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PAYA LEBAR AIRBASE TO BECOME A NEW TOWN, MRT LINE RUNNING THROUGH

The Urban Redevelopment Authority (URA) said in an announcement on 6 June that a new town will be built at the site of Pay Lebar Air Base, when the facility relocates to another site in the 2030s, according to The Straits Times.

this is to free up about 800ha of land currently being used by the air base, with is being used for military aircraft takeoff and landings.

The 3.8km long runway of the airbase could also be possible turned into a running track.

The Singapore Institute of Planners (SIP) and the Singapore Institute of Architects (SIA) have been working with the URA on new development ideas.

The site of the air base and the surrounding industrial areas is about 5x the size of Toa Payoh, and the area has been earmarked to be developed progressively into a new town with housing, business and recreational facilities.

Districts within the town have also been proposed by the architects with each district having its own identity.

Additionally, the future Cross Island Line will also be running through the town.

DAUGHTER SCREAMS AT MOTHER FOR PETTY BEHAVIOUR WITH EX-STEP FATHER

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I yell at my mom and telling her to grow up.

I am 29, 3 kids. My mom was married to Eric(step father) from when I was a preteen. It lasted a few years and ended really badly.

My mom wasn’t blameless for the relationship issues or how the end of it went down but Eric did cheat on her which was a bigger offence. She’s understandably still resentful even 16 years later and doesn’t talk to Eric.

I drifted from both Eric and his family post-divorce, of course. But I ended up becoming much closer to my (former) stepsister than I ever was as a preteen as an adult. We now babysit for each other’s kids all the time and she’s my best friend of 8 or so years.

Due to my relationship with her and because he was always a good stepdad to me at least, Eric and his now-wife are also involved in our lives, not as much as my mom but my kids still call them Grandpa and Grandma.

They’re also both retired. My mom still works M-F 9-5 and doesn’t get a lot of time off, so even though I’m still close to my mom and think of her first when it comes to grandma duties/privileges, they are almost always willing to be a backup and I trust my kids with them.

This week my husband’s brother had a serious health crisis so we’ve needed more babysitting support from my side of the family than usual. I knew my mom was working so I called Eric and asked if they could take the kids from 12-8, they said yes but only until 6 pm. I said np, and called my mom and said, “Hey would you be able to swing by after your work and pick up the kids from Eric and keep them until 8?”

My mom was annoyed at the idea of having contact with Eric but said okay and I gave her their address.

At 2pm I get a call from Eric saying that my mom had taken the afternoon off and was there for the kids. In the moment, I said okay yes that’s fine because my kids would be fine with my mom, I knew. But I was also thinking WTF why is she 4 hours early.

Eric said she showed up and was passive-aggressively demanding “her” grandchildren and saying she didn’t want them cooped up and posturing and being petty. My mom’s version is much the same, and she was almost laughing like she’d gotten one over on them, especially eric’s wife who she detests.

If there was any doubt that she had just innocently wanted to spend more time with her grandkids, I’d feel differently, but she all but admitted that she was just being petty. I got mad at her attitude and told her to grow up and said she’d broken my trust and been petty and if she was going to be a child about it then clearly she couldn’t be trusted with actual children. I also accused her of breaking our “don’t talk negatively about Eric in front of the kids” rule though she argued she didn’t say anything negative.

But I do feel bad because she was technically doing me a favor and out of context her actions were innocent. And the kids had a nice lunch with her and she spent money on them. And she does have her reasons to dislike Eric, so maybe it’s my fault for putting her in that situation.

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CARS PARKED OUTSIDE LANDED HOMES KENA SAMAN, OWNERS NOT HAPPY

A netizen, @aarontyz, shared a video onto his TikTok account showing a group of Certis officers walking around the estate of landed homes and purportedly handing out fines to the cars that were parked on the road.

He captioned his video: “The whole neighbourhood wasn’t happy because LTA asked all of us park somewhere else…. BUT WHERE?!?”

Illegal parking

Cars were seen in the video being parked on both sides of the road, with some also being parked against the flow of traffic.

It is unclear where the incident happened, although it does appear to be an estate in the vicinity of Sembawang Park, with most of the properties being terrace houses.

The roads all had a single white line in the middle, meaning that it is illegal to park on either side of the road.

