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MAN ASK WHY MALES STARING AT FEMALES ARE WRONG, BUT GIRLS STARING AT MEN ARE RIGHT

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A guy said that girls are confusing and ask why when a guy stares at a girl’s body, it is offensive; but when a girl stares at a guy’s body, it is okay.

Here is the story:

“Girls can be so confusing at times.

When a guy stares at a girl’s body, it’s considered offensive and inappropriate.

When a girl stares at a guy’s body, it’s considered okay since she’s just checking him out.

First date? Normally it would be the guy paying for both parties or they split Dutch. Unless she’s super-rich.

When a guy does National Service, the guy is expected to commit to one girl only i.e. hang out with her on weekends as if we don’t have a family and our lives revolve around her.

When a girl is on her period, for some reason guys are expected to be nicer and act as better gentlemen as if we can tell the time frame by instinct.

I’m so confused. Someone, please write me a guidebook.”

Editor’s note: When I stare at pretty Ah Lians, they always ask me “you stare what stare”.

MAN WHO ALLEGEDLY KILLED WIFE & FLED S’PORE TO BANGLADESH, WANTED BY INTERPOL

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In a case that has captured international attention, a Bangladeshi man, Raju Dhaly, stands accused of a heinous crime – the alleged murder of his wife, Jonalyn Alvarez Raviz, in Singapore in 2018.

The man, who has been on the run ever since and is wanted by Singapore for murder, has an Interpol Red Notice issued for his arrest.

He fled Singapore on 3 September 2018 for Dhaka, Bangladesh.

The alleged murder

On September 6, 2018, the decomposed body of Jonalyn Alvarez Raviz, a 34-year-old Filipina domestic worker, was discovered in a forested area along Tampines Road.

Her life had been tragically cut short, with a ligature wrapped around her neck, cruelly tied to a tree. The Straits Times reported the subsequent coroner’s inquiry into her death.

The inquiry’s findings unveiled a timeline of events. The deceased left her employer’s residence at Pasir Ris on 2 September 2018 at about 8.30am in the morning, before meeting Raju at the Pasir Ris Interchange at about 9am later that morning.

They spent the day together and later boarded a bus and headed towards Tampines Road later that afternoon, and at about 4.17pm, the deceased alighted the bus near Defu Lane 2.

Raju then took a taxi at about 5pm and headed back to his dormitory near the Jurong River, and later that evening he abruptly purchased a plane ticket to Bangladesh.

The following morning at about 5.30am, on 3 September, Raju got on a plane and left Singapore.

On 6 September, Ravis’s dead body was found in a forested area about 5 metres away from the footpath along Tampines Road.

She was found with a compressive neck injury, according to the state coroner, and was described as being an “unlawful killing likely perpetrated by her husband,” ie. Raju.

Strangulation was also said to have been a possible cause for her death, according to the investigating officer.

The mystery surrounding Raju’s sudden departure deepens as investigators label it “unexplained.” To address this, a warrant for his arrest was issued.

Employers reported them missing

The situation took a dark turn when Raviz failed to return home on September 2, 2018. Fearing the worst, her employer filed a missing person report.

Simultaneously, Raju’s employer reported his absence from work on September 3, 2018, adding to the growing list of unanswered questions in this perplexing case.

The Couple’s History

Raju had been working in Singapore as a process maintenance worker since 2007. Raviz, on the other hand, was employed as a domestic worker in Singapore between February 2010 and November 2011. She later worked in Hong Kong before returning to Singapore in 2016. The couple had tied the knot in 2015.

During the investigation, it was revealed that Raviz had confided in her employer about her marriage, where she was the victim of domestic violence.

She claimed Raju often confiscated her salary and was unfaithful. Raviz expressed her intention to end the marriage, planning to return to the Philippines without Raju’s knowledge.

In June 2018, she even reported that Raju had threatened her life if she tried to leave him.

STINGY HUSBAND REFUSE TO PAY FOR ANYTHING, MAKE WIFE PAY EVERYTHING

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Stingy New Husband

2 years ago, I’ve remarried. Had a new baby, and 3 school-going kids from a previous marriage. I must say that I was quite independent after my 1st divorce, owning and fully paying for my own 5-room HDB. I even get full custody for the kids.

