I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we are both very happy. We’ve been through a lot together and have grown closer and stronger as a couple.

We recently decided to take a trip together and agreed that a visit to Legoland would be the perfect destination. My boyfriend was very excited and began planning the trip, but little did I know, he had something else in mind.

A few days before we were supposed to leave, my boyfriend told me that he had a surprise for me. I was beyond excited and couldn’t wait to find out what it was. To my surprise, he had bought me a one-way single ticket to Legoland. I was shocked, and a little bit confused, but I thought it was a really sweet gesture.

However, my boyfriend then explained that he had bought himself a one-way single ticket to Japan and was planning to go without me. I was completely taken aback. I couldn’t believe that he would do something like this without discussing it with me first.

When I asked him why he was going to Japan without me, he told me that he wanted to surprise me and show me how much he loved me by giving me the opportunity to experience something new and exciting.

He said that he didn’t like Legoland, and he would go to Japan instead.

At first, I was hurt and angry. I felt like he was taking advantage of my trust and our relationship. I felt like he was trying to manipulate me into doing something I didn’t want to do.

This was his way of telling me to break up

He said that I did not consider his feelings and always insist on going or eating what I want and he never had a chance to object or suggest.

He said that I will always find problems and start quarrelling with him if he disagrees with anything.

Am I really such a B**?

I dono what to do…

How do y’all cope?

Broke up with a guy I’ve been seeing for a year and a half hrecently because we seem to bring out the worst in each other and have major unresolvable issues- quarrelling every week over silly lame things, calling it quits at least once a month and attempting to go thru with it, not being understanding to each other’s wants and needs, and jus overall, a bad fit due to circumstances.

Can’t believe this tiring situation actually went on for so long.

Not sure abt him but… Despite evaluating everything and knowing that this is the right choice to make, the feeling I have for him is still real and it still hurts a crazy lot.

I know we shouldn’t be together and a part of me shudder at the thought of having to go thru all these again but I can’t seem to let it go and this feeling really sucks big time. Feels like a mental torture.

I know it’s standard relationship fanfare and many have gone thru this phase but…

Any suggestions on healthy ways to move forward from here?

Here are what netizens think:

• You are trying to forget something by focusing on it , won’t work well that way. Go n do something else you enjoy to keep yourself occupied:)

• That’s call life lessons. Not everyone who enters your life is going to stick around or meet your expectations. The sooner you realize it, the easier your life will be.

• Focus on yourself. Pick up a healthy hobby. Talk to someone that’s reliable. If not, just write things down in diary. Go out and walk around in nature, beach side or just nearby park. Things can be tough, but with time, eventually everything will pass by.

• It’s good that you realised that it’s bad and worse to continue. And having the courage to cut it off now is probably the best decision you ever made in your life. Go out there, meet new friends, talk to people, go do activities that you’ve never done before… Catch up with friends, enjoy singlehood! Applause to you babe !

• think hard….if he is a pain ..would you go back to the pain? just go out and enjoy yourself..mixed with more people..love self more, improve on self…learn to sing..learn to bake ect… there are so many things to do besides “love” really…walk towards pleasure in life

• This kind of stuff time is the only cure, plus keep yourself occupied with your hobby.

After years of dating, my boyfriend decided to break up with me. I thought I had finally found the love of my life, only to be left with a broken heart.

He say he cannot afford to pay for five to six meals a day for me

The reason he gave was that it was too expensive to feed me. I have always been a big eater, and I eat five or six meals a day. I never thought eating this much would be a problem in our relationship, but apparently it was.

I was so embarrassed and angry at myself. I should have been more aware of his feelings and his budget. I had no idea he was struggling to keep up with my eating habits. I felt so guilty that I was the cause of our break up.

I tried to talk to him about it, but he was so adamant about not wanting to get back together. He said he couldn’t afford it and he felt like I was taking advantage of him. He said he’d rather be alone than have to worry about feeding me all the time.

I was so devastated, I couldn’t help but cry. I felt like my entire world was crumbling around me. I knew I had to find a way to make it work, or else I’d be alone forever.

After a few days, I decided to make a change in my life. I knew I wouldn’t be able to change my boyfriend’s mind, so I decided to change my eating habits. I started eating smaller meals, but more often. I also started going to the gym and eating healthier.

I was determined to show him that I could make it work. I wanted to prove to him that I could take care of myself and that I didn’t need him to take care of me.

Unfortunately, it was too late. He had already moved on, and I had no chance of getting him back. I was devastated and felt like my life had been turned upside down.

I thought that if I could just make myself more attractive, he would come back to me. I was wrong. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t get him back.

It’s been months since we broke up, and I still think about him every day. I still feel the pain of his departure, and I know I’ll never be able to forget him.