Some neighbours have at least 3 cars, no space to park

Some netizens commented on his video, saying that his landed property has a space to park his vehicle inside.

However, the netizen shared that only one car can fit in his house, leaving him with no choice but to park his other car on the road outside his property.

He also added that most of the residents living there have “about at least three cars”.

@aarontyz

the whole neighbourhood wasn’t happy because LTA asked all of us park somewhere else…. BUT WHERE?!? 🤷🏻‍♂️

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CHEATING EX-WIFE KICKS A FUSS AS SHE DID NOT GET TO CELEBRATE MOTHER’S DAY

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The title probably makes me sound like a dick but please hear me out. I have a 6 year old daughter Penny with my ex Diane. Our relationship ended badly when Diane cheated on me but I’ve always respected her as the mother of my child, and am 100% involved in my daughters life. I met my girlfriend Lauren when Penny was about 1 and Lauren started becoming involved in her life about 6 months later after meeting Diane.

Diane and Lauren do not have a good relationship. Diane had harassed, attacked, and just been awful to Lauren for reasons I can not figure out.

Lauren has gone no contact with Diane but Penny adores Lauren and vice versa. I will be honest I was not great with boundaries in the beginning and would often allow Diane to hold Penny over my head to get money and basically control my life.

It caused a lot of problems between me and Lauren until I finally got a concrete court order which resulted in me having Penny the majority of the time.

Now Lauren is basically Penny’s second mom and does more for her than her own mother does, unfortunately. So this Mother’s Day I wanted to show her how much I appreciate her after everything she’s stuck around through. I paid for her to get a luxury facial massage, took her to a new nice restaurant she’s been wanting to try and bought her some nice gifts.

Penny spent Mother’s Day with Diane of course and I gave her a card from Penny and Lauren helped Penny make her a nice little painted jewellery box.

Diane used fake accounts to look at Lauren’s Instagram and saw everything we did and lost it saying she’s the real mother and it’s not fair she got celebrated since she’s not a real mom.

Her mother also called me yelling saying I’m an awful father. My sister told me it’s weird to celebrate someone on Mother’s Day who isn’t even a mother and it doesn’t make sense since we’re not married yet (because I wanted to figure out the legal custody stuff with Diane first). The rest of my family thinks I did a great thing but they hate Diane so yea

FORMER ESCORT NOW HAS BF, BUT STILL ADDICTED TO SLEEPING FOR MONEY

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i have a really big secret that i fear can catch up with me. i was a sugar baby, and worked as an escort occasionally. just grad from fass a few years ago. wont say which major or which year, cos i want to be unknown.

i managed to get my tuition fees fully, give my parents and younger sister good $, and even enough to get a very nice condo unit just before i grad. that made me feel happy and proud of myself for a long time. told myself that i would stop after grad. and i did. but during covid period, i decided to resume a little to get some fast cash and also cos it felt a bit boring staying at home for a long time. but once i started, i just couldnt stop.

i could earn so much that i got really hooked onto it. the covid period is really crazy for business, i could get appointments almost every day and night of a month. the $ that i earn is easily more than a CEO’s pay. 1 night with one sugar daddy could give me my 1 month pay as a fresh grad. it felt unreal, like a fantasy. naturally, i quit my full time job cos i could earn so much more without putting in much effort. and having so much money than you have ever seen really messes with your mind. there is a thrill to easy money that is so hard to describe, and it also feels empowering knowing that i have so much power of men who lose themselves. and when we could finally start to travel, i went on free trips to so many places around the world with different clients, some of them really extravagant. everything felt so wrong, but i was having too much fun to care.

and then a few months ago, i met this nice boy that i matched on cmb who has been asking me out a lot. and i think he is someone good to settle down with. he is a good christian boy with a wholesome family and lovely home. i feel so welcome when i meet his family. every sunday i join them at church and we even went on an overseas trip together to help poor people. i feel really really happy with them, and it is so fulfilling doing some good for others after doing so many shameful things.

but the problem is, i am still addicted. i have more $ than i need, but a big part of me does not want to let it go. cos it really is a gold mine and i won’t be young forever so i want to milk the opportunity while it lasts. now that i am dating him, i dont go out with those men anymore, for fear of being seen in public and being found out. i just keep it to meeting in discreet places. and it really is addictive. i have no work in the day time, and the idea of killing a bit of time while earning a load of cash is often enticing. i quite regularly get clients who ask for a quickie during work hours, and it is just too tempting to resist when i am in my condo feeling bored of sleeping in, binging netflix and lying at the poolside.

