A man shared a story online claiming that he has an ‘almighty anoconda’ which make her ex coming for more.
Here is the story:
I want to share this story about my ex who is cheating with me. Although she is my ex she is still coming back for more of my Anaconda special.
We break up over 6 months already and she has a new boyfriend, it is so obvious that she is in a new relationship but still keeps looking for me. Her new bf’s photo is already on Instagram.
I am a gentleman and therefore I kept quiet of what she is doing and there is no benefit to me for exposing her, But I thought it will be fun to leave an anonymous post.
Every other week, she will call me and said that she wants to come to my house to chat, but the fact is we are not chatting. Our mouths were totally doing something else nothing close to chatting or eating. Or maybe something equivalent to eating. teehee.
So after months has gone by, I asked her why is she still coming back to my home, she said “well we are friends right”. I said, “yes, is your new bf ok with it? and we are having s** even though we are just friends”.
Her responds was:
“He does not need to know, I still enjoy doing it with you as it is more filling”
A man shared his story on how his wife has been constantly pushing him to start a business online but ends up she spends his capital.
Here is the story:
I have been working hard for the last 15 years but it seems like it is never enough to satisfy the desires of my wife.
She wants to retire before 50 and wants me to work twice as much and save more money. Recently, she has been asking me to start a business website to earn from online selling some cheap stuff from China.
I approached a few web designers and they said that to start such a business website will cost between $3,000 to $5,000. They start telling me stuff about Paypal business etc.
I was not ready and did not make much research yet, I also heard that doing digital marketing or social media marketing could help me with the business but all of this takes a lot of money.
My wife suggested me to get a business loan from banks and I manage to secure a five digit loan.
But guess what, the moment my wife saw my bank account she started to ask me to bring her to MBS to shop, macham I take loan for her to shopping.
Still say want to retire early but end up all is bull. I really want to do business with the money but her recent behaviour has always been excuses like “aiya spend a bit wont die”.
I don’t want end up getting into more debts because of the loan and not making any money in the business.
Should I quickly return all the money to the bank and stop doing this business?
Been with my Hubby from r/s to marriage for 10 years with kids and yes after many years of r/s, it can be leading a simple life of just taking care of kids, family and working.
I’m standing in a POV in an open-minded state. So my hub started off to be very close with a few female colleagues. They watsapp and even talk alot in work messengers. Initially, it was annoying and insecure that I started to have this thinking if he’s going to stray or had the intention to do so but however, he was devoted to the family and still caring about me despite him talking alot to his female colleague.
I then come to a few point of time, started to engage to one of a mummy friend n we talk everyday. We also talk about sensitive things like when how to make babies happily and our daily life encounters. Are we flirting? we are females and imagine, I talk to a guy like this! Then at another point of time, I had common thinking with a guy colleague on work culture and we decided to leave the company. Even after we left, we still talk to each other every other days. He’s interested in TCM and we even shared which acupuncture points can be good to increase s*xual drive after birth. I even know he had s*x while wfh. In texts, it can sound like flirting but in fact, it is actually a way to rant or finding balance in life so when we face work or family, we don’t feel so destress.
I don’t have hobby like gardening or sewing so, my only hobby i got is to talk to people and in this pandemic, we hardly meet people. If you spouse has the intention to cheat, here are some hints to lookout for
1. does your spouse want to meet the person who is close with?
2. does your spouse neglect you and your kids/family?
3. does your spouse typed in text that he/she has feelings for the colleague?
if yes to all the above , be prepared for the worst. if not, just leave it as everyone has their own ways to destress nn finding someone they comfort with to talk to. not just circulating around you. i’m just sharing my POV. no bashing pls.
I dated this Swedish Chinese but she was forced by the coronavirus to go back to her country. We keep in touch and I miss her dearly.
With more time on my hands i have experimented with chatting up local girls online, purely to pass time & to understand our society sociologically.
