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INSECURE GUY WORRIED AS GF CONSTANTLY MEETS HANDSOME GUY ALONE

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I (24M) have been with my girlfriend (20F) for about 2 months + and things have been great so far. I’m very happy whenever I’m with her. However, there’s something that’s been bothering me since a month ago.

Basically, she got to know this guy (let’s call him Adam) from a mutual friend of hers a month ago, and they started talking and texting (not sure how regularly though), and then arranged a meet up to have lunch not long after.

She then informed me a day before their lunch that she was going to meet Adam for lunch at city area and asked if I was okay about. To reassure me, she showed me his instagram profile and holysmoke, he’s honestly a 10/10 in terms of looks LOL.

So I started to get jealous over him and I relayed how I felt to my girlfriend, and she continued to reassure me that they’re just friends and she loves only loves me.

She then asked if she should cancel the lunch session with Adam, to which I said no because I don’t want to be “that controlling boyfriend” and I respect her right to meet anyone she wants.

Fast forward to this Saturday (2 days ago), she suddenly told me that she’s going to study with Adam to prepare for her upcoming exam (exam is tomorrow). The study session lasted for the whole day, from like morning to night.

Again, I got bothered by it and told her about it. She then asked if she should cut her study session short, and of course, i said no because i dont want to be an unreasonable bf. Anyway, I was supposed to meet my girlfriend today to study together, but she told me yesterday that she don’t think it’s a good idea to head out to study today since her exam is tomorrow.

So, I asked her if I am a distracting study partner, and if she had managed to complete her agenda on Sunday, to which she answered yes for both of the questions. She then further explained that she don’t usually go out a day before her exam.

I was still very bothered by it so I told her how I felt about all of this yesterday night. She told me this is how she is.

She treats guys the same way she treats her female friends. The thing is, she was accused previously by her ex-friends and ex-bf that she hung out too frequently with guys alone. However, since her conscience is clear (she only see her male friends as just friends), she is okay with hanging out with them alone. She then proceeded to reassure me that they are really just friends and she loves me so much.

So my question here is, is it normal for me to feel uncomfortable and jealous about this? Or am I just too insecure to deal with this maturely? I dont really know how to approach this issue since this is my first relationship… your help and opinion are greatly appreciated! 🙂

SENIOR CITIZENS ‘ENTITLED’ MINDSET & THIRD WORLD BEHAVIOUR ON PUBLIC TRANSPORTS

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Senior Citizens in Singapore seems to have an ‘entitled’ mindset

Incident happened at Jurong East MRT station during peak hours that left a netizen astonished and perplexed. A woman, approximately 60 years of age, decided to cut the queue and board the MRT train without any regard for the passengers who were already waiting their turn.

What set this incident apart, however, was her audacious attempt to reserve a seat designated for people with special needs, using nothing more than her bag.

What happened according to the netizen

As the doors of the MRT train opened, the passengers inside disembarked in an orderly fashion.

However, the elderly lady showed no consideration and squeezed her way onto the train before anyone had a chance to alight. This act alone was enough to raise eyebrows and elicit disapproving glances from those present.

When confronted by the netizen who questioned the propriety of her actions, the lady’s response was far from apologetic.

In a mumbled tone to her colleague, she stated that the seat belonged to the “older” people, making the netizen think that this was how she was essentially implying that her age granted her the privilege to disregard the rules and common courtesy.

The post by the netizen

Was at JE MRT about off-work hour 6.15pm, queueing to board the MRT when this auntie abt 60yo cut right to the front and middle of the doors. I was couple of people behind, so couldn’t call her out without shouting, so I kept quiet. When doors opened, the auntie didn’t let ppl out first and squeezed her way in, sat at the second seat, while using her bag to “chope” the priority seat for her uncle colleague.

When I boarded, I told her she very xiasuey, don’t even know how to queue up. She didn’t respond to me and told her friend “This is old people seat”.

See la, these are the entitled folks we’ve created with all these “priority seats”, “priority queue” etc. Made these old folks think they are special, more important than others.

In case ppl say I kaypo, it’s not kaypo because she cut our/my queue. As for ppl saying “old ppl, let them la”, no, old doesn’t mean u can be rude and forget manners.

NETIZEN CLAIMS YA KUN SUNTEC STAFF REFUTED QUERIES WITH ‘CANNOT WAIT DON’T BUY LA’

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In a post that was seen on Facebook, a disgruntled netizen wrote a complain about their experience at the Ya Kun outlet at Suntec.

