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BF LEADING A SECRET DOUBLE LIFE, GF OF 8 YEARS FOUND OUT SHE’S THE MISTRESS ALL ALONG

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I (21f) found out my bf (28m) is leading a double life with his gf of 8 years (27f)

I’m heartbroken. I don’t even know what to do in this situation. I live with my bf (james for the story) and we have been dating for 6 months.

I know that’s not much time but we were talking for over a year and he told me that he didn’t have a gf because the broke up 2 months before we went on our first date.

Today I woke up with a instagram DM asking if I know James and if he was cheating on his long time gf (27f) .

I live with the man and I was so confused so I pressed on for more information, and it turns out I’m the other woman. I feel disgusting and used, he was perfect and did everything right, now I know it was a facade.

I had proof and I went and confronted him about it and he just looked at me stupid and said he wanted to break up with her sooner but he is scared of her doing something stupid.

They have been sleeping together the entire time. I feel disgusting and I want to vomit. He’s been gone for 3 hours to “talk with her” and I don’t know what to do.

Netizens’ comments

  • He’s probably not “talking with her”, he’s just avoiding dealing with you. What you do is pack his things up and throw it outside, or at most give it to a mutual friend. Never talk to him again. I’m sorry this happened to you.
  • This is awful I’m sorry 🥲 I don’t understand how he was able to live with you without her knowing? Or was she aware he had a new girlfriend and was okay just cheating with him?
  • You tell him to GTFO of your life is what you do. He’s a liar in the biggest way and has put your health at risk. This is a zero tolerance situation. Get him out of your house.
  • You lock the door and don’t let him come back. It’s over with, babes. Know your worth.

NSF SHOWS OFF HOW HE CHAO KENG HIS WAY TO GET THE LEGENDARY PES-F STATUS

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Hi recently i decided to embark on a journey to get the infamous and elusive Pes F award.

This is a post to explain my experience and most importantly: WHY YOU SHOULD NOT GO DOWN THIS ROUTE.

My Story (Cut Short): I walked into IMH and told them I have thoughts of ending my life and my main stressor being NS. They decided to put me on Observation where I would spend 1-2 days according to the doctor in a ward. Due to the crazy amount of people admitting into IMH recently, I was placed in a Forensics Ward as there was not enough space in other wards. In the end I spent a total of 1 week there…..

The ward I was placed in was like a maximum security prison. With fenced up windows and double doors entry which were locked 24/7 unless to get food, water or toilet.

My First Day: After being admitted I felt completely lost and hopeless due to the fact that there was 1: No Phones Allowed 2: Nurses were quick to dismiss you in a conversation 3: No one able to give you any information as only the Doctors know whats up. 4: Calling parents are only allowed on Sundays 5: Parent visits – Sundays as well

I spent the majority of that day walking the length of my room.

My Second Day: The doctor came to visit me at 9am in the morning and asked me if I was feeling better. At this point I was already feeling very sad and gone so I told him I was perfectly fine and happy now and was ready to go back to camp.

The doctor told me I was to stay for another 2 days.

1: Doctors don’t come everyday. 2: They only come at 9am – 11am

My Third Day: The Case manager came to visit me and assessed my situation. Long story short it was just a bunch of false hope and promises that never came through. He promised to speak to my parents on that same day but end up only calling them on a Saturday which was 2 days later for my case.

1: Case Manager has the final say in your discharge 2: The case manager only comes once per week. -.-“

The People: Majority of all the patients in the Forensics Ward were under PIC (Placed In Custody) which also meant that they are there because of an ongoing police investigation or are awaiting trial at court.

The other people are those legit seriously have issues. They would spend the day either staring at the wall or shouting at a wall.

The Nurses and Doctors: Damn fast to ignore or drop a conversation due to the fact that they DONT KNOW ANYTHING.

They are also dealing with people with legitamate issues on a daily basis, so this kind of cloud their judgement about who they should respond to or not.

They treat you like shit.

I would like to add that I did infact met one nurse called Mendell who is really kind to me and spent 30 minutes talking to me about life in the middle of the night.

Closure: If you decide to go down this route to get your Pes F, please reconsider.

It’s a long and confusing path with a lot of false promises and false hopes everyday. You’ll have nothing to do but sit on ur bed and sing or stare at the ceiling waiting for time to pass by.

In the end I got out with a specialist memo and I’m awaiting to pass this letter to my camp MO.

I would NOT EVER go back to IMH to chao geng liao. ITS JUST NOT WORTH IT.

Thanks for reading -^

Netizens’ comments

Bro I seen so many people go IMH none got your issues. Maybe you got skill issue bro, maybe you bring your piece too extreme or you joking here.

Okay lemme rundown real quick what a normal experience is like.

