Everytime I quarrel with my wife, she always threatens to chop off my kukubird.

I know it’s just angry talk but when she always says it, it really gets to me you know.

Some more nowadays news always got report those women ki siao go and cut off their boyfriends’ bird, how do I know whether she say only or she really will one day go and do it?

I told her so many times to not say this kind of things cos it makes me very uncomfortable but she still always say.

Sometimes when she want to disturb me, she will even purposely anyhow chop those cucumber and carrots in front of me.

I can’t even get angry at her cos we will quarrel and I scared she will really do it. Ladies out there, can you pls don’t do this to your husbands and boyfriends?

Respect leh. t’s really not funny.

Here are what netizens think:

• Maybe bcoz you are flirty to others too. Coz if not why should say that. Hahaha.

• Simple! Use the same tactics by saying will sew up her cb! Then start sewing in front of her! Haha

• If I u I dump her straight, this kind of thing people think funny. If roles were reverse people will start calling u abusive and a violent husband

• Do the same to her lah, next time she make u angry you say you going stab a knife up her chao chee bye and twist it.

Today was the last day I had to fire my maid. Although I had been suspecting something was amiss for a few days now, I was still shaken when I walked in on her in my wife’s clothes.

It all started last week when I started to notice that some of my wife’s clothes were missing. I thought she had just misplaced them, but when I asked her, she said she hadn’t seen them. I got suspicious, and so I decided to hide a spare key in the house and install hidden cameras around the house.

The next day, I came home early and went straight to the living room. As I walked in, I saw my maid standing there – wearing one of my wife’s favorite dresses! She was also wearing my wife’s shoes and my wife’s expensive Rolex watch. I was completely taken aback and asked her what she was doing.

At first, she tried to deny it, but eventually, she admitted that she had been ‘borrowing’ some of my wife’s clothes and accessories. She said that she had been doing it for a few weeks now and that she was sorry.

I was stunned. I asked her why she had done it, and she said that she had wanted to feel beautiful, like my wife. She said she wanted to look like her and have the same things that my wife has.

I was so angry; I had trusted her and she had betrayed me. I told her that it was unacceptable and that she had to leave the house immediately. She started to cry and begged me to give her a second chance, but I told her that I couldn’t trust her anymore.

I felt terrible for firing her but I knew I had to do it. I also knew that I had to take action to ensure that this never happened again. I changed the locks on the house, and I also installed more cameras around the house.

Although I had to fire my maid, I am glad that I caught her before she did anything worse. I will be more vigilant from now on and make sure that I know exactly who is coming in and out of my house. I will also make sure to keep my wife’s belongings locked away and out of sight.

It’s a shame that I had to fire my maid, but I had no other choice. It’s important to trust those around us, but we must also be vigilant and take action when necessary.

I’m a man who’s sick of hearing the same sob story coming from JB Disco girls.

It seems like every time I turn around, there’s another girl whining about how hard her life is as a poor single mom. It’s like these girls think they’re the only ones who have it hard and that the rest of us don’t understand.

Well, I’m here to tell you that we do understand. We understand that life can be hard, and that being a single mom is one of the toughest jobs in the world.

We also understand that these girls are trying to make something of themselves and provide for their families. But that doesn’t mean that every time we turn around, we should be hearing the same sob story.

I’m a single dad, and I know exactly how hard it can be to raise a family on your own. I also know how hard it can be to find a job in the current economy. But I don’t go around complaining about it all the time. I don’t use my single dad status as an excuse for my failures; instead, I use it as motivation to succeed.

It’s time for the JB Disco girls to stop whining about their sob story and start doing something about it. They need to take control of their lives and make something of themselves. These girls need to stop relying on the government or their friends and family to get by, and instead, take responsibility for their own lives.

It’s time for them to start looking for (and getting!) better jobs, learning new skills, and creating opportunities for themselves. It’s also time for them to stop making excuses and start taking action.

The JB Disco girls need to understand that success is within their grasp, but only if they put in the hard work and determination required to make it happen. No one is going to hand it to them; they’ll have to earn it.

So, to the JB Disco girls out there, I say this: Stop whining about your sob story and start doing something about it. You’re capable of much more than you think you are, and you can achieve great things if you put your mind to it. Stop letting your circumstances define you and start taking control of your life.