Summary

A summary of the complaint is as follows:

  • Netizen went to the outlet to get stuff for the colleagues
  • Netizen asked the staff roughly how long the food will be ready
  • This was because netizen was in a rush and just wanted an estimation of how long it’ll take
  • Netizen mentioned that it took longer than usual and did not see anyone preparing the ordered items after placing the order
  • Netizen raised concerns about his order to the staff
  • According to netizen, staff replied ‘You cannot wait? then dont buy la i return back to you. Want to complain me right go complain then.’
  • Netizen claimed that the staff there were playing with their phones at work

Here is the post by the netizen

[Experience at Ya Kun]

I was buying stuff for my colleagues at Ya Kun outlet at suntec. Normally i will ask how long the preparation because i am in a rush for something else so i know the timing an know the estimation.

After i ordered my stuff, i didnt see them prepare so i ask is my items ready why is it taking so longer than usual and there is no queue.

This dude say this to me; You cannot wait? then dont buy la i return back to you. Want to complain me right go complain then.

Side note: Some stuff (staff) even can play phone at work, wondered why hiring managers hired them.

Image credits: Facebook

MAN WITH DEGREE FEELS OFFICE WORK IS STRESS, WANTS TO BE PLUMBER

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I am a recent grad and have been working for a big company for about a year in an office job. Feeling really mentally stressed and burnt out. I have been wanting to change some job which I am overqualified for, like a diploma level job or a blue collar job like plumber or carpenter.

I feel that companies in sg have overly high demands on employees in degree white collar jobs. We usually have to multitask and take on a wide jobscope. On top of that, we still have CCAs like organising meetings and events, writing minutes, being in some commitee etc which everyone have to do on top of their already packed jobscope. Because of all these demands, I often have to work overtime or do extra work at home to clear my load. I have known from my many friends that this is very common across many different companies and industries.

I envy those in non-degree jobs such in admin or support roles or blue collar ones who only need to focus on one jobscope and their work is quite routine. They can usually leave on time, don’t have to bring work home and don’t need to do much CCAs. If I join these jobs, I surely will need to take a big paycut but hey, life isn’t just all about work right? Many of these people work these jobs their whole life and are able to support a family, buy a house etc.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Changi Aviation industry have a lot of mid to blue collar job. Comfortable environment too. Pay range from 2k to 4k plus. Technology or white collar 3k to 5k range.
  • It’s ultimately down to whether u’re ok with it… And u REALLY gotta be ok with it cos it could be a path of no return…U take that path, u find the pay too low, u’re gonna face challenges if u wanna transition back to a grad position cos employers will wonder why the heck u took a paycut to do a brain-dead job in the first place. It would be time wasted.Not all employers will be willing to let u “try”. And after doing “relaxed” jobs for awhile, u’ll find it even harder to adjust back to a demanding, high-pressure environment.Not to mention that u would have lost years of experience, and you would be starting in the same level as fresh grads younger than u and more hungry than u.
  • Be a tutor, stress free work.

YP STOLE FRIEND’S APPLE WATCH, KENA WHACK JIALAT & FRIEND SAYS “DON’T TEST THE SATAN IN ME”

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In a surprising turn of events, a case of theft and confrontation has unfolded, involving the alleged theft of an Apple Watch and a subsequent physical altercation. The incident has resulted in the arrest of an individual on charges of Theft in Dwelling.

Stole friend’s Apple Watch

The incident began when the victim, whose identity remains undisclosed, reported the theft of their Apple Watch from their room. The victim’s response to the alleged theft included offering a reward of $500 in an attempt to recover their stolen property. According to the victim, their friend, who was initially accused of the theft, ultimately admitted to taking the Apple Watch when confronted with the financial incentive.

However, things took an unexpected turn when the alleged thief believed that the victim would be absent, leading them to return the stolen item. The accused individual placed the Apple Watch outside the victim’s door and requested the money transfer before leaving.

Beaten up

Seizing the opportunity, the victim confronted the accused shortly after the item’s return. This confrontation escalated, resulting in a physical altercation in which the victim claimed to have beaten the guy up.

Subsequently, the victim contacted the police, leading to the arrest of the accused individual on the grounds of Theft in Dwelling.

The victim expressed a strong determination to pursue legal action against the accused. In addition to criminal charges, they revealed their intention to file a separate civil suit. This course of action is aimed at seeking compensation for damages incurred during the incident and potentially affecting the accused’s future with a criminal record.

