A netizen shared how her father cheated on her mother and blames her for exposing him as well as wanted to sue her for invading his privacy.

Here is the story:

“I think I’ve reached the lowest point of my life. I recently found out that my father was cheating on my mother.

Not only did he not feel any remorse over his action, he pushed the blame on me since I was the one who exposed his affair.

He even mentioned that he was going to sue me for snooping through his phone and invading his privacy.

Isn’t it ironic that evidence of adultery is needed in court and yet the means to acquire this evidence requires privacy invasion?

I can’t believe a father would think about suing his own child over this when he was the one who was in the wrong.

I’m honestly so drained from this and am really worried over our financial situation after this divorce. I think I’m panicking on the inside over the fact that my mom and my siblings might be homeless after all this…

I’m starting to blame myself for exposing the truth to my mother since it was perhaps better for me to close one eye and live in ignorance.. life could have been simpler and happier that way..

I am really lost and have no idea what to do….”

Editor’s note: You did nothing wrong.

A netizen shared how he is dating a girl who openly uses dating apps in front of him when they’re together and refuses to sleep with him.

He added that she would rather give her virginity to a sugar daddy for money than to him.

Here is the story:

“What should I do with my GF who uses dating apps while we’re together?

I’m a 160cm guy, got rejected by females way too many times and it’s hard for me to even find a girl who likes me back.

But well, I somehow managed to find a girl who agreed to date me but she openly uses dating apps in front of my face and often talks about her chats with the guys on there to me.

She would ask me what she should reply to them and even screenshot their chats and laugh about them to me.

She would swipe guys in front of me and almost every swipe was a match. My friends told me to break up with her but how could I, when I really want some affection from a girl and it took me so long to finally get a girl?

Breaking up isn’t an option, because as long as she’s willing to stick with me, I’m willing to do anything, even if it means enduring seeing her use dating apps and sugar daddy websites.

She said it’s because I don’t have money to spend on her, so she has to search for sugar daddies.

I swear this isn’t a troll because I know it sounds ridiculous – but she’s a virgin and doesn’t want to sleep with me. She would rather give her virginity to sugar daddies for the money. (she’s not even poor so idk why?)

She even told me “you no money what, unless you have money then you don’t come to talk to me about it”.

I feel hurt but I can’t tell her off because she told me “It’s my choice if I wanna use dating apps, you can’t control me. If you wanna date me, you have to accept that I’m gonna use tinder and I WILL continue to use tinder just so you know.”

She’s obviously threatening to break up if I try to control her…. and I can’t break up with her because I really like her and it’s not like I have other options…..

She’s pretty, fun to be with and although she doesn’t treasure me as much as I treasure her, I don’t want to lose her just because she is still on the lookout.”

Editor’s note: You deserve better bro, she’s clearly using you for the free meals and etc.

A netizen shared how her boyfriend is bi and all his exes are all guys, which she doesn’t have any issues with. But she found out that he is on the “receiving end” of his past relationships and now she feels like he can’t provide her with security.

Here is the story:

“My boyfriend is bi and his exes were all guys. I’m aware and don’t have any issues with IT.

Recently I got to know one of his close friends and he briefly shared that my boyfriend was the bottom in all his relationships and hookups. I thought he was kidding but he laughed it off and said I can ask my boyfriend if I don’t believe it.

I’m a bit thrown off as my boyfriend looks like the top in a gay relationship instead. He’s tall, fit, tanned, and is quite well endowed down there.

I didn’t ask him directly initially and snooped around his room when I stayed over. While rummaging through belongings, I found his adult toy and it’s bigger than mine… wtf.

I confronted him about the adult toy and asked him about his bottom status and he didn’t even deny it. He said he likes the feeling from receiving and uses the adult toy now for his own pleasure now that he’s attached with me.

He even clarified that’s where the male g spot is and there’s nothing to be ashamed of receiving pleasure from there. The only taboo is straight people might see it as gay, which he emphasizes is not as it’s an anatomy thing.

He also reassured me that he enjoys sleeping with me and has never betrayed me with any guys. I trust him on this.

I tried to move past all of this but it’s challenging, especially when we sleep together. I will imagine him being penetrated and dominated and I just lose all my interest in him. I just cannot unsee and unhear that he’s a bottom.

My subconscious self also tells me that he’s less manly and can’t provide me with the security I need. I know it’s selfish of me to think this way but I can’t help it.

Anyone who has the same experience or has advice on how I should deal with this?”

Editor’s note: He’s not cheating on you, so what’s the problem?

A netizen shared how he wants to warn others against joining the insurance industry, citing his own experiences.

Here is the story:

“Insurance Agent,

I’m writing this to warn people stay out of insurance business which many young people fall into in recent years.

I’m from a single parent family migrated from neighbour country looking for a better future, my mum passed away when i’m 3. And then, me and my dad been renting houses till now for 20+ years due to all sort of finance straint and wrong decision made over the years which still in big debt now…

Me & my dad are both PR which few year back i converted to singaporean after serving NS, so the story all started from after serving NS, one of my poly closed friend invited me over to one of the big insurance company and i joined without any hestitation due to young mindset i guess, and then nightmare begin….