he says that the thinks of me as a good girl. but i also think he might suspect that something doesnt add up. he knows that i have my own condo, even though my family is not well to do. i lied to him that i made a lot of money during the covid boom trading stocks and crypto. and it was a stupid, cos i know quite little about trading. and when he asks me for investment advice, i sound really noob and change the topic quickly.

i feel really bad and guilty. he doesnt know who i am and what i have done. i feel that such a good man deserves better than a whore. i think that couples should never keep secrets from each other, and that makes me feel distant from him. how do i tell him that i have slept with so many men than i could count, and done things that are so dirty and depraved that it could make people throw up? and i can tell that he is a virgin, cos he knows so little about a woman’s body. he is so pure-hearted, kind, doting and such a wonderful person, while i am the opposite.

it makes me scared when we talk about marriage, a future together. i keep telling myself to stop every time we spend a good time together, but i end up accepting advances from men who want to pay me to sleep with them.

how do i get rid of this addiction? sometimes i really feel strongly that i would be done with this lifestyle. i feel so much guilt that i cry my eyes out, promise myself that i will never go back to it again. but i tend not to last more than a week before going back to it. and it keeps happening in a cycle. so many times that i think i am numb to it. when i cry, it doesnt feel genuine anymore.

i guess i love the feeling of having a lot of money and having power over men who cant wait to part with their money just to touch me. but i also want to find love, settle down and have a family and home of my own. and i think i want the best of both worlds, which is why i am living a double life now.

do i really need to choose one lifestyle over the other? can i really not keep both? is it possible to keep things a secret till marriage, and then stop this thing once i am married?

BOTAK FIGHTER & HIS OPPONENT ARRESTED AFTER FIGHT @ GREAT WORLD

The two men who were seen in a wildly viral video fighting and throwing heavy punches at each other at Great World shopping centre, have been arrested, according to CNA.

The Singapore Police Force said that they were alerted to the fight between the two men at Kim Seng Promenade on 5 JUne.

The identities of the two illegal fighters were established and they were then arrested on 6 June for affray.

At the time of writing, police investigations are ongoing.

The video was filmed by another person who was at the scene at the time and it quickly went supremely viral, with the video being watched over 543,000 times in less than 2 days.

The fight was broke up by members of the public who stepped in to separate the two men.

Potential penalties

According to Chapter 224 of the Penal Code, anyone who disturbs public peace by fighting in public is guilty of committing an affray.

Upon conviction, offenders could face a jail term of up to one year and/or a fine of up to $5,000.

According to Chapter 321 of the Penal Code, anyone who performs an act that causes hurt to a person is guilty of Voluntarily Causing Hurt.

Upon conviction, offenders could face a jail term of up to 3 years and/or a fine of up to $5,000.

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MAN CHOSE TO SPEND FREE TIME WITH FEMALE FRIEND INSTEAD OF GF

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Have been with my bf for 2.5 years, met through Tinder. Both of us were in uni when we first met and joined the workforce 1.5 year ago. He got promoted to a senior role and started getting really busy with work over the last 5 months. Our meetups were often shortened to just 2-3 hrs a week for a quick meal and catchup, to give him enough time for rest and to spend with his family over the weekends. We missed out celebrating for valentines day, mother’s day and my dad’s birthday during that entire period due to his busy schedule. My bf has always said sorry for not spending enough time with me multiple times every week and made promises to meet up with me more often.

His project has just ended and I was looking forward to meeting him more as his workload would hve reduced significantly. However, instead of making time out for me, he went ahead to fill his schedule for this entire week with meeting his friends for dinner and drinks, leaving the same 3 hr timeslot for me on a saturday afternoon.

I asked if he will be free next week but he say he will be starting on another project next week and will be back having overtime and a really busy schedule so he is unable to make time out to meet me. Yesterday, I saw a notification from his female friend saying 17 June would be a better date for dinner and out of curiosity, i opened the message. I realised he asked her for a catchup next week as he is free the entire week and gave all the evenings as available options to cater to her schedule. He also offered to send her home after the meal since it would be late (around 9-10+pm) and he wanted to watch out for her safety.