Here is what the netizen said

So long story short for those of all asking – This dumba- friend of mine stole my Apple watch from my room. He initially denied, but eventually caved in when I baited him with $500 cash in exchange for my watch.

Dumba- thought I was flying off to SICK today, so he came down to return the watch by placing it outside my door and instructed me to transfer the money to him instead.

I waited by the door, dashed out, cornered him, and beat the sh-t outta him. I eventually called the police and he got arrested for the criminal offence of Theft in Dwelling.

Never have I imagined that someone would want to test the satan in me. I’m so prepared to ruin his future with a criminal record, and will also be filing a separate civil suit against him.

I can be one of the nicest guy you’ll ever meet or I can be someone you wished you never met.

GF SUSPECTS BF IS NOT STRAIGHT AS HE REJECTS ALL HER ADVANCES

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hi everyone, would like to seek opinions if is it normal for my boyfriend to reject my S advances?

As every time when im at his place or he is at my place and my parent’s arent home and i try to ask him to do it with me, he rejects me and says he wants to wait till we’re married before doing it.

I’m his 1st girlfriend and his 27, and we’ve been together for 2 years already so I don’t know why is he so shy, is my boyfriend secretly gay? As i can’t think of any guy who would reject their girlfriend when their girlfriend is the one initiating it, and i did say whether he wants to use a rubber anot it is up to him, but he acts like a wuss and keeps rejecting me.

How do i get him to man up and do it?

Here are what netizens think:

  • He is keeping his virginity for his one true love whom he is going to marry. Nothing wrong with it . Premarital S used to be the wrong thing to do until ppl normalised it and start thinking not having it, is abnormal.
  • Does he have a religion that he adheres to closely? Or his family has very strong moral values? He’s a keeper. Respecting you and your body and yet you do not even appreciate it. Just because a guy doesn’t want to have S with you you think he’s gay?? That’s a very toxic mentality. There’s nothing abnormal with not wanting to have S before marriage and people who have this value shouldn’t be shamed into thinking there’s something wrong with them.
  • Hmmmm, did you manage to check or visually see before that it is functioning tool.
  • Don’t blame yourself for wondering what’s wrong with him. He could be a monk. See if you can break him. Be the dominant one!
  • Your bf is a real keeper. He’s mature, and he doesn’t want the risk of having a baby outside marriage.

$2.8B MONEY LAUNDERING CASE, SUSPECT DENIED BAIL DUE TO FLIGHT RISK

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The case involving 31-year-old Cambodian, Su Wenqiang, has brought attention to the intricacies of a high-profile billion-dollar money laundering situation. Wenqiang was recently denied bail due to being perceived as a high flight risk in a Singaporean court on Thursday (Nov 2). The charges under the Corruption, Drug Trafficking and Other Serious Crimes Act were a consequence of alleged criminal activities linked to the acquisition of a Mercedes Benz AMG C63S and the possession of funds stemming from unlawful remote gambling.

Details of the Charges

Wenqiang faces two charges under Singaporean law. The first charge involves the utilization of S$500,000 from criminal activities to procure a high-end vehicle. The second charge revolves around holding S$601,706 believed to be proceeds from illegal remote gambling operations.

Legal Arguments

The Defense Counsel, Sameer Amir Melber, contested the seriousness of the offenses and argued the necessity for evidence proving that the predicate offense violates Singaporean laws. He emphasized that the remote gambling activities occurred in the Philippines under proper licensing and were not directly linked to Singaporean jurisdiction.

Flight Risk and Passport Issues

The Defense Counsel also disputed the prosecution’s portrayal of Su as a flight risk, highlighting the absence of overseas assets apart from a house in Xiamen, China, registered under his wife’s name. Su expressed willingness to comply with stringent bail conditions to prevent fleeing, citing the lack of passports and overseas assets.

The Deputy Public Prosecutor, Edwin Soh, countered by stating the extensive implications of Su’s actions in Singapore and abroad, citing his alleged involvement in remote gambling services in the Philippines. Soh also asserted that Su’s history as a fugitive in China, where he evaded authorities, indicated his proclivity for eluding legal consequences.

Bail Denial and Judge’s Decision

The presiding District Judge, Brenda Tan, rationalized the denial of bail based on the legal foundation established by the prosecution. Tan highlighted Su’s ability to acquire passports effortlessly and relocate with his family to other countries, indicating a high flight risk. She emphasized that Su admitted to obtaining passports from Cambodia and Vanuatu, despite never visiting these countries. The judge underscored Su’s potential to evade the law and suggested he could uproot his family to avoid legal repercussions.

