My girlfriend is cheating on me ! I found her texts with another guy because I had been seeing they were talking for a few weeks. This is the first time I’ve checked her phone since we started dating over 2 years ago.

Yea she’s been seeing this man and talking to him about how much she regrets sharing a place to stay with me. I confront her the first she didn’t say anything, I go the second time she gets mad at me then apologizes shortly after. Couple days go by and she acts like nothing happened, then at the park while we’re with her mother I see his notification pop up. I act like I don’t see it, I check it again and she gives the man our new address. I confront her and she just gives me a million reasons why she can’t talk. There’s so much more I wish I can add for you guys to better understand my situation. Either way I’m not sure what to do now!

She soon got pregnant and I had this gut feeling that it was not mine, I went to the doctor and found out that if I were to do a maternal test before the baby is born there will be some risk involved.

So I waited till she give birth and I refused to marry her even then. So finally after giving birth I decided to do the test and found out that kid is not mine. I was kind of bluffing myself hoping that its not true and I have since gone MIA on her.

She belongs to the streets. I have a Career, school to finish and life to live. She made her own decision it’s time for her to go.

Talked to her this morning again she doesn’t know what she wants apparently and doesn’t seem willing to co-parent and wants to dump the child for me to take care as the guy she slept with has a family.

She won’t really acknowledge or respond with anything so it’s basically talking to a brick wall. I’m just trying to figure out what we do with our during this situation she put us in.

My mother is making me socially isolated.

I am 43F and I am slowly going crazy because of the mom. Whenever friends send gifts to my home, nmom will say bad things and insist the edible items are poisonous and make up stories about the inedible items being spoiled or being stolen goods.

Also, when I go out with friends, my nmom will pull a long face, give me cold treatment and make unreasonable comments about my friends.

she will say things that don’t make sense and act like a victim. She’ll throw things, call me unfillial, scream and shout and insist I stay at home every day with her.

she insist i come back immediately after work too.

i feel so trapped and so socially isolated. I feel like I am going crazy. How do I go on living such a life? I currently am not working (going back to school) so I can’t move out too.

I don’t know what to do…

Netizens’ comments

• I’m sure OP has her reasons or difficulties in not moving out so let’s give her that credit. I am worried however, of the disruptive nature that your mom exhibits. It is definitely not a healthy one, and especially at this age (since you’re 40 I’m assuming your mom is in her late 60s to 70s), it might be detrimental to your mom as well. 

• I’ve watched many shows about schizo. Seems like it. Of course, I’m not an expert. But a lot of things point to it. They may have the tendency to become paranoid and suspect people of saying or doing bad things.

I (24f) am completely over my husbands (24M) laziness in bed. We’ve been together for 3 years married for about 7 months now. We only recently started living with each other but our bedroom issues have been going on, on and off for majority of our relationship. I like to experiment and love pleasing my husband. I’ve probably done almost everything in the book to satisfy him and have opened him up a lot, and got him into things he would have never known he even liked. He thinks our intimacy is amazing. I have never finished.

Every time we have this conversation he gets upset and says I think he’s a horrible lover, pouts for a few days or weeks. Then will ask me in detail what I want from him. He’s very submissive now so he hates initiating so I’ve given up on that even though I’d really like him to be, so all I ask is for actual foreplay not just him wanting me to give him head and then go straight into the act. He’ll listen and start doing what I want once when we have get into it and then he falls back into his old habits and just keeps wanting head. If I complain or get upset, we don’t do it unless I get over myself and initiate it.

So after the last fight I was willing to have on the subject with him. I decided to go online and buy all the toys I’ve wanted but always put off buying, as well as some bondage items, etc. I didn’t tell my husband because he’s really awkward about me using toys, he feels like I should get off to him naturally and using toys is insulting to him so I never experimented with them. Thing is I don’t plan on using them with him. I brought them for myself so I can finally get the pleasure I’ve been asking for since I started exploring. We have a joint account so I knew he would see the charge eventually and question me.

Well two nights ago he saw the charge and approached me. I told him what I brought and he completely lost it. I told him that I don’t think it’s fair how he gets to experience all the pleasure during our intimacy and when it comes to me gets lazy. He told me I’m being dramatic and why am I with him if I hate our intimacy that much. He says he’s not gonna stay in our apartment while I’m using toys on myself every night and be okay with that. I say we can experiment with them together but he doesn’t want to hear it. Eventually he leaves and he doesn’t answer my phone calls or text for the night.

I got a call from his mother yesterday saying that he was at her house and pretty much saying how immature I was to approach a sensitive topic in such a bizarre manner and blow our money on toys. Furious that he even told his mom I told her I’m not discussing this with her, and that he can call me and hung up. We haven’t spoken in two days and he’s still not texting back. Even though I feel like I’m not wrong for wanting more when we sleep together. I feel like I crossed a line and shouldn’t have blown up at him over it. Am I in the wrong?

A maid was sentenced to jail after hitting a 2-year-old and kicking him till he was injured all over.

30-year-old May Than Oo, Myanmar national worked in Singapore as a maid and was assigned the usual household chores and taking care of young childing in the employer’s home.

The incident happened last year in June, while the accused was doing housework, she noticed a foul smell and realised that the 2-year-old has soiled himself and started smearing his faeces all over.

The maid got angry and slapped the boy in the face till he was crying.

As the boy was crying on the floor, the maid took a new diaper and towel and continued hitting the boy.

When the boy was told to go to the toilet, the boy walked the other way. The maid rage with anger and hit the boy’s face with the towel and hit him with her other hand til the boy fell on the ground once more.

While the boy was crying on the ground she kicked the boy.

After carrying the boy to the toilet, she continued to hit him with clothes hanger in the toilet.

The evidence was captured on the camera and the boy was found with bruises over his body.

The maid was eventually jailed for 9 months after pleading guilty to one charge of ill-treatment under the Children and Young Persons Act