Been thinking for quite sometime whether to write in about a Princess Girlfriend of ours. We are close friend for years but of late our group decided to stay away from her 1 after another.

(45) old princess with full plastic surgery from top to breast behaving like a Spoiled Princess living in her fantasy. Initially she act to be very truthful friend but as we get along we cannot tolerate her princess behaviour. Whenever we have any gatherings she will repeatedly remind us she doesn’t know how to book restaurants, doesn’t know how to buy food or groceries for parties treating all of us like the minions doing all the work while she relax at home. For a mother of 3 with growth up children, It’s difficult to believe she cannot do the above, i will think it’s either she really stupid or cannot be bother to learn. But than how does she survive in corporate world ??

Infront of us all she does was bitching about her girl friends, back-mouthing her bf’s daughter dressing up like a slut spreading rumours her bf’s girl deserves to be rape if it happens. Not only she bitch about bf gal, she also goes around bitching her bf’s sisters and mother for being a gamblers. But on next moment she will bring them out for expensive meals to curry favour.

And she always scold her bf whenever he didn’t plan for a romantic dinner during anniversary or birthday. Mind you her dinner must be accompanied with big bouquet and candlelight setup if the flowers bouquet is too small she would sulk the whole night.

We are all kind of pity her bf but than he made his own bed anyway. All we can do is learning listening ears to him whenever we meet up.
This is my first time encounter such a scary fake personality.

I went away on holiday and due to unexpected delays, my two week stay ended up being about another and a half because I was unable to get home.

My son (18) was in charge of looking after the house and I checked in daily and was always told the house was great and my animals were looked after.

When I got home the house was trashed. There were dog poo and pee all over the floors, there were dead fish in the fish tank and there were dishes piled up going mouldy.

The fridge had open food in it and the bathroom looked like a bomb site. Ofc I stormed to my sons room to tell him off!

My son has no job and was living off the money I was giving him to look after the animals and for food (about $200 a week).

He hadn’t visited the house in a week. I completely cut off all financial support for him and sent pictures and bills for cleaning.

I also sent him vet bills for the dogs and told him he had to pay it before I sued him.

Please help me to post this. As I feel that as time goes on my chances of saving my wife is getting more and more dim.

Thank you reading the story below. Please don’t mind my English and forgive my grammatical errors.

It’s my first time wanted to post something. I’m not sure if this is the right channel to do so. But I hope that your social media reach can garner me some “moral” support.

Let’s call me R (41M) . I have been married to a Vietnamese lady and let’s call her PB (33F) . We were married this year in march.

I have suffered some losses due to a unforeseen business failure and have been settling issues since our marriage in march due to court cases. All things said and done. I am currently in the midst of being able to get back what I loss in business through alot of planning for a new endeavour.

My wife and I used to rent a place to live together before and through our marriage for a bout a year. Even though I have my own place under my name. She expressed that she was not comfortable staying with my elderly mum and sisters who are due to be married and leaving my place soon. And she also expressed that the rational is that it’s more convenient for her to go to work. As a loving boyfriend then and now husband. I obliged to her request out of love and meeting her needs.

After all the bad situations happend to me which almost landed me in prison. I had to pay hefty fine of 120K plus if not I will have to serve jail time. I was lucky that the judge allowed me to pay in installments of 20K per month after clearing at least 50% of the fine up front. I am happy that I struggled through that without even any help from her. As I do not want her to be overstressed due to our mother-in-law having cancer and living back in Vietnam.

Recently, in September we left our rental apartment as the lease ended. And because it is a tough time for me I am unable to get another rental immediately but will be able to do so in two months time since things are picking up for me due to the good graces of the universe and pure hardwork. I requested that she come back to our matrimonial home and legal address but got shot down by her saying it is not convenient for her work. She works in a KTV. And insisted that she wants to stay out in a rental room and only come back to our matrimonial home on Sunday and Monday to spend time with me and our family. Its really ridiculous but still I give trust as she promised that she will communicate with me about her whereabouts and let me know all is safe as she holds a LTVP which can easily be cancelled if she were to be caught doing any illegal activities.

She used to just work till 2am and come back home as fast as she could to be with me as all wife and husbands do. She used to let me know her whereabouts even when she is out for a booking with customers. Now she does not even tell me where she goes and what she is doing. She only texts me to say single liners like . “I’m ok” , “am busy” , no time to reply etc. Now she says she needs to work until 6am daily. Which I find puzzling and suspicious.

