A guy shared how his girlfriend is still in contact with her ex-girlfriend and theyhave been going out for meals and texting each other.

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Hi admin, please don’t filter this post. Would like to see what guys(or girls) think.

I got together with my girlfriend recently and she told me that she was still in contact with her ex who is of the same gender.

She said they are just pure friends. I don’t mind as she assured me that she loves me now.

However they have been texting often (albeit no flirtatious/lovey dovey messages) and have been meeting for meals regularly.

I really like her and decided to pursue her but it kinda bugs me that she came to know me only weeks after her previous breakup(our mutual friend brought us tgt) and is currently still in contact with her ex.

I don’t want to make it sound like its a big fuss because I trust her, love her and she has not much friends around her in the first place.

So am just throwing out the question here. Will you be ok if they are still in contact?

Netizen’s comments

• You are in a rebound relationship. She does not like you enough to exclusively see you only. By meeting her ex, she is playing with fire.

You did not show her where your boundary is so she step over it. Don’t be confused by gender. Love is love.

Don’t be shocked if she gets back together with that person.

A girl shared how she met a guy on a dating app and over time, his replies became generic and uninterested, and the girl ended up not texting him anymore.

He then scolded her for ghosting him and the girl then found out that he had blocked her already.

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Just a rant.So recently I was talking to this guy I met on CMB. We talked for around 3 weeks.

At the start, he seemed quite enthusiastic in continuing the conversation as his replies were relatively long and he also asked me questions about myself.

I seriously thought the conversation was going fine.

But after a while, he stopped asking questions and his replies started to get really slow (like once a day) with one-liner conversation stoppers, e.g. “Oh i see” “yeah I think so too”.

To me, this is an obvious signal that he is no longer interested in talking anymore, and I thought he probably didn’t want to be so direct in telling me that he is not interested.

So after a few days, I stopped replying.

Then he sent me a text and say how I’m being rude for ghosting him and that I should have the courtesy to let him know that I’m not interested to talk.

When I tried to reply, I realised he blocked me already.I have no idea how I’m supposed to interpret such situation.

Netizen’s comments

• No need to do anything. Lol. I play ping pong against the wall also get more responses. Hahaha.

A woman shared how she is married to her husband and they have a 2 month old baby, and that he has never paid for diapers, milk or anything at all.

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my husband is useless. our baby is 2 months old now, and he has never paid for diapers, formula milk, or anything at all. not hospital fees and confinement stuff too. not expensive at all, and idk where his money goes (gross salary about $3600).

oh and I give household allowance and just started paying for Tingkat meals too. I do earn 30% more than him so I’m not complaining too much on that part.

he would reach home from work and complain he’s tired when he gets a full 8 hours of undisturbed rest every night and I’m getting broken sleep totally 6 hours on average.

to top things off, he’s a constant liar (he says those were white lies) and I can’t trust him anymore.

idk when he’s gonna lie to me again. our room is a mess with his work stuff strewn all over, I try to tidy up but idk when I cannot stand it anymore I’m just gonna throw everything away.

should I dump him?

Netizens’ comments

• Dump….What’s the point of keeping an irresponsible partner who does nothing to help the family.
  I am a guy but I still have to say this…Women can live without men…But men can’t live without women….He will crawl back once he realize he needs you.

So I’ve been dejectedly frustrated at myself for what I did in the past 3 hours and wanted to vent, so sorry for the long post.

I wanted to try casual dating on Tinder and have been trying to meet up with people, and I decided to sign up using only my computer to talk to people (big mistake).

So, I matched with a guy nearby and we called each other to verify each other’s identity, and he told me that he also has been wanting to meet with people but every time he tried it has been a bust. He was really sweet and really tired of the failed conversations.

So we agreed to meet today to hook up at a specific hotel which he paid for $100~, and before we went there we met up at a mall parking lot to talk. I waited there for a while and it took a minute to recognize each other, and I told him I only use Tinder on my laptop so I couldn’t contact him on my phone, and that was the best time to exchange contact info, which didn’t happen. (big mistake x2)

We decided to drive separately to the hotel, and I used Google Maps to guide me. When I got there I sat there for 30 minutes looking for him. Since I didn’t have Tinder on my phone I wasn’t able to message to him, and I tried to contact him by opening Tinder on my phone. Since Tinder requires a phone number and an email (that I didn’t have on my phone) I couldn’t log in.

