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GUY HATES PEOPLE, WALKS 10KM A DAY JUST TO SPEND 1 HOUR BY HIMSELF

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GUY HATES PEOPLE, WALKS 10KM A DAY JUST TO SPEND 1 HOUR BY HIMSELF

A netizen shared how he hates people and loves being alone, and that he walks 10km a day just to spend about an hour by himself.

Here is the story

I hate people. Just in general. Every day I go to work and am physically repulsed by people, I spend most of my time outside of work alone and love every second of it.

I walk 10km a day just to spend an hour or 2 in complete solitude. I work in customer service (unfortunately, pay is good though) and damn, I wanna punch every person that comes in (I won’t, that would be rude).

I got friends and people close to me that I enjoy being around but bugger me, I can’t stand other people.

I’m not sad or anything like that, just don’t like people. Perhaps I’ll come around one day but I doubt it.

Rant over. Peace.

Netizens’ comments

I used to feel this way about people too. I realized that it was just making me miserable. People are just scared, selfish animals, in general.

When I stopped expecting them to be something more than animals, I stopped being frustrated and disappointed by them.

People are going to continue to be what they are, no matter how you feel about that. You might as well stop letting that make you miserable.

GIRL STRUGGLES AS HER DATE HAS YET TO DIVORCE

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GIRL STRUGGLES AS HER DATE HAS YET TO DIVORCE

I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months. He said he wants to date casually because he’s in the process of getting a divorce.

But he asks me to hang out probably 5 or 6 days a week. We’ve been very vulnerable with each other and are definitely sharing a connection. He invited me over to have dinner with him so he could cook his mom’s favourite meal, it was the anniversary of her death.

He tells me how wonderful I am all the time. He’s cried in front of me talking about vulnerable things. But he still says we are dating casually and he does not want to be monogamous. I am invested at this point. I have feelings for him that I may have never felt in my whole life. At this point, I feel like I am being led on or he just doesn’t know what he wants or feels. I want to communicate this to him but I don’t know how or when. His words do not match his actions. I can tell that he cares for me and feels the same connection that I do. I don’t want to give him an ultimatum. Maybe I should tell him I just need to back off for a little while? I dont know what to do.

I just sent him this text message – I need to take a step back here and establish a boundary. Your actions do not match your words (we are NOT dating casually) and I need to protect my heart.

His response: I understand. I do really like you and enjoy your company. I am not trying to confuse you or mess with your heart. I do actually think about you and how you are doing. I consider you to be a wonderful person that I like spending time with. Honestly out of anyone i have met on that silly app you are the only one i feel that way about. Me not wanting to commit has nothing to do with “getting laid” or wanting to date around. Relationship is exhausting.

I guess I should follow your advise as well. I don’t like the thought of you dating other people but I also know that I am still a basket case from my divorce. The last thing I want is to bring any of that baggage to you. It has been wonderful spending time with you and I guess that is providing (selfishly) me a level of comfort. Can we get together tonight or tomorrow and discuss in person? I feel like intentions get lost over text.

Then he just said he’s falling for me too. Now I’m so freaking confused.

GUY’S NEIGHBOUR SMOKES AND CHARGES E-BIKE AT HDB CORRIDOR

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GUY’S NEIGHBOUR SMOKES AND CHARGES E-BIKE AT HDB CORRIDOR

A resident at an undisclosed HDB block shared how he has a neighbour who has been smoking and charging his e-bike at their corridor.

Here is the story:

I have a neighbor who has an E-Bike, I do not have any issues with that, but what bothers me about him is that firstly their home the corridor they treat like a living room.. they have a wooden table and wooden chairs outside their door just so they can sit down and smoke at the corridor. Even my mom who is 58 years old who has asthma, bearing with it, by closing doors and windows whenever she smells cigarettes.

Next is on Friday evenings or weekends, when I bookout from camp and come home, I frequently see him and his gf “dismantling and fixing” his bikes motor.. now I don’t want to jump to conclusions but I got a feeling he is modifying the motor which in turn is illegal. But I give the benefit of the doubt..

Besides all these, the final thing that bothers me a lot is, this guy literally has an extension plug extended from inside the flat to outside, where they sit and smoke, and they charge the E-bike at the corridor overnight..

