Ordered Grab food, The delivery guy delivery mode is walking, but it started raining. He told me there will be a delay so i told him there is a shortcut if he takes the underpass from the mrt and there is a sheltered walkway.

He ignores my message and decides to sit at the restaurant for 10 minutes. I repeated my message again, he doesn’t respond and cancelled my order. Which means he probably ate my food.

I don’t understand, am i in the wrong? By taking the sheltered shortcut he would would be able to complete my order quicker and be able to complete more orders when the day ends.

I guess he dosent like to be bossed around thats why he chose to do grabfood, don’t know if he will progress much in the future.

Here are what netizens think:

• This is the stupidest complaint I’ve heard. There may be other reasons why your order was cancelled. Since you know the bloody shortcut then you go walk and buy the food yourself. If you can’t even do that, ur the bigger failure in life!

• I’m not sure why people seem to bash the poster.I think the issue is that the delivery guy did not update the customer that he will be cancelling, or is unable to deliver the food. He simply cancelled it.That’s not right. If there is a genuine reason to cancel, inform the customer. Then cancel.Nothing wrong with cancellation; it’s how it’s done.

• Delivery man late I ask no hurry safety first I can waiting and give him a drinking water this is what we care than they were bliss you

• So funny bcos those who order food delivery always assume food will come on time or ASAP. Why? Cos u paid $1 more for delivery? Get a life!

• You assumed that he probably ate your food. He’s at the restaurant. He probably gave the food back. It’s his safety, even if you give him shortcut. He can choose to proceed to deliver with your shortcut. If he doesn’t choose to, it’s his choice.You assume too much. Guess here guess there. You got trust issues is it

• By seeing what you wrote showed that you have no sympathy to others and i guess your brain is also very short cut and no future! If really as you assume the delivery personnel cancel your food and eat, take it as a gesture of kindness, giving him a free meal during raining days. Or even give him more time to deliver and ask them to be safe or ride/ walk safe.

hi everyone, would like to seek opinions if is it normal for my boyfriend to reject my S advances?

As every time when im at his place or he is at my place and my parent’s arent home and i try to ask him to do it with me, he rejects me and says he wants to wait till we’re married before doing it.

I’m his 1st girlfriend and his 27, and we’ve been together for 2 years already so I don’t know why is he so shy, is my boyfriend secretly gay? As i can’t think of any guy who would reject their girlfriend when their girlfriend is the one initiating it, and i did say whether he wants to use a rubber anot it is up to him, but he acts like a wuss and keeps rejecting me.

How do i get him to man up and do it?

Here are what netizens think:

• He is keeping his virginity for his one true love whom he is going to marry. Nothing wrong with it . Premarital S used to be the wrong thing to do until ppl normalised it and start thinking not having it, is abnormal.

• Does he have a religion that he adheres to closely? Or his family has very strong moral values? He’s a keeper. Respecting you and your body and yet you do not even appreciate it. Just because a guy doesn’t want to have S with you you think he’s gay?? That’s a very toxic mentality. There’s nothing abnormal with not wanting to have S before marriage and people who have this value shouldn’t be shamed into thinking there’s something wrong with them.

• Hmmmm, did you manage to check or visually see before that it is functioning tool.

• Don’t blame yourself for wondering what’s wrong with him. He could be a monk. See if you can break him. Be the dominant one!

• Your bf is a real keeper. He’s mature, and he doesn’t want the risk of having a baby outside marriage.

I am a recent grad and have been working for a big company for about a year in an office job. Feeling really mentally stressed and burnt out. I have been wanting to change some job which I am overqualified for, like a diploma level job or a blue collar job like plumber or carpenter.

I feel that companies in sg have overly high demands on employees in degree white collar jobs. We usually have to multitask and take on a wide jobscope. On top of that, we still have CCAs like organising meetings and events, writing minutes, being in some commitee etc which everyone have to do on top of their already packed jobscope. Because of all these demands, I often have to work overtime or do extra work at home to clear my load. I have known from my many friends that this is very common across many different companies and industries.

I envy those in non-degree jobs such in admin or support roles or blue collar ones who only need to focus on one jobscope and their work is quite routine. They can usually leave on time, don’t have to bring work home and don’t need to do much CCAs. If I join these jobs, I surely will need to take a big paycut but hey, life isn’t just all about work right? Many of these people work these jobs their whole life and are able to support a family, buy a house etc.

Here are what netizens think:

• Changi Aviation industry have a lot of mid to blue collar job. Comfortable environment too. Pay range from 2k to 4k plus. Technology or white collar 3k to 5k range.

• It’s ultimately down to whether u’re ok with it… And u REALLY gotta be ok with it cos it could be a path of no return…U take that path, u find the pay too low, u’re gonna face challenges if u wanna transition back to a grad position cos employers will wonder why the heck u took a paycut to do a brain-dead job in the first place. It would be time wasted.Not all employers will be willing to let u “try”. And after doing “relaxed” jobs for awhile, u’ll find it even harder to adjust back to a demanding, high-pressure environment.Not to mention that u would have lost years of experience, and you would be starting in the same level as fresh grads younger than u and more hungry than u.

• Be a tutor, stress free work.