tbh. I spend a lot of time alone playing video games and I feel like a lot of people get…I don’t know, bored of me quickly because of my shallow pool of interests.?

I struggled to make healthy friendships with other women including my mom and sister growing up and sometimes I want to vent my feelings to someone who understands the struggles of being a woman to.

I’m just curious what people are into nowadays.

Netizens comments

  • God, I relate to this so much. Honestly, I feel like getting into communities or fandoms or things like that really helps.

I play FFXIV and because I’m in the roleplaying scene I made a lot of friends through that, and I can vent to them or talk to them about real-life things and it doesn’t feel weird.

The pandemic didn’t really help with my real-life socializing, so I’ve gone very online with it.

Plus, you’d be surprised by how close some of your online friends are, so meeting up in person at a convention or something like that might be a good idea.

As a woman into video games, you just gotta find your other women into video games, and we’re just crawling all over the internet.

  • You just gotta make it about them. Ask them questions and you’ll take it from there.

Don’t ask yes/no questions, ask questions they’ll need to elaborate or go in detail. From there you ask about the details, eventually, it’ll come naturally.

And you can do this with anyone, regardless of gender.

GEYLANG KTV BOSS HELPED BRIBE POLICE TO “SETTLE” GANG FIGHT INVESTIGATION, JAILED

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Ng Chuan Seng, the owner of a popular karaoke lounge in Singapore, found himself at the center of a criminal scandal that involved bribing a police officer, according to Channel NewsAsia.

He was sentenced on 4 September to 5 weeks imprisonment for the offence and fined $1,500 for failing to maintain the records of his KTV workers, another charge was also considered during his sentencing.

This incident unfolded when Ng allegedly assisted his associates in arranging a meeting with a police officer and providing an empty red packet, which was later filled with S$2,000 in cash.

The motive behind this was to “settle” a police investigation into a brawl between two rival gangs, in which Ng’s associates were entangled.

The Background Story

Ng Chuan Seng, a 52-year-old entrepreneur, had been running a KTV pub registered as B1 Entertainment, located at 149 Geylang Road. The establishment was marketed under the names “Kiss KTV” and “Pegasus.”

Ng’s involvement in this crime revolved around his acquaintance with a station inspector named Poo Tze Chiang, who served in the Secret Societies Branch of the Singapore Police Force.

Poo had previously supervised Ng during his time in prison, and their paths crossed again in 2018 when Poo became a regular patron at Ng’s pub.

The pivotal moment came in September 2019 when one of Ng’s associates confided in him about his participation in a gang altercation.

Fearing potential legal consequences, the associate turned to Ng for help in resolving the impending police investigation.

Aware of Poo’s role as a police officer, the associate hoped that he could influence the investigation’s outcome.

The Bribery Plot

Ng took it upon himself to assist his troubled associates and arranged a meeting between them and Poo at his KTV pub.

Before the meeting, the associates sought Ng’s advice on whether they should offer a red packet to Poo as a token of appreciation for his assistance.

Ng’s response was ambiguous, suggesting that the decision was ultimately up to them, but he proposed a figure ranging from S$1,000 to S$2,000 as a suitable amount.

Following this discussion, Ng handed an empty red packet to one of the associates, who later filled it with S$2,000 in cash. This concealed bribe was then presented to Poo, who accepted it.

Legal Consequences

The consequences of these actions were not limited to the immediate aftermath of the bribery incident. In a separate turn of events, police officers from the compliance management unit conducted an inspection of Ng’s pub on June 14, 2022.

During the inspection, it was discovered that the staff register failed to contain the personal details of seven employees, including a floor manager, a pub manager, a PR manager, a musician, and a waitress.

This failure to maintain proper records violated the conditions of Ng’s public entertainment license.

In light of these legal infractions, Ng faced charges related to both bribery and the violation of his entertainment license. Ultimately, he pleaded guilty to one count of abetting bribery and another count of failing to maintain employee records. A third charge was taken into consideration during the legal proceedings.