My current husband is earning more than me (more than $6k a mth). He doesn’t have kids from a previous marriage so it was his 1st with me. He loves his daughter ALOT, but he was SUPER STINGY. By saying super stingy, I mean, he does not:

– provide money for our groceries weekly

– never pay for our family meals if we were to go out together

– always expect me to pay for meals whenever we order in

– only gave $100 monthly for utilities, thats all

– does not fork out anything extra for e.g maid

– we own a car so he wants us to 50% the loan

– expect me to fully pay for the petrol

I’ve ever brought the topic up. But we always ended up fighting cos he told me that those staying in the house, most were MY KIDS and not his. Thus its fair that I pay, not him.

Recently, I changed job due to post-pregnancy stress. I took a $2k paycut. Tried explaining to him to help out with the monthly utilities as I am struggling doing so alone, but got brutally scolded by him instead. I ended up having alot of credit card loans cos whenever i don’t have enough, I am too afraid to voice out to him. Did not tell him about this, cos he will be mad if he knows that I’ve even used the baby bonus money meant for our baby.

I didn’t know he can be so mean and stingy, I really didn’t expect this from him. He had alot of savings (6 digits). All he cares about is making and saving money, nothing else… I developed anxiety and panic attacks thinking about this sometimes.

I never thought of divorce as I hate the process and going thru the agony again. And I am afraid I wont get to see my baby again, cos he ever told me that he will take her with him should we seek separation.. sometimes, I think about dying as it will be the best option for now…

I am super tired of all this.. really tired…

MOTORBIKE SHATTERS INTO PIECES AFTER CRASHING INTO TAXI @ PIE, RIDER LANDS ON BARRICADE

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In a terrifying incident near Changi Airport, a motorcyclist found themselves in a harrowing situation following a collision with a taxi on the Pan-Island Expressway (PIE).

The motorcyclist rear-ended the taxi, and the motorcycle then shattered into pieces, with the debris strewn all over the road and the motorcyclist reportedly being flung from the bike and landing on the barricade near the side of the road.

The entire incident was captured by a dashboard camera of a passing vehicle. The video footage, subsequently uploaded to the SG Road Vigilante group on Facebook, revealed the shocking moments leading to the collision.

The Accident

At approximately 2:19 pm on October 24, a blue Comfort taxi was navigating along the PIE. The taxi, presumably in the process of changing lanes, was seen moving between the center and left lanes.

Concurrently, a motorcyclist, dressed in white, was riding along the left side of the road, slightly ahead of the taxi.

As the taxi merged into the left lane, a shattering collision occurred between the taxi and the motorcycle. The impact was so severe that the taxi swerved back into the center lane before coming to a halt on the road shoulder ahead.

The motorcycle shattered into pieces with debris from the collision littered the roadway, and the motorcyclist was ejected from their seat, landing near a road barricade.

At this point, the severity of the motorcyclist’s injuries remained undetermined.

The Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) received an alert about the accident at around 2:20 pm on October 24.

They promptly responded, dispatching assistance to the scene. An injured individual was transported to Changi General Hospital for the necessary medical attention.

Investigations Commence

In the aftermath of the accident, investigations were initiated to determine the exact cause and any potential contributing factors to the collision.

CRAZY MAN FOLLOWED ELDERLY CLEANER TO TOILET & WHACKED HIM, ATTACKED 5 OTHERS AS WELL

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In an alarming incident that unfolded at around 8 a.m. on Wednesday, October 25th, several individuals engaged in their morning exercise routine at Punggol Park found themselves under attack, according to Shin Min Daily News.

Followed cleaner into toilet & whacked him

The assailant, a man, reportedly followed a park cleaner into a restroom. When questioned by the cleaner, the man suddenly became aggressive and physically assaulted him.

Shockingly, he didn’t stop there, as he proceeded to attack five other early morning joggers who had attempted to intervene and stop the assault.

The chaotic incident led to the immediate intervention of onlookers who managed to subdue the aggressor until the arrival of the police.

Upon reaching the scene, law enforcement promptly apprehended the assailant. The cleaner, who was subjected to the initial attack, was subsequently transported to the hospital for treatment.

Tried to help victim but got attacked as well

Among the victims who were assaulted was 86-year-old Mr Chen, who told SMDN that he started exercising at the park about 3 years ago, when he first met the cleaner.

