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52 Y.O AH LONG RUNNER PAINTING DEBTOR’S UNIT HALFWAY, KENA CAUGHT BY POLICE OFFICERS

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The Singapore Police Force arrested a 52-year-old man for loanshark activities, they were alerted the case of loanshark harassment on Wednesday and when police officers arrived at the scene, they saw the man painting a gate of a unit that was locked with a bicycle lock.

According to the police’s preliminary investigations, the man responded to a job ad online to provide “painting services” for $150, and that the loansharks had hired him to harass their debtors.

S’pore Police Force’s statement

MAN ARRESTED FOR LOANSHARK HARASSMENT

The Police have arrested a 52-year-old man for his suspected involvement in loansharking activities.

On 30 August 2023, the Police were alerted to a case of loanshark harassment at a residential unit along Bendemeer Road. Upon the arrival of police officers, the man was seen painting a gate of a unit with the gate being secured with a bicycle lock.

Preliminary investigations revealed that the man had responded to a job offer on an advertisement on a social media platform to provide painting services for a fee of $150. Investigations further revealed that his services were directed by an unlicensed moneylender to harass debtors.

The man will be charged in court on 31 August 2023 under the Moneylenders Act 2008. For first time offenders, the offence of loanshark harassment carries a fine of not less than $5,000, and not more than $50,000, with imprisonment of up to five years, and caning of up to six strokes.

The Police would like to remind members of the public to exercise caution when taking up part-time jobs, especially those promising quick and easy money. The Police have zero tolerance for loanshark harassment activities. Those who deliberately vandalise properties, cause annoyance and disruption to public safety and security, will be dealt with severely in accordance with the law.

Members of the public are advised to stay away from loansharks and not work with or assist the loansharks in any way. The public can call the Police at ‘999’ or the X-Ah Long hotline at 1800-924-5664 if they suspect or know of anyone who could be involved in loansharking activities.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
31 August 2023 @ 11:45 AM

PARENT SAYS LUNAR 7TH MONTH CANNOT MOVE INTO BTO, ENDS IN ARGUMENTS

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My wife and I just got our keys to our BTO and we’re really excited to move in because the next few months we’ll be busy with our wedding banquet and other things but when our parents found out they were damn angry and told us to cancel the move cos it’s still the 7th month. I really dont get all this old people mentality.

Why 7th month cannot move house?

Aren’t all these beliefs just social constructs that someone coined and the rest just blindly decided to follow? Where’s the logic behind it? Initially I insisted on moving but my wife didn’t want to anger our parents so she told me to just follow and now everyday she’s grumbling about how our schedules are messed up. At first I’m only dulan but hearing her complain everyday I’m now sibei fucking dulan. I have half a mind to just move everything in myself but I know that’s suicide cos if anything happen even if it’s just a small thing, she’ll be upset at me forever. I was really looking forward to moving into our new place together but now all the happy feeling is lost. My wife and I were so excited when we got the keys to our BTO a few weeks ago. We’d been dreaming about this moment for months, and the anticipation was overwhelming. We’d already made plans to move in and start decorating, but then our parents found out and they were livid.

They told us that it was the seventh month and that it was not a good time to move house. I had heard of this superstition before, but I had never taken it seriously; I always thought it was just an old wives’ tale. But my parents were adamant that we not move, and I could tell my wife was starting to feel guilty for making them angry.

To make matters worse, our wedding banquet was just a few months away and we had a lot of other things to take care of. We were so busy that we barely had time to think about our new home. It was a huge disappointment, and I could see the sadness in my wife’s eyes.

Every day, she’d grumble about how our schedules were messed up and how all the happy feelings of moving into our new home were gone. I wanted to stand my ground and insist that we move, but I knew that would only make her more upset.

At the same time, I felt like I was being ridiculous for letting superstitions dictate my actions. I couldn’t understand why people blindly followed these social constructs without questioning them. What kind of logic was there behind the idea that it was bad luck to move into a new home during the seventh month?

After much discussion, my wife and I decided to follow our parents’ advice and postpone the move. We figured that it was better to keep the peace than to risk upsetting them. But while I understood her decision, I couldn’t help but feel a little resentful.