On September 4th, 2023, Ng Chuan Seng was sentenced to five weeks in jail for his involvement in the bribery case. Additionally, he received a fine of S$1,500 for the failure to maintain records of some KTV employees.

While the prosecution had sought a sentence of five to seven weeks in jail and a fine ranging from S$1,500 to S$2,000, Ng’s early guilty plea was considered a mitigating factor.

Poo on the other hand, was charged and his case was referred to the Corrupt Practices Investigation Bureau (CPIB), and he was removed from his duties on the frontlines, his trial has been set for November later this year.

NOBODY ASKED GIRL OUT HER ENTIRE LIFE, NOT EVEN HER BEST FRIEND

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A netizen shared how nobody has ever asked her out her entire life, every time anyone goes out to have fun, nobody seems to remember her or asks her to join.

Here is the story:

Since I gained consciousness from being a child, I realized no one ever asked me out. What I mean by this is that no one asked me to be with them having fun or things that they want me to be involved on.

It s always me trying to ask them out, give them a lot of effort, but everyone never did that. The only times I was asked out was when they needed a replacement or simply missing someone in their team for example.

But it never felt like i truly belonged to any groups or friendship, it either feels one-sided or second-handed.

Even with my best friend, it doesn’t feel like a real friendship. It’s always me trying to contact someone, but not the same way around.

Even if there was, it is usually help that they need, which is kind of sad because maybe that’s how they only see me, someone whoM they can feed off of.

This makes me question every day what did I do wrong, and trying to constantly appeal to them.

Netizens comments

Constantly trying to appeal to them might be what you’re doing ‘wrong’, some people have a hard time trusting people who are always friendly. Might be worth a try caring less?

If it makes you feel better I have been asked out many times and not once agreed due to my insecurities, now I’m forever alone 😉

HO CHING ON CHEAPO COUPLE WHO ATE $245 FEAST WITHOUT PAYING, “SHOULD CANE THEM”

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A couple in Singapore was previously reported as having dined-and-dashed after feasting $245 worth of food and fleeing without paying while the staff was not looking.

The couple had reportedly entered the restaurant when it was about to close, and the staff stayed back to work overtime to serve them.

After the couple fled without paying, the poor staff had to pay the customer’s unpaid bill out of her own pocket, with the amount being deducted from her $1,800 salary.

Following the incident, Ho Ching, the director of Temasek Trust and wife of Singapore Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong, shared her thoughts on it and said that the couple should be caned for preying on the weak and vulnerable.

Ho Ching’s Facebook post

There are cheats and there are cheats.

The ones who cheat retirees, low wage workers, and the vulnerable, are the lowliest of the low life.

We should try to find these folks, and cane them properly for preying on the weak and vulnerable.

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Afternote 1:

Some folks say employers are heartless to make the employees pay.

This is really shifting the blame from cheaters to employers.

Just think – what if employers are required to absorb such losses?

More cheats will turn up.

Dishonest employees may also collide with collaborators to cheat the employer.

Dishonest employees will also report fake incidents of cheating customers to disguise their own stealing of ingredients.

No – it is a perverse system to blame and charge the employers instead of going after the original cheats.

True, if this happens rarely, or if it is the first time it happened, perhaps the employers can give the employees the benefit of doubt, and split the difference.

But that it is prerogative of the employer, and should not be a requirement.

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Afternote 2:

True, there are people who forget to pay.

Perhaps they were too absorbed in other matters, or they were troubled by some other priorities.

But such forgetful people would typically be lone dinners, and less a guy trying to impress a date, and even less a family or a group of friends on an outing together.

Most of us would remember, and then come back to pay, either the same day, or within the week.

Rarely would someone be totally forgetful that they don’t come back at all to pay.

So again, in such a case, the sustainable solution is to go after the diner who forgot or chose not to pay.

In such cases, the police or judge could exercise discretion if restitution or repayment is made with apologies.