I confronted him about it but he turned it into an issue of me looking into his messages without his consent, which I then apologised. He mentioned that it is an old friend and he havent met her in 6 months hence he wanted to set aside some time to meet her. Sending her home would be a given as he has a car and he wouldn’t have to make much of a detour to return back home after that. I tried asking why he seemed very available to meet her and his other friends but not me, and all he ever did was to make it as if I am the one demanding too much from him. He said that he had discussed about his hectic work schedule with me early on in our relationship and he expected me to be more understanding and allow him to meet his friends during his free time.

Am I really asking too much from him? I feel very lonely in the relationship and I’m thinking of leaving if this goes on.

MAN BOUGHT SAVINGS PLAN WITH $40K RETURNS 20 YEARS AGO, ONLY GOT $20K

A netizen, Tyler Jwy, shared how his father had bought a savings plan about 20 years ago and was supposed to get about $40k, but only received a cheque of $20k+.

Here is what he said (SIC)

My dad bought this prudential savings plan twenty years back and he was supposed to get 40k+ this year during March. However, they’ve only sent my dad a cheque for 20k+ (the initial investment is 30k+).

My family went up to the prudential office to lodge a complain and to enquire as to why the company isn’t giving the full sum as promised on the contract. The company dismissed my dad with a convenient bullshit excuse ” our company isn’t earning much so that’s the sum you’ll have “.

Is this ethically right? What’s the point for anyone to save with prudential if you’re going to make a loss in the end after 20 years? That money could’ve been many times more if my dad invested in other financial instruments and inflation.

Is there any case if we were to sue them? My parents are just Hawkers, I don’t understand why you’ve to make the old generation suffer so much

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Update: it’s an endowment plan.

Update2 : there has been no withdrawal made and payment has been made regularly since 1994. The agent who sold this policy to my dad is no longer in prudential so it’s more troublesome too. I’ve also attached another pic regarding the loss of $ (which I’ve no idea what it is)

Update3: Hi there! Didn’t expect to receive so much help from everyone. I’ve already sent the documentations to my friends who’re from diff insurance agencies and they’re looking into it to see if they’re able to help   I’ve also translated the knowledge I’ve learnt from everyone to my dad but we’ll have to wait till Monday to see how the situation unfolds (I was told that someone from prudential will be contacting us, we don’t know how it’ll go but we’ll see).

For those who’re not providing any useful advice at all and is attacking my dad and I, please know that none of us expected this to happen. The term insurance is a very new concept to him in the 90s. Just because you’re literate now doesn’t mean that everyone is back then in the 90s. Your parents could’ve bought similiar policies for their retirement plan back then, and they could’ve ended up in a similiar fate if they’ve an unethical agent whose mind is prob only on their KPI, serving them.

Once again, thanks everyone for your advice and concern regarding the situation and I really appreciate it. Have a great weekend ahead!

Update4 08/04: Last update till Monday. I’ve uploaded extra pics regarding the documentation. Thanks to all of you, I was able to understand more about insurances, riders, guaranteed sum etc. I was able to educate my dad on that and advice him accordingly as to what I’ve been told. So here’s his question, why did the policy schedule (pic1) indicate that he would be receiving $42k based on the contract he has in the 90s even though the assured sum is 20k? There has been no signs of the word ” projected ” anywhere in the policy schedule which is pretty misleading imo.

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Update5 10/04: A rep from pru contacted my dad and has explained the policy as whole, but there was still no explanation regarding the letter which states the 42k.

2) My dad told her what went down on his visit to Prudential Singapore’s customer service during feb. Basically after the situation which was explained on this post (my dad being dismissed etc), he requested to see a manager, but was denied. Customer service then told us to go ahead with complaining.

3) He was informed that the company has no records of the first letter which I’ve uploaded and asked my dad if there’s a pru logo on it/envelope accompanying it (are you guys insinuating anything?). Just so all of you know, the first letter which accompanied the policy was sent in this gold coloured envelope during the year of purchase (wow this paper is as old as I am).

4) I’ve emailed the documents WITH LOGO to the pru rep as of 11am, she told my dad that she will be visiting him tomorrow. Also I’ve uploaded the documents with logo here too.

Update6 12/04 – Update from my parents:

Yesterday, 3 prudential representatives came to my house to explain the policy to my parents and to understand the entire situation. As the company has no records of the documentation regarding the policy, they took pictures of it and brought it back for investigation.

