A netizen shared how he cheated again on his girlfriend and that he “really feels” for Wang Leehom, Sylvia Chan and Ryan Tan.

Here is the story:

“I just cheated again…..

I know that there are many out there who are strongly against cheating and would shame those cheaters out there. Unpopular sentiment here, but I really feel for my man Wang Leehom, Raeesah Khan, Ryan Tan, Sylvia Chan and so on…

As a guy, as a young person, as a human being, I feel that it is only normal to make mistakes in life. Of course, committing a wrongdoing at the expense of another’s happiness is bad and I am not condoning a cheater’s, liar, or any criminal’s offences.

But if we take a step back and realise that all of us are bound to sin and fall off our path of righteousness one day, wouldn’t we hope that there would be people, or at least someone out there who would not only forgive us, give us a chance but guide us back to the road towards dignity and normalcy once more?

I hope these simple thoughts of mine would inspire others to not immediately jump on the bandwagon to cancel, shame and ridicule those who have done wrong in their lives.

How about trying to take on a different perspective and imagine that the person who have sinned is your loved one, your partner,  your parent, your sibling, your friend, your idol, your teacher, your senior, your child, or even…. yourself?

How would you react? Would you still post mean, nasty, sarcastic jokes and comments about this sinner? Would you continue to share their mistakes to people around you and turn them into the next meme and laughing stock?

Or would you do your best to speak out on their behalf, give them the benefit of the doubt, or if the situation is rather unmendable, would you forgive them and give them a chance to climb back up onto their feet to prove themselves and live a life they desire again?

Thanks for reading. Have a good day.”

Editor’s note: Stop disgracing men.

A netizen shared how she hacked into her boyfriend’s phone and found him talking to “tens” of girls, and read through all of his messages.

Here is the story:

“Confessions of a crazy jealous gf.

I’m not easily jealous to be honest. Usually I will give my man all the space and privacy that he needs but one day I just felt like smthg was ‘off’.

We would be getting intimate and he just looks disinterested and wasn’t getting hard or wasn’t finishing and I didn’t understand why when it was all his favourite spots. Or I’d be saying smthg and his mind is elsewhere and obviously not paying attention.

One day, I decided to ‘fish’ info out of him and asked him “who do you love the most?” Of which he said “oh, i don’t know, it’s hard to choose. I like all of them.” (Oh so there’s more than just me?)

I couldn’t sleep. He didn’t wna talk. But I knew smthg was amiss so I did the unthinkable: I hacked into his phone to see his latest pictures (if anyone had been sending intimate pictures). Then I went through his Instagram and Tinder and WA. Whilst I thought I’d find 1-2 girls, I found… tens!

I was horrified.

I was horrified bc just the night before he was telling me how much he cares about me and how I’m the only one and how he hasn’t dated anyone as long as he has dated me (coming to about 1.5 years now).

The worst part is, I got so crazy jealous that I actly downloaded his WA onto my computer and went thru all his messages. I know where the girls stay, where they work, how many kids they have, what they look like, their phone number etc.

One girl with a tattoo down her leg actly stays across me. She supposedly went to his house multiple times for “english classes”. Of which I found she had ‘accidentally’ left her notebook at his place. I know it’s her bc she signed off with her real Viet name and my boyf is not Viet so that can’t be his notebook. One day, I’m out at the mall and I see a girl who looks like her. I secretly took her picture as proof. I contemplated going up to her to bash her face up but I just had my nails done and didn’t want to ruin it on her.

Another night, we had just gone out for a date and on the way back, someone kept trying to call him at 9.30pm. I saw her name and recognized it as one of his “fave” girls to text. He saw that I saw and tried to play it off cool, “well I’m definitely not picking ‘that’ up right now”.

Anw, I confront him one night over the notebook. As expected, he tries to gaslight me back and says I’m fretting over “small things/scrap evidence that doesn’t matter”. I can’t tell him that I know all this bc his phone has all the evidence we need. He admits to me he had a girl come over for English classes but she “sat outside” and they didn’t get intimate whatsoever.

I play dumb and go along with it. He doesn’t need to know I’m still logged in to his WA. I know his every move, his schedule, where he’s going to meet who and when and why. Is it wrong? Absolutely.

The other day, during Christmas, his “fave” girl blocked him on Whatsapp. He sent a message to her that was single tick. I felt so happy inside! Yay, that bitch finally had the sense to back off my man!

He didn’t tell me about it, but I could tell from the way he was treating me in bed that he wasn’t texting somebody else anymore. He was letting me stay over longer, we were going at it more frequently and longer.

I don’t think I’m crazy to think that I already knew smthg was up from the way things were in the bedroom.

I’m still logged in to his WA but I think I’ll log out bc… well, he’s been a good boy and I can tell he ain’t texting anyone else anymore. For now.

So girls, if ur man is not showing much affection but suddenly spending a lot of money on you during dates then it’s probably in compensation for him cheating behind your back.

And guys, if a girl finds out you’re cheating/wandering around but she doesn’t scream her head off at you, you should be afraid, you should be very afraid.”

Editor’s note: And you’re still with him and not doing anything about it? You’ve got issues…