Ever since she stopped staying together with me.She doesn’t even reply as she used to. I suspect that she is doing alot of illegal things behind my back. But out of trust for her I let it go. The lack of communication is a red flag and drastic change.

And here comes the biggest drama which I hope the netizens will share this story and prevent any other man/woman from getting into this situation.

She has a “good lady friend” called M also a Vietnamese but much younger than my wife Recently on 18/09. My wife who usually texts me as soon as she wakes up. Suddenly tell me she is out with M in the afternoon. Usually when she wakes we will do a video call to check in with each other. Assuming she was still in grabcar I called her to check in awhile before I proceed for my meeting. She did not answer at all. Tried calling again she answered without activating video call and heard her saying she is in lady M home but I heard guys voices in the background. This immediately triggered me. As I know lady M’s husband as well. And that is definitely not M’s husband voice. Immediately, all things started going through my head and I called her till she answers a video call.

She finally answered showed she is in a kitchen with her “good lady friend” M. It’s definitely not M’s home. So I caught the first lie. And obvious my wife did not go home at all the night before. She is wearing an orange t-shirt which she has never had and I have never bought . I asked who is the guy they keep brushing me off and say they are at a mutual friend home. And got really upset as this is a first lie. Secondly, they were all slurring. Both woman especially my wife cannot drink alcohol. She gets drunk with less than 3 small glasses of beer. Being aware of Illicit substances use . It is confirmed that they have been using Illicit substance since early morning of 17 October. I k

what do you think of ambitious colleagues?

I mean it is good for them, I wish them well when they worked really hard trying to advance their career or doing something new outside of their job scope. But sometimes it just makes me really stressed out.

Both of us are fresh grads, I joined like 6 mths before this guy, and our job scopes are similar, with similar pay range. But he seems to always go the extra mile to do stuff. Like during meetings, we are supposed to just show our work progress and what we have done for the week, he just seems to have done a lot more, showing stats and graphs and analytics and whatnot that is not really required for the presentation. He also did some stuff out of his job scope, which impressed the managers. Then after a few weeks my manager talked to me saying I need to follow his example to do more when he was happy with my performance before the new guy came in.

I’m not ambitious, just want a job to have a simple life, and because of this colleague, make me feel worthless and not up to the raised new standard. What if another colleague comes in and performs even better?? Is the bar going to be raised higher and higher with the same pay and job level??

I know people will say “oh just level up and keep level up, this just shows how incompetent you are”, but I’m really not interested enough to live a life that way or want to see my job as a never-ending upwards cycle. Ofc if need be, I will gain new skills required but as of now for my current job this stuff is really out of the job scope.

I’m not blaming people for being ambitious or being salty, I just feel that maybe this is just too competitive for me and I should leave instead of being sad that my performance is getting lower in the managers’ eyes despite me trying to do my best for the job I applied for.

Here are what netizens think:

• Nah. You do what you paid to do, within your pay grade and job description. Nobody likes a show off in the long run. Maybe they’ll like him now, but once he can’t keep up with his own abilities and showboating, he’s out.

• You should leave and join a mediocre company that prefers mediocre workers, so that the company with the excellent worker can stop tanking your work

• His just carrying ballz trying to be the next GM. Either he will be your future GM or get thrown out by current GM if he will feel threaten la.

A man shared a story online which shows the extent that people will do just to “fit in” with other friends.

Sometimes, people take things too seriously and the term “face” is often overrated.

Here is the story:

I have this friend known as the king of credit card rolling, from the outside he looks like he got money but deep down he is very poor.

He drinks every day and asks people to drink with him to show that he has “spending power”. The problem is, that he does not have spending power, his credit card is always at the limit and sometimes even exceeds the amount.

He claims that he is working in a senior position in a company and has a high salary, but the fact is, it does not matter if he is making $1,000 or $10,000 a month. The way he spends money is like money grows on trees.

From month to month he will survive by making minimum credit card payments + interest. To be honest it does not concern me.

But every now and then he will cycle among our clique and ask us to borrow him $50 so he can afford lunch the next day, this has going on for years and it’s really getting annoying.

In another words, he has no cash and zero savings and survives from month to month with his credit card.

To be living on a high is his dream, no matter how fake it is. He just wants to show off.