My F30 Boyfriend M32 of 7 years. Recently started thinking he’s a psychic. That he can predict the future and learn about certain events before they happen. To be honest, He was right with some of his predictions. For example; he predicted that there was going to be a funeral at the end of may in my family and it was true, My grandmother passed away (she was already sick) in may but everyone knew this was going to happen. Another one where he predicted that his sister was going to give to a baby girl (she decided to wait to find out the gender) and it was indeed a girl BUT his sister’s cravings were a dead giveaway in my opinion.

Now he has come to believe he has this super power that should be used to gain money. He really gotten into it with his “rituals” and new clothing style and the social media accounts where he gets his clients. I had no issue with him playing prediction games for fun but there is actually money and serious matters involved now.

Here’s what happened last night. I was on his laptop scrolling through an online store when a fb message popped from a “client” of his. The message read “how long, exactly? Can you be more precise?” And I opened it out of curiosity and found that my boyfriend had conversations with this guy telling him his sick wife will die due to an infection after her surgery and advising him not to have her get the surgery to avoid this outcome and wait for at least 6 months.

Now this has no scientific proof at all my boyfriend doesn’t have a medical degree of any sort to come to such conclusions or to give medical advice. I was legit shocked after finding out this guy’s wife actually suffers from serious medical condition. I immediately confronted my boyfriend and after he tried to turn this into a “you invaded my privacy?” argument he told me I don’t understand because the guy came to him for some “enlitement” and “guidance” on where to go from where he and his wife are and he told him what he “saw” in his mind and advised him to wait before getting the surgery that’s all. 

I divorced 5 months ago because she came out as a lesbian. I didn’t want the baby when she came out to me because I felt it would be awkward for us to co-parent and I didn’t want any contact with her. However, she wanted to keep the baby so I accepted her decision and didn’t talk about it anymore.

A few weeks ago, the baby was premature by nearly 2 months and turned out to be stillborn. I was in a business meeting so I texted her saying I was sorry for her loss and had flowers sent to her. Her gf and family have been calling and texting me since then saying that I’m a heartless jerk for not going to meet her at the hospital after such a traumatic experience.

My ex called me and said that I must be really happy that I got what I originally wanted.

To be honest, although I feel sorry for her loss, I am relieved that we don’t have to stay in contact with each other anymore and I can move on from her.

Am I in the wrong?

Edit: I had originally wanted the child but when I found out that she cheated on me, I didn’t look forward to co-parenting with her. I felt it would be better for the baby to be aborted rather than to suffer from our bad relationship.

That doesn’t mean I would’ve hated the baby upon its birth. I’d have loved it regardless. Just that it would be difficult to co-parent with a person who’s bad at communication.

In short, I didn’t want the baby. I just didn’t want a baby with a person who might not be a good parent. I do love babies. I always wanted a baby with the person I love.

To all those saying that I’m relieved about a baby’s death…..I’m NOT relieved that the baby died, I’m relieved that I no longer will be forced to be cordial with my ex.