Selling myself and I’m not sure if I’m doing the right thing

Ermm, so i am a 28 yr old female (straight) and becos i was molested by male family members when i was 8, i have depression and ptsd, which i have been getting treatment for the past decade.

But ever since puberty, i settle my urges by myself frequently since i still need relief. I have never had a bf, cos i’m not model thin like other woman my age. So recently, I started feeling aroused like hell all the time and initially it made me feel more dirty. But in a spur of a moment, i decided to post an ad online to let guys pet me (no s3x) for a fee. And doing it made me excited.

So I haven’t really done it yet, but my first customer(?) is tmr!! I feel disgusted, fearful and excited at the same time and I don’t know if I should attend the appt.

I’m not gonna lie, I am selling myself.

I am just scared that i will regret it after, and disappoint my therapists. I also come from a strict traditional family and doing this would shred them if they knew it. But the cash is there, my needs are there. But all the psych literature tells me its wrong.

But there are also ppl saying its not wrong cos its my body, my decision.

Anyone out there who can advise? What should I do?

Here are what netizens think:.

• You were a victim before, dun make yourself more of a victim now. What happened in the past is definitely not your fault, so dun make it yours now by going ahead with this decision.

• I’ll say don’t do it girl. Coz I read an interview of a hostess before and she said she was kinda cajoled into doing it initially..

• Are you really prepared for all the things that could go wrong? You are potentially putting yourself in a dangerous situation

So since the start of last month, my neighbors and my family noticed a stench of urine from the drain at our corridor.

Once there was a big plop of poop just lying at the side of the corridor.

Lately, we noticed a strange man wearing a black mask, dark blue hoodie, loitering at our doors. When we open the door, he would run away and dart into the stairwell.

This usually occurs at night, sometimes even close to midnight. It’s scaring us, given that my neighbors have children.

I understand that HDBs are public housing and do not have security guards, so the corridors are counted as public areas.

Even so, releasing faeces and urinating at the corridor is just ludicrous.

Not only does it have a foul stench, it attracts pests and cause great trouble to everyone living on the level. What should we do?

Does anyone have any similar experiences willing to share? I wish to take action fast and not make it a long term problem.

Netizens’ comments

• Make police report, and apply for permit to install a CCTV to monitor the outside of your house.
• File a police report and inform TC
• Go to the cops first. They will provide you with a device that plays a sound when someone is standing outside your door. They will also provide you with a huge “area under 24 hours surveillance” sticker. On your end, install a doorbell camera.
• I am absolutely baffled, that you as an adult man have not reported this to the police. If you were my spouse or parent I would feel really unsafe and concerned with your ineptitude. Seriously, what have you been dawdling about for?
• Btw abt contacting police, which u DEFINITELY SHOULD – either do so online (link in one of the top comments), they will call u back – or call the non-emergency hotline 1800 255 0000. In line w the whole reserve 999 for emergencies thing.

Got blamed by a customer because they forgot their iPad password

I work at a specialty retail store and one of the services we offer is device repair, older lady dropped off an iPad mini for a new battery and probably a new screen (the screen had some minor cracking so 50/50 we could get it off without making it worse, so we quoted the price of a new screen as well).

During the check in of the device we ask for the passcode so we can check everything functions; camera, wifi, speakers, and microphone. Customer declined which isn’t that uncommon.

Repair goes well, screen did get damaged so that got replaced. Customer picks it up and takes it home, she comes back about an hour later and starts yelling at me we changed the passcode.

She had disabled the iPad for an hour because of too many failed attempts to login and it was of course my fault.

I explained to her that since she declined to give us her passcode it was impossible for us to have changed it. (Anyone who works in device repair knows if you mess something up with a device it’s usually catastrophic and doesn’t work at all)

She wanted a discount or her money back which sure as hell wasn’t happening, I’m also the assistant store manager, so I told her we aren’t responsible for her getting locked out and the only way she’s getting a refund is if I put the old non-functioning battery back in and the cracked screen back on.

Did a literal huff and stomped out. Haven’t seen her since

Hey guys, I am resigning from my position as a NSF next month, can yall help me check through my letter and see if you have any comments?

To whom this may concern,

Please accept this letter as formal notification that I am resigning from my position as a NSF Corporal with the Singapore Armed Forces. This letter shall serve as the required one month advanced notice before my final day here.

I would like to thank you for the opportunity to work in this position for the past 15 months. I’ve greatly enjoyed the opportunities I’ve had to practice patience and tolerance, and I value the guidance of my superiors in ensuring that my workplace is kept neat and tidy. I’ve learned exactly what to avoid in order to foster a good workplace culture, and how to motivate staff. I will be sure to apply these lessons in future places I work in.

Career progression has been amazing. Nowhere else in the country can you boast of having a three-time promotion within the span of 15 months – a testament to the value you place on staff development. Salary wise, this amounts to a whopping 11% increase*, which is extremely competitive relative to the private sector.

The employment benefits are second to none: Not only is food, accommodation and clothing provided for, this organization has actively invested in the wellbeing of its employees by providing FREE fitness and conditioning programs. Not just that, it actively helps us in achieving those fitness standards, by having complementary trainings on the weekends!

I am amazed too, by the second to none healthcare facilities. Never have I seen a company that provides world class medical facilities for its staff to use, free of charge, like the wonderful Pulau Tekong Medical Center.

Indeed, words cannot express how grateful am I to have been a part of this amazing organization. The value of my time here cannot be measured in dollars and cents, and it has been a privilege to be a part of this wonderful place.

Despite this, I have chosen to leave your organization to pursue other goals. It would be unfair to deprive others of a chance to experience this wonderful place for themselves. Nonetheless, I wish it every success in its future endeavors.

*70 dollar increase on a 630 dollar base.

Netizens’ comments

• NS has taken your sanity as well
• I just bluetick messages for a month and disappear when I’m finally free lol.
• second to none
• I also shag sia, time to tender my resignation to my encik. But I need to add in some bad words so my encik will be more understanding

My dad spends on all the vices with the exception of smoking.

He also lives day-to-day with no savings at all.

So one day, my siblings together with my mum came up with an idea. We will open a joint account and each put some monies in the account as his old age savings.

Example, each gives him $100 monthly, $50 is given to him to spend, the other $50 goes into his account that he doesn’t know about.

This is for emergencies/rainy days if required. No point telling him to save as people who do not have financial sense will not understand the merits of having savings, especially at his advanced age.

Just save for him without his knowledge.

Netizens’ comments

• Yup that’s what our family did too. It was requested by my father. Each month, every member who is working will contribute $100. We have been doing this for years so there should be a substantial amount inside.
• Just top up to his special account. No point put $ in bank