You have the power to create the life you’ve always wanted, but it won’t happen unless you take the necessary steps to make it happen. Now is the time to take action and make something of yourself.

A Malaysian man who goes by the name of Eric make his wife go to Singapore to work so that he can be lazy and sleep at home The Malaysian man, Eric, is a dreamer. He loves nothing more than to lay in bed, listen to music, and drift off into a world of sweet dreams.

Unfortunately for his wife, this means she has to take up the slack and make the money to support their lifestyle.

Eric’s wife is a hardworking woman who has always been the breadwinner in the family. She works a demanding job in Singapore, leaving home early in the morning and not returning until late at night. She has always been understanding of Eric’s desire to stay home and relax, but lately, it has become more than a hobby. Now it’s a way of life.

To make matters worse, Eric has become increasingly lazy and unproductive.

He spends his days lounging around the house, not contributing to the family’s income in any way. He’s content to let his wife take care of everything while he enjoys the comfort of his own home.

This isn’t fair to her, who has to take on the burden of supporting their lifestyle. She knows that Eric has the potential to contribute to the household finances, but he chooses not to. This has caused a great deal of tension in their marriage, and it’s taken a toll on his wife’s mental and physical health.

The situation has become so dire that she has decided to take action. She’s made up her mind to leave Malaysia and go to Singapore in search of a better job.

This way, she’ll be able to make enough money to support both of them

At first, Eric was against the idea. He didn’t want his wife to leave Malaysia and take a job in Singapore. He was scared of being left alone in the house, and he didn’t want to be responsible for supporting the family.

But She was determined to go, and eventually Eric relented. He realized that it was the only way to ensure that both he and his wife could continue to live comfortably.

Now, after months of hard work, his wife has finally settled into her new job in Singapore. She’s able to make enough money to support the family, and Eric is able to stay home and relax.

From months it became years. While it’s not ideal for them to be living apart, it is unavoidable as Eric is a useless bum who does nothing but dreams of becoming rich.

The wife eventually cheated on him with another Singaporean man.

TBC…

Nobody is perfect in the world right?

When shits happened, all you need is just one person to save or be there for you right?

I envy some people, they don’t have a family to rely on but at least their friends will be there for them like brother and what we always said Steady.

Basically, i’m in debts, my life in shits and i spoke to my one and only close friend, we grew up together and he is like my brother, closer than my own blood brothers.

I told him my full story when we met up, he seems concerned and worried for me but after the next day, when i texted him and his replies ended up can’t be bothered at all, my heart sank. Deeply, broken as well. My only best friend, brother i left also treated me this way. I always thought that it could be the gf manipulative but.. i got to face the reality.. he change and no longer the same person i knew…

Now, i got chased on my own house, with my evil and heartless mother.

My family long ago is broken, i always felt like i picked from the rubbish bin. My own blood brother can sabo me and whatever mistakes to my mother and my mother only trust him.

If he knew i’ll get chase out, why he cannot just shut up? Knowing my mother’s pattern and how crazy my mum is. Example, people come up find me, he tell my mother. I owe people money, he also tell my mother. Cmon, how old already?

What i ever did wrong i wonder.. my life is a joke.

First of all, context. Family is very well-to-do. Mom doesn’t work (though she has a law degree) but dad ran his own law firm for 30 years, recently retired.

This is an issue with parents not paying for my wedding.

Mom doesn’t get involved in things. Dad has refused to speak to my girlfriend since we started dating and it’s all because my girlfriend is a Chinese-speaking, practicing Taoist from a poor family in Malaysia, and a vegetarian.

My dad is a banana. Doesn’t speak Chinese at all, read law at Cambridge (PSC scholar), freethinker. Doesn’t think I should marry this girl because she has a large low-income family and an even larger low-income extended family and he thinks I am getting myself into a lot of trouble by marrying her. My girlfriend doesn’t know English very well, so she prefers to speak Mandarin with a heavy Malaysian accent. She’s from a small town in Malaysia. She came to Singapore to work but her family are all still back in Kedah. She goes back often. I’ve been there a couple of times.

