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MAN CAN’T QUIT THAI DISCO EVEN AFTER 2 YEARS WITHOUT SIAM DIU

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A man recently posted on a forum stating that he is still unable to stop going to Thai Discos even after the two-year restrictive period.

He said that he is trying to identify the root cause of why he is still going there, which attracted the comments of many netizens who blasted him.

Here is his story:

Even after two years of not going to pubs and clubs, It has made my addiction even worse.

It’s like holding on to all the air in a balloon and releasing it at one go.

I was introduced to Thai Discos in my early 20s by my Poly classmates, I went enjoyed “got” a few and “lose” a few. When I was young, I was very hardworking and earned a good sum of money but I could not stop spending either.

Before the lockdown came, In a period of 1 year, I spend almost $150,000 on drinking, hanging flowers and other entertainment expenses. When the lockdown came, it was like a wake-up call for me. I managed to accumulate a small amount of savings but nothing compared to the amount I spend back then.

I switch from drinking outside with friends to drinking at home or not drinking at all.

Return of pubs and clubs

When the government finally unrestricted entertainment premises, I started my nonsense again.

My friend asked me out and I reluctantly agreed, He brought me to this pub with Thai girls inside. I started my crappy lifestyle once again and my monthly expenses have increased once again.

During the lockdown, I was single and now I’m back out to hunt for potential partners.

I feel that it is not healthy to find girls on such premises, I am considered a hardcore drinker but deep down I don’t want to meet any girls from pubs.

However, I do not have a choice as I do not have a chance to meet other people. I am self-employed and I work almost at home all the time.

Meeting new people is almost impossible.

I am afraid of going back to my lifestyle of finding girls in siam diu which I do not see the light at the end of the tunnel.

I only see myself going broke.

Can anyone give me ideas…

WOMAN OPTS FOR “QUIET” GRAB RIDE, AS DRIVER GOES OUT TO 1V1 WITH ANOTHER DRIVER

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In a world where ride-sharing apps like Grab have become an integral part of our daily lives, passengers often hope for a smooth and uneventful journey.

However, for one woman, her choice of a “quiet ride” turned into an unexpected front-row seat to a heated argument between her Grab driver and another motorist.

A “Quiet Ride” is an option offered by Grab for passengers to “ride in peace” with minimal conversation with the drivers.

The Quiet Ride

Xiao Qian, a regular Grab user, had a penchant for opting for a quiet ride whenever she booked her trips. Her most recent experience with Grab, though, was far from the peaceful journey she anticipated.

As her ride commenced, everything seemed to be going smoothly until her driver failed to halt at a designated spot. This minor mishap led to an almost collision with another vehicle, prompting the other driver to respond with a resounding honk.

Xiao Qian, understanding that her driver had neglected to check his blind spots, initially dismissed it as a mere oversight.

To her surprise, her driver decided to stop the car right in the middle of the road. He rolled down his window and initiated an intense verbal exchange with the other driver.

They were screaming and shouting at each other, and the situation quickly escalated. The other driver accused the Grab driver of using his high beam at him.

Alighted from car to confront other driver

The situation took a turn for the worse when Xiao Qian’s driver got out of the car to confront the other driver directly.

This confrontation took a more aggressive tone as he began “challenging” the other driver. Realizing the gravity of the situation, Xiao Qian decided to start recording the incident.

In a video later shared on TikTok, the two drivers were captured hurling vulgarities at each other. The other driver, agitated, questioned the Grab driver’s knowledge of road rules, asking him if he knows the difference between “big roads and small roads”.

Throughout the entire altercation, Xiao Qian remained inside the car. She stayed composed and silent, recording the unfolding events on her device. Her primary concern was her safety, and she felt that recording the incident was a necessary precaution should the confrontation take a physical turn.

When the Grab driver finally returned to the car, Xiao Qian was visibly shaken by the incident. She expected the driver to address the situation or at least offer some words of reassurance.

However, to her astonishment, the driver continued the ride without uttering a single word, fulfilling the “quiet ride” that she had opted for.

