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MAN RENOVATING NEW HDB UNIT, SAW NEIGHBOUR LETTING THEIR DOG PEE OUTSIDE HIS HOME

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I just bought a corridor unit and my house is currently undergoing renovations. I like to go over every now and then to check on the process.

During one of the time, I noticed my neighbour letting her dog walk along the corridor by my house, waiting for her dog to go toilet (either 1 or 2 or both.. idk)

I mean, maybe they’ve been doing that cause for a couple of years that unit was empty.

But now, I’ll be moving in pretty soon and I’m hoping they’d stop with initiative.

In the event they don’t, am I in the right to go over to them and let them know that I’m uncomfortable with them allowing their dog to do that instead of bringing the dog for a walk downstairs.

Or will it cause an unnecessary drama/issue cause the corridor is a common area even though I can see whatever the dog is doing from my hall or room.

I’m kinda lost and I need advice.

Netizens’ comments

  • If they let the dog pee outside your unit I think you have a strong case to confront them. If they let their dog pee outside their unit then… it’s very annoying but the unspoken rule is it’s “their corridor”
    Anyway that’s a very inconsiderate owner. None of the dog owners on my level allow their dog to do that. There was a new owner that let their dog do it and we all gather to tell them off. Quite epic sight actually. Anyway they “expat” and left after 2 years
  • (OP) I understand that. This dog always walk around “my corridor”. I’m thankful that even though my floor is the corridor floor, for every 2 house, there’s a lift. I don’t have a need to be walking along anyone else’s corridor to get to the lift UNLESS my lift is broken down/under maintenance. I’ve not spoken to them about it cause I’ve yet to move in. So I’m hoping that they’ll have some initiative and stopped doing this. But in the event they don’t, and if I go talk to them to let them know how inconsiderate that is, I’m afraid I’d be causing like neighbour disputes and the environment will be hostile.
  • Technically the area outside your house doesn’t belong to you, belongs to HDB.
    You can try asking nicely. If it doesn’t work, can contact Town Council

BF HAS A “WORK WIFE” IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP, GF GOES BERSERK

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I (25F) have been with my boyfriend (26M) for almost 4 years now.

We have been in an LDR situation for 3 years because of the Pandemic and we both live in different countries because of his work.

There’s no reason for me not to trust him. All our years together (and majority of it being LDR), nothing happened for me to lose my trust in him or to even doubt his feelings for me.

Except for 3 months ago. In our relationship, we often talk about how our day went, what happened at work, etc. It’s all pretty normal until he started talking about his colleague, Let’s call her Amy (not her real name). My BF has been working for that company for 2 years, while Amy worked for more than 5 years there.

I can’t really say that they recently met because from the beginning, they’re on the same department and team. In all my BF’s years of working there, he never once mentioned Amy. At least, not like how he does now.

Anyway, my BF told me how amazing Amy was at work, and how basically he feels really happy to have found her as a friend. I don’t really mind that until he said she’s his work wife. I know the concept of a work husband and work wife, and to be frank I don’t like that.

I asked since when have they been each other’s work spouse, and he told me around 3 months after he came to work, their office started to joke around saying how good Amy and my BF looked together. Their office consistently and always teased them together by giving projects both Amy and my BF need to do together which made them grow closer. They look after each other, and Amy even goes as far to pack my BF lunch everyday. She would often ask BF what he wanted to eat, and the next day she would cook it and bring it for him to eat.

I really couldn’t bear to hear more of what my BF had to share because I feel so betrayed. I feel lied to. In all those time I asked him how his day went by and how his work was, I never heard him tell me this story. I never knew Amy and him were that close, and I never knew his co-workers teased them.

I don’t know what to do, BF thinks I’m blowing things up for no reason and that I’m overreacting, but I feel really betrayed. What should I do?

WOMAN SLEPT WITH HER EX-HUSBAND’S WIFE, AN ACCIDENTAL REVENGE

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I (28 f) and my ex (30 m) were divorced for 8 years.

We share a 7-year-old son together and he had a daughter with his current wife.

The reason for the divorce was that he was cheating on me with another woman (not his wife) and I found out by the text message he had on his phone. His new wife is an absolute sweetheart. She would always greet me whenever I picked up my son since we share custody or invite me to family events.

