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CLEANER GOT COVID, BOSS DEDUCTS 5 DAYS MC FROM HIS SICK LEAVE

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A netizen’s father recently tested positive for Covid and as a result, had to isolate at home. But the father’s (who is working as a cleaner) boss then told him that he will deduct 5 days from his sick leave.

Here is the story:

my father works as a cleaner and I think his boss has been exploiting him.

Recently he was sick and given 5 days MC. On the same day he found out that he was tested positive for Covid. The boss told him that 5 days will be deducted from his MC even though 2 of those days fell on the weekend.

After that his boss called him again and said that if he doesn’t recover after the 5 days he has to see a doctor again to get more MC.

From what I understand, people with covid do not need MC to stay home and those days should be deducted from their hospitalization leave, but my father is too afraid to argue with his boss.

In fact initially he was afraid to even tell his boss that he has covid and cannot go to work on Monday. This is because historically the boss had forbidden my father from taking MCs on Mondays and Fridays and would accuse him of trying to take a long weekend even when he is genuinely sick.

The boss kept saying that all the other employees are trying to pull the same trick and I cannot understand what’s happening.

If he forbids everyone to take leave/MC on Mondays and Fridays, why would he have manpower shortage on those days.

If he did not impose this rule uniformly, does that mean he is targeting my father because he is a pushover?

Besides that, there were other things too like recently he told my father he had ran out of leaves when my father still had 5 days remaining. My father only started taking note of the days he took leave and that’s how he know he should have more days left. Previously he did not and we believe that over the years the boss may have cheated him of many leave days.

While my father’s weak personality is a big reason for all these, I also feel that blue collar worker tends to put up with more BS from their boss because they may be less aware of their rights/are more afraid to lose their job/more used to being taken advantage of. I told my father that we should follow MOM for all the leave issues and that he should stop working for this company but he wouldn’t listen.

Netizens’ comments

  • You need to consider that if you bring this to to MOM it may make your father’s job in this company harder. So best would be to find another job, leave and THEN go to MOM.
  • Bring this up to Tafep and see what they say.
  • I will suggest he leave, we have such a shortage of manpower in our local cleaning industry he won’t have an issue going elsewhere

Disclaimer: This post was first posted on the NUS Whispers Facebook page.

MAN CAUGHT STARING AT WIFE’S SISTER IN “SKIMPY” OUTFIT, DREAMT OF HER

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A netizen shared how his wife’s sister walks around their house wearing skimpy outfits and he has been caught staring at her, and now he is started to dream of her and he is enjoying it.

Here is the story

I’ve been happily married for few years and have a child too. My marriage life has been great with my wife. We don’t have major issues. Life has been happy and comfortable for us.

My wife’s sister is unmarried and not attached. She is close to us and spends most of her time with my wife and me. She has been so comfortable around me to the extent that she wears very skimpy clothing and sometimes she reveals too much. I think she has caught me staring at her few times too. But it didn’t seem like she minds. She doesn’t even bother to adjust when she knows my eyes are there.

The problem is lately I’ve been dreaming about her. Too often. The dreams are so real and there’s so much intimacy.

I do feel guilty about it but I’m slowly starting to enjoy the dreams. The feeling is undesirable yet enjoyable. I can’t see her the same “clean” way as before. I don’t know what to do. What should I do?

Netizens comments

  • Allow your brother to stay with you and let him walk around in skimpy clothing infront of your wife
  • Divorce your wife, be together with her sister.Was that the advice you were looking for?Hell if not, then why are you here?If you think that risking your happy marriage and family just because of two grape seeds, then my dear friend, let me break it to you that you will never be satisfied no matter where you go.Also, use your big head and not your little head and think la.. you think you brad pitt Johnny depp meh.. will ppl’s sister get tgt with their former BIL.. pls wake up your idea man..
  • Put yourself into coma so you can dream of her always 

GIRL’S 15 Y.O BROTHER OBSESSED WITH NAZIS, STARTING TO GET WORRIED

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A netizen shared how her brother has been obsessed with Nazis and even has the Nazi flag as his profile picture, and now she is getting worried as it is getting further out of hand.

Here is the story

My younger brother (15yo) is obsessed with nazis and Germany and everything else in between. Basically, it started with the interest with history, and then it evolved into fascination with the wars and now he has the nazi flag as his whatsapp profile picture + joined discord groups that seem to be pro-nazis.

It has been 2 years since he told me and initially I thought it was just a phase. He joked about how he knows to differentiate things in the discord, claiming he sees it all as a joke. But being a part of that for 2 years is borderline worrying for me.

I mentioned it to my mum, who also said it is an innocent phase, nothing to worry about. But now he is in this angsty, ‘cooler than everyone’ kinda phase too and things have just gone a bit worse.