I count myself lucky to have an international gf instead of a local one. Where our local ladies are petty, shallow, superficial, arrogant, snobbish, gossipy, childish, greedy, international women are mature, worldly, sensible, deep & interesting cultured thinkers. Esp European women.
Mention luxury brands like prada or miumiu and local girls will think bags, shoes, orchard road boutiques, factory outlets in italy or france. My gf will think labour exploitation, crass consumerism, climate change, animal cruelty, inequality & what the world can do to address these. See the difference? Try to engage a local girl on these issues and she either gives a blank look or an ignorant “haha, lol”
I feel quite ashamed of our country. From Third World mudland to one of the richest nations in the world in one generation, yet our minds and souls are so narrow and empty. We often laugh at our neighbors, but in terms of character, our local women cannot even match up to Malaysian Chinese.
I’m glad i made my choice. Investing my heart, time and energy on someone richer than local women in every way. She never stops teaching me how to think, explore and experience life differently. I learn more from her in 6 months than in all those years with local women.
Met with some colleagues also from Uni, and we came back to the club house as 1 of them had membership… wanted to avoid going but took in good faith
Memories of pain floods my mind while we were there chilling…
Close to 2 decades ago from BA – graduated with just a Degree…
From the very beginning made attempts to get financial assistance and not right off school loans from Banks as we all know how those interest kills us later on in life.
Was a Tanglin Halt HDB 2 rm mixed flat kid… with lower tiered income family background and the parents slogging daily 6.5 days week to make ends meet.
Coincidence of parents making slightly more with (OT) Overtime (couple of hundreds more not even 1 grand extra in combine cpf) at point of Application, thus surpassing the poor income tier bracket.
It was gruelling and hard, working and studying trying my best to get through. It was tough, so tough that a bank loan (unsecured) was applied on yr 3 to ease the split of time between part time works and school.
Has things changed and became more flexible or humane?
How is irregular extra OT pay a path to rejection when the actual with a company letter proves otherwise?
How is OTing to give more for the family a wrong?
Is it so difficult for a student needing help to be rendered with in a case by case basis?
Has things changed for the better?
Here are what netizens think:
I empathise with the OP. Busting backs to gather numerous supporting docs, jumping through different hoops by multiple aid sources and get declined on seemingly arbitrary requirements. Only those who had to go through this again and again know how dehumanising the process is. Not sure if things are better today, just hopefully there are even more sources (hoops) available
I dun get wat you’re trying to lament abt? Things not changing in your old alma mater? Or you’re comparing your old self with the new? Or comparing yourself to your old schoolmates and having a little bit of self-pity?
A degree 2 decades ago would have been much more valued and high paying. Things don’t change in the sense that success never comes easy.
I have been unemployed for the longest time and it kinda eats into me and draining my energy and self-confidence . I feel like nobody value my skillsets and i cant get a job that pays on par with my peers, even fresh grads. I used to earn 3k/mth now i have 0/mth . It sucks ! Feeling broke sucks! Going to supermarket buy meat also need to think twice, thrice, or more . I went to see a psychologist awhile back but it got too ex to keep up.
Sorry, more of a rant than asking for any advice. I get so psychological imbalance when i see anonymous posts here stating about their income level, some post gives bg context with their partner and their income. It seems everyone is doing so well and still not satisfied, there are people who just want a job that gives a stable income !
Here are what netizens think:
Why not start with some part time work? Many many years ago when i was in between jobs, i took on a part time project role. They were impressed with my performance that they offered me a regional role which i had to turn down due to being stationed overseas. What im saying is open your options la.
it’s ok to vent. The important thing to do after venting is to find practical solutions to your situation now. The first urgent need is to make some money for basic living. Not pick the best paying job or hope your boss appreciate you, you can get to that a little later. The first hurdle you have to overcome is yourself. As long as a job is an honest living one, go try it for the time being. You’ve got this.
Why don’t just work at McDonald’s or something first rather than whine about nobody valuing your skill sets and no money to buy food? Probably another entitled GenZ waiting for the ideal job to drop from heaven.