I know that superstitions are just part of life and that it’s important to respect our elders, but sometimes I just wish we could make our own decisions without worrying about what other people think. I was really looking forward to moving into our new place together, but now all the happy feelings are gone.

PRINCIPAL OF KINDERLAND @ WOODLANDS MART “REMOVED”, NOT ALLOWED NEAR KIDS ACTIVITIES

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Following leaked videos of a preschool teacher mistreating some of the toddlers under her care, the Woodlands Mart branch of Kinderland has seen some intense backlash from netizens.

Kinderland issued a public statement on 31 August, saying that they have since “removed” the current principal of the Woodlands Mart branch “from her current duties”.

The general manager of Kinderland Singapore, Seet Lee Kiang, spoke to the Straits Times and said that the principal, Mahirah Yasid, will also not be allowed to take part in activities related to children, and that she has been redeployed to other roles in their company.

Kinderland’s statement

Kinderland would like to apologise for the worry and anxiety that the recent videos have caused to parents and the public. Child safety and well-being remain our utmost priority.

Kinderland remains accountable to our parents and our communication channels remain open for parents and the public to contact us at any point in time. These include face-to-face meetings for our parents, emails, texts, phone calls and messages on our online channels.

Kinderland is monitoring the well-being of the affected children. Counselling and additional support will be offered to the parents of the affected classes.

Pending the outcome of the investigations by the relevant authorities and our own Disciplinary Inquiry for both centres, the Principal of Woodlands Mart has been removed from her current duties. We sincerely appeal to the public to refrain from speculation – we will share updates along the way.

We thank the public and parents who have shown us their support over the last few days and given us helpful comments. These will assist us in closing the gaps and present better care and education to our children.

To contact Kinderland, you may do so via phone at +65 6881 8818, email to [email protected] or Facebook/Instagram.

Affected parents issue statement

Source: Facebook

Recap

WHEN WILL WE KNOW THE PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION RESULTS, THE ANSWER IS HERE

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Singaporeans eagerly await the outcome of the presidential election, and the Elections Department (ELD) has introduced a new feature that offers an early indication of the results even before the final tally. This feature, known as the sample count, aims to provide clarity, prevent speculation, and ensure transparency during the election process.

The Sample Count: An Introduction

The sample count is a pivotal aspect of Singapore’s presidential election process. It involves publishing a preliminary result based on a subset of votes, offering citizens an early glimpse into the potential outcome. This count is conducted promptly after polling concludes, around two to three hours after the polls close at 8pm.

Reasons for Having a Sample Count

A primary reason for conducting a sample count is to counteract misinformation and speculation that might arise from unofficial sources during the vote-counting phase. The ELD website emphasizes that this approach maintains accuracy and reduces confusion, especially when the election results are expected to take several hours to finalize. Additionally, the sample count acts as a point of reference for election officials to verify the final tally.

The Sample Count Process

Step 1: Random Selection

The sample count process commences at the start of the vote-counting procedure. A counting assistant selects a random bundle of 100 ballot papers from the votes cast at a specific polling station. This action is carried out in the presence of candidates and counting agents.

Step 2: Calculating the Votes

Votes for each candidate are meticulously added up, providing a preliminary estimate of their support. The tally from each polling station is adjusted to account for varying numbers of votes cast. This adjustment ensures fairness by giving more weight to polling stations with higher voter turnout.

Step 3: Validity and Exclusions

The sample count only considers valid votes and excludes spoilt ballots. It also disregards votes from nursing homes, a novel approach introduced in the 2023 Presidential Election to facilitate elderly residents’ voting.

Accuracy of Sample Counts

The accuracy of the sample count is crucial for maintaining the integrity of the election process.

Confidence Rate and Margin of Error

Singapore’s sample count boasts a 95 percent confidence rate, with a margin of error of 4 percentage points. This means that the sample count estimate should not deviate by more than 4 percent from the actual voting result for 95 percent of the estimates made.

Results – When?

As the polling stations cease their operations on the upcoming Friday, the 1st of September, an early glimpse into the verdict of the presidential election will be unveiled to the people of Singapore, likely between the hours of 10:00 pm and 11:00 pm. This preliminary insight will be made accessible courtesy of the Elections Department (ELD) website, as it releases the findings derived from a representative tabulation. This preliminary account is anticipated to be ready for perusal roughly two to three hours subsequent to the formal closure of polling activities, a time estimated around 8:00 pm.