She was very friendly and decided to help co-parent for my son’s sake. Recently, she and my ex had a fight. He made a comment about her body and she was furious. I would be too because she had his daughter not long ago. I found out by my son and decided to help her.

She was always helping me out and I wanted to return the favor. She was judging her body by a full-length mirror and seemed pretty sad. I encouraged her that she was one of the most beautiful women I ever met and gave birth to the most beautiful angel there is.

That comment made her feel a bit better. I found myself turning her around and soon we kissed. This led to lovemaking. Honestly, it was one of the most amazing things that happened to me. After it stopped, she told me that I was beautiful. This made me feel more loved.

Never once, not even my ex, had told me I was beautiful. This made me feel happy and good. We soon got back to normal and soon the guilt soon met up with her. She mentioned that she cheated and that she needs to say the truth to my ex. I don’t want her to. There was already drama as it is. Honestly, if they do get a divorce, I want to date her. I’m inlove with her and want to be with her. She made me happy and is the most perfect woman I’ve met. I wanna be there for her and her daughter.

Treat her daughter like mine. Like she does for my son. But I don’t know. I need advice on what to do. Does my ex deserves this? Should I have pushed her away? Am I the bad guy?

TITUS LOW POST VIDEO AFTER GETTING RELEASED FROM 3 WEEKS OF PRISON

Titus Low who was previously jailed for his offences released a video on Tiktok stating that he is out of prison.

He told his TikTok fans to ask him questions regarding prison life.

One of the best questions posted: “Did you meet deekosh there?”

Here is the video:

Here is what netizens commented:

  • Did you meet deekosh there?
  • did you ever drop your soap…
  • Your skin is so flawless. Drop that prison skincare bestie
  • time passed so fast I didn’t notice help
  • Why you don’t have to shave your head?
  • Bro do case with me , we go inside sit and collab tgt
  • How is the food
  • were the other inmates nice/scary?
  • Titus, Simonboy and DeeKosh will team up and take over sg TikTok 2023
  • Don’t worry. Yellow ribbon

Background:

Low is the first Singapore OnlyFans creator to be charged for obscene materials on the platform.

On September 9 2021, a police report was made against Titus after he uploaded images and videos of hits private parts to OnlyFans.

The Police seized his account and prohibited him from accessing his account. However, he wrote to the website admin of only fans claiming that his account is unsecured and wanted to recover the account.

Even after recovering the account, he used it once again to upload more obscene material.

For transmitting obscene materials digitally he can be jailed up to 3 months and face a fine.

For breaching the order he can be jailed 6 months and face up to SGD$5,000 fine.

MAN JAILED FOR CHEATING & FALSIFICATION TO GET FUNDS FROM GOVERNMENT GRANTS

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On 9 November 2022, Xu Shaowen (“Xu”), a 33-year-old Singaporean male, was convicted of cheating and falsification offences involving the Professional Conversion Programmes (“PCP”) offered by Workforce Singapore (“WSG”) and administered by the Singapore National Employers Federation (“SNEF”), a programme partner appointed by WSG.

PCPs helped mid-career professionals, managers, executives and technicians undergo skills conversion and move into new occupations or sectors with opportunities for progression. 

The grant pay-outs included course fee subsidies and a salary support grant which was computed based on the employee’s monthly salary.

At the material time, Xu was a general manager and shareholder of 7W Consultancy Pte Ltd (“7W Consultancy”).

Xu pleaded guilty to conspiring with a director and shareholder of 7W Consultancy, in December 2017, to submit for himself a fraudulent application to SNEF for funding under the PCP. Xu falsely declared in his PCP application form that his gross monthly salary from 7W Consultancy was $5,800, and thereby deceived SNEF into disbursing the PCP funding amounting to $13,995. Full restitution has since been made to WSG.

In April 2018, Xu submitted another fraudulent application to SNEF for PCP funding for an employee of 7W Consultancy. At the material time, the employee was an information technology manager and a shareholder of 7W Consultancy. Xu falsely declared in the PCP application form that the employee was employed by 7W Consultancy as a deputy human resource manager and that his gross monthly salary was $5,600. Xu then falsified an employment contract to support the fraudulent PCP application. The said employment contract was submitted to SNEF. No disbursement was made by SNEF for this application as the application was subsequently withdrawn.