A 19-year-old male has been sentenced to 18 months of probation on Tuesday after being found in possession of 1,282 explicit images and videos of children. To protect the individual’s identity, as he was only 16 years old at the time of the incident, his name remains undisclosed under the Children and Young Persons Act.
In December 2022, the teenager pleaded guilty to a single charge of possessing illegal explicit materials. The prosecution emphasized that the individual was fully aware that his actions constituted a criminal offense. Despite his age at the time of the offense, the court held him accountable for his actions and proceeded with the legal process.
As part of the probation terms, the individual is required to adhere to a curfew from 10 pm to 6 am daily. Additionally, he must engage in 100 hours of community service and attend counseling sessions specifically addressing the offense he committed. These measures aim to promote rehabilitation and prevent future offenses.
To ensure the individual’s compliance with the probation terms, his stepfather has been required to provide a bond of $5,000. This financial commitment serves as a guarantee that the probationary conditions will be followed diligently.
Background
The individual’s involvement in the possession of explicit materials dates back to September 2019 when he downloaded a messaging platform called Kik out of boredom. It was through this platform that he initiated contact with an unknown user who introduced him to adult content involving minors.
The raid conducted by Singaporean law enforcement was prompted by information received from Interpol Ottawa in Canada. Interpol Ottawa had identified a local IP address associated with the distribution of obscene materials involving children.
After establishing contact with the unknown user on Kik, the individual received a link and instructions for downloading explicit material. Subsequently, he downloaded multiple videos and images, including those featuring children. At some point, he shared one of the obscene images with another Kik user, resulting in his suspension from the platform.
In response, he promptly uninstalled the application from his phone out of fear but failed to delete the downloaded material.
During a raid conducted by law enforcement officers on April 29, 2020, at the individual’s residence, incriminating material was discovered on his mobile phone.
A teacher in Singapore has been sentenced to 10 months and two weeks in jail after being found guilty of capturing upskirt videos. The incidents took place between 2015 and 2018 and involved at least 47 victims, including both colleagues and students.
The individual, a 50-year-old father of three who was formerly a discipline master, cannot be named due to a gag order protecting the victims’ identities.
During the court proceedings on Tuesday, District Judge Brenda Tan took note of a report by Dr. Stephen Phang from the Institute of Mental Health, which indicated that the teacher was suffering from major depressive disorder at the time of the offences.
Although the teacher was deemed suitable for a mandatory treatment order, Dr. Phang concluded that he still had the capacity to choose not to commit the acts. Consequently, Judge Tan determined that the teacher’s mental condition carried little weight in terms of mitigation and sentenced him to a period of imprisonment.
Following the sentencing, the teacher’s defense lawyer, Laurence Goh, announced the intention to appeal the verdict. Bail was set at $15,000.
Under the law, each count of insulting a woman’s modesty can lead to a maximum sentence of one year in jail and a fine.
The case came to light when one of the victims, a female teacher, became suspicious and reported her concerns to the police on July 14, 2018. The Ministry of Education confirmed that the teacher had been suspended from service since that date and is no longer employed at any school.
During the investigation, it was discovered that the teacher had filmed multiple upskirt videos of his colleagues, targeting at least 38 individuals between April 2015 and July 2018. He would discreetly place his mobile phone beneath a colleague’s skirt while they were at his workstation for data entry tasks, recording videos without their knowledge or consent.
Additionally, the teacher filmed multiple upskirt videos of several students using the same method. The prosecutor emphasized that at least seven of the victims were underage students who were particularly vulnerable due to their young age and the trust placed in the school and its staff.
In a separate incident, the teacher used his mobile phone to record two upskirt videos of a male student who had been caught for the same offense. He claimed that it was done to gather evidence but transferred the videos to a personal hard disk for his own collection.
He also committed similar offences in other locations, including his mother-in-law’s home, where he targeted a female relative back in February 2017 as well.
