I’m a guy in my late twenties, and I met this girl at a bar a few weeks ago. We hit it off right away and I could tell she was interested in me. I was tempted to take things further, but I was scared because I’m in a serious relationship with a very smart girl. We’ve been together for a few years, and I’ve been faithful to her the entire time.

But I can’t deny that I was drawn to this woman I met at the bar. She was beautiful, and she made me feel like I was the only person in the room. We talked for hours and I found myself wanting to take her home with me. I knew it was wrong, but I couldn’t shake the feeling.

I kept thinking about what would happen if my girlfriend found out. She’s smart and she knows me better than anyone. She would be able to tell if I had been unfaithful to her. And I don’t think I could handle the guilt if she did find out.

I’ve been trying to avoid this woman since that night, but it’s been difficult. She keeps showing up at the same places I go and it’s like she’s trying to make a move on me. I’ve been trying to be friendly, but I can’t help but feel like I’m leading her on. I’m afraid she’ll mistake my politeness for something more and that would be a disaster.

I know I should just stay away from her and focus on my relationship, but it’s hard. I can’t deny that I’m attracted to her and I want to explore that attraction. But I also don’t want to mess up the relationship I have with my girlfriend. She’s been so good to me and I don’t want to hurt her.

I guess I’m just stuck in this situation and I don’t know what to do. I know I need to stay away from this other woman, but it’s hard when she keeps showing up in my life. I’m scared that if I take things too far, I’ll get caught and my girlfriend will find out.

I’m trying to be strong and resist the temptation, but it’s not easy. I just hope I can stay faithful to my girlfriend and keep this other woman out of my life for good.

I remember the day like it was yesterday. I had just failed my final exams at university and my future felt like it had just imploded.

I felt like I had no hope and no idea how I was going to make it in life. I had no job prospects, no money, and no idea what to do and everyone around me is looked down at me.

But, despite my despair, I had one thing going for me – the determination to make something of my life and the belief that I could make it. I was determined to prove that it didn’t matter what degree you had or what school you went to – if you had the right drive and determination, you could do anything.

And so I set out on my journey. I applied for every job I could find, from retail to hospitality to office jobs. I was willing to take whatever I could get, and eventually, I found a job in a call centre.

It wasn’t glamorous, but it was a job and it paid the bills.

But I didn’t stop there.

I was determined to do more. I kept applying for jobs, and eventually, I found a job in the finance sector. Now, I was working in a job I was passionate about, and I was able to use my knowledge and experience to make a real difference.

I eventually started my own business and used what I learned in the finance sector to slowly build my passive income,

I stumbled across a great investment opportunity – buying a condo. I knew that real estate was a great investment, and I decided to take a chance. I bought my first condo, and from there I kept investing. Before I knew it, I had three condos and was managing them as a real estate investor.

Now, I am able to support myself and my family with the money I make from managing my real estate investments. I can stay home with my family and take care of my children. I don’t have to worry about a degree or a job, because I have the freedom to work on my own terms.

I am now living proof that you don’t need a degree to succeed in life. I may have failed university, but I haven’t failed at life. People often make the mistake of thinking that a degree is the only way to success, but that’s simply not true. There are plenty of other paths to success, and if you have the right drive and determination, you can make it.

I believe that a degree is important if you’re looking to work in a corporate job, but if that’s not your path, you don’t need one. Life is full of opportunities, and you just have to be willing to take a chance. You never know what’s around the corner, so keep an open mind and you could end up in a totally different place.

So, if you’re feeling lost and don’t know what to do, don’t worry. There’s hope and you can still make it. Take it from someone who knows – I failed university, but now I own three condos. Don’t let anyone tell you that you need a degree unless you’re working as a corporate slave. You can make it, no matter what.

It all started when I was 15 years old. I was standing in front of the mirror, looking at my own body. I had just hit puberty, and I was feeling so self-conscious about my own body.

I was so embarrassed about my small ‘neh neh’, and it did not make things better that my classmates were mocking me for having small ‘neh neh’.

As I was standing there, I noticed that my mother had come into the room. I quickly turned away, not wanting her to see how self-conscious I was feeling.

My mother stepped closer to me, and as she did, I noticed her ‘neh neh’ were huge compared to mine, and they were perfectly round and full. I gasped in shock, and I couldn’t help but to ask her:

“Mum, how did you get such big ‘neh neh’? I am your daughter leh how come mine small yours so big?”