Does’nt have any family here, no connection to any upper class, not much friends due to always working part time since young to cover the cost of living and the rental. Definetely not good looking, why in the earth when they told me i can success in this career and i belived it?

i tried so hard to hustle warm/cold contact around me until i realized one important thing after joining this career for 2 years. Nobody or very seldom people will get or trust anything i said from a poor dude that always left in their impression since young. Every single colleagues joined this business closed their family within a year with big cases to success and posted in group chat to boast about it.

Everytime they post, everytime i cried so hard, felt so useless & alone in my small rented room shared with my dad.

After 2 years of wasting time & i’m in my late 27 now, i loses all my passion/hopes in this career expecially hustling was nearly impossible during this pandemic period.

I turned myself into trading stock recently & lost all my life saving due to emotional trading.

I have 0 incomes for months and loses all hopes in life.

Guess the only thing that i cant bear to see is my father crying………. i really dissapoint you as a son compared to so many people……….i’m sorry……..

Please stay out of Being a FA, agree or not, if you’re poor and no family connection this will be the last job you ever want to join to ruin your future.

Wish you all make a good decision and strike for the best.”

Editor’s note: Keep your head up bro, you tried your best. Why do we fall down in life? So that we can learn to pick ourselves up. Hang in there brother.

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A girl shared how she got scolded by her boyfriend while having “special time” with him over his positioning and her feeling pain, they even stopped midway just to argue.

Here is the story:

“Are there fellow females out there who was scolded by their boyfriends during intercourse?

Me and my bf were getting it on but he was hurting me (i thought it was due to the angle he was hitting it at) so I kept telling him to centralise his body, he shifted a few times but I was still feeling pain whenever he thrust so I kept telling him to move to the centre.

he then got angry at me and shouted “it’s already in the fucking centre la”.

there were also other times when we would argue mid-intercourse due to our rs problems (he would start shouting at me and we would stop intercourse halfway cos our mood was spoilt).

Traumatized

I feel like he has traumatized me and my perception of intercourse bc of the bad experiences I had w him, and I don’t know how I’m going to ever heal from this.

I can’t be the only one who was scolded and shouted at during intercourse right? (it wasn’t in a kinky way btw, but he was legit mad at me)”

Editor’s note: Just scold him back and stand up for yourself.

A girl shared how she slept with one of her friends and after that, he started treating her coldly because he thinks of her as a pushover.

She later came to the realisation that he was only using her all along.

Here is her story in full

“So after I had s-x with one of my friends (no one knows about this except us), he started to treat me differently.

He is such a nice guy to everyone but when it comes to me he is very cold. At first I thought it was because he was very comfortable with me.

But then I realised that he thinks of me as a pushover and he was just using me. We are in the same clique and it annoys me every time I can sense the differential treatment.

Should i just not be friends with him anymore?

Editor’s note: Yeap, you should leave him and get better friends.

My toxic work environment is making me want to quit. I’ve 2 colleagues who are of equal and lower statuses than myself and they have been sucking up to the boss.

They enable the bosses bad habits too, like responding to requests over the weekend and after hours. It has come to the point where my boss’ instructions to the team come from them. Like what?!? He is clearly not an objective and partial leader. I fear for my performance review because us who draw the line with work-life balance and don’t believe in sucking up with suffer.

Is there anything at all I can do about it?? Even advice on how to stay sane will be appreciated.

Here are what netizens think:

• You can draw boundaries and disengage but do note it can be really challenging to fix a toxic work environment, especially if you are much lower on the hierarchy scale. Is going to drain a lot of your energy, both mentally and emotionally. I would consider looking for another job.

• dont think yr colleagues are sucking up. yr boss does not respect weekend time and they are responding according, the former should be the one drawing the line and telling yr colleagues no emails during weekends. you can ask for a team transfer or quit or if you feel yr boss can change, escalate to yr boss’s boss and see if he/she takes in the feedback (unlikely)

• Personally I have to like and respect the boss to be able to work comfortably in a place for a long time, so if it’s not suitable, I’d rather look for another place than to stay. It’s like a relationship, it has to be a suitable partner since working life takes up quite a huge chunk of our daily life and time. The negative feelings will just grow inside if you force yourself to stay and then keep feeling unhappy. There are many stressed out and angsty people around nowadays, so it’s better to find alternative options rather than let the negative feelings accumulate until you become like that too. All these subtle stuff happening internally can slowly affect the mental and physical health.

A woman who got married earlier this year shared her horror story about living with her mother-in-law and warned others about moving in with their in-laws.

Here is the story:

“I just got married earlier this year and decided to move in with my mother-in-law (her husband is not in the picture).

She has retired and owns a 5 room flat. She lives there with my husband (the only son in contact with her). She has 3 other children and all do not keep in contact with her.

5 room flat – more than enough space for all of us. But many things happened that caused us to eventually move out.