I tell them to try not to charge outside, because not only is the surrounding surrounded by wooden furniture, but he also has a cigarette tray just nearby the plug. I tell them just charge inside the house because if a fire breaks out in the corridor, the folks who live on one side of the HDB CANNOT escape because the fire blocks the corridor.. he simply replies “I house cannot charge bro, no space bro, u want I put the bike in your house not”

I am currently serving NS so most of the week I am not home, and I constantly get worried about not only my mom’s health but also my family’s house. Seen so many cases of PMD catching on fire which looks devastating, I don’t want one day I in camp, only to receive news that fire has broken out right beside my family’s home..

I don’t want to look like a bad neighbor cus don’t want to cause tension, but what should I do? This kind of thing is contact which authority?

Netizens’ comments

  • You’re not a bad neighbour if you file a complaint to the authorities. You’re just a good citizen.
  • Your neighbour is a fire hazard. Report to HDB.

You can also secretly video your neighbour smoking. It is illegal to smoke along the corridors by the way. Send it to HDB.

May consider buying an all risk housing insurance. I wouldn’t be able to sleep in peace if I were you.

WOMAN NOT HAPPY – GUYS ALWAYS IGNORE HER TO TALK TO OTHER GUYS

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WOMAN NOT HAPPY – GUYS ALWAYS IGNORE HER TO TALK TO OTHER GUYS

A woman shared how she is annoyed by men who apparently abandon their conversation with her halfway through to talk to other men.

Here is the story

I (26f) have a large friend group of all genders. Most of the guys I am friends with are super cool and treat me as an equal. But I have noticed something annoying about this one guy in our group.

There have been several times when him and I have been in a conversation, and a guy says something nearby, and he’ll completely ignore whatever I’m in the middle of saying to respond to the guy.

And in every single conversation where two people say something at the same time, he will 100% ignore the woman and respond to the man.

I thought it was just me, but I’ve been watching him talk to other women and I honestly get the impression that he really doesn’t care about anything they are saying and will immediately abandon that conversation if the opportunity to talk to a man comes up.

I know its not a big thing, but the casual misogyny of it drives me insane.

And what’s more annoying is that only the girls in the friend group notice he does this and none of the men in the group can even tell.

Basically I just want to ask if you notice when men do this, and how do you respond when they do?

Netizens’ comments

My ex and a visitor were doing this to his daughter and her friend during a game of Cards Against Humanity.

The girls were trying to read their prompts and these grown men were talking over them. Everyone who was actually trying to listen and play the game noticed, I called them out and they looked utterly baffled.

Weirdest phenomenon.

HUSBAND DEMANDS TO NOT BE CONTROLLED AFTER HE WAS CAUGHT CHEATING

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HUSBAND DEMANDS TO NOT BE CONTROLLED AFTER HE WAS CAUGHT CHEATING

My husband cheated on me around 5 months ago with his colleague for af ew weeks, that was flirting and some kissing, wants to be able to go out without telling me where he’s going to be, who he’ll be with, or what time he’ll be home, and expects me to be okay with this.

we have been together for 7 years, we have two kids. He is an excellent father to our kids, though he does lose points for reckless decisions that affect our family

I have run out of ways to explain why this makes me uncomfortable. He thinks I’m being controlled by wanting to know. I think its on him to build back trust if he wants to be with me and that him volunteering that information would at least help a little.

I KNOW I’m not to blame for him cheating, I am only to blame for my own actions that damaged our relationship and if he wanted to handle it in a healthy way he could have and chose not to.

the changes we have made to our relationship in the past 5 months have drastically changed our day to day life. There isn’t much left that I could “control” even if I wanted to. We are just struggling on that happy balance between what makes him happy and what gives me peace of mind.

I like advice that isn’t “divorce him”, because for more reasons than I care to type, I can’t.

Here are what netizen thinks:

If divorce is absolutely not possible right now, stop giving making his life worse than what he’s doing and work towards an exit plan. Sorry but the cheating combined with no plans of stopping and thinking he gets to decide how long you are bothered by this all screams he won’t change and he doesn’t give a damn what you think of it. He thinks he’s got you trapped. Prove him wrong.

Go get an std test, please.If you don’t have any active symptoms. We had an 18-year-old girl come into our clinic who’ll have infertility issues for life because off her cheating boyfriend gave her something and it went undetected (asymptotic) for three years

GUY TOUCHES HIMSELF TO PHOTO OF MAO ZEDONG, ASKING FOR HELP TO STOP

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GUY TOUCHES HIMSELF TO PHOTO OF MAO ZEDONG, ASKING FOR HELP TO STOP

A netizen shared how he enjoys pleasuring himself to a photo of Mao Zedong, and he can’t stop doing it and is asking for help to stop.