Nevertheless, the comprehensive and conclusive tally is slated to emerge in the vicinity of midnight. The weighty outcome, which carries the significance of determining the presidential victor, is poised to surface at this later juncture.

S’PORE PRESCHOOLS MUST INSTALL CCTVs BY JULY 2024, PARENTS CAN ASK TO VIEW – ECDA

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From 1 July 2024 onwards, all preschools in Singapore will be required to install CCTVs in areas where the children will be using, such as play areas, classrooms, napping rooms and activity rooms, according to the Early Childhood Development Agency (ECDA).

However, CCTVs will not be allowed in changing rooms, toilets and rest areas for staff members for privacy pourpoes.

Parents will be allowed access to the CCTV footages for serious incidents within the school, and the ECDA added that the parents can only view the footage after the school has viewed the footage as part of their own investigations.

The ECDA also added that the implementation of the new measures were not influenced by the recent incidents of teachers ill-treating students, and that it had been planned since last year.

ECDA’s statement

ECDA: Mandatory Installation of CCTV Cameras in Preschools and Government-Funded Early Intervention Centres


1.    Since last year, the Early Childhood Development Agency (ECDA) has been engaging the preschool sector and in February this year informed operators of plans to mandate the installation of closed-circuit television (CCTV) cameras in all preschools and government-funded early intervention (EI) centres. This move is part of our regular review of security and safety measures in the early childhood sector, and takes into consideration the views of parents, educators and preschool operators. The CCTV mandate will take effect from 1 July 2024. 

2.     More than 60% of preschools and 100% of EI centres have already installed CCTV cameras on their premises. CCTV cameras will enhance the security of the preschool by deterring suspicious or unauthorised persons from entering the premises. In the event of incidents, CCTV footages can be an objective and reliable source of evidence to support the investigation. The implementation of CCTV cameras will complement existing measures to provide a safe and secure environment in our preschools so parents and educators will have a greater peace of mind.

3.    From 1 July 2024, CCTV cameras will be required in key access points and areas used by children such as classrooms, activity rooms, play areas within the premises and infant napping room. To ensure privacy of staff and children, CCTV cameras will not be allowed in toilets, changing rooms and staff rest areas. ECDA will share a set of guidelines with preschool operators on 1 September 2023. 

4.     From ECDA’s engagements with the sector, preschools that have yet to install CCTV cameras shared they need time to make the necessary arrangements, including putting in place clear policies and proper protocol to access CCTV footages. ECDA will work closely with operators to ensure their CCTV system and cameras are installed properly and used appropriately to protect the privacy of children, staff and other individuals within preschool premises. 

5.    Parents’ access to CCTV footages will only be granted for the purposes of providing an objective reference point to clarify feedback or to assist the investigation of serious incidents within the preschool premises. The request should be within reasonable grounds.

6.    Keeping our preschools safe is a joint responsibility. As part of ongoing efforts to ensure the safety of children, ECDA works with educational institutes and training providers to incorporate child safe practices in the training curriculum for early childhood educators. In their pre-service and in-service training, educators learn about appropriate child management strategies as well as practices prohibited under our regulations.  ECDA also promotes sharing of good child management practices among educators during our regular engagements with the sector and visits to preschools. If there are suspected cases of child mismanagement, staff or parents should report the matter to ECDA at [email protected].

7.    ECDA will continue to work closely with preschool operators and educators to ensure the safety and well-being of the children under their charge. It is equally important that parents and educators build a strong partnership to support our children’s development. Many of our educators join the sector with a passion to nurture our young children and make a positive impact in their lives. We encourage parents to continue supporting them as they work tirelessly in caring and educating our children.  

ISSUED BY 
EARLY CHILDHOOD DEVELOPMENT AGENCY

Annex – Likely Asked Questions

Is the mandatory implementation of CCTV cameras in preschools due to the recent incidents on child safety?

No. ECDA has planned this move for the preschool sector since last year as part of our regular review of security and safety measures in the early childhood sector. This decision is taken after taking in views from parents, educators and operators.

