Am I an overly sensitive girlfriend?

My bf went out with a close female friend last week. They are close friends who meet up once every 6 months to catch up. While i would actually be ok with him meeting with a friend of the opposite gender 1-to-1, he shared some details with me which made me feel uncomfortable.

Prior to meeting my bf, he had a crush on this girl for 2-3 years during sec/jc days and went on a few dates with her during the beginning of their uni days although there weren’t any romantic sparks between them eventually.

The girl also knew about his repeated interest in her but they continued remaining as good friends.

As for their catch-ups, although he tends to reassure me that it will be a fast meal and catchup session, it often took ~5hrs and he will drive her home after the date as it is on the way.

I don’t want to be overly sensitive about this but he rarely drives his friends home and usually, it is only to the nearest mrt station but for this female friend, he would go all the way out to drive her home. Once when he asked me, I mentioned that i would prefer if he did not send her home, but he got defensive and say its his duty to ensure she got home safely at night and since its on the way, he dont see a reason not to.

Furthermore, he never invites me over to have a meal with her before as he mentioned that they only meet up once every 6 months and he would like to spend the time alone catching up with her instead.

Recently he is very busy with his school projects and we have been meeting up lesser. However, he still took the effort to reach out to his female friend and ask for a meetup while cutting short our dating hours and days. During the entire 5+ hours dinner with her, he left my messages on hold and replied only after he returned home.

My gut feeling tells me that he is still interested in the girl but im afraid im just being overly sensitive. Appreciate some opinions…

What Are Faithful Long Distance Relationships?

Have you ever found yourself halfway around the world, far away from the one you love? It can make you feel very lonely at times. At least if you had an obstacle like a mountain or an ocean to separate you, you’d know how hard it is to get together.

But when you live down the street from each other, see each other at work every day, and you still can’t be together, it can be even more difficult. In a long-distance relationship, you need faith.

A netizen shared a story of how COVID-19 resulted in a long-distance relationship.

Here is the story:

12 years relationship, married for 4 years, LDR since COVID happened. Things were pretty tough for both of us who are in different countries, but we tried our best to keep our relationship going and make our communication works.

But what went down as I found out my partner registered a dating app account, chatted and met with the opposite sex, went out a few times and we “did it” a few times.

Partner claimed that it was just the LDR that made lust got stronger but things happened a week before we finally met…. Partner has been a great person, friends around us see us as the modeled couple. Kinda lost with the situation, not knowing what to do.

Can this act be forgiven?

Or it will ruin the relationship if we continue? Crying for help……

Is it possible for long-distance relationships?

Finding the right partner is arguably the most important decision a person makes in their lives. Once you have found your partner, keeping them is the next step. When you are in a long-distance relationship, it is that much harder to maintain a happy relationship.

Most of the time its a pipe dream.