@geiwosushi

quiet ride indeed….. 🥹

♬ original sound – OMGXIAOQIAN

GIRL NOT HAPPY WITH FRIEND FOR NOT REPLYING MSGS, FRIENDSHIP ONE SIDED

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How do you deal with your friends not reciprocating the attention you give them? (Fair warning that this may sound childish to some, not to me. Also, long rant ahead).

I’ve had this friend for the last 7 years. We’re both each other’s closest friends. Ofc when we were studying, we were freer, we could meet up more, talk more, text more. Now that we’re working, both of us acknowledged that we might have to compromise a little to keep the friendship going. But over the last 6 months, I feel like I’ve been bending over backwards trying to keep this friendship going with close to 0 effort from her and it’s driving me up the wall.

For context, her parents have very strict rules for her and she has to follow them. So I’ve always been accommodating to whatever she wants to do and whenever she wants to meet. I’ve never questioned “Eh you so old already why these rules?”.

In the 7 years we’ve been friends, the only time we ever “”fought”” was 3 years ago when she kept cancelling on me to meet up even though she was the one who set the date and time every time she cancelled and rescheduled. I BLEW up at her (over text) and basically told her I can’t keep doing this. To which she did not reply and I apologized.

The next time we met, I broke the ice by being goofy and apologized and she said “Let’s just not talk about it”. This was the beginning of the next few years of me suppressing my unhappiness to avoid confrontation and awkwardness.

The last 6 months, however, it’s been really hard for me to suppress it. I’ve been there for her through all her life’s milestones, sadness and happiness. EVERY ONE. I cheered her on, I patted her on the back and I was the shoulder she could cry on.

Her reaction to my milestones? “Oooooo nice” I accept that I’m the more exaggerated reactor, but man… nice? I can teach a parrot to say that. I don’t need a friend to do that. In the last 4 months, if it has not been to rant about her own life, she has not initiated a single conversation/call. I didn’t notice it until this week when she never texted me back a proper response even when I initiated. The selective replying is also killing me.

Eg:

Me: Oh something really good happened at work today! I did…..

no reply

Me: How have you been? I hope all good?

Her: Yeah yeah all good.

It’s funny because she says it’s her busy period. But we work in the same profession so…. Her busy period is mine too. But I still make it a point to check up on her. 2 days ago, I texted her to get no reply back. Last night I sent her a meme (that I made cmon. It was funny af too cmon), to get no reply back. And she just texted me saying “Sorry, been busy” with no response to what I sent her. I wrote a whole ass “You know what I think is funny?” basic rant message which I erased because it’s her birthday in 5 days’ time and I don’t want it to be awkward then.

Am I being unreasonable to want a friend to be excited about me the same way I am about them? What do you do when the attention you give them is not reciprocated?

INDIA CLEANER ATTACKED WOMAN @ KRANJI, DRAGGED HER INTO FOREST TO RAPE, JAILED & CANED

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In a deeply distressing incident that unfolded in 2019, a young woman’s life took a nightmarish turn as she became the victim of a brutal assault in the serene forested vicinity of Kranji.

The assailant, 23-year-old Indian national Chinnaiah Karthik, pleaded guilty to the charge of aggravated rape for his assault on the woman and was sentenced on 27 October to 16 years imprisonment and 12 strokes of the cane, according to The Straits Times.

His attack was so vicious that the victim’s then-boyfriend could barely recognize her when he went to see her at the hospital, given the extent of the injuries to her face.

What happened?

On 4 May 2019 at about 1.30 am, the victim, a university student, found herself in Kranji late at night due to a simple mistake – she had mistakenly boarded the wrong MRT train while on her way back to campus. Little did she know that this innocuous error would lead to a harrowing ordeal.

Deputy Public Prosecutor Kayal Pillay disclosed that the victim had been returning to her residential hall from Changi when she accidentally boarded the incorrect train, ending up at Kranji MRT station.

Engaged in a heated argument with her boyfriend over the phone, she opted to wait for a bus that would transport her back to her campus.

In a secluded area

She later passed by a Singapore Turf Club street sign, and was approached by Chinnaiah, inquiring if she was alright. She responded affirmatively but implored him to go away.