He told me not to tell anyone, but he is looking to buy weapons. He had always had a fascination with them for years, but never to this extent. Because he took a part time job over the holidays,  he has decided that he wanted to buy real staff/baton/sword/blades kinda thing. I discussed with him the legality of it all and he claimed that since it can be delivered to sg that it is “allowed”. I told him not to do that but I don’t think he will listen.

I asked him why he wanted them and he said that he is interested in martial arts. “Why not take some lessons?” I asked him, but he says he hadn’t saved up enough for them yet and our parents wouldn’t want to sponsor. Which baffles me because you don’t have enough money to attend lessons that teach you how to handle these weapons safely and so instead of saving up, you decide to buy weapons instead??

He doesn’t share these things to anyone and I am worried that if I told my parents, he wouldnt trust me anymore and then nobody in the family would ever know anything. At least now, I can still try my best to guide him since he trusts me…

But I am worried. He had been diagnosed with ADHD just a few years ago too and so that kinda adds to his impulsiveness…

Anyone has advice? I’m leaning more towards telling my parents

Netizens’ comments

Inform ISD. Let them investigate. Not kidding.if we expect family members of radicalised individuals to report their kin to ISD, this is no different. people may die. SEN may be a mitigating factor but try telling that to the aggrieved after the deed is done?

Disclaimer: This post first appeared on NUS Whispers.

HUSBAND ENDED AFFAIR WITH WOMAN, WHO THEN STARTED STALKING HIM

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A netizen shared how her friend’s husband cheated on her with another woman and when he ended the affair, the other woman then started stalking him.

Here is the story:

If married men want to cheat, can you at least make sure your affair is not a psychotic stalker?

My friend’s husband cheated. He ended the affair and my friend chose to forgive him and start over. The issue now is that the woman refuses to let go. Turned stalker and even showed up at their residential home, demanding to see him.

My friend recorded the incident and I saw the clip. The affair woman looked out of sorts. Like gone mental already. Ignoring my friend and the children in the house and kept asking him why he is ignoring her calls. I feel frightened for my friend and their children!

My friend has called the police a few times and she has even changed phone numbers. They are even planning to move house too because the affair woman has been loitering around their place.

Netizens’ comments

  • Why blame the woman? Who knows she could actually be a perfectly normal person until that guy messed her up by getting involved in her life.
  • Your friend’s husband shd be the one dealing with the mess he created.

SUSPECTED DROWNING INCIDENT NEAR KUSU ISLAND, ONE MAN STILL MISSING

The Singapore Police Force said in a statement on 13 February that they were alerted to a suspected drowning incident near Kusu Island.

The drowning incident involved two men, of which one of the men is still missing.

The police were alerted to the incident on Sunday night at about 2.37pm, with a 28-year-old man being rescued and subsequently conveyed to the hospital.

The other man, a 24-year-old, is still missing and rescue efforts are currently underway to try and locate him.

A notice to boaters was put up by Singapore Marine Guide on their Facebook page, urging caution to boaters and advising them to steer clear of the waters between the Lazarus Island and Kusu Island.

They added that the Maritime and Port Authority of Singapore (MPA) and the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) were conducting operations in the waters.

The situation is still developing, stay tuned for more updates.

S’PORE POOLS OUTLET AT LOT ONE SOLD 6 WINNING TOTO TICKETS IN 3 MONTHS

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The $16 million TOTO draw last week saw the group 1 prize money being split 8 ways, with each winner taking home $2.4 million.

One of the winning tickets was sold at the Singapore Pools outlet at Lot One Shoppers’ Mall in Choa Chu Kang.

The particular Singapore Pools outlet at Lot One has been on a “heng ong huat” streak lately, with a total of 6 winning TOTO tickets being sold there in just the last 3 months.

According to Shin Min Daily News, the outlet had only opened in October last year.

Of the 6 winning tickets, 2 of them were Group 1 prizes of $2.4 million and $3.6 million; while the other 4 winning tickets with Group 2 prizes ranging from $77,000 to $124,000.

Among the other “lucky” outlets are the ones at Tampines Mall (24 Group 1 prizes since records were kept), Fu Lu Shou Complex at Bugis (13 Group 1 prizes since 2002) and the famous outlet at Hougang, Tong Aik Huat (12 Group 1 prizes and 81 Group 2 prizes in 24 years).

However, the “outlet” with the most Group 1 and Group 2 winners is the Singapore Pools Account betting Service, as more and more punters take to online betting.

