A girl shared about how her boyfriend is very insecure and would get mad at her for going out to drink.
She said that she has had exes and serious dates in the past and that she is more “s*xually experienced” than him, which makes him think that she would sleep around.
She shared that he would get upset when she goes out to drink with her friends.
You can read her post in full below:
“Need some advice here.
My bf and I have been together for almost 2 years but he still doesn’t trust me. Before you go on to say that he doesn’t trust me because of something I did, no I didn’t cheat or do anything even close to cheating.
Throughout the past 2 years, I have been 100% loyal to him. No odd messages or unnecessary one on one meet ups with the opp gender.
He knows every single one of my friends (I usually keep to a small circle of friends) and I tell him everything. I meet him almost everyday and we video call (instead of voice call) so there is literally no secrets between us.
Before him, I’ve had exes and serious dates and so I’m more sexually experienced than him even though he’s older than me.
Is it reasonable for him to feel that I have the tendency to sleep around just because of that? I don’t. So now every time I go out to drink with my friends (which is prolly like once in 3 months), he gets all upset.
I had drinks with my colleagues the other day and ended up vomiting because of excessive yakult. Yes, my yakult soju’s ratio was prolly 3 yakult to 1 soju.
So I texted him “I vomited :(“
He didn’t respond and only said “rest well b” the next morning.
Turns out he got mad at me because of that vomiting saga and was having second thoughts about our bto plans. Wtff. I showed him the messages in my group chat where my colleagues apologised for leaving me to clean up alone because I was the only one conscious and yet he remained upset about me drinking.
I do love him but I’m getting sick and tired of his insecurity. I feel like I have done everything to make a guy secure and Idk what more can I do to help the situation.
Honestly I feel that my drinking frequency is pretty mild and such hangouts are unavoidable in the corporate world.
A man was caught by his girlfriend after sleeping with numerous women, she is angry that he has cheated but she thinks about the times the bf spend money on her.
Here is the story:
I have been together with my boyfriend for 2 years and I recently found out that he had been cheating on me with a few girls.
I was devastated and he begged me not to break it off with him. He promised to change and really did what he said by letting me go through his phone, coming clean with those relationships and informing me wherever he goes and with who. Though I could see his efforts a part of me felt that he might do it again.
As I went through his phone, I wasn’t so sure if he would follow through with his promises. On the other hand, he treats me really well by spending his free time and money on me. Sex was good too.
I admit that I’m hunkering after his affections and love but deep down I don’t trust him. It’s probably a phase to overcome cheating and I can’t deal with the fact that he slept with multiple girls and in my view, that makes him dirty and disgusting.
A photo is currently circulating on Whatsapp of a group having a picnic at the park connector between Marina South Pier MRT station and Marina Cruise Centre.
The Whatsapp message also included a message stating that most of them are not wearing masks and the group has almost 10 people.
“Masks down, dancing, singing, eating, and socialising. Taken on July 4, at 4 pm.”
Two Singaporean alleged drug offenders, a 65-year-old male and a 55-year-old female, were detained in the latest drug raid by Central Narcotics Bureau (CNB) agents on July 5, 2021.
There were about 974 grams of heroin, 3 grams of cannabis, and 60 grams of suspected New Psychoactive Substances (NPS) confiscated.
During the operation, $57,929 in cash and 330 nitrazepam pills were also discovered.
The value of the narcotics collected is believed to be more than $102,000.
CNB police detained a 65-year-old Singaporean male and a 55-year-old Singaporean female at Tampines Street 83 on the afternoon of July 5th.
The 65-year-old man was searched, and 938 grams of heroin and $7,000 in cash were discovered. The 65-year-old man was taken to his home in the same neighbourhood, where he was searched.
A total of 36 grams of heroin, 2 grams of cannabis, 60 grams of suspected New Psychoactive Substances (NPS), and $50,929 in cash was found.