Still in the middle of nowhere, the victim attempted to walk all the way to the MRT station, she was then grabbed by Chinnaiah who then pushed her towards the direction of Turf Club Avenue.

Unable to comprehend Chinnaiah’s incoherent mutterings and growing increasingly anxious as he pursued her, the victim shared her predicament with her boyfriend over the phone.

Desperate for help, he advised her to make her way to an open space and flag down a taxi. Unfortunately, her surroundings offered no such refuge as they were devoid of open areas and she was walking along a deserted road with no one in sight.

Drags her into the forest

In a chilling sequence of events, Chinnaiah caught up with the victim at the road divider, delivering a savage punch to her face.

The boyfriend could hear his girlfriend screaming and the chaos over the phone, but the line abruptly went silent. In desperation, he contacted the victim’s hall mate, who swiftly alerted the police.

Chinnaiah continued his assault on the victim, causing her eyeglasses to fall from her face. Eventually, he placed her in a headlock under his arm and dragged her into the forest.

Inside the vegetation, he pinned her down on her neck as he raped her, and tightened his grib when the victim tried to break free.

After finishing raping her, the man drank water from the victim’s water bottle and poured the rest of the water on her, before leaving her and walking deeper into the forest.

She then took out a pair of scissors inside her bag in case the man came back, and found her phone ringing; she answered it and told her boyfriend that she was raped.

After that, she made her way back onto the main road and sat down crying, before the police arrived at the scene at about 2.05am.

Had been following her

Surveillance footage later revealed that Chinnaiah had been stalking her for about 15 minutes before they disappeared from view along Turf Club Avenue at 1:32 am. The victim emerged from the vegetation, disheveled, at 1:48 am.

The police apprehended Chinnaiah on May 5, 2019, the day after the incident, thanks to their investigations in nearby dormitories and housing areas. Forensic tests detected his DNA on the victim’s clothing and body.

Initially, a psychiatric evaluation found him unfit to stand trial, leading to a discharge not amounting to an acquittal on August 1, 2022, and his subsequent confinement at the Institute of Mental Health. He was later reassessed and found fit to plead on January 16, 2023.

Even four years after the incident, the victim continues to grapple with its emotional and psychological repercussions.

She still often cries ad home and distanced herself from her family and friends, and didn’t tell her parents about what happened because she feels ashamed.

She also never sought mental health treatment or counselling because she doesn’t think it would help her.

GUY CRYING BECAUSE GF GOT CLOSE TO CO-WORKER, WENT TO BALI TOGETHER

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My girlfriend recently got close to this colleague at work and in my opinion she spends too much time with him.

They initially started going out for dinner together 1 on 1 ( I was fine with it as she informed me about it beforehand and didn’t hide it from me).

Subsequently, the colleague started to send her back home on an almost daily basis though he really stays out of the way. It seems that they are getting closer together while my relationship with her is drifting apart; he even went over her house to jog with her 2 weeks ago wtf? I openly expressed my disapproval of her colleague many times and told my girlfriend that he has ulterior motives. She insisted there was nothing between them and they were just friends. She then accused me of lacking trust in our relationship and we ended fighting a few times because of this issue.

A few days ago, while we were together at her house I was so insecure that I stalked her phone while she was bathing  (I know it is wrong, but I really had to find out what was happening between them), and found out that she was planning a trip with him to Bali together in December?! And in their chat there were several romantic exchanges, some bordering on the kinky side. I didn’t know what to make of it at that point of time; were they just merely joking/toying with each other or what? I was so upset that I cried and left her house immediately, citing that I had urgent work to attend to.

Till now I have not confronted her about this as I don’t want to start a big fight again. I 100% certain that colleague of hers is hitting on her and I don’t believe she is oblivious to this. I really love her a lot (we have been together for 7 years) and I don’t want to lose her at all, but the red flags are so obvious.

I am having sleepless nights and crying alone a few times a day because of this, help me.