I never thought I would be the kind of man who would be cheated on by his wife.

We had been married for over a decade, and I thought we were happy. But one day, everything changed.

I was at work, scrolling through my phone when I saw a notification from my wife’s Instagram account. It was a picture of her with another man, smiling and looking happy.

I couldn’t believe what I was seeing.

I called her right away, demanding to know what was going on. She didn’t deny it – she told me that she was cheating on me because I was balding. She said that she needed a man who was more attractive and virile, and that I just wasn’t cutting it anymore.

I was devastated. I couldn’t believe that the woman I loved and had built a life with would be so shallow and cruel. But there was nothing I could do – she had already moved on, and I was left to pick up the pieces of my shattered life.

I started to spiral. I stopped going to work, stopped taking care of myself, and started drinking heavily. I couldn’t believe that my wife could do this to me, and I didn’t know how to move on.

But eventually, I realized that I needed to start taking care of myself again. I started going to therapy, and eventually started rebuilding my life. I met new people, made new friends, and started to feel like myself again.

It wasn’t easy, and there were still days when I missed my wife and wondered what went wrong. But I knew that I deserved better than someone who would cheat on me because of something as superficial as my hair.

I learned to love myself again, and eventually, I met someone who loved me for who I was, a balding head and all.

And I knew that I was finally moving on from the pain and betrayal of my past.

never thought that my relationship would come to this. I always believed that my girlfriend and I were perfect for each other, but I guess I was wrong.

It all started when I asked her to give me bj. I know that might sound like a strange request, but we had been together for a while and I thought it was time to take our intimacy to the next level.

But instead of saying yes, she said no.

At first, I was shocked. I couldn’t believe that she would refuse me something that I wanted so badly. But as the days went by, I started to get more and more upset. I tried to talk to her about it, but she just brushed me off and said that she didn’t want to do it.

I couldn’t take it anymore.

I felt like she was denying me something that I deserved, and I started to resent her for it. I started to look elsewhere for the satisfaction that I craved.

I started browsing online, looking for someone who would be willing to give me what I wanted. It didn’t take long for me to find what I was looking for. There were countless websites, apps and forums where people were offering to meet for “fun”.

I took the plunge and reached out to a few of them. I was nervous at first, but I quickly realized that this was exactly what I needed. I met up with a couple of different women, and they were more than happy to give me the thing that I had been craving.

I couldn’t believe how good it felt. I had never felt so alive, so desired. I felt like I was on top of the world.

But as the weeks went by, I started to feel guilty. I knew that what I was doing was wrong, but I couldn’t stop myself. I was addicted to the feeling of being wanted, of being satisfied.

Eventually, my girlfriend found out. She was furious, and she broke up with me on the spot. I was devastated, but I knew that I had only myself to blame. I had betrayed her trust, and I had hurt her deeply.

I tried to win her back, but it was no use. She was done with me, and she didn’t want anything to do with me anymore.

I was alone, and I was miserable. I had lost the only person who had ever truly mattered to me, and it was all because I couldn’t control my own desires.

But as time went on, I realized that I had to move on. I had to find a way to be happy without her, to satisfy my own needs in a healthy and respectful way.

I can’t believe what I had found out recently. My girlfriend had been lying to me for months, using the excuse of ‘meeting her insurance agent’ as a cover for her cheating.

I had been suspicious for a while, but I never imagined the full extent of her infidelity. It all started when she insisted on meeting her insurance agent despite not needing to buy anything.

At first, I thought it was strange. Why would she need to meet with an insurance agent if she wasn’t buying anything? She assured me it was just a routine checkup, so I let it slide. Little did I know, she was using this as an excuse to meet with her lover.

Fast forward a few months, and I had started to notice some strange behavior. My girlfriend was going out more often, and always made sure to tell me she was ‘meeting her insurance agent’. I began to suspect something was amiss, but I had no idea of her true intentions.

One day, I decided to follow her. I trailed her to a cafe where she was meeting with a handsome man. I was shocked to find out he was not her insurance agent. I knew I had been lied to.

This was the final straw. I confronted her, and she finally admitted that she had been cheating on me. She said she had been seeing the same “insurance agent” for months, and that she used meeting him as an excuse to spend time with him.

I was devastated. It had been months of lies and deceit, and I had no idea how long she had been planning it. I couldn’t believe she had used something so mundane as an excuse to cover her tracks.

Who meets their insurance agent so often? It’s not a normal thing to do, so it’s obvious that she had something to hide. I can’t believe I never saw it coming.

I was so hurt and angry, but in the end, I just had to accept that it was over. It’s hard to trust someone again after something like this, but I’m trying to move on. I’m learning to forgive, but I’ll never forget.