Usually you will get consultation after waiting awhile, if they deem you too unsafe due to self harm. It’s only 1-2 days in ward and if there is any extension your family can broker you out of there.

Most of the doctors are always there, it’s 24/7 A&E FFS. Once they diagnose your issue and all, they will just give you memo and an appointment date for a later more analysis after you sent your memo to your MO.

From there onwards, you seat back and watch as your MO see if you are fit and then go for more counselling with pending downpes/temp status. Once your MA with A&E is done, you get another memo where they have you go for some kind of therapy and checkup and you submit the new memo to MO. Finishing your downpes.

Also Pes F is hard to get, you don’t get Pes F by saying you got mental issue. Usually you go get Pes C/E

Please do not talk about fake news or exaggerate your feelings here, do not scare off people who truly need this service. don’t need to make NS even more worst for those who cannot even.

WOMAN SMEARS POOP ON ROOMMATE CAUSE SHE TOOK TOO LONG IN TOILET, JAILED 2 MONTHS

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A woman in Taiwan attacked her roommate with poop because her roommate took too long inside the toilet, and she ended up pooping inside her pants.

She was sentenced to 59 days imprisonment for her use of “violence”.

What happened?

Taiwan news media ET Today reported that the woman who threw the poop, Huang, lives in a rental apartment with 2 other roommates in Taipei, and they share a toilet.

In March 2021, her roommate Xiao Hua was in the toilet showering at the time; Huang, who had diarrhoea at the time, waited too long and ended up pooping in her underwear.

Angry at her roommate for taking too long, she used her hands to dig out the poop from her underwear and smeared it on Xiao Hua’s head and body, while leaving behind streaks of poop on the toilet floor.

Xiao Hua then reported the incident to their landlord, saying that she can’t believe how she got attacked by poop when she simply wanted to wash her hair.

The landlord then texted Huang about the incident, but Huang then told the landlord that if it happens again, she will wipe the poop on her face.

Huang added that her actions will teach Xiao Hua a lesson that she will never forget.

Xiao Hua then filed a lawsuit against Huang following a chain of events, and Huang was then sentenced to 59 days of imprisonment by the Taiwan Taipei District Court.

Huang then appealed against the sentence but failed, with the High Court maintaining that she had humiliated Xiao Hua with violence.

AUNTIE WHO SUED TOWN COUNCIL FOR $60K AFTER FALLING INTO LONGKANG, LOSES HER CLAIM

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A 71-year-old woman, Chan Chui Yoke who fell into an uncovered drain and subsequently sued the Holland Village – Bukit Panjang Town Council for more than $60,000, citing negligence, has lost her case, according to The Straits Times.

The town council said in its defence that Madam Chan’s fall was the only such accident that they knew of in the past 20 years.

Chan blamed the town council for her fall into an uncovered part of the drain, saying that it was the town council’s fault for not properly cleaning the drain and she couldn’t tell the difference between the drain covers and the dirty drain.

She also alleged that the town council had been negligent by failing to cover the drain or warning residents to not cross the drain.

The town council said that they owed a duty of care to Madam Chan but didn’t breach the duty of care, adding that the drain was not a means of access to the turfed area, and that there were pavements and walkways that the woman could have used instead.

District Judge Teo Guan Kee said in his judgement:

“Having regard to the limited likelihood of a person falling into the uncovered perimeter drain and suffering a significant injury, and balancing that against the consideration that the perimeter drain was left uncovered for a cogent and supportable reason, consistent with a practice commonly adopted by town councils, I am of the view that the defendant did not fall short of the duty of care which it owed to the plaintiff.”

Recap

A 71-year-old elderly resident who lives in Bukit Panjang, is suing the Holland Village – Bukit Panjang Town Council for compensation after falling into an uncovered drain, citing negligence for failing to cover the drain.

She suffered a severe rupture of her left foot ligaments and broke her right middle finger during the unfortunate incident.

The accident took place on 8 February 2021 at Block 276 Bangkit Road at Bukit Panjang, according to Lianhe Zaobao.

She elderly woman was on the ground floor watering her plants that day and was returning home when she fell into the drain that was not covered, resulting in her injuries.

She blamed the town council for failing to ensure the safety of public areas and allegedly sought compensation worth more than $60,000 for her medical and transport fees.

Town Council’s response

The town council has since denied all accusations of negligence, and highlighted the flaws in the elderly woman’s argument.

After the division of the constituency back in 2001 and the TC taking over matters relating to maintenance, some drain covers were removed to facilitate cleaning and to check for breeding mosquitoes.

They added that given the resident’s stay in the area for more than 30 years, she should be familiar with the area.

They added that since the woman was maintaining the illegal plants she had there, she should’ve been aware of the drains.