GUY’S GF THINKS SHE CAN HAVE EVERYTHING HER WAY JUST BY CRYING

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I am with a girl since last year end and recently I have noticed a few challenges in our relationship. To be clear, she is a very admirable and diligent girl and I love her very much.

But after a recent quarrel I have started to realise many differences between us. First off, I feel as if she pushed too much of her ideals onto me both emotionally and physically. Yes, she is an over-achiever among our peers. But does that justify her being inconsiderate and asked me to and I quote ‘why can’t you be better’? Note that I have always had a trauma and stress from my family side already as my siblings are all top tier human beings.

After the get better incident I have found my hatred for her grow from the inside and every time we have quarrels it just grows even more. And also, she cries every time something not in her favour happens. A few days ago she said something that got onto my head and I became moody and she started crying. As if she expects everything to be solved by having tears. I’m sorry I can’t fulfil your wish of dating a kdrama oppa who licks your knees every time a tear of yours drop. Nowadays I feel defeated, some times annoyed even every time she cries. Just because she cries SO OFTEN. LITERALLY.

Plus it is very unlikely we will be in the same country in our future and all sources of mine says ldr doesn’t work.

What should I do. Should I still hang on the little thread of hope? Or should I just follow along my conscience that tells me that I should stop wasting time?

MAN SHOCKED TO FIND OUT WIFE HAS ONLYFANS, BUT THEN HE SUBSCRIBED

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I just found out that my wife has an OnlyFans page! and that is not the problem!!

So, I am simply here because I want to talk, I want to feel like I am talking to the abyss. It is more of me talking out loud.

I met my wife back in June 2020, she is a therapist and she comes from a conservative family with a very traditional background. I was the one who is crazy and always outgoing and she loved that about me. In a way, I was her window toward another world. I enjoyed that! It felt like I am bringing something new to the table.

We embarked on a journey of true living without limits or restrictions. I still remember the day she farted (she couldn’t help it) and I kissed her and hugged her and told her, Yeah, I want you to be yourself. I don’t want you to feel ashamed or embarrassed. I know it is stupid but it meant a lot to me! in a way it was an indication that she is becoming more outgoing and more relaxed with herself around me.

We had so many interesting discussions about the definition of love, religion, healthy relationships & everything you could ever think of. OnlyFans models (workers) was one of those topics…you know the why’s, the how’s, and the what’s. I remember making a joke and I said if you start your OnlyFans page, you will make a fortune because you got it all… the beauty, the body, the intelligence, and kindness. She really did not take it well despite my attempts in explaining that it was a joke, a bad joke if I may add.

Almost 2 weeks ago she sat next to me and revealed her chest to me. I started putting my mouth on it… at that time, I noticed that her phone was recording, it was like a voice memo… I did not mind and I did not ask… we are both out there and we both enjoy our intimate lives a lot, it was strange that she did not tell me about it but I did not think much of it.

4 days ago, I came across a post for an OnlyFans page, it was hers! I recognized the background and what she was wearing. I am not gonna lie, My heart was beating so fast while I was going through subscribing to her page of excitement! It was such a turn on (the idea this could be my wife).

There she was, looking beautiful & hot. I watched every post, I read every word, & I even liked every single post of hers.

Fast forward an hour or so, I started freaking out, I never thought I would act like this finding out my wife has an OnlyFans page! then my brain started wondering about the idea that this might be considered cheating?! not because she offered herself and her body but because she kept it hidden from me! is there anything missing in our life? am I not enough? is it an experiment?

Then, I decided to go back to the page again and pay more attention to anything I might have missed. apparently, there is something called a tips menu (it is like a menu of services with prices next to each service) and I saw audio recording is one of the services! which reminded me of that time when I noticed she was recording the time we had.

Again, I felt excited about it, so excited that I even paid to see the video and texted her on OnlyFans that I am a new fan and I like what she has on her page.

This is my problem!! Why am I excited? should I be anything else other than feeling excited about this?!!

I am not really looking for an answer! I am just here speaking my mind and loud.

HUSBAND NO LONGER WANTS TO SLEEP WITH WIFE AFTER SHE GAVE BIRTH

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Husband is not interested in getting intimate after baby

So I gave birth 6 months ago. And we had intercourse about 5-6 times since. My husband has been so not interested. And I feel like I initiated half the time.