Here is the story:

I pleasured myself to a picture of Mao Zedong several times today. I don’t know why. It’s just one more thing that makes me feel like an idiot, and I can’t seem to stop doing it.

I wasn’t aware of the historical significance of Mao, so I always considered this to be normal behavior until now.

The fact is that there are pictures of him all over my apartment—on posters, on calendars, in books, even on the walls. I am completely obsessed with Mao.

The first time I saw a photo of him was when I went to bed and found myself staring at his face on the wall above my headboard.

I thought about how he had led China into a new era of prosperity and social justice. I instantly got a boner after looking at his face.

He looked so powerful, yet calm. He didn’t look like a dictator, but like a wise man who knew what needed to be done.

Does anyone know how I can stop my urges to touch myself to Mao? I am incredibly desperate for any tips.

Netizens’ comments

  • WHAT THE F

MAN RELEASED FROM PRISON WANTS TO MEET HIS DAUGHTER, BUT EX-GF DENIES HIM

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MAN RELEASED FROM PRISON WANTS TO MEET HIS DAUGHTER, BUT EX-GF DENIES HIM

I had a daughter when I was 17, when she was 3 I was arrested and sent to prison. I was sentenced to 20 years but was released after 12. That was 8 months ago.

After I was convicted my then-girlfriend visited me every second week for a year. But then she stopped as she met someone new. I was happy for her, I didn’t want her to wait for me. I just asked her to stay in my daughter’s life.

After I was released I contacted her and asked if I could see my daughter. She said no. She said that she was afraid of me and didn’t want me to have contact with my daughter.

I know I was absent from their lifes for over a decade, I wasn’t there to be her father. But knowing that I’ll finally get to see my daughter when I get out was the only thing that gave me motivation to keep living. I don’t want to suddenly start being her dad again if she doesn’t want me to. I just want to be in her life, I just want her to know she has a dad.

I’ve been begging her for half a year and nothing. I want to be in her life. I don’t know what I can do to prove to my ex-girlfriend that I’m not a bad influence in their lifes. I think my daughter deserves to know the truth about me.

Here are what netizen thinks:

Are your parents alive and do they have a functioning relationship with your daughter

I do think you have to be mindful about the impact and lasting consequences of your behavior and de-center yourself here. Your desires are definitely not more important than a stable lifestyle for your daughter.

No matter what he did his ex has every right to be afraid of him because he went to prison that long. so I’m taking everything into consideration. And that’s the fact that she also has every right to tell him no, at least when the daughter is under 18.

ETHOZ GROUP LEAKED EMAILS OF LEWD COMMENTS ON FEMALE APPLICANTS

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ETHOZ GROUP LEAKED EMAILS OF LEWD COMMENTS ON FEMALE APPLICANTS

Leaked email screenshots belonging to employers of a Singaporean company, Ethoz Group commenting explicitly on at least six female job applicants have emerged online and are spreading like wildfire.

They were allegedly made by the male employees in the company commenting on the looks of these female applicants and also some suggestive comments about their charm.

Females were job applicants

The screenshots seen online showed the email exchanges between the male employees of Ethoz Group commenting on the figures and looks of these female applicants.

Some of the remarks were even very very suggestive.

Employees of Ethoz were allegedly discussing about these women with none of the discussions made linked with any of the female applicants professional qualifications and capabilities.

Talked about their physical appearance

The screenshots which were seen were made up of comments on the ladies physical appearances in both good and bad ways.

In one application for the role of an Admin Assistant at Ethoz Group’s Bukit Batok branch, an employee was seen attaching the picture of the applicant with the caption:

‘Pretty Malay Girl’

Another email screenshot showed a picture of a girl who the male employees think are not ‘attractive’ enough for them as they attached the caption:

‘Confirm safe, she sure won’t let you wear green hat LOL’

Green hat in this context means that the girl will not cheat on you.

Another screenshot showed two images of two applicants with the caption:

“Before and After”

Seemingly poking fun at the girl before and after surgery.

The employees even likened one of the girl’s looks to a massage girl seen on those Facebook or Telegram advertisements.

Lewd comments about the applicants

After commenting on the looks of some of the applicants, these employees of Ethoz Group decided to take things a notch up by making ‘suggestive’ comments on more applicants.

