Tell me if what I did is wrong.

Basically I did a simple experiment to determine if people are attention seeking with their “mental illness”.

So a friend of mine has 3 younger siblings, aged 18, 16, and 14. None of them got much exposure from the internet. Strictly only use it for studying. They have social medias but not using it often. All of them are normal and have pretty much a simple life. Sometimes my friend asked me to look after them when he’s out, and since I knew them , I just say why not. Sometimes not all 3 are at the house at the same time. So while its just me with one of them, I started my experiment.

So here’s what I did : For the 18 year old, I talked to him about a mental disorder called Dissociative identity disorder (DID). It’s just a talk, and I told him lots of facts about it and how scary it is if that happens to anyone. I even told him one example from media would be Moon Knight from Marvel. And I showed him various videos of explanation about it.

For the 16 year old, I told her about Tourette Syndrome (TS). I explained to her all the info about it, and showed videos of people with actual TS to her just for her to understand it better. I told her that they couldn’t control it, and some people don’t tend to understand them, which makes them frustrated.

For the 14 year old, I told him about Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). I explained to him how its common for soldiers to have them after the war, and that they have vivid flashback of horrible, shocking, scary events. I showed some videos to make him understand, and explained to him how its tough for them to go through that.

After that, about 2 week later, I visited my friend’s place to hangout, and my friend is visibly upset. I asked what happened and he said that his younger siblings is going through some “phase”. So I checked and talk to them.

The 18 year old make these dumb overexaggerated movement and facial expression, and became “someone else” entirely, and he told everyone he has DID. Note that he has been normal all these time. The 16 year old kept on having tics that sounded really really fake, and told everyone that she has TS. Note that she has been speaking just fine with 0 issues. The 14 year kept on screaming uncontrollably for minutes when he hears a loud sound, claiming that he’s “traumatized”. Note that he often play with loud things like fireworks, drums, etc.

All of them faked their disorders HAHAHAHAHAHA! Now they go around to their friends, and pretended to have these things HAHAHAHAHAHA! AND NOW THEIR FRIENDS SO CALLED HAVE THESE DISORDERS WHEN THEY DON’T HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

Here’s the thing, I didn’t do anything wrong. All I did was educating them and spread awareness about these disorders. They’re the ones attention seeking HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! So I have come to the results that people, especially online, who claimed to have these disorders and tells everyone about it are nothing but attention seeking losers. My experiment proves it!

But what’s your thoughts about this? I’m not wrong now right?

A netizen shared a story about how she got into an argument with her boyfriend because he “finished” on her face when they slept together.

Here is the story:

“Got into an argument with my bf after he came on my face when we slept together – he never did that before so it caught me by surprise.

I felt disgusted and degraded by the act – not to mention his proclamation “Take my holy water!” – but he called me a prude and said all guys do it.

He even claimed that many girls see it as a “badge of honour” on their faces, and showed me thousands of Google images of girls doing it.

I was utterly shocked tbh.

Is that a Western thing, or do yall let your bf/husband disrespect you like this too?”

Editor’s note: I’m sorry but I lost it at “take my holy water”… LOL!

haha i really hate how my mind becomes completely illogical when it comes to my crush.

basically he can just ask a simple question e.g how much do my braces cost?

immediately my mind will link to why does he want to know my braces cost, the price of putting braces is just a usual range of 3-8k depending on private or public a simple google search will do. then i will proceed to the conclusion that he is finding an excuse to text me.

if a normal platonic friend were to ask the same question, my mind does not go through this thought process. i will just dismiss that person as lazy, so lazy he cannot do a simple search.

a small remaining logical part of my brain knows the truth: my crush is lazy and wants a quick answer from me and he is not trying find a reason to talk to me.

ah.. having a crush is a magical feeling that is slowly leading me to death.

Netizens’ comments

He want to know if he kiss you and your braces break, how much he will have to pay and whether kissing you is worth the risk

Obligatory, this didn’t happen today. It happened in 2011.

MANY years ago, I used to work as a model, and I did some sexy stuff. No big deal. I quit that career when I got married and became pregnant. I had my baby, and enough time had gone by, that I wanted to get a part-time job. My only other work experience was bartending, and the modelling.