Potential Consequences if Found Guilty

Su Wenqiang, set for a pre-trial conference on December 14, could face a sentence of up to 10 years’ imprisonment or a fine of up to S$500,000, or both, if found guilty on the charges.

After careful considerations, Judge Brenda Tan denied bail due to the significant flight risk Su Wenqiang posed, based on his demonstrated ability to acquire passports and relocate without hindrance. His case stands as a concerning illustration of legal complexities in transnational criminal proceedings.

FAQs

  1. What were the specific charges against Su Wenqiang?
    • Su faced charges related to using illicit funds to purchase a luxury car and possessing proceeds from unlawful remote gambling.
  2. Why was bail denied to Su despite the Defense Counsel’s arguments?
    • The judge perceived Su as a high flight risk due to his demonstrated ability to acquire multiple passports effortlessly.
  3. What potential consequences does Su Wenqiang face if found guilty?
    • He could be imprisoned for up to 10 years or face a fine of up to S$500,000, or both, on each charge.
  4. What were the key arguments presented by the Defense Counsel and the Deputy Public Prosecutor?
    • The Defense Counsel contested the seriousness of the offenses and argued the absence of evidence proving the violation of Singaporean laws. The Deputy Public Prosecutor emphasized Su’s extensive involvement in unlawful activities both in and outside Singapore.
  5. When is Su Wenqiang’s next court appearance?
    • He is scheduled for a pre-trial conference on December 14, marking the next stage in his legal battle.

PAWNSHOP BROKER JAILED AFTER PAWNING CUSTOMER’S GOODS AT OTHER SHOPS

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Fun Sho Mei found herself in the middle of a legal controversy that unfolded in the Singaporean courts. Her pawnbroking business encountered difficulties due to tough competition from other pawnshops. This led her to resort to an illicit strategy, resulting in significant gains but also dire consequences.

Introduction

According to Today news, Fun Sho Mei, a 65-year-old businesswoman, faced distressing times as her pawnbroking enterprise encountered severe competition from chain pawnshops, ultimately leading to its closure. In a bid to keep her business afloat, she resorted to unauthorized pawning of goods, paving the way for a legal debacle that led to her recent court sentencing.

The Background of Fun Sho Mei’s Pawnbroking Business

Fun’s business initially thrived, but since 2011, it struggled against mounting competition from larger chain pawnshops, culminating in its eventual closure. This downfall prompted Fun to take drastic measures, including unauthorized pawning of goods from her customers, a decision that ultimately led her down an illegal path.

Description of the Illegal Activities

In a series of illicit moves between March and November 2021, Fun resorted to pawning her customers’ goods at other pawnshops without proper authorization, raking in proceeds amounting to over S$710,000. Not only did she indulge in these activities herself, but she also involved her husband in the scheme.

Court Proceedings and Sentencing

Fun pleaded guilty to five counts of unauthorised pawning of goods under the Pawnbrokers Act. The court, considering ten other similar charges, sentenced her to 18 months and two weeks in jail.

Financial Gains and Impact on Customers

While Fun pocketed substantial proceeds, the original owners faced the jeopardy of losing their pawned items. The lucrative gains came at the expense of the rightful owners’ ability to redeem their goods.

Business Closure and Legal Consequences

With the closure of Yong Teck Pawnshop, appointed receivers discovered missing pledges suspected to have been pawned elsewhere. This led to an investigation revealing over 300 pawn tickets allegedly pawned by Fun and her husband at various third-party pawnshops.

Prosecution’s Perspective and Sentencing Rationale

The prosecution highlighted Fun’s dire need for cash and the implications of preventing original owners from redeeming their pledged items. Such actions, despite the financial gains, led to legal repercussions, as she faced imprisonment and hefty fines.

Conclusion

The case of Fun Sho Mei serves as a cautionary tale. Despite financial hardships, resorting to illegal means brings severe consequences not only for the business but also for the individuals involved.