These comments all suggested that the employees wanted to have ‘relations’ with the applicants.

Another screenshot mentioned that they should hire a ‘young and pretty one’ to boost the morale of the male mechanics in the workshop.

One of the employees even suggested that having a ‘young and pretty one’ is good as after work he can bring her home for his ‘personal use’ to recharge his energy.

Ethoz responded to these threads

The Human Resources Manager of Ethoz Group has since spoken up about these leaked messages saying that the screenshots that were leaked appear to be from ex employees of the company who have since left the company.

He added that the company takes this very seriously and will not allow such behaviour to go on in their workplace and they will conduct a full investigation and take necessary disciplinary action appropriately.

When asked if the screenshots are really from the company and if those employees are still employed by Ethoz, the Human Resources Manager has yet to reply.

Image source: Wake Up Singapore

VIRAL BUKIT BATOK BUS COLLISION LAST YEAR SEES BUS DRIVER CHARGED

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VIRAL BUKIT BATOK BUS COLLISION LAST YEAR SEES BUS DRIVER CHARGED

66 year old Loo Eng Chai, the bus driver involved in the viral Bukit Batok Bus Interchange collision last July between two Tower Transit buses was charged in court today (9 Feb) for the injuries of 14 people.

A count of causing grievous hurt to six victims due to an act of negligence and a count of causing hurt to another eight victims due to an act of negligence was given to Loo.

Recap on incident

The incident happened in the evening of 11 July 2021, when Loo was driving an empty bus at the interchange and allegedly failed to give way to another bus which resulted in a collision between the both buses.

Loo was turning right while the other bus which was carrying passengers was moving from his left to his right.

Tower Transit then conducted an internal investigation into the incident which led to the dismissal of Loo after he was found to be at fault for the incident.

Both buses involved were on the route for service number 945 when the incident occurred causing the bus with passengers to smash the railings and eventually falling to the road on its side.

Accident victims

Victims of the accident include passengers on board the bus with the right of way, the bus captain and a 57 year old pedestrian who happened to be at the scene of the incident.

Two of the victims were elderly consisting of a 70 year old woman and a 60 year old man.

One of the victims was also a young girl at the age of 10.

Wants to plead guilty

Loo said in court that he wishes to plead guilty but did not wish to serve time in prison as without his income, he will not be able to support his family and they will suffer from his loss of income.

He is currently unrepresented and wishes to apply for a lawyer from the Criminal Legal Aid Scheme.

Possible penalties

If Loo is found guilty of causing grievous hurt through negligence, he can face up to two years of jail time and/or fined up to $5,000.

If he is guilty of causing hurt by negligence, he can face up to two years of jail time and/or fined up to $2,500 and also be banned from driving.

Image source: Singapore Civil Defence Force

MAID ALLEGEDLY DOES FOODPANDA WHILE TENDING TO WHEELCHAIR BOUND LADY

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MAID ALLEGEDLY DOES FOODPANDA WHILE TENDING TO WHEELCHAIR BOUND LADY

A post has recently emerged online which was uploaded by a netizen to a FoodPanda Delivery Riders Facebook page.

Pictures were included in the post by the netizen who appears to be a delivery rider on the FoodPanda plaform.

A closer look at the picture shows a lady of a darker complexion donning a FoodPanda delivery rider uniform at a back alley with a wheelchair bound lady seemingly there to deliver or pick up orders.

Another picture which was also uploaded also allegedly shows the lady in question sitting outside an F&B establishment area seemingly waiting to pick up an order as she was seated at the delivery riders waiting area.

The netizen wonders if the lady who appears to be a foreign domestic worker is paid for doing this or if her employers know about her doing this and given that she is with a wheelchair bound lady, it makes it even more not right that she is doing so apart from it being against the law set by the Ministry of Manpower on guidelines which employers and their foreign domestic workers must abide to.

Laws in Singapore

According to laws stated by the Ministry of Manpower (MOM), foreign domestic workers must abide by these rules while they are employed in Singapore.

  • Hold a valid work permit
  • Can only work for employer at residential address declared to MOM
  • Can only do domestic chores
  • Cannot work with other employers

The penalties for helpers being deployed to work illegally are a fine of up to $10,000 for the employer and they might even be banned from employing the help of domestic workers in future.

Here is the post by the netizen

“Wonder how much more does this maid get paid by the employer?

Does the grandma gets paid too? 🤔”

Image source: Sebastian Lee/Facebook

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