I know he is not cheating. He is a great dad. He works from home. We share house work and he looks after the baby too.

He is just not into it and this happened after giving birth.

It didn’t used to be like this. We did it at least 3 times a week before.

This makes me very self conscious and sad. Like, I’m not wanted or loved anymore. Has anyone experienced this? What could be the reason?

Netizens’ comments

My brother went through the same thing with his wife (ex wife now – they divorced because she had been cheating on my brother since before she was pregnant, during, and after) when she gave birth to my nephew.

He told me that he saw her as a mother to his child, someone to respect, work hard for, and was just so busy working 2 jobs so he could provide. The last thing he thought about was getting physically with her because what he found attractive was her being a mom, not being her (if that makes sense) after the kid turned a year old things got better for them. Not to say that he didn’t find her attractive as herself, but after bearing a child he said that he wanted to give her and his kid the world. That meant working 60+ hour weeks, 3-4 hours of sleep, and taking care of a kid.

Then he found out she cheated and he left her.

GUY LABELS WOMEN INTO 3 CATEGORIES TO MAKE FEMALE FRIEND ANGRY

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A guy shared how he was having a conversation with a female friend where he categorised women into three categories, which made her angry and stormed off.

Here is the story:

“A female friend and I were having a general discussion on romance, intercourse, and dating, etc.

At some point, I (a male) mentioned that as I see it there are broadly three classes of females: those you date/wed, those you hook up with, and those who just don’t catch your eye. In short, love or lust or leave alone.

Things got heated immediately. Said female friend started accusing me of objectifying women.

I protested that this is merely one way among many others of classification, and the same probably holds for men as well.

She demanded I repeat all I said but with women replaced by men – I refused because well I don’t truly know do I?

I did concede that it’s probably true though!…

she stormed away, and we haven’t contacted each other in a week. This whole incident is just so bizarre I can’t get it outta my head – both my innocuous statement and the social justice warrior-esque antics of hers.”

WOMAN NOT HAPPY GRAB RIDER TOOK 1 HR TO DELIVER HER FOOD: “TAKE MRT 15 MINS ONLY!”

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how to get grab to reimburse more for a 1h+ food delivery?

ordered at 7:45pm, the rider picked it up around 8 plus, delivered another order first and then delivered mine. i received my food at 9pm.

he was walking on foot. it should have only been a 5min drive or maximum 15mins via MRT (to my doorstep from the mall – the mall is 2 mrt stations away, straight road drive down, i live near the mrt)

contacted grab customer service and they said they will compensate only $3 but i said that it’s not fair – i waited 40 to 50mins for the delivery?

that’s basically 8-10x the waittime (if driving) or roughly 3x the waittime if the rider had taken the MRT… furthermore, grab did not inform me that it would be a stacked order 😐

i asked the rider if the stacked order was assigned by grab / the system and he said yes, so i told him to just deliver the food and did not disturb him with texts or questions.

has anyone had something similar happen before and managed to get a bigger refund? for reference, my order cost $23 excluding the delivery charge.

Netizens’ comments

  1. A company like grab probably isnt reimbursing you from their bank, likely they penalise this deliveryman salary. He walk whole day to make ends meet, at least you got the food, I think just move on.
  2. Just to share, as a rider/walker we have no control over whether we get stacked or single orders as it’s assigned by Grab.
  3. since you said it’s nearby, why u don’t just go there instead of bitching about this? Grab riders will often stack and the food was delivered safely albeit in a longer time. Cfm opt for savers option then wanna blame grab.
  4. Also why is it not fair? The food arrived to ur door step safely.. so the $3 refund grab is giving u is to compensate for the probably $4-$5 delivery charge.
  5. Cannot refund. From Rider’s perspective the order came in at 8+ and he delivered in less than <1h, fulfilling his job and being punctual.
    Choosing to order at peak hours, you are prone to waiting longer than usual regardless of the rider’s mode of transport but hey at least your food came.