GIRL ABOUT TO GET INTIMATE WITH GUY IN BED, THEN HIS GF WALKS IN

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i hung out with a guy today and his gf walked in.

i feel like the nastiest person in the world. i had no idea he had a girlfriend. i met him at work and we seemed to really hit it off.

we were texting for a while and i even did my research before hanging out with him. there were no signs of a girlfriend so today i went over to his house.

we talked, which led to making out, and next thing you know we’re about to get intimate. but before any of that happened i hear a door open and get shoved off.

by this point most of my clothes are off but i got scared and put my clothes on as fast as i could. i hear a girls voice. i realized what was going on and i grabbed my keys and phone.

i was on the other side of the room when i see him coming in and not long after another girl coming in. she sees me and flipped out on him throwing her drink and hitting him screaming “you’re cheating on me” and asking who i was.

i was frozen and i scared. she screams at me to get out(rightfully) and i hear her calling his mom or dad idk.

i’m not sure what to think or what to do. i had no idea there was a girlfriend in the picture. i feel disgusting.

the worst part of all this is that i have to work with that guy tomorrow. i don’t want to see that pigs face. i feel bad for that girl.

i wanted to say that i was sorry but i didn’t wanna escalate things and piss her off even more. i feel terrible.

CHINA MEN CAME TO S’PORE TO STEAL FROM TEMPLE DONATION BOX, LEARNED FROM DOUYIN VIDEOS

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In a peculiar and audacious turn of events, three individuals hailing from China ventured into Singapore with a mission that involved stealing from churches and temples using an unconventional method they had learned from Douyin videos, according to Channel NewsAsia.

The culprits, Zou Fangshou, Qin Xiaonuo, and Qin Chaoban, were handed seven months’ imprisonment each for their illicit activities on Thursday, November 2.

The three men faced a single charge of theft with common intention, which collectively amounted to S$1,479 (approximately US$1,082). Additionally, they had smaller amounts in various other currencies.

The Unusual Culprits

Zou Fangshou

  • Age: 32

Qin Xiaonuo

  • Age: 29

Qin Chaoban

  • Age: 38

The Charges

The court learned that the trio had acquired their dubious skills by watching videos on Douyin (the Chinese version of TikTok) that demonstrated a crafty technique for pilfering from donation boxes. This method involved a simple setup consisting of a string, a piece of metal, and sticky tape.

When the piece of metal with sticky tape was inserted into the donation box, the money bills adhered to the exposed sticky part of the tape, allowing the perpetrator to effectively “fish” for the cash.

To further disguise their actions, Zou Fangshou purchased a black bag in China that had a hole and a zipper, which he modified to cover the act of theft. The bag served as a smokescreen, allowing the thief to place it over the donation box’s mouth, pretending to rummage through it while covertly fishing for money.

Their Arrival in Singapore

The trio arrived in Singapore on September 6 earlier this year, holding social visit passes. Shortly after their arrival, they procured the necessary materials—pieces of metal, string, and tape—from shops in the vicinity of their hotel. They then retreated to their room to hone their newfound skill.

On September 7 and 8, Zou Fangshou utilized his mobile phone to identify churches and temples in Singapore to target for their thievery. The three of them took taxis to reach their chosen locations.

Over the course of two days, they visited three churches, two temples, and one monastery, spreading their criminal activities across locations like Thomson Road, Punggol, and Woodlands. The modus operandi involved taking turns “fishing” for money from the donation boxes while maintaining vigilance and communicating via their mobile phones.

Caught on Camera

Their audacious crimes didn’t go unnoticed. Closed-circuit television cameras recorded the trio as they brazenly stole from the donation boxes.

Employees in the places of worship grew suspicious of the three men, who were loitering with an air of suspicion. Consequently, they reported their concerns to the police.

In an astonishing display of community vigilance, photos of the three culprits were shared in a WhatsApp chat group containing church staff and volunteers from all over Singapore. The sharing of information aimed to alert others about the presence of these individuals and their nefarious activities.

Attempt to Dispose of Evidence

However, it wasn’t smooth sailing for Zou Fangshou and his cohorts. Realizing that an employee at the Church of the Transfiguration was keeping a close eye on them, Zou sensed trouble brewing. In an attempt to avoid capture, he tossed the makeshift fishing device into the river, hoping to rid themselves of the incriminating evidence.

Once they believed they had eluded detection, Qin Chaoban procured another wooden stick, with intentions of using it for subsequent “fishing” operations.

Arrest and Seizure

Despite their efforts to evade the law, the police managed to trace the three men back to their hotel and promptly arrested them. During the arrests, various items were confiscated, including their clothing, the stick used in their crimes, the phones employed, the black bag with the hole at the bottom, and money in multiple currencies. Many of the bills had a sticky substance on them, further implicating the culprits.

In a twist of events, the three men admitted to stealing a significant sum from donation boxes. Their loot included S$1,479, US$16, RM 63, 26.05 yuan, CAD$10, HK$100, and 100 Omani Baisa. They confessed to having already spent some of the stolen money on various expenses, such as taxi fares. However, no restitution had been made at the time of their sentencing.