2 MEN ARRESTED IN RAID @ JURONG EAST CARPARK, 1.6K CARTONS OF ILLEGAL CIGGS SEIZED

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Singapore Customs arrests two men and seizes 1,600 cartons of duty-unpaid cigarettes

Singapore Customs arrested two male Singaporeans, both aged 23, and seized 1,600 cartons of duty-unpaid cigarettes in an operation on 17 February 2023.

Case information

In an operation conducted at a car park in Jurong East Street 24, Singapore Customs officers conducted checks on two men and a van, and uncovered 1,600 cartons of duty-unpaid cigarettes. Both men were arrested.

Investigations revealed that one of the men was allegedly engaged by an unknown person to collect and deliver duty-unpaid cigarettes using the van. He then allegedly engaged the other man to assist him in the collection and delivery of the duty-unpaid cigarettes.

The duty-unpaid cigarettes and the van were seized. The total duty and Goods and Services tax (GST) evaded amounted to about $216,040 and $18,660 respectively. Court proceedings are ongoing against both men.

Buying, selling, conveying, delivering, storing, keeping, possessing or dealing with duty-unpaid goods are serious offences under the Customs Act and the GST Act. Offenders can be fined up to 40 times the amount of duty and GST evaded and/or jailed for up to six years. Vehicles used in the commission of such offences are also liable to be forfeited.

Members of public with information on smuggling activities or evasion of duty or GST can call the Singapore Customs hotline on 1800-2330000 or email [email protected] to report these illegal activities.

Singapore Customs
21 February 2023

53 Y.O MAN ARRESTED FOR MULTIPLE CASES OF STEALING @ CHINATOWN & KAMPUNG BAHRU

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The Singapore Police Force said in a press release that a 53-year-old man was arrested for his alleged involvement in several cases of theft.

He had allegedly stolen from the vicinity of Chinatown and Kampung Bahru between 11 November last year to 14 February this year.

He was later arrested on Monday (22 February) and was charged in court yesterday with theft in dwelling.

Singapore Police Force’s statement

MAN ARRESTED FOR A SERIES OF THEFT CASES

The Police have arrested a 53-year-old man for his suspected involvement in a series of theft cases.

Between 11 November 2022 and 14 February 2023, the Police received multiple reports of purportedly stolen property in the vicinity of Chinatown and Kampung Bahru.

Through follow-up investigations and with the aid of images from Police cameras, officers from Central Police Division established the identity of the man and arrested him on 20 February 2023. The man is believed to be involved in other similar cases of theft.

The man will be charged in Court on 21 February 2023 with theft in dwelling under Section 380 of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term up to seven years and a fine.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
20 February 2023 @ 9:15 PM

64 Y.O UNCLE ARRESTED FOR MOLESTING WOMAN ON ESCALATOR @ RAFFLES PLACE MRT

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64 YEAR OLD MAN ARRESTED FOR OUTRAGE OF MODESTY

The Police have arrested a 64-year-old man for his suspected involvement in a case of outrage of modesty at Raffles Place MRT Station.

On 31 October 2022 at about 12.10pm, the Police were alerted to an incident where a woman was purportedly molested by a man while she was on the escalator at Raffles Place MRT Station. The man was subsequently arrested at the scene by responding police officers.

The man will be charged in court on 21 February 2023 with outrage of modesty, punishable under Sec 354(1) of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term which may extend to three years, or a fine, caning, or any combination of such punishments.

The Police have zero tolerance towards sexual offenders who threaten the safety of the community. Offenders will be dealt with in accordance with the law.

The Police would also like to urge members of the public to remain vigilant and, if they witness an incident of outrage of modesty, or are aware of someone being a victim of outrage of modesty, to report the matter to the Police immediately.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
20 February 2023 @ 4:50 PM

4 PEOPLE CHARGED FOR FORGING S’PORE FOOTBALL CLUBS’ FINANCES & OBSTRUCTING INVESTIGATIONS

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FOUR PERSONS CHARGED FOR OFFENCES RELATING TO OBSTRUCTING INVESTIGATIONS AND FORGING THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS OF TWO FOOTBALL CLUBS

The Commercial Affairs Department (“CAD”) has completed investigations into the police report lodged by SportSG in April 2017 which alleged, amongst others, the misuse of funds by Tiong Bahru Football Club and a purported attempt to obstruct audits of football clubs that did not participate in the S-League in2017. Four individuals, aged between 33 and 50, have been charged on 21 February 2023 for offences relating to obstructing. Police investigations and forging the financial statements of two football clubs.