This is no different from the police waiving charges and letting us off with only a warning, if it were the first time we forgot to pay our parking charges, and we have had a clean record up to date.

There are folks who had a long track record of not paying parking or doing illegal parking for 3 or 4 dozen times.

If such a persistent offender pleads forgetfulness, it would be stupid of anyone to take their plea at face value, right?

SISTER SAYS NO KIDS TO WEDDING, FAMILY SAYS NOT GOING

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My sister has a wedding coming up this summer. Its not a destination wedding, it will be in a local park/pavilion, she just told us about it recently and told us to expect the invitations, but we knew it was a possibility with as I heard recently her boyfriend asked our dad about how he would feel if they got married (essentially asking for her hand in marriage, old fashioned but I guess).

Well, when we received the invitations, it said this wedding will be “child free”. Once I got my invitation, I called my sister up just to discuss the wedding and give her my response by phone. I didn’t mention the child free part, just asked about the wedding and how her planning was going. She seemed excited, told me she can’t wait to be the “center of attention” on her special day. I congratulated her, but I told her as its child free and I have two sons, I wouldn’t be able to make it, I would send a gift with our parents though.

She kinda got upset and asked why I wasn’t going to come. I simply told her weddings are family events for me, and if its not a family event I don’t see the point (i.e. kids being allowed). Our parents are the important people to be there for her special day, so I don’t feel my presence is direly needed. My sister was very unhappy about this, she yelled that I never even tried to find babysitting or come to her wedding. She got angry because last year I attended our cousins wedding, and she feels hers should be more important and one I should want to attend.

Their wedding wasn’t child free, my kids were there, very well behaved and it was definitely a family event. I don’t feel that I should shell out money to have someone watch my kids, just to watch her get married and honestly I just don’t want to. I didn’t mention her changing the rule, I just told her I wouldn’t be attending. She got angry and is now involving my husband and parents in my decision, saying if I choose not to come she won’t speak to me again (her hill to die on, not my problem). My parents would like me to come just to keep the peace, and my husband says its really my decision and he backs me either way. Personally I don’t feel like an Asshole cause I’m not asking her to change anything, I’m just making a personal decision.

Would I be wrong for not attending?

KINDERLAND OPERATOR FINED $5K, ECDA: “WE SHOULD HAVE REMOVED THE TEACHER EARLIER”

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Investigations into Recent Incidents At Kinderland @ Woodlands Mart and Kinderland @ Sunshine Place

1. The Early Childhood Development Agency (ECDA) would like to provide an update on its investigations into recent incidents at two Kinderland centres.

Case Involving Kinderland @ Woodlands Mart

2. This case involving a 2-year old child was reported by a whistleblower to ECDA on 8 August 2023, who provided video evidence on 10 August. The behaviour depicted in the video clip revealed a breach of the Early Childhood Development Centres (ECDC) Regulations which prohibits, among other things, force feeding and hitting a child. The educator (“A”) involved has been issued a warning under the ECDC Regulations, and barred from working in the preschool sector. A is also currently under Police investigation, based on reports received by the Police, for offences under the Children & Young Persons Act.

3. ECDA’s investigations at the centre also established that another educator (“B”) had used inappropriate methods to restrict the movement of one 3-year old child under her charge on two occasions by (i) pulling the child’s shirt over the back of a chair and (ii) securing him to a chair using straps from an infant chair. ECDA has issued a warning to B, and required her to be placed under close supervision for three months, and to attend refresher training on child management strategies.

4. For the centre principal, our investigations showed that she did not exercise adequate supervision over her staff in their management of children and hence failed to prevent the use of inappropriate child management methods in the preschool. As such, ECDA has cancelled our approval for her to be deployed as a principal in a preschool. She has been issued a warning and will be required to attend refresher training on child management strategies. ECDA will consider her suitability as a principal after she has completed refresher training and after a period of 2 years.