Can parents ask to view CCTV footage?

Parents may put in a request to the preschool to view CCTV footage specific to their concern/issue. We encourage parents to discuss the request with the preschool and assess if it is necessary to view the CCTV footage for the issue to be resolved.

Recorded footage should be viewed only after the preschool has viewed it as part of its own investigation, and provided that the incident is not under investigation by ECDA and/or any enforcement agency. It should only be viewed for the purposes of:

• Providing an objective reference point to clarify an incident which might have compromised the child’s safety, e.g. in cases where a member of staff is alleged to have mis-handled a child.
• Assisting in the investigation of incidents such as injury (to children or staff), damage or loss of preschool property.

Preschools can turn down a parent’s request if it is unreasonable. In instances where access is given, safeguards must be in place to ensure the privacy and safety of other staff and children within the CCTV footage.

Aside from the mandatory implementation of CCTVs, what are the other measures and safeguards in place to provide a safe and secure environment for children?

To ensure the safety and well-being of children in preschools, ECDA ensures that all educators are trained on child-safe practices before deployment. These include appropriate child management strategies, as well as practices prohibited under the Early Childhood Development Centres’ Regulations. The prohibited practices include corporal punishment, giving the child harsh, humiliating, belittling or degrading response of any kind, neglecting the child, and force-feeding the child. The full list of prohibited practices can be found in Regulation 33, ECDCR.

Preschools are also required to put in place practices and processes to ensure their educators use developmentally appropriate methods to interact with children.

Centre leaders are also expected to carry out regular observations of staff-child interaction and communicate clear guidelines on appropriate child management to staff. They should also provide timely feedback to staff on concerns regarding their management of children and intervene where necessary. All preschool operators and staff are also required to report to ECDA if there is reasonable cause to suspect child mistreatement, or to suspect wilful or unreasonable failure to report such occurrences to ECDA.

To check preschools’ compliance with regulatory requirements, ECDA conducts regular unannounced visits. When ECDA receives feedback on suspected child mismanagement, investigations will be initiated promptly. Immediate actions will be taken if the allegations are substantiated.

SIAMBU BOUNCE HER NEHNEHPOKs, NAMED “MOST BEAUTIFUL ROAD SWEEPER” BY NETIZENS

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In the vibrant city of Bangkok, amidst the hustle and bustle of daily life, a road sweeper named Pattaramon Thocharoen is breaking stereotypes and capturing hearts on TikTok.

Often referred to as the “most beautiful road sweeper” in Thailand, Pattaramon, more popularly known as Bow, is rewriting the narrative of traditional blue-collar work with her unique blend of beauty and dedication.

A Remarkable Journey Unfolds

At just 27 years old, Pattaramon Thocharoen works as a road sweeper in Thailand, as well as being a social media influencer with more than 330,000 followers online.

She has been dubbed the most beautiful road sweeper by netizens, as she posts videos about her work in the streets clearing rubbish and plucking weeds.

Bow’s decision to wear a full face of makeup while at work has garnered significant attention. Her approach defies conventional expectations, challenging the notion that certain jobs are exempt from embracing beauty. She asks, “Why can’t I look pretty while doing hard work?” according to The Straits Times.

Bow’s dedication to her work is deeply rooted in her family’s history. Her mother worked as a road sweeper, and her father drove a garbage truck. Rather than shying away from her lineage, Bow proudly carries forward their legacy.

She emphasizes that her parents’ did the same jobs; her mother was also a road sweeper and her father worked as a rubbish truck driver, and it was the foundation that raised her, allowing her to stand tall and find fulfillment in her own journey.

Sharing Her Story on TikTok

Through her TikTok account, Bow offers viewers an authentic and unfiltered glimpse into her daily routine. From plucking weeds to clearing trash, she provides a window into the world of a road sweeper. Her content resonates with over 330,000 followers who admire her transparency and unique perspective on work and life.

Bow is part of a rising wave of influencers who hail from blue-collar professions. These individuals are gaining recognition for shedding light on the beauty of mundane moments. Whether they are housewives, security officers, teachers, or factory workers, they are proving that every occupation holds its own inherent value and charm.