He said that the cleaner who was attacked, was in his 70s and they used to be strangers, but during an occasion when his bicycle broke, the cleaner helped him fix his bike without even asking, and they became friends and would greet each other whenever they crossed paths in the park.

On the day of the incident, Chen saw the cleaner being attacked and he stepped in and tried to help him, but ended up being assaulted by the man as well.

Rushed to hospital

Singapore’s Civil Defence Force confirmed that they received an emergency report at 8:10 a.m. SCDF personnel promptly arrived at the location, and one of the injured individuals was rushed to Seng Kang General Hospital for medical attention.

This disturbing incident has raised concerns within the local community, as such unprovoked and seemingly random acts of violence are unusual in this peaceful area.

An investigation is underway to determine the motivations behind the attacks and whether there were any underlying factors contributing to this violent outburst.

MASTERMIND OF ONE OF S’PORE’S BIGGEST RENTAL SCAMS, JAILED FOR CHEATING $383K FROM 68 VICTIMS

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Zeng Xianfu Gibson, a 29-year-old former sales executive at a rental company, has been sentenced to three years and seven months in jail for his involvement in a large-scale rental scam that defrauded 68 victims of nearly S$383,000 (US$280,000). The sentencing was handed down in court on Wednesday, according to The Straits Times.

Zeng pleaded guilty to 23 charges of cheating, while an additional 39 charges were considered in the proceedings.

Background

The court heard that Zeng had been employed as a sales executive at the Singapore Housing Company, specializing in the rental of units in Singapore, between 2018 and 2020.

During his employment, Zeng was tasked with photographing rental units and arranging viewings for potential clients.

However, following his departure from the company, he misused the images he had taken by listing these units on Airbnb, despite lacking the authority or capacity to lease the advertised properties.

To make his fraudulent listings appear legitimate, Zeng supplied actual unit images and concocted bogus tenancy agreements for the unsuspecting victims.

The victims hailed from various countries, including the United States, France, South Africa, Germany, India, China, Portugal, Israel, Denmark, Switzerland, and Singapore.

Victim paid to rent unit, ended up had to stay in hotel

Court documents revealed that Zeng’s victims were duped into paying “deposits” ranging from S$7,000 to S$16,635 after responding to his fraudulent Airbnb listings in 2022. Among these victims were international students and locals seeking short-term accommodations.

One victim from Israel had arranged for Zeng to pick her up at Changi Airport, but he never appeared and failed to provide her with any rental space or a refund upon her arrival.

When it came time for most victims to move into their supposed units, Zeng would fabricate excuses, often citing that the outgoing tenant had contracted COVID-19. These falsehoods left many victims in a state of uncertainty and led to financial losses, with one victim even having to book a hotel stay as a result.

Multiple police reports were filed against Zeng, leading to his initial arrest in February 2022. However, after being released on station bail that same day, he continued to defraud others.

He was arrested again five months later, charged in court, and yet again resumed his illegal activities upon being released on court bail.

Finally, in October 2022, his bail was revoked, and he has been in remand since.

WOMAN’S NIECE TOLD HER SHE WANTS TO BE A “TROPHY WIFE” LIKE HER

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My niece is 17 so she’s started thinking about her career/university.

Yesterday, the family was asking her if she had decided what she wanted to do with her life. She told them her dream job was the same job as my job.

Everyone automatically assumed she meant she wanted to work in marketing because that’s what I’m currently doing.

My niece said that’s not what she wants to do and she wanted to be a trophy wife.

Admittedly, this is a sore spot for me because a lot of my extended family went from treating me like someone who had worked hard to get where I currently am to a glorified trophy wife the second I got married.

My parents did call her out for what she said but my niece said her dad said that’s what I was.

I got annoyed and I ended up calling my brother-in-law and giving him a piece of my mind, and telling my niece I didn’t think it was a realistic dream for her.

My sister is upset with me for what I said to my niece and claims that her husband was only joking.

Netizen’s comments

  • Let’s face it – your sister is upset because she and her husband got caught bad-mouthing you and are covering their embarrassment by getting mad at you. What they should be doing is apologizing to you for talking about you behind your back.
    As far as what you told your niece and your BIL – it was entirely appropriate. What did you sister expect you to say? That they were correct and what they said was fine?