I decided to apply for a job at a bar, that requires the bartenders to be attractive females, that dress in outfits (corsets, little boy shorts, and heels). Figured this would be good, because I’d make about as much money working 2-3 nights a week, as what I’d make at a regular bar 5-6 nights a week.

They had an online application that requested a photo from the waist up (yes, this is normal for places like that. They call them “auditions”, instead of interviews, in order to get away with this, as well as only hiring certain “types”. Even the wing chain with the orange shorts does the same thing. That’s where I bartended before I started the modelling thing).

I browsed through the photos on my laptop and found the one I wanted to use. A trick I used in order to find a photo to attach quickly, was to rename it “A”, in a certain folder, then delete it after it was sent. So that’s exactly what I did. Attached “A”, and submitted the application.

The website said my submission was successful and showed a preview of the whole thing, including a little icon of the photo I submitted. Instead of just my own eyes staring back at me in that photo, were my 2 oiled up “headlight”.

WTH HAVE I JUST DONE?!?!?!! I looked in the photo folder, and I had forgotten to delete the last photo I had named “A”, which just so happened to be a sexy photo from one of my old photoshoots. The one I meant to send had been saved as “A1”, without me noticing.

I found the direct email address to the manager (who was luckily female), apologized and told her how mortified I was. She responded the next morning saying something like “Oh don’t worry, it happens all the time. Come in anytime this week from 4-6pm for an audition”.

BS it happens all the time!!!!! And there was NO WAY in hell I could show my face there now. Guaranteed it had been shown to everyone that worked there. I decided to hold off on going back to work for the time being. That was definitely the most embarrassing thing I’ve ever done to myself in my life.

I (34M) have 3 kids with my wife (30F). I love them all to death.

My parents are “uncomfortable” with my family, and even though they met my wife and kids, they never approved of my family.

My father died two weeks ago. Before that, my mother called me and asked me to come over, because my dad wanted to see me for the last time.

I said I’d come the next morning, but then my mom said that I should come alone and not bring “those people” with me, as per my father’s last wish.

I completely lost it, called them both out and told my mom I won’t be coming over.

Two days ago at the funeral, my mother called me un ungrateful son, a disgrace to the family, and my siblings told me to just leave and let it go.

Later I got texts from a bunch of family members, calling me an AH for letting my father die alone and breaking my mom’s heart.

Netizens’ comments

• He made his bed, he can die alone in it.
• Even to his last breath, he refused to let go of his stubbornness and ego.

A guy shared how he slept with his girlfriend and she wrapped her legs around him and pulled him in, making him “finish” inside her.

Here is the story:

“Hi admins, please don’t delete this , it is really important to me!

My GF and I have been together for a few years and I really love her. Both of us intend to have kids and I intend to marry her soon. But recently, something she did something that made me lose trust in her. 

My GF and I have a really satisfying love life. As both of us are each other’s first intercourse partners and I always pull out, I have stopped using protection after my GF’s persuasion.

Just a few days ago, we decided to do the dirty and as I was about to pull out, she wrapped her legs and pulled me into her, making me finish right into her. I was actually confused about what happened as I was totally unprepared for a situation like this.

I was furious and after we both cleaned up, I confronted her on what she did. She cried and claimed that she really love me a lot and wanted to be with me forever.

As I am still angry and not in the mood to argue, I left her house and bought her a few pregnancy kits for her to use over the next few days.

I did not talk to her about that accident since and she had since apologised for what she did.

I really do love my GF, how can we improve our relationship ?”

My girlfriend accused me of sleeping with her daughter

I’ve been with my girlfriend for two years now. I’m 27 and she’s 39. When I met her I knew she had a teenage daughter but that wasn’t really an obstacle for me.

I thought her daughter was going to hate me but I actually got along with her great. We became even closer when they moved in with me.

Her daughter is 15 and she’s honestly an amazing kid. I thought that me bonding with her kid would make my girlfriend happy but apparently not.