Monthly earnings

While Bow’s role as a road sweeper earns her around 12,000 Thai Baht (approximately S$461) monthly, her impact extends far beyond her work hours. Her TikTok presence allows her to harness the power of social media engagement, including brand reviews and product sales, which contribute significantly to her income.

She has leveraged her platform to turn her unique story into an avenue for financial independence and creative expression.

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GIRL BETRAYED BY BF, “YOU ARE OBSESS SO I FIND OTHER GIRLS LOH”

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I dated this guy at work for ±6 months and broke it off a month ago. It made me feel like I was replaying my parent’s issues in a mini version, but I wonder if I was too harsh.

So we started because colleagues were saying we look like a couple, so we decided to give the relationship a try. Both of us are in the same company unit but different teams, and we do shift work. So we have different off days, but will meet at work.

At the beginning, I told him I have insecurities and could be harsh if provoked or if I felt “challenged” to protect myself. I also need constant reminders that I am doing ok, and that using reverse psychology could have a bad effect. But I’m ok if he goes out with friends (good mix of guys and girls) and its ok for him to go out with his exes or old crushes as long as there is a third party, since I have more guy friends than girls and I tend to go with like a whole group of guys often.

At the start, it wasn’t so smooth sailing. There will be 2-3 days every month that I will be crying because he said something wrong, affected me badly and I said something nasty in return. He said this is his first serious relationship and he didn’t know how to coax a girl. He would only buy me gifts after I say sorry to him, for example.

Moreover, before we started to date, I was trying to slim down due to health issues. We do have a bit of weight difference and he is slightly slimmer than I am. So most of the time he will be telling others that I am obese and is not taking care of my health and all sorts of things. People around us could see I’m making effort and was losing weight faster although the changes weren’t big. He compared me to different colleagues and keeps thinking I am lazy.

The whole relationship truly started to go downhill and he went out with his crush (one of his ex-colleagues) alone, while lying to me that he was going out with a whole bunch of them. I told him off. But then it got worst when he was going out with her legit every week. He treated her to movies, have “dates” like other couples too. I voiced out my concerns but he kept saying that I was overthinking things – that I am just purely jealous that she has a better body and personality than I do.

What he said brought out all of my anxieties and we argued. I left him alone that night after we ended our shift. He started to tell others he wanted to coax me but I didn’t give him the “face”, so he blocked me on messaging and calls. He also said since everyone is siding me, it’s ok for him to be the bad guy. So it seems he just believes I am overthinking or oversensitive about things. It makes me feel as if I am the third party of his relationship with his ex-crush.

Looking back, is it my fault?

BRIDE’S MUM DIES JUST ONE HOUR AFTER HER WEDDING, SENDS OFF COFFIN IN HER GOWN

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The anticipation of a joyous celebration turned into a heart-wrenching tragedy for a bride in Malaysia named Ika. On a day that should have been filled with happiness and new beginnings, Ika faced the loss of her beloved mother right after signing her marriage contract.

Joy and sorrow in one day

August 26 marked the day when Ika was set to embark on a new chapter of her life. She eagerly donned her white wedding dress, ready to exchange vows and celebrate with her loved ones. Little did she know that the day would take a tragic turn that she could never have anticipated.

User @mawiekhaili took to TikTok to share the story of Ika’s wedding day. The video, posted on August 26, quickly garnered attention, becoming a viral sensation on the platform. The heartbreaking narrative touched the hearts of viewers worldwide, shedding light on the fragile nature of life’s most cherished moments.

As the video unfolds, the first scene paints a stark contrast between the happiness of Ika’s wedding day and the sorrow that was about to engulf her. The image of Ika bidding her mother farewell in a coffin casts a somber shadow over the proceedings, transforming what should have been a joyous occasion into a mournful one.

The accompanying words on the video capture the essence of the heartbreak: “The happiest day has become the saddest day. This is the story of my best friend Ika on her wedding day.” These words encapsulate the bittersweet juxtaposition of joy and grief that Ika experienced on what should have been the happiest day of her life.

The video then transitions to scenes from the akad nikah ceremony, during which Ika signed her marriage contract. The ceremony proceeded smoothly, and Ika appeared radiant and full of joy.