My mother smiled and looked away. I could tell she was embarrassed, and I didn’t want to push her too much. But I was still so curious. Finally, after a few moments of silence, she revealed the truth to me.

“I got ‘neh neh’ implants, a while ago” she said.

At first, I couldn’t believe that my own mother had gone through with something like this. Was she just like me and felt embarrassed for having small ‘neh neh’?

My mother then told me that she had gotten the implants when I was very young, so I never noticed. That made me feel a bit better, but I was still confused about a lot of things.

I asked her why she had gone through with the surgery, and she said it was because she wanted to feel confident with her body. She had always felt self-conscious about her small ‘neh neh’, and the surgery had made her feel better about herself.

Knowing this truth made me feel better and reassured that it is not me that has something wrong as it is in the family genes that our ‘neh neh’ is small.

My girlfriend of 5years broke up with me, we had a daughter together but didn’t ROM because of many complication.

I found out before the start of 2023 that she was not gonna ROM with me in 2023 and want leave me silently when she get her own flat.

I told her I found out that she no longer love me and want to leave me. She told me that the reason she’s leaving me is because I never care enough for her and our daughter, I never work hard enough and I can’t kick my gambling addiction and i always rather stay out with friends that going home to them.

I used to think that Once i have her, I’ll never lose her but now I regret because she is serious about leaving. I tried to tell her to give me another chance, i am willing to change for the better, for our daughter and her but she tell me that she will not be coming back even if i change.

She still allow me to see our daughter but any topic about me and my girlfriend would be cut off or end up with texts telling me not to try to fix things.

I am not sure if i am able to let go.

I still want to work on myself, change for the better for our daughter and her but knowing she will never come back has cause countless night of evil thoughts thinking about if she will come back in future.

Here are what netizens think:

• It’s time to stop thinking only about yourself.

• It takes a lot of courage to give birth without marriage and I applaud her for that. She knows what she wants and she gave it all. But you gave none. Instead of taking the easy way out being suicidal, start working hard and take up the responsibility to provide a better life for your daughter.

• Why must wait for people to want to leave then decide to change. You should have just changed at the start of the relationship especially so at the birth of your daughter.

• Unless you change for the better, whatever you type here is just nothing but blaming.

• Focus on your gambling habit first.. Once this is change.. Maybe there chance being together being a new you.. She must have given up on your gambling and outing habit.. Don’t ever think of sucial thoughts.. Be brave to change for yourself and not got others

Screwed my secretary after she resigned

For around 4 years I had a secretary who was a single mom. I helped her out every now and then because she had a child and she didn’t earn very much.

She eventually found another job and I asked her for dinner before she left. We were able to admit to each other that if only the circumstances were different (like if we werent co-workers or if she was single and childless), maybe we could have dated.

Had a few drinks at the bar after and we went to my apartment. She said she also wanted to have a good memory of us before she left and wanted to thank me in some way for all the help I gave her without asking for anything in return.

It was one of the most intense hook ups I had maybe because there was also years worth of unspoken attraction built up. We did it raw and she let me finish inside since she was on birth control pills.

Now that she’s gone we still chat once in a while. As much as I wish we were able to do it earlier and more often.

How do I (31M) be delicate but firm and honest about my pregnant GF (27F) wish to be a Stay at Home Mom?
Disclaimer first: There is nothing wrong with being a Stay at home Mom/Dad

There are lots of situations where it makes sense for that couple

1. One partner makes enough to support a Family
2. The partner that works is just too busy and never home and someone needs to takes the primary role of home keeper
3. That stay at home parent likes doing the household duties

Point 3 is what I am going to harp on. I make enough to potentially support her and a baby. I work remotely so it’s not like I would never be home.

My GF is lazy and complains about everything. There isn’t an aspect of life that she doesn’t complain about

1. She hates working. There is not a day she is not complaining constantly about something from work or them actually having her do what her job entails
2. She hates cooking. Her diet consists of McDonald’s, some microwaveable food and instant noodles…
3. She hates cleaning. Her apartment is a mess
4. Too lazy and tired to walk her dog. Takes the dog a few steps from the house to go poop and back inside. If the dog doesn’t go poop immediately she gets pissed

How the F is she expecting to be a SAHM when she can’t even handle this stuff when she doesn’t even have a kid?

Idk how to firmly but delicately say I don’t want to financially, physically and mentally support her as a SAHM. I know I am going to have to do everything if she gets her way.

This pregnancy was not planned btw. Completely unplanned, I’m trying to make the best of it. I was honestly going to break up with her before finding out she was pregnant.