5. Given the severity of the incidents at this preschool, ECDA has issued a warning, imposed a penalty of $5,000 on the operator, and reduced its licence tenure to 6 months with immediate effect. At the end of 6 months, ECDA will not renew the licence if the preschool fails to demonstrate significant improvements in its standard of care to their children.

Cases Involving Kinderland @ Sunshine Place in Choa Chu Kang

6. There are two reports with respect to Kinderland @ Sunshine Place in Choa Chu Kang.

7. On 29 August 2023, ECDA received a report of child mismanagement at Kinderland @ Sunshine Place. Sometime around April 2022, an educator (“C”) was seen forcefully pushing a 5-year old child. ECDA’s investigations are still ongoing. Police also received a report about this case, and have commenced investigations into the case. In the meantime, Kinderland @ Sunshine Place has on its own accord, placed C on leave of absence pending the outcome of the investigations.

8. The second report is an already concluded case. On 1 June 2023, ECDA received a report of child mismanagement from a parent of a 2-year old child who had attended Kinderland @ Sunshine Place but withdrew from the preschool in May 2023.

9. Our investigations revealed that the incident happened in April 2023. Two educators (“D” and “E”) at the centre admitted to strapping the child in his chair on several occasions. The straps were taken from an infant seat used in the centre’s infant care bay. The educators’ intent was to get the child to focus on the activity and prevent him from hurting himself and other children.

10. ECDA instructed the centre to immediately stop this practice and ensure all its educators adopt appropriate methods and work closely with parents to manage the behaviour of each child. We also issued stern reminders under the ECDC Regulations to the preschool and two educators for failing to use positive and developmentally appropriate methods to manage the child.

11. The centre was informed that more severe actions would be taken against them should a similar incident happen again in future. ECDA updated the parent on the results of our investigation and that action was taken against the centre, D and E.

Direction to Kinderland Headquarters for Independent Review

12. In view of the recent incidents of child mismanagement, ECDA has instructed Kinderland Headquarters to conduct an independent review of the child management practices in all their preschools, and to report to ECDA on the findings and recommendations within three months. During this period, ECDA will also place all preschools under Kinderland on close monitoring and conduct more frequent unannounced checks on their classroom management practices.

Review of ECDA’s Case Handling Process

13. The child’s safety and well-being are ECDA’s top priority in any investigation. If there is clear indication of child safety being compromised at the start of the investigation, ECDA will take immediate precautionary steps to remove the staff involved in the incident from contact with the children. At the same time, due process must be followed in investigating the involvement of the staff, and whether any regulations have been breached. Investigations will take time to complete because the fact-finding process has to be thorough, objective and robust.

14. In the case involving Kinderland @ Woodlands Mart, ECDA’s Investigation Officer commenced investigation by the next working day. Timely action was taken to gather the facts and interview various parties. The officer assessed that sufficient supervisory measures were put in place by the preschool to mitigate the risk to the safety of the children while investigations were ongoing. However, he failed to follow the established protocol that for cases with clear evidence that child safety is endangered, the staff should be immediately removed from classroom duties. ECDA acknowledges this lapse in its case handling procedures. We are reviewing our systems and procedures to strengthen this protocol and ensure better oversight of cases under investigation.

15. “ECDA places child safety as its top priority and follows up on all reported cases of child mismanagement. We do not condone acts of child mismanagement and our priority has always been to ensure children are not exposed to further harm while investigations are ongoing. When there is evidence that a child’s safety is endangered, this means immediately removing the incident educator from all roles involving direct care of children until we have concluded our investigations. In the case of Kinderland @ Woodlands Mart, ECDA has taken firm actions against the preschool and staff involved for the breach in regulations concerning child safety,” said Mr Tan Chee Wee, Chief Executive Officer of ECDA.

16. He added, “However, ECDA should have done better. We apologise for not getting Kinderland to immediately remove the educator from her classroom role while investigations are ongoing. We will strengthen our protocols and training of our officers.”

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