However, the sense of happiness was short-lived, as Ika’s world was shattered by the news that awaited her after the ceremony concluded.

Sends mum off in her wedding dress

About half an hour after her wedding ceremony, Ika received the devastating news that her mother was in critical condition in the hospital. The video reveals that Ika had to rush to the Kuala Lumpur General Hospital to be by her mother’s side. What should have been a celebration turned into a frantic race against time to be with her ailing mother.

Ika’s world crumbled as she bid her last farewell to her mother at the hospital. The video shows her paying her respects to the woman who had been a pillar of strength and love in her life. It’s a heart-wrenching moment that encapsulates the deep bond between a mother and daughter, even in the face of life’s most challenging circumstances.

@mawiekhaili Sedekahkan al fatihah itu ibunda ika@Boonga ♬ Sad – Enchan

SHOPKEEPER OFFER $2.6K REWARD TO CATCH THIEF, THIEF ANGRY GO BACK WITH PARANG

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In today’s interconnected world, social media has proven to be a valuable tool for communication, sharing information, and even seeking assistance in times of distress.

A shopkeeper in Malaysia became a victim of burglary and posted screen captures from his CCTV of the perpetrators, offering a reward of RM8,888 (or SGD$2,600) for their capture, according to Facebook page HighLight Kuching.

However, the thieves caught wind of it and got upset, before returning to confront the shopkeeper with parangs.

Shop Owner’s Dilemma: Repeated Burglaries

The shopkeeper found himself at the mercy of relentless burglaries that targeted his store in Kuching, Sarawak. These intrusions not only inflicted financial losses but also left him feeling violated and vulnerable.

The thieves broke into his shop on 25 August, before coming back again to steal somemore on 28 August.

Frustrated and seeking a solution, he turned to the one platform that has the potential to reach a vast audience – Facebook.

In a bold move, the shop owner created a Facebook post detailing the repeated burglaries and the images of the culprits captured by his store’s CCTV cameras.

To incentivize cooperation, he offered a substantial reward of RM8,888 (S$2,600) for information leading to the arrest of each thief.

The Unforeseen Consequence: Angry Thief’s Return

One of the burglars, upon discovering the Facebook post and the reward being offered, reacted with a mixture of fury and desperation. Driven by anger, he revisited the crime scene armed with a parang, a type of machete.

According to China Press, the thief went back to the crime scene at Jalan Stephen Yong at about 11pm on 29 August. Thankfully, the angry thief’s suspicious behavior attracted the attention of vigilant individuals in the vicinity. The thief was then subdued by a security guard and several members of the public.

Concerned citizens promptly alerted the police, preventing a potentially dangerous situation from escalating.

The authorities swiftly arrived at the scene, apprehending the assailant and recovering the parang from his possession.

GIRL SUSPECTS BF IS CHEATING, BECAUSE HE LOOK AT PRETTY MODELS ON INSTAGRAM

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Is it normal for a guy to look up an attractive influencer on IG immediately after watching a video with the said influencer inside, with his girlfriend?

So I was out dining with my boyfriend on our anniversary and we were watching this video on youtube on my phone. After it ended I was talking to him but he seemed so engrossed with his phone. Found out that he went to ig to look up the girl from the video through the mirror behind him. I thought it was really rude of him to do that. I have never tried to restrict him from looking up influencers on social media even though i personally do not like it (due to past trauma with my ex) but doing it when i was physically with him seems wrong to me. What do y’all think?

Here are what netizens think:

Singapore influencers? I’ll be worried about my boyfriend’s bad taste instead. That would probably be a reflection of his gf too.

what the issue is. You’re offended because you caught him? What about when he does it when you’re not around? What are you going to do then? You can’t control these things. It’s like when my partner googled Ana De Amas after watching No Time To Die. Who cares? It’s not like he’s going to leave me for her

You should ask those girls who watch Kdrama whether they google the handsome actor after watching their show, and you will get your answer whether it’s common.

I think the issue here is not that he’s searching the influencer (he certainly may do that on his own anyways) – but that he was being rude ignoring the OP in the middle of dinner on their date. Personally phone usage on dates should be kept to a minimum. When you have real time with someone why let the digital stuff preoccupy you when you can still see that later