So, I tried logging into Tinder by finding an account with my email, and since Tinder said it found my account I hoped that it would let me access it. (big mistake x3)

Welp. It created a new account with my number and email, and I was told to refill all my info (I hoped that it would log me rather than creating a new account). This would end up resetting my Tinder account and losing all of my contacts. This logged me out of my Tinder account on the computer. So I have no way of messaging him since we didn’t exchange any sort of contact info. (which I realized now I just should’ve asked)

I logged in on my computer and started swiping madly to find the him. I actually found him again after a couple swipes, and then I realized I should have super-liked him so he would hopefully see my new account. (big mistake x4)

By this time I was reviewing in my head what could have gone wrong and then I looked on Google Maps and realized I went to the wrong hotel. I felt so bad.

So this literally happened minutes ago. So me (28m) and her (39f). Sorry for the rambling but I want everybody to get where I’m coming from. A little back story my wife and I met over 3 years ago in Thailand while I was over there on vacation.

My little bit of Thai and her little bit of English we still hit it off. I was there for 2 weeks and everything was obviously very “special bede time” while I was there. Honestly the best S of my life.

I went to live with her and her family in Thailand for 6 months. Her family and everybody was amazing she comes from a very religious background and everybody was super accepting. So I have her come to visit and after 3 months it’s either we get married or she has to return to Thailand. So we decided to get married because everything was going good.

And here and there she has made some impromptu trips to Thailand to see her family and friends etc. Just recently we have decided to start trying for a baby. We tried for a few months to no Avail, and she comes up with the idea to go to Thailand because Harmon therapy and invitro is cheaper.

You always hear the stories of women just wanting to be with you for a better life for themselves or her child. Everything seems genuine and we get along great but so many people have put stories in my head that I don’t know what to believe whether she has a fling in Thailand and I want to believe she just wants a good life for or she really wants to be with me.

But the baby turned out to look very different, My whole family is pale Chinese, she is also a Thai Chinese and her family was also quite white. But the baby came out dark brown.

Any personal advice would be greatly appreciated.. Thanks

My husband is calling me the worse daughter in law and saying I’m overreacting. His mother moved in with us after her caretaker quit, my husband’s uncle died in a car accident in December. In the end, the plan is that she’s going to go live with one of my husband’s other relatives so this isn’t permanent. She’s in her seventies and while pretty mobile and loves to go on walks and out in public with us to do errands she’s also becoming more senile every day and I honestly can’t take it anymore.

Since she’s always cooped up in this house my husband asks that I let her come with me and/or my kids to go to the park, grocery shopping, library, etc. I didn’t mind and actually liked the help (holding) of the baby while she was with us. But there’s been two situations where she’s said “karens” things very loudly embarrassing us. The first was when we went to a small coffee shop. It was me, my seven-year-old, my toddler and the baby and grandma. We were sitting down and there was a man with what appeared to be mixed looking kids in line. We had already been served and were sitting. Very loudly she turns to my oldest and goes “Well that’s just not right” and we all stared since she said it so loudly. She then kept repeating herself and started pointing to the family in the line in front of us. They looked very shocked and I was so embarrassed. Quickly I apologized and left in a hurry.

When I went home to tell my husband he was shocked but told me I was overreacting. He said we’d likely never see those people ever again and while it was bad they probably picked up on the fact that she’s not all the way there because she’s old and understood. I hesitated on bringing her out with us but after she kept complaining to my husband about never leaving the house I brought her out with us to the library this past weekend with just my oldest and while there she was being very rude to a man wearing a head covering and saying loudly she wanted to leave the part of the library we’re at while pointing to the man.

She then refused to leave the library after the man didn’t get up and just ignored her and I tried to tell her we were leaving and she got upset since we just got there. It made my daughter cry. When we got home I exploded on my husband that I am never going out in public with his grandmother again and told him what happened.

He said I didn’t know exactly why she was pointing at the man since she didn’t specify and that I shouldn’t assume it was to be ignorant and that I’m just looking for excuses to not take her out. He then said I’m a bad person since I know he’s busy with work in the afternoon and his grandma sleeps in and doesn’t wake up till late so me running errands is the only time she leaves the house and that if I don’t take her sometimes then she’ll really be crazy cooped up

Am I at fault here?