My husband’s ExWife sent me a video of them getting intimate the day before our wedding?

She and him were married for 4 years. He ended it saying she was impossible to live with but she made claims about him being violent to her which never been proven.

She sent me a video of themdoing it literally the day before my wedding. she did it using social media. It was….unexpected and for some reason made me feel unwell and uneasy.

It certainly affected me mentally because everyone noticed how I looked and behaved at the time. My husband found out after the wedding and he swore he had no idea his ex was still keeping this stuff because he made sure everything they shared was deleted/wipped.

He was as shaken as me but told me to just let it go and not let it take anymore of our time together but I just can’t get it off my mind, especially when I’m intimate with him.

It feels off, really off and I hate that this is how it feels when it’s supposed to be our best time together.

I feel like his ex’s anger and resentment ruined the best time of my life for me and my husband. I don’t even get why she would do such thing and what she would gain.

I could never understand.

Imagine getting hired on your first day at work to get hit.

A Mynanmmaar woman who was hired to be a maid was punched in her head on the very first day of work.

According to Channel News Asia, the assault later for almost a year, her employer kicked the maid’s head on several occasions and even drag her out of the home.

34-year-old Bai Yi Hong was sentenced to 8 months and 6 weeks in jail for two charges of voluntarily causing hurt and one charge of attempting to obstruct the course of justice.

Background

Bai resides in a flat with her mother Hai Yulan in Hougang, The mother was previously fined $3,000 for using criminal force on the maid.

What happened?

The maid was hired by Bai’s husband and worked for the family on 17 November 2019 – She was unhappy because Bai had hit her on separate occasions.

The maid went to see a doctor on 5 November because she had a stomachache, and was told by Bai to stay with her in-laws because she was scared her son would fall sick as well.

Hai and Bai then went to fetch her home the next day to which the maid refused to go with them, saying that she doesn’t want to work for them anymore.

Bai then scolded the maid and accused her of stealing from them, adding that if Bai had hit her, she should go to the police.

The maid then wanted to call her agent and Bai then shouted at her, telling her to pack up and “get lost”.

The maid then asked her agent to come and get her, to which Bai then pulled her by the arm to drag her out of the flat.

The victim refused to move and Bai then pulled her arm again, along with Hai who joined in and pulled her other arm to drag her out.

Bai then rained blows on the maid as Hai crouched over the victim and tried to push Bai away.

The assault finally ended after the maid started the victim, to which Hai then tried to calm the victim down.

The agent was then called by another maid inside the flat, who followed the victim to make a police report.

I’ve been mad at my boyfriend for ignoring me, but I’ve finally realized he’s tired of me.

The last few months of our relationship, I’ve noticed he ignores my texts, won’t acknowledge me when I’m standing next to him talking to him, and just in general ignoring my existence.

I’ve been angry with him, trying to do the same, but I can’t. I can’t give him his own medicine because I love him. I love spending time with him, and I love communicating with him. Thinking on it today, I just realized it’s because he’s tired of me. He’s use to me. He doesn’t appreciate my time like I do his.

I just needed to tell someone this, because it’s the first time I’ve had a different view that wasn’t “I’m not good enough.” It’s a “I’m not appreciated the same way I’m expecting it.”

I don’t know what is next, but this was huge for me. I feel like I’m growing.

people seem to think I’m codependent or have some sort of anxiety separation, and I’m sorry, but it’s not the case.

I work 10 hours out of my day, so texting is our main communication. He’s asleep by the time I come home and I sleep in due to my schedule. He’s on his phone every minute that I’m home.

I’ll make my coffee, tell him I love him when I see him, and he’ll ignore me because he’s too into something on his phone, or respond 3-5 minutes later.

No I don’t think he’s cheating.

I haven’t seen any energy towards the relationship. No dates, gifts, watching tv shows together, movies, chore sharing, etc. The most I get is an “I love you.”

I try to plan dates a minimum of once a month, but he shoots them down. I buy him flowers and things that make me think of him occasionally and he doesn’t seem to appreciate them very much.

I’m going to talk to him before anything.

A man shared a story online which shows the extent that people will do just to “fit in” with other friends.

Sometimes, people take things too seriously and the term “face” is often overrated.

Here is the story:

I have this friend known as the king of credit card rolling, from the outside he looks like he got money but deep down he is very poor.

He drinks every day and asks people to drink with him to show that he has “spending power”. The problem is, that he does not have spending power, his credit card is always at the limit and sometimes even exceeds the amount.

He claims that he is working in a senior position in a company and has a high salary, but the fact is, it does not matter if he is making $1,000 or $10,000 a month. The way he spends money is like money grows on trees.

From month to month he will survive by making minimum credit card payments + interest. To be honest it does not concern me.

But every now and then he will cycle among our clique and ask us to borrow him $50 so he can afford lunch the next day, this has going on for years and it’s really getting annoying.

In another words, he has no cash and zero savings and survives from month to month with his credit card.

To be living on a high is his dream, no matter how fake it is. He just wants to show off.

Many of us have items from our childhood and we have been keeping them for memory or value sake.

A man shared a story about a dispute between himself and his girlfriend after she threw away his prize collection of Digimon.

Here is the story:

There are alot of people who collect the things they love, for me I like to collect digimon. I have the first edition digimon still in it’s packaging.

The 1st generation might not be worth much but a mint unopened one is worth at least several hundred dollars.

Guess what? My retarded girlfriend think that it’s some old trash and threw it down the bin while she was cleaning.

I asked her where is my digimon she said she threw the toy away, I told her that its my collector’s item and why did she threw it without asking me. Guess what she said

“It looks like some old toy thats why I threw it away”.

I then turned on my PC and search for the item and showed her that it was worth several hundred dollars. She refuse to believe me even though it was listen on Ebay and insist that it was trash.

I told her buy it back for me or she can compensate me via cash. She told me I was talking nonsense and said that she will not pay me back for throwing away my trash.

I told her to the face: “Get out of my house because you are trash that cannot even recognize value”.

She leave in a hurry and closed the door hard trying to show her anger.

Knn, this is ridiculous. You throw away people’s stuff then refuse to admit that your wrong and still have the audacity to show anger.

She then called me few hours later crying. I told her I don’t need someone that has the intelligence of a buffalo to be my partner and I end it with her.