For his involvement in these offences, Xu has been convicted on one count of abetment by conspiracy to cheat under Section 417 read with Section 109 of the Penal Code, and one count of falsification of accounts under Section 477A of the Penal Code, and sentenced to 13 weeks’ imprisonment. Three other charges have been taken into consideration for the purpose of sentencing.

HUSBAND RAN AWAY AFTER HIS WIFE GAVE BIRTH AFTER HIS OWN FAMILY “DISOWNS” HIM

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After I had my first child I had postpartum depression.

I had a hard time getting motivated to do anything. I was just a ball of emotions and tears. My ex-husband was 25 at the time and he couldn’t handle it.

So he left. His mom, Linda, took me in. She took over taking care of my son and she helped me get therapy. She paid for the formula when I went on medication for my treatment and I couldn’t breastfeed. She quite literally held me while I cried, feeling useless as a mother and as a woman.

She was more of a mother to me than I had ever known before.

It took a while but I balance it out. I got back to watching my child. When I went back to work my “mom” said that she would watch my son so he didn’t have to go to daycare and cost me all the money I earned. She knew her son was not paying child support.

She told me to go after him for it so I did. Getting it made my life easier and I asked her if she wanted me to move out. She said “nope”.

When my son was six, three years ago, I started talking to my now husband. He worked out at the gym where I went to get rid of all the weight I put on. He had seen me there for years and had nodded and said hi but never approached me before. He told me that he was really impressed by my commitment to my health and he asked me out. I almost said no. I had only ever been with one guy and that was before the stretch marks and stuff.

Linda told me to go for it.

So, long story short, I am now married to a pretty great guy. I’m working, and Linda lives in our guest suite and takes care of my son before and after school. She has even met a gentleman and has spent a few evenings out of the house. LoL

Because of my relationship with her, I am still part of her family. So several of them were invited to my wedding. And they all called my husband an upgrade from my ex.

So last Sunday my ex was bringing my son back from his time with him and he asked if I ever thought about what our life would be if I hadn’t gotten depressed. I snorted and said no. I never thought of him as anything other than a sperm donor. He said that his family had done a lot for me and that I should be grateful. I said that I was grateful TO THEM. I said that all of them that were still in my life considered my husband an upgrade from him. He got all butthurt that I said that and left.

He called his mom and complained about what I said.

Her and I talked yesterday and she said that even though it was true it was hurtful and that I shouldn’t have said it. She seemed sad and I feel bad for disappointing her.

I apologized to her and I called my ex and apologized to him. Sincerely. He called me a “Pu bor” for turning his family against him. I guess he called other family members and they all said he wasn’t as good for me as my husband. And a few were less complimentary than that.

So now I feel like crap for starting drama I could have avoided by keeping my big mouth shut. But it was so shocking to hear him ask about us when he left me without looking back.

WOMAN SAYS SHE GET HOUND BY MEN ON INSTAGRAM, MACHAM TINDER

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I hate it when dudes think Instagram is a dating app.

I just recently decided “y’know what? I’m gonna start posting some more stuff on Instagram because I really like my aesthetic now” but I forgot, oh I forgot. For some ungodly reason, some men think Instagram = tinder.

Usually, it starts out civil; because I am always keen to talk to people I made the mistake in the past of replying to these men and it’s gotten me nothing but sausage pics and unsolicited flirting even when I said in the beginning of the chat I foolishly replied to that I have no intention of sending nudes, or flirting.

They obviously ignore that and think I need a little “encouragement” and their way of encouraging is sending unsolicited sausage pics,or graphically describing the acts they want me to do and to do to me. It’s gross (yes I’ve also told them I have a boyfriend, they either don’t believe me or don’t care.)

I’m thinking maybe I should take a few photos with my boyfriend to show I’m not available, but my boyfriend isn’t too keen on having a big presence on social media or photo shoots so it’ll take some convincing. I also doubt this would really discourage them.

Perhaps I should take pictures with one of my girlfriends and pretend we are dating? I don’t know.

My point is just that Instagram isn’t a dating app. It’s annoying when men message me on there as if it is. And it’s even worse seeing their Lovecraftian horror D when I literally did not ask.