The incident unfolded on June 9, 2023, at approximately 2:18 p.m. when authorities received an alert about a theft at a pawnshop located on Indus Road.
According to reports, the suspect entered the establishment and expressed interest in seeing a gold chain and a gold bracelet, which together had an estimated value of $11,550.
However, in a shocking turn of events, the man allegedly absconded with the items once they were handed over to him.
Taking immediate action, officers from the Tanglin Police Division launched an extensive investigation, conducting thorough ground inquiries and utilizing images from Police cameras and CCTV footage, which quickly led to the identification of the suspect, enabling them to make an arrest within a eight hours of the initial report. The apprehension took place in the vicinity of Orchard Road.
During the arrest, law enforcement authorities were able to recover approximately $8,655 in cash, along with a gold bracelet. Additionally, a mobile phone and the suspect’s clothing worn during the alleged offense were seized as crucial pieces of evidence in the case.
The 31-year-old suspect is expected to be charged in court on June 10, 2023, with the offense of theft in dwelling, as stipulated under Section 380 of the Penal Code 1871. If convicted, he could face a maximum prison sentence of up to seven years, in addition to a fine.
Singapore Police’s press release
The Police have arrested a 31-year-old man for his suspected involvement in a case of theft in dwelling.
On 9 June 2023 at about 2.18pm, the Police were alerted to a case of theft at Indus Road. The man visited a pawnshop and requested to see a gold chain and a gold bracelet worth a total of $11,550. When the man was handed over the gold chain and the gold bracelet, he allegedly fled from the pawnshop.
Through extensive ground enquiries and with the aid of images from Police cameras and CCTV footages, officers from Tanglin Police Division established the identity of the man and arrested him in the vicinity of Orchard Road within eight hours of the report.
Cash amounting to about $8655 and a gold bracelet were recovered. A handphone and his apparels used during the alleged offence were also seized as case exhibits.
The man will be charged in court on 10 June 2023 with the offence of theft in dwelling under Section 380 of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years and a fine.
In a tragic incident at Changi Naval Base, a Singapore Armed Forces (SAF) regular serviceman was discovered dead on June 12, 2023, at approximately 0850hrs. The Singapore Police Force and the Singapore Civil Defence Force swiftly responded to the incident.
Preliminary investigations conducted by the authorities have not revealed any signs of foul play. As a result, the case has been categorized as an unnatural death, and a thorough investigation is currently in progress.
The Ministry of Defence (MINDEF) and the SAF express their deepest condolences to the family of the late serviceman during this difficult time. They have assured the family that they will provide all necessary support and assistance in coping with their grief.
MINDEF’s press release
A Singapore Armed Forces (SAF) regular serviceman was found dead at Changi Naval Base on 12 Jun 2023 at about 0850hrs. The Singapore Police Force and the Singapore Civil Defence Force were activated.
Based on preliminary investigations, the Police do not suspect foul play. They have classified the case as an unnatural death, and investigations are ongoing.
The Ministry of Defence and the SAF extend our deepest condolences to the family of the late serviceman, and are assisting the family in their time of grief.
Other servicemen deaths in the army
A 39-year-old SAF regular serviceman died at Kranji Camp after completing his own physical training back in February 2021.
He reportedly felt unwell after the session and at 0830hrs, he was conveyed to Kranji Camp Medical Centre, and he was then subsequently taken to NUH in an ambulance about 20 minutes later, where he suffered a cardiac arrest on the way.
Resuscitative efforts were immediately made, and the ambulance arrived at NUH at about 0910hrs.
However, the serviceman was pronounced dead at 1058hrs.
Another SAF regular serviceman, aged 47, was found hanging from a rope at the rooftop of Gombak multi-storey carpark on 23 August 2021. The Singapore Police Force and the Singapore Civil Defence Force were activated by the unit. The serviceman was pronounced dead on site at 1339hrs by an SAF medical officer.
Based on the preliminary investigations, the Police do not suspect foul play.
