A netizen shared a story about how her husband keeps asking her “you like that?” when they are “doing it” in bed and it is annoying her.

Here is what she said

I have been married to my husband for more than 5 years, and at the start, our relationship was pretty hot and we would have intercourse quite often.

He would often talk dirty to me in bed while we were doing it, and at the start it was quite a turn on for me.

He would choke me and spank me in bed, and we would try out toys and ropes, tying each other up and going crazy.

But over the years, it seems like he is running out of ideas and nowadays, our bedroom activities are getting stale and he can’t satisfy me in bed anymore.

I am also starting to get very annoyed with him in bed because when he talks dirty to me, he keeps asking me “you like that? you like that?”

He would go on asking me that for the entire duration until he finishes, I can’t stand it anymore. And he has been asking that every time we do it for years.

A woman recently shared a story about how she is struggling to stop her sister from smoking as she is too young.

She shared that her family is broken and her mother only cares about going out and dating men.

Here is the story:

I am pretty disappointed in my whole family for neglecting my little sister who recently turned 14 y.o.

I moved away one year ago and after that, my mom started dating a dude and was never home. So basically my sister lived alone where she started drinking and smoking.

And when she visited my dad he smoked in front of her and she eventually stole cigarettes and started smoking by herself. Now she visited me and my older sister at our house.

I also smoke occasionally, but my older sister smokes every day. So my older sister took my little sister with her friends where they were all smoking and drinking and my lil sis told me it was very cool.

Am I wrong for getting mad about this?

I get people saying smoking isn’t as bad as everyone say, but I still feel it’s wrong to expose kids to this kind of substance since it’s still a drug after all.

I got into a fight with my older sister because she says it’s normal. I’m scared she will ruin her life because of this.

Here are what netizens think:

• If I were you I will inform the MSF so your sister can get some help she needs as clearly your mother doesn’t care, no wonder divorce.
• Your family is doing it and setting a bad example of how you expect your sister to stop it when you’re doing it yourself.

• Monkey see monkey do, your not her mother and clearly your not old enough to be much of help. You need external help

So I am not used to wearing makeup, despite being a S worker. I always worked with no makeup. But in 2015 I got a sugar daddy and haven’t really had to hustle since then.

I know I’m not in a good place, I don’t have certificates and trying to change a job is not as easy as you think, I went for several interviews and no one wants me as I do not have a good history of jobs at my age.

My fiance (34m) has been a bachelor until he met me 3 years ago. He’s had many girlfriends but never really settled down until he wanted to get married last year.

We live together and he has a desktop computer that he has said I’m welcome to use as I (32f) please. I’m working from home now (I have a company laptop) but needed to print something so I hopped on his desktop.

He was at work. I was taken aback when the browser he was using last night was still up and it was open to Facebook and on his ex’s Facebook page.

I know i shouldn’t have done this but curiosity got the best of me and I looked at his Facebook search history.

Just about every ex I’m aware of (and many women I do not know) were in the Facebook search bar. I clicked browser history and he had spent hours doing this while I had been asleep the night before.

I did approach him that night once he got home and he said he felt the need to look through all his ex’s old pics to make sure he was making the right decision marrying me.

He said I shouldn’t be upset because after all that he knows for sure I’m the right girl for him.

These ex’s went as far back as his school girlfriend! And many of these women are married with kids now. He said he understands why I’m sad but this is something all men probably do.

Is this something that men do? I’m considering calling off my wedding. I’m hurt.

My dad almost died today and no one helped

My dad was eating a steak dinner alone while at work. My dad needs new dentures so chewing tougher food can be a challenge sometimes.

This resulted in him choking on a piece of steak in the middle of a restaurant.

My dad is not one to ever want attention drawn to him but he knew his time was limited and he stood up with his hand around his throat and pointed to people trying to get help.

Out of over 10 people there, no one helped. They watched my dad suffer and just ate their food.

Thankfully after almost a minute, he was able to dislodge the chunk of meat himself. He was so upset and scared he just left the restaurant.

Wtf is wrong with people. A man almost died in front of you people and you did nothing but eat your fucking dinner. Didn’t even ask if he was okay after he could breathe again.

People suck.

We are not native speakers and so do forgive any inconsistencies in the language. Both me and my wife were planning to visit my mother who lives significantly further away from us at Tampines, it is a 2 hour journey by public transport and around 1 hour drive if traffic is bad.

Before going I told my wife to not chug water because we can’t be stopping every 2 minutes for her to find a place to pee.

I have been married a year and I feel a strong urge to run.

Hello. Has anyone ever been through this situation? I feel a strong urge to run from my marriage. I just can’t stand him anymore.

We are polar opposites. We knew it but we didn’t know how much it would affect us. I feel so miserable and so unhappy.

He is spoiled and hates helping out at home. Whenever he needs to do something he complains about it and throw temper tantrums like a kid.

He just want to sit around drink coffee and play games all day.

One shred of responsibility is welcomed with complains. He wants kids but I honestly don’t feel safe having children with him, because I feel like as an adult he does such a poor job handling the very little he is responsible for.

As a parent I will probably take on 200% of the load. I am so turned off and discouraged, I just want to run.

We had several conversations about his behavior. He acted like he wants to change, but that always last just 2 days. He will never grow up. I love him, but I can’t see myself living like this forever.

Is there a way to turn this around? I am honestly so close to throw the towel.