The details of the charges are as follows:

Kaw Lai Fong
Kaw Lai Fong was the General Manager of Tiong Bahru Football Club and the Treasurer of Woodlands Wellington Football Club at the material time. She has been charged under Section 204A of the Penal Code[1] for obstructing CAD’s investigations by concealing her mobile phone from the CAD and lying about the whereabouts of the said mobile phone.

[1]Chapter 224, 2008 Revised Edition.

Gary Tan Eng Chin and Sng Kian Peng (Sun JianPing)
Gary Tan Eng Chin was the former chairman of Woodlands Wellington Football Club. Both he and Sng Kian Peng (Sun JianPing) are directors of ESW Holdings Pte Ltd. They have both been charged under Section 204A read with Section 109 of the Penal Code, for engaging in a conspiracy to obstruct CAD’s investigations by instructing their staff to replace all the hard disks in their computers, with the intention of preventing CAD from having access to them.

Lau Chee Yoong
Lau Chee Yoong was an audit assistant of audit firm, M/s Chan Leng Leng & Co., who had audited the financial statements of both Woodlands Wellington Football Club and Hougang United Football Club at the material time. He has been charged for two counts under Section 465 of the Penal Code, for forging the financial statements of both football clubs for the financial year that ended in 31 December 2015, by fraudulently affixing the signature of the firm’s sole proprietor, Chan Leng Leng, in the independent auditors’ report of the said financial statements.

The offence of obstructing, preventing, perverting, or defeating course of justice under Section 204A of the Penal Code carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years, a fine, or both. The offence of forgery under Section 465 of the Penal Code carries an imprisonment term of up to four years, a fine, or both.

After careful consideration of the facts and circumstances of the case as disclosed by investigations, and with the concurrence of the Attorney-General’s Chambers, there will be no further action taken against other individuals in respect of the other matters reported in the Police report, which include, the alleged misuse of funds by Tiong Bahru Football Club and the purported attempt to obstruct audits on clubs who did not participate in the S-League in 2017.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
21 February 2023 @ 11:35 AM

9 Y.O GIRL USED PHONE FOR HOURS UNTIL SPINE NO LONGER CURVES NATURALLY

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A 9-year-old girl from Hangzhou, China, reportedly got so addicted to using her phone, that she suffered pains in her neck and numbness in her fingers, and her spine ended up losing its natural curvature.

Shan Shi News reported that the girl, Ming Ming, then went for a medical examination and the doctor was shocked upon seeing the girl’s X-ray scans.

A normal spine has a curvature to it, shaped like the alphabet “C”, but because of Ming Ming’s extensive use of her mobile phone, her spine curved towards the other direction and formed a straight line instead.

The 9-year-old girl’s spine was compared to that of a 50-year-old person’s. and the doctor then found that the girl developed text neck syndrome because of her long hours of mobile phone usage.

She then underwent treatment and her condition later improved.

Doctors warned, after the incident, of the dangers of cervical spondylosis, which affects children’s development physically.

Cervical spondylosis is the wear and tear of the spinal disks in the neck that usually comes with ageing, according to Mayo Clinic.

In severe cases, patients suffer from memory and vision loss, as well as dizziness, and the muscles get tense when looking all the time downwards.

Hypoxia and ischemia are also possibilities, which are low oxygen levels in the body and reduced blood flow, as well as an increase in lactic acid, and all these cause irreversible damage to the neck muscles, muscle atrophy and the degeneration of ligaments.

Doctors advise taking a break every 45 to 60 minutes and getting up and moving around.

MAN SICK OF INSURANCE JOB OFFERS WHO MASKED THEMSELVES AS REGULAR JOBS

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As if searching for a job is still not tough enough..

You have those companies posting on job portals that they’re looking for marketing/events executive roles or like management associates – in the end they turn out to be insurance agencies. Do they understand how irritating they are?

I have a few friends who went down for interviews only to have these insurance agencies telling them “Oh we hired someone for that position. But we have a job opening as a financial advisor/consultant…” Hello? You know you’re wasting our time?

If we wanted to become an insurance agent, we would have applied for those roles. So shout out to everyone who got an interview that try to mask their company name all saying its private and confidential but when they ask you down for interview its at Newton or like Fuji Xerox Tower.. Then you better clarify with them that you’re not interested in a financial consultant role before heading down. Did that a few times and the HR just MIA on me. So I guess my instinct was right. Oh another trick is those companies that ends with “*Insert name here* Organisation” 80% insurance companies.

– From a job seeker that had enough

Here are what netizens think:

  • What about those who try to dangle a big carrot but refuse to reveal more details about the job until you go to their office? Damn annoying also. What’s the MOM guideline about these matters?
  • Agents earn commission from every referral they bring in. So its no surprise that they’ll resort to all sorts of tactics to get money
  • They are just using the financial consultant opportunity as an “insurance” as the position may already be filled.