Unreasonable

1) The master bedroom is empty and is used as a storage room (she has many items that she refused to throw). Before we move in, we asked her if we can use the room and she agreed. However, weeks before our wedding when we were preparing to move in, she refused to move the items in the storeroom. So, she actually expected us to stay in there with all the items she does not use but refuse to throw. I was upset but I have no choice, it’s her home.

2) Her home also does not have an electric kettle. When I bought one, she did not allow me to use it in the kitchen (although it is huge and the countertop has a lot of space). I ended up using in my already cramped room with her things everywhere.

3) When I brought some of my clothes with me to move in, she kept saying I am bringing too many things into her home. Mind you, I didn’t bring too many things since I did not even have a wardrobe (it’s full of her clothes and items that she refuses to move). I only brought 2 duffel bags.

4) She also woke us up daily at 5 am asking us to help her with house chores before we go out for work. My husband said she has never done that before we got married.

Ignored her

There are many other things but these are the ones that I can remember clearly. Throughout this ordeal (which lasted only a few weeks), I did not say anything mean to her or talk back to her at all. In fact, I tried to talk to her nicely and asked her how her day was, prepared food for her. She completely ignored me every time or just glared at me. I just remember crying a lot. She did not even talk to me, she only spoke to my husband. She did glare at him and all, but at least she talked to him.

It has been a few months but it really hurt me. It also affected my marriage negatively. It made me feel like I was better off not being married since I felt very unwelcomed. I felt like nothing when I was living there. I cannot lie but at that point in time, I even felt regret marrying my husband. She was totally normal before we got married FYI.

Finally moved out

Now we have moved out into our own resale home. Whenever I visit (just out of obligation), she is mostly normal and acts as if all of that did not happen. However, I don’t think I can ever forgive her for treating me that way. I am still extremely hurt today. I even have nightmares about it.

I have made it clear to my husband that she is not welcome to stay with us in our home, even if she gets sick and needs extra care. I feel bad but I really cannot forgive her. I wish I can get rid of this pain and hatred I feel towards her.

So.. yes.. pls be cautious about moving in with your in-laws.. you will never know their true colors until you have lived with them on a long term basis (staying overnight doesn’t count!).”

Editor’s note: Very well said.

A Singaporean guy recently posted on Facebook and stated on how he wishes he was a girl as he would be able to make millions easily. He said that he could easily earn $5,000 a day by selling his body or selling his bath water.

Here is the full story.

Sometimes I wish I was a girl. As a 23 year old, if I was a slightly pretty girl, it is extremely easy to make millions. In the past, the one of the easy way for a girl to make millions is to become a prostitute. For example, on the forums, local university girls have an hourly fee of 700 dollars. Some of the younger ones would request to as high as 1000 and if you go to higher end escort forums as much as 5000.

Considering an low count of 5 clients a day, that amounts to 5000 a day. Do it 5 days a week and they could make around 100k a month, possibly out earning some of our ministers and definitely out earning the ‘mediocre people who earn only 500k a year’. I know of girls auctioning their v*rginity for multi-millions to Arabian oil barons. These days, there are a lot more options for girls these days. They can be a twitch streamer or a Instagram model. Belle Delphine makes around 2 million a month feeding her octopus pet and selling her bath water for up to $30 a bottle (which was sold out in hours).

Only fans is also another platform for girls to make money fast. With technology, they don’t even need to meet their clients physically. The possibilities are endless as long as there are legions of h*rny teenagers (and half grown men) in their mom’s basement to exploit. Unfortunately as a male, my options are rather limited. I did consider providing anal services even though I am not gay, but the pay is quite low and the market is rather small in Singapore.

Unfortunately, I don’t look like Brad Pitt, so no girls would pay me for company. Even if I manage to get to FAANG or hedge funds, I would only make 200k-500k a year by my 30s which is very mediocre compared to what these girls could make at their 20s. Realistically, I would probably work in a regular job, maybe earn my first million by 40 or 30 if I am extremely lucky which is rather sad ngl.

A woman shared how her husband wiped out his savings to buy a luxury car and told her that it was to reward himself, she then questions the need to make such a buy when they are trying for a baby.

Here is the story:

“I’m so angry that my husband bought a luxury car and wiped out his savings in the process, and it’s going to be a lot out of our pocket every month.

We still have our joint savings that he didn’t touch, but I just felt like he was too impulsive.

I asked him if he ever considered that he wouldn’t be able to pay off the rest, and he asked why I was such a pessimist.

He explained that it’s something to reward himself, to push himself to work harder, and it’s probably the one and only chance in a long while before he buys something for himself since we are trying for a baby.

To be fair to him, he is always very generous to his family and friends, and has the mindset that money can always be earned back.

But I can’t stomach the fact that he willingly made such a huge purchase just like that, and the thing is he only drives probably less than 5 times a month as he doesn’t drive to work.

I just feel like the money can be put to much better use like investments and other stuff???”

Editor’s note: This is going to be one of those “oh I wish I hadn’t done that” moments a few years down the road.