35 Y.O MAN & 67 Y.O WOMAN CHARGED FOR SEPARATE CASES OF SHOP THEFT

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A 35-year-old man and a 67-year-old woman will be charged in court on 10 November 2022 for their suspected involvement in separate cases of shop theft.

  1. On 4 January 2022, the Police were alerted to a case of theft at a petrol kiosk along Geylang Road. A 35-year-old man was arrested at the scene. Preliminary investigations revealed that the man was in possession of a wireless charger, valued at $49.90, which was from the petrol kiosk. The man will be charged with one count of theft-in-dwelling under Section 380 of the Penal Code 1871.
  2. On 12 July 2022, the Police were alerted to a case of theft at Plaza Singapura. A 67-year-old woman was arrested at the scene. Preliminary investigations revealed that the woman had, in her possession, various items from multiple shops located at the shopping mall, and taken bottle of tone-up cream from a store at Junction 8 on 3 June 2022. The items had an estimated total value of more than $500. The woman will be charged with five counts of theft-in-dwelling under Section 380 of the Penal Code 1871.

In addition, Tan Wee Siong (“Tan”), a 42-year-old man, was convicted in court on 23 September 2022, and sentenced to 31 months’ imprisonment, for his involvement in a series of theft-in-dwelling cases. Between June and July 2022, the Police received multiple reports of items stolen from shops at multiple shopping centres. The locations include People’s Park Complex, Funan Mall, Chinatown Point, and Parkway Parade. The stolen items had an estimated total value of more than $1,800.

Through follow-up investigations and with the aid of images from CCTVs and Police cameras, officers from the Central Police Division and Bedok Police Division established the identity of Tan and arrested him on 10 July 2022. He was charged in court on 11 July 2022, and subsequently convicted for:

  1. Five counts of theft-in-dwelling under Section 380 of the Penal Code 1871; and
  2. One count of theft-in-dwelling with common intention under Section 380 read with Section 34 of the Penal Code 1871.

The offence of theft-in-dwelling under Section 380 of the Penal Code 1871 carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years and a fine.

36 Y.O FATHER FACES CHARGES FOR ALLEGEDLY RAPING HIS OWN DAUGHTER

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When it comes to family, they are considered the most important and trusted by most people. But some incidents contradict the statement and raise an eyebrow.

A father is facing 13 charges of sexual offences for allegedly committing against his own biological daughter.

From 2012 to 2019

The alleged incidents happened to the girl from when she was 4 years old till she was 12 years old.

It started when she was still in kindergarten and he allegedly told her to perform an “act” on him in the toilet.

When she was in primary school, he allegedly started showing her indecent videos/content.

When she was between primary 4 to primary 6, he allegedly raped her and performed a number of acts on her in various locations such as at home multiple times, in the car and in the office.

According to Straits Times, the 36-year-old father is contesting the charges.

Here are some of the charges he faces:

  • rape
  • aggravated sexual assault by penetration
  • showing pornography to his daughter.

The incident came to light when she told her friends and one of her friends told the victim’s mother and the school was alerted, The trial takes place in the High Court and some of her friends are witnesses, reported CNA.

In total there are 46 witnesses, which include school staff.

The girl is now 15 years old now and the father cannot be named to protect the identity of the daughter.

DRIVERS ARGUING @ TUAS SECOND LINK, LITTLE GIRL AT THE BACK POINTS MIDDLE FINGER

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A video emerged online showing a couple of drivers having a dispute at Tuas Second Link during a traffic jam, and a little girl from the backseat flashed a middle finger at the OP.

The second driver had hit the first driver’s car, according to 8World News, and resulted in them having an argument.

The OP who posted the video onto Facebook, said that the other driver had hit their car and acted as though he had done nothing wrong.

The OP then scolded the driver and the girl at the backseat who flashed a middle finger at them.

A video also showed the other driver appearing to be squeezing into their lane, with the OP asking the other driver angrily why was he cutting into their lane when they didn’t do the same to him?

Both sides then threatened to report the incident to the police.

The OP then asked their driver to “just hit the other driver” so they can lodge a police report and claim his insurance.

Update: The OP’s Facebook post has since been taken down.