The reps also told my dad that the policy schedule was done by agent back then and not by the company. Regardless of whether it’s done up by the company or the agent, the fact that the policy was from Prudential, the company should be accountable for it. After all, It has their prudential logo and such mistake is their internal matters.

Fortunately, the reps have also agreed that the company has responsibility regarding this issue too.

My dad then explained to them that he bought the policy back then in the 90s bcuz of the 42k that the agent promised and the written policy schedule (as shown in the pic, there was no indication that it’s a projected sum) and that he wouldn’t have bought it if it was otherwise.

The reps then told him that they’ll be investigating the matter and will be contacting him again next Wednesday.

(My dad also wanted me to convey that he has been honest throughout this whole episode and there’s nothing to hide.)

Post closed: ” I will not be making any further comments on this issue and this post is closed “

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Source: Tyler JWY on Facebook

“CHUBBY” GIRL SCARED TO SHOW HER REAL WEIGHT ON DATING APPS, FEELS ASHAMED

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Quick question here; do guys only like skinny/fit girls? or do guys get attracted to chubby/fat girls as well?

Im on dating apps but too afraid to show my photos that can see my real weight but at the same time i won’t be able to meet the guy i match with when he doesn’t know that i’m fat. i’m ashamed of my weight and i’m working on it now but i’m also hoping to date someone whilst i’m losing off my weight.

My looks is kinda average but wouldn’t call it ugly. just need to lose away my weight.

Netizens’ comments

  • Maybe you can let him know that you are on the mission to lose weight before the conversation continues further. If the gut just goes for 100% looks, then I’d rather you spend your time working out than meeting him.
  • Some attracted to skinny, some to a little meaty, some like fat and some whose liking evolved from skinny to chubby..bottom line, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
  • Guys like curvy skinny or curvy meaty. Then skinny. Guys dont like fat and out of shape.
  • Be confident! Beauty comes in different sizes and shapes. I used to be 68kg when I met my husband. I am 50+ now. We lose weight together but gained back together too.Beauty lies on the eyes of the beholder. A beautiful personality is more attractive. Good luck, dress up and smile

COUPLE IN S’PORE DIVORCE, $1M WEDDING ANG PAO COUNT AS ASSET TO BE SPLIT

A $1 million ang pao was included in the matrimonial assets to be split between a divorced couple, after a ruling by a Judge of the Appellate Division (JAD).

The ruling on 18 February reverses a previous ruling by the High Court in Singapore after the couple appealed against the previous decision.

Context

The couple got married on 3 January 2015, and had their first child (a son) in November that year.

The wife then moved out of their home on 28 September 2017 and took their son along with her, before filing for a writ of divorce on 25 July 2018.

An interim judgement was granted on 25 January 2019, with both parties still unsatisfied with the High Court’s judgement that was made on 28 January.

They had disagreed over the division of assets and maintenance, with the appeal being presided by judges Belinda Ang, Woo Bih Li and Quentin Loh.

Ang pao meant for son

On their wedding day, the groom was given a $1 million ang pao (a cheque was inside) by his father, who told the court that it was meant for his son alone.

The father also explained that the bride had received jewellery worth about $20,000 during the tea ceremony, and the groom also gave her a BMW.

The wedding dinner expenses were also not paid for by the bride.

The $1 million cheque that was given to the groom by his father was then deposited into his personal account.

The court found that the cheque was given to the husband in the presence of his wife, and that it “would be viewed objectively as a gift to the couple”, even though the cheque was in the husband’s name.

Wife secretly recorded husband

The wife also had a secret audio recording in July 2017 that was taken without her husband’s knowledge, with the wife asserting to the husband that the $1 million was for the both of them and they had intended to put it in a joint account, which the husband did not do so.

The husband also did not correct his wife (in the recording) that the $1 million was for him alone.

However, even with the inclusion of the ang pao into the total poll of matrimonial assets to be split, the overall pool of the assets decreased from $5.4 million to $2.4 million, after the husband’s $1.744 million share of a Bukit Timah property and $2 million of dividends from the shares of an undisclosed company were excluded.

The judges ruled that the pool will be split with the husband taking 66.5% and the wife taking 33.5% of the $2.4 million worth of assets and money.