UNCLE STARED AT GUY INSIDE PUBLIC TOILET THEN TOUCHED HIMSELF AT BASIN

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A netizen shared how he was “minding his own business” and urinating at a toilet when a middle-aged man then kept looking at him and allegedly “playing” with his private parts.

The guy then finished urinating and went to the basin to wash his hands, and the uncle then went to the basin beside and allegedly started “touching” himself in front of the guy.

The guy then confronted the uncle who then ran away to the carpark, and according to the netizen, the uncle was shivering in fear.

He described the man as having white hair and being about 40 to 50 years old, wearing spectacles “with green horizontal lines.

He added that the uncle was also holding on to a 2 litre bottle of “HL or Meiji” in his hand.

The incident purportedly happened at Elias Mall yesterday (13 February) at about 9am.

WOMAN PROPOSE TO BF IN GROUP OF 8, BREAKING THE LAW ROMANTICALLY

A video emerged online showing a group of about 8 persons (including the camera person) gathering for a wedding proposal.

There were decorations hanging that spelled out “Will you marry me Mahal”, as a blindfolded man who is presumably the aforementioned Mahal stood obliviously.

The woman was then seen getting down on one knee holding what appears to be a ring in front of the blindfolded man, as he took off his blindfold.

A few of the people in the group were also seen without their masks on, as they disregarded the law in exchange for paying homage to love and broke several laws in the name of romance.

Happy engagement Mahal! Wishing you and your fiancee a blissful and happy marriage, and please make your way to the nearest AXS machine to make payment for your impending saman.

Potential penalties

The maximum permissible group size for social gatherings is 5 persons.

Breach of safe distancing measures

First-time offenders who breach safe distancing measures are fined $300.

For non-compliance with safe management measures under the Covid-19 (Temporary Measures) (Control Order) Regulations 2020, offenders may be jailed for up to six months, fined up to S$10,000, or both.

Not wearing masks

If they are caught by the Police for not wearing a mask or not wearing a mask properly they can be charged under the Covid-19 (Temporary Measures) (Control Order) Regulations 2020.

Penalties include a fine of up to SGD$10,000 and jail for up to six months.

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DRIVER CRASHED INTO MOTORCYCLES IN HORRIFIC ACCIDENT @ PIE, ARRESTED

A horrific accident took place yesterday involving a car driver and seven motorcycles along the PIE – the driver had purportedly crashed into several motorcycles that were taking shelter from the rain.

The accident happened along the PIE heading towards Changi near Bedok North Flyover yesterday (13 February) at about 3.50pm.

A 48-year-old man who was the driver of the car, has since been arrested for dangerous driving causing grievous hurt.

A 44-year-old motorcyclist was seen lying inside a drain next to the expressway in the accident, and he was conscious when being conveyed to Changi General Hospital.

A video emerged online showing the aftermath of the accident, with several injured persons among the mangled heap of motorcycles lying on the side of the road.

At the time of writing, police investigations are underway.

WOMAN FOUND OUT FIANCE USED TO BE A PICK UP ARTIST, PREYS ON WOMEN

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A woman shared how she learned that her fiance used to be a pick up artist who studied the art of picking up women, and how she is disgusted.

Here is the story

Learned my fiance used to be a pick up artist, and I’m kind of disgusted.

I’m 32F, he’s 38M. We’ve been dating for 4 years, and have been engaged for a year.

Last weekend, after a few drinks, he told me about how a former fling (now married) recently reached out to him to try and hook up secretly. He said he told her he wasn’t interested and tried to turn it into a conversation about if her marriage is going ok, but she stopped responding. I thanked him for letting me know.

He then said something kind of cryptic “She was someone I was casually seeing before I met you. Shes seen a side of me you haven’t really seen before.” I asked, what side is that? He said “The romantic.” I kind of laughed because the conversation was getting weird, but we were both pretty drunk, and told him I have seen him be plenty romantic in the past 4 years.

He then said “no, not romantic like that, like I used to study the art of picking up women.” And proceeded to go into a long rant about how unsuccessful most men are at romance, but you just need to learn how to manipulate women and they’ll fall all over you.

He went into detail about how you always pick the hottest girl in the room as your goal, but start by flirting with a friend of hers, and eventually she’ll get jealous that she’s not getting your attention and start going for you. And a few more “tips” of being a pickup artist.

He assured me at the end that he isn’t like that anymore, but did say he thinks its still a successful method for men who are dating.

The night finished, but I can’t get what he said out of my mind. I think pick up artists are really manipulative and skeezy, and im feeling kind of disgusted that he did that kind of stuff. I’ve personally never felt manipulated by him, but I feel like it speaks to how he values women that he’d do that.

Should I try to let this pass, or talk to him about it? If I do talk to him, how can I even express my disgust without it sounding like a personal attack?