My girlfriend requested if we could have two banquets, one in Singapore and one for her extended family and friends back in her hometown. My dad told me if I had chosen to marry a middle-class Singapore girl from an English-speaking family he would’ve paid for everything. He would have also bought us a condo and a car. But since I have decided to marry this girl, which to him isn’t a very smart thing to do, he will not pay for anything.

My older brother married his JC sweetheart from Hwa Chong and my dad literally paid for a Fullerton Hotel banquet, an entry level Lexus, and they are in the process of looking for a condo, will also be paid for by my dad. Besides the point.

I don’t have money right now for a wedding, let alone 2. My fiancé said that the wedding in Malaysia is a must, and my parents have to go to Kedah for a bride price negotiation ritual that my dad has categorically refused to participate. Called it idiotic. My mom has also called it “incredibly stupid” and refused to come with me to Malaysia without my dad. My fiancé’s parents said they wouldn’t agree to the marriage if all of these formalities are not done. My fiancé is powerless. She has a rather meek personality.

My fiancé doesn’t want to register our marriage before these formalities are done because she feels she needs her parents’ blessing or else she wouldn’t be able to face her family. Wants me to find a way to convince my parents to participate. My dad has repeatedly used the phrase “third-world bullshit” and I don’t think he’s ever coming around. One way is to convince my mom to do it alone but she’s as much of a banana as my dad is and she also hates tradition.

I feel stuck because my fiancé’s wants her parents’ blessing, her parents will only give us their blessing if my parents participate in the rituals and come to an agreement, but my parents do not agree to my marrying this girl in the first place. Even if this first part is done, I still have no money for a banquet.

Advice?

started a startup, declined an acquisition offer last year and the business is growing. This is not about the startup, this is a tribute to my parents.

When we decided to not get acquired last year at the last minute, we had run out of money. It was a gut decision and we did not have backup options for fundraise. I felt it was right and my parents supported me. My dad said I should not think about anything below $100Mn.

Since we were not profitable and I was hearing NOs from investors, I was worried about how to pay salaries. My parents stepped in and gave me some cash which helped support the team. All this while, they have been paying my living expenses (I stopped taking salary of course). They paid me to fly in the region to meet customers.

I had a dispute with my flatmate and they paid for my rental when he decided to make me pay for renovation etc. upfront. They told me to stand up for myself and not get bullied. They transferred me the money and got one of their friends to bring some cash for me next week to help with living expenses.

My brother is in SF and works for FAANG, so all my groceries and grab are on his card. My parents would not let him pay for my rent etc. and he is free to live his life. He lives in a luxury apartment with a cat and does not have to worry. He can spend all his time and focus on his work.

The thing is that my mom is a housewife and my dad is a salaried employee in a developing country. They already used some of the savings to get me to NUS. I had a full scholarship at NTU but I really wanted to go to NOC, so they let me go to NUS. I never could qualify for NOC (rejected 4 times) and my parents never mentioned it once. My dad stayed with me for 15 days when I first came to Singapore thirteen years ago because I was only 15 and made sure everything was okay.

They supported me in continuing to live out my entrepreneurial dream. I got slightly disillusioned in between and gave some interviews to FAANG and had one very good offer. When I shared this with them, they would just tell me to do what I want. And I could not convince myself to take up a job because it would prevent me from having a shot at being somebody who history remembers.

I did not know earlier but know now that they actually sold off their property and took loans to pay for me. I would never have known had I not chanced upon the opened post on our dining room table while I was home. I have no idea what I did in my last life to deserve such parents. I do not. And I do not know what the future will be. We are profitable and growing now but I still do not take a salary. We have a lead investor etc. and I likely will be able to pay myself a little bit in the coming months.

I am not sure if I will ever be able to repay them. I screwed up so many times in university life and even while doing the startup – slacking off, doing random things like picking up chess, not showing up to meetings on time etc.. They would scold me a little for all of this but would never ever tell me money is a problem. I never had that burden and if I knew about what they have done, I would have taken up a job. My mom always asks me if I am eating and exercising right, never about how much I am spending.

If you see someone trying to be successful on their own, don’t just think of their work or preseverance. The real MVPs might be their parents. They would never get the glory. And they would never ask for something in return. I love my mom and dad so much, and I will still be pulling their leg or not calling them. They would not want me to know and that is how it shall be.