My girlfriend accused me a few days ago of sleeping with her daughter. Her reason for that was that her daughter liked me “too much”.

I don’t even know what that means. I have never done anything even remotely inappropriate with her daughter. She’s a kid.

I’ve moved out to a hotel for a few nights till I figure this out. I honestly don’t know what I’m gonna do but I’m so mad at my girlfriend.

A netizen shared how he/she was a fresh graduate from a private university and recently started working in an audit company for about 4 months.

The newbie was allegedly forced to do the work of a senior worker, on top of his/her own work and as a result of doing 2 work, has to bring work home to do until about 11 pm.

The netizen said that he/she is very tired since joining the company and feels like nothing is worth it anymore.

Here is her story

“Hi, I am confused and need some help.

I recently started working in audit (4mth) and I hate it. I hate the culture of the office and the people.

I feel like I’m being tormented by my senior, he says whatever’s he wants and makes me do this work while I do mine as well

And since I can’t finish 2work at the same time I have to bring work back home and work till 11+.

Mental health

I am so tired and since I started working in this company my mental health has been bad.

I am a fresh grad from private Uni so I know I have to work harder but I just feel like nothing is worth it anymore and I am lost.

I don’t know if I should quit considering the economy but I can’t take it as well.

Please give me some advice thank you!”

Editor’s note: You should complain to your manager about the senior worker’s antics, why should you do the work of 2 persons? The senior is basically earning money for the work that you do. Stand up for yourself.

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So my father turns 65 later this year and is planning to retire, for a birthday/retirement gift my wife and I have decided to take him on a 12 day vacation to Greece. The trip is a 7 day tour of the country and a 5 day cruise of the islands. My dad has always wanted to know to Greece because that is where his family is from, but he could never afford it. My wife and I are in good shape finically and can afford it no people.

The thought never crossed my mind to invite my stepmother, I kind of forget she even exist. I have not seen her since I was 19, I am in my 40s now. She just chose not to attend any family functions on my dads side, when I got married, she did not come, when my grandparents died she did not go to the funeral.

So after I gave everything to my dad I got a text from a family friend a day or so later. saying that I’m a bad person for not inviting her and that they have been married for over 25 years and I should treat her better.

So am I a bad person for not inviting her?

people asked why she did not get along with my grandparents.

The family legend is she and my grandmother did not get along. I guess she showed up Drunk to Christmas when they first started dating and got in an argument because my grandmother got my presents for me, than her kids. She may have also peed on their couch while drunk.

I succeeded in chasing a girl way out of my league and now getting cold feet. Should I tell her honestly and pull out?

I’m with this girl for a few months, let’s call her J. I was initially very attracted to J’s good looks and well grooming. I’d say her looks are among the top 10-15% of all the girls I met. Despite being an average guy, I planned and chased her and won her heart after some time. However, as we spent more time and knowing each other better, I realized there is indeed a huge gap in lifestyle and abilities between J and me

– J lives in a big semi d landed house while my family lives in a old 4 room flat. Her dad owns several successful businesses while my parents are average income workers

– Her social skills are top notch and she can talk to ppl and make friends easily across age groups and nationalities. I don’t make friends easily as I don’t reveal myself too much to strangers. I also have problem’s especially dealing with ppl with power and knowledge like bosses or professors.

– she is an active sports person and her body is very fit. I’m slightly chubby, although tall. I don’t have a toned body and often struggle to pass my IPPT.

– she is fluent in English, Chinese and german, almost to the native level. I speak singlish most of the time and can’t even write standard English or Chinese well.

– Her CAP is 4.6x while I am 3.1x.

There are many other things too. I have asked J what attracted her to me and she said it was my integrity, sincerity and kindness. But I know that integrity and kindness alone can’t sustain a relationship. My confidence drops a little every time I went out with J and know more about her. We are still in the honeymoon phase but she may start comparing me with other guys once the honeymoon fades. I have heard many examples that it just won’t work out if the guy and girl are too different. Even if she can accept me, her family would disapprove such a guy due to the big diff in SES. I’m thinking to take some pain now and just break off instead of prolonging smth that prob won’t end well.

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