JOBLESS GUY TIO GAN, GO WORK ALREADY NO TIME FOR GF ALSO TIO GAN

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How do you deal with an overly needy gf?

My GF has been pestering me to be with her or game with her all the time.

We used to go on dates and game often because I was jobless.

But I found a job and she seems to still want to keep up the previous gaming lifestyle.

She keeps pestering me to game with her the entire day, making a big deal out of it if i say i am busy.

I had to resort to telling her a white lie that I am busy at work sometimes, just to catch a breather.

To put things in perspective, it is something along the line of gaming before work, gaming during my work breaks, gaming after my work till late at night, gaming the entire day during weekends, gaming with her when she is bored at her relative’s home.

She has depression, and the jobs she was in did not last long, and she is mostly a stay home person, I already do all her chores, go to work to support our living and now i am also expected to entertain her the entire day?

To make it worst, she even invaded my personal gaming space by joining my 5-man team with my kakis, thanks to that, we had to exclude one of us so that she can join my games, even had my bro bitching to me that she is causing our ranking to drop because of her low skill level. I did not tell her this because I do not want to create drama.

What do I do? Sometimes she even resort to coming over to my place during my work at home just to squeeze out every last drop of time i have left, or straight up ask me to game with her when i am offline from the meetings etc

Here are what netizens think:

  • Establish boundaries. Tell her your availability and stick to it. Don’t allow unauthorised home visits and don’t eject your teammate because of her. Manage and talk.Most importantly, it was mentioned in passing but it could be the real problem: you said she had depression. it might be worth encouraging her to see a psychiatrist as that could be the root of some of the issues
  • Do you think the world has only one girl to be your girlfriend? Even if so, you don’t need this girl in your life. Take care.
  • Mobile legend is it? Or pubg? She have to find a job n cut gaming time. If she dont want to then u both are on different path. Talk to her

GANG MEMBERS, PIAK PIAK PILLS, LUPSUP MASSAGE, ALL KENA CAUGHT IN POLICE RAID @ GEYLANG

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50 PERSONS INVESTIGATED IN MULTI-AGENCY ENFORCEMENT OPERATIONS

A total of 47 men and three women, aged between 21 and 73, are being investigated for various offences, following multi-agency enforcement operations conducted between 29 September 2023 and 9 October 2023.

The operations were led by Bedok Police Division and supported by officers from the Criminal Investigation Department, Central Narcotics Bureau (CNB), Health Sciences Authority (HSA), Immigration & Checkpoints Authority (ICA), Singapore Customs, Land Transport Authority (LTA) and Singapore Food Agency (SFA).

The operations aimed to clamp down on illegal activities in Geylang, including illegal gambling, vice activities, sale of illegal enhancement medication and illegal hawking, and to share crime advisories on how residents could protect themselves and their loved ones from falling victim to crime.

Investigations are ongoing against the 50 persons arrested during the series of enforcement operations listed below:

  1. In a joint enforcement operation against illegal gambling on 29 September 2023, officers from Bedok Police Division and ICA raided a unit in an industrial building along Sims Ave. A total of 24 men and one woman, aged between 27 and 73, are being investigated for offences under the Gambling Control Act 2022. Cash amounting to more than $4000 and various gambling-related paraphernalia were seized. Under Section 20(2) of the Gambling Control Act 2022, an individual who gambles with another person in or from any place or premises in Singapore and knows, or ought reasonably to have known, that the place or premises is an unlawful gambling place shall be guilty of an offence and be liable on conviction to a fine of up to $10,000 or imprisonment of up to six months or both. Under Section 18(3)(a) of the Gambling Control Act 2022, an individual who conducts betting operations, gaming or lotteries unlawfully, shall be guilty of an offence and be liable on conviction to a fine of up to $200,000 and imprisonment of up to five years.
  2. In a series of joint enforcement operations involving officers from HSA, ICA and CNB along Lorong 20 and Lorong 22 Geylang that were conducted between 3 October 2023 and 5 October 2023, unregistered health products consisting of cough syrup and various enhancement medicines with an estimated value of more than $11,000 were seized. Two men, aged 29 and 38, are being investigated under the Health Products Act 2007. Those found guilty of importing, manufacturing and/or supplying unregistered health products, may be liable to an imprisonment term for up to two years and/or fined up to $50,000.
  3. Officers from Bedok Police Division conducted an enforcement operation against one massage establishment located along Geylang Road on 4 October 2023. A 48-year-old woman was arrested for a vice-related offence under the Women’s Charter 1961. Another 67-year-old woman is being investigated for offences under the Massage Establishments Act 2017.
  4. On 6 October 2023, Officers from LTA conducted an enforcement operation in the vicinity of Geylang, targeting illegally modified Personal Mobility Devices (PMDs) and Power Assisted Bicycles (PABs). Eight men and one woman, aged between 24 and 67, are being investigated for various offences under the Active Mobility Act 2017. Two PABs were also impounded during the operation.
  5. On 7 October 2023, officers from the Criminal Investigation Department and Bedok Police Division conducted checks at public entertainment outlets located along Geylang Road and Geylang Lorongs. Two men, aged 23 and 38, were arrested under Section 14(3) of the Societies Act 1966. Under Section 14(3) of the Societies Act 1966, any person who is or acts as a member of an unlawful society, shall be guilty of an offence and shall be liable on conviction to a fine not exceeding $5,000 or to imprisonment for a term not exceeding three years or to both.
  6. On 9 October 2023, officers from the Singapore Customs conducted enforcement against duty-unpaid cigarettes. Ten men, aged between 21 and 55, were issued with composition sums and advisories under the Customs Act 1960 for possessing duty-unpaid cigarettes. A total of 16 packets and 72 sticks of duty-unpaid cigarettes were seized as part of the operation. Buying, selling, conveying, delivering, storing, keeping, possessing, or dealing with duty-unpaid goods are serious offences under the Customs Act 1960 and the Goods and Services Tax (GST) Act 1993. Offenders can be fined up to 40 times the amount of duty and GST evaded and/or jailed for up to six years.

Officers from Geylang Neighbourhood Police Centre also shared crime prevention advisories with residents staying in the vicinity of Lorong 8, Lorong 14 and Lorong 16 Geylang to remind Members of the Public not to leave their belongings unattended and to always keep their valuables locked in a safe or locker.

Commanding Officer of Geylang Neighbourhood Police Centre, Superintendent of Police Muhammad Firdaus Bin Abdul Raub expressed his appreciation to all the agencies involved for their strong support and commended the officers for their professionalism and excellent teamwork during the operation. He said “The Police will continue to work closely with other enforcement agencies to clamp down on illegal activities, strengthen community ties and keep our neighbourhood safe and secure. The Police take a zero-tolerance approach towards illegal activities and will take firm action against those who blatantly disregard the law. Members of the public are advised to report those engaging in unlawful activities to the Police.”

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
23 October 2023 @ 11:00 AM

GIRL TELL SINGLE PEOPLE NOT TO GIVE UP, “THE MAN U WANT IS OUT THERE SOMEWHERE”

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Been on 3 dates with this man and there’s something very charismatic about him that I can’t describe. He reminded me of the pure, sweet first love I had experienced and ended a couple of years ago with my first love amicably. Since then, I haven’t been able to move on as I always knew he was the one for me, and I thought we could build an amazing life together but circumstances chose to tear us apart.

Recently I heard from a mutual friend that he is expecting to be a father soon. It’s a bittersweet feeling as that could potentially be “us,” but I guess life has its way of teasing you, which is inevitable to bring you to the ultimate one. Despite that, I am happy for him from the bottom of my heart. Being single all these years has made me prioritise and be selective with how I spend my time and who I spend it with, as I enjoy alone time and away from the dramas and negativity.

Going back to him, I felt like he let me see a glimpse of light to the end of the tunnel. You know how when you meet someone for the first time and go, “oh this person does have a purpose in life and doesn’t waste time on things he don’t enjoy or sees value in?” I guess that summarises my encounter with him. I also learned that he’s sporty and humorous, yet chill (lives in the moment vibe). He might be the missing piece I need in my life. Perhaps it could help that our family is acquainted, which makes me feel that extra connection in this relationship.

I am already looking forward to the next date, and also, shoutout to the singles out there: don’t give up. I am sure someday you will meet someone who makes you feel that special connection tho atm I am not sure where this is heading, but I am getting a good feeling out of this.