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GIRL CAN’T FINISH HER FOOD, MOTHER TELL HER NEXT LIFE WILL HAVE NO FOOD TO EAT

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A girl shared how she had gastric and can’t finish her food, and her mother then told her that she will have no food to eat in the next life.

Here is the story:

When you’re having serious gastric pain, all your mum cares about is your left over rice and telling you how sinful you’re that the sin will bring over to your next life that you will not have food to eat.

Then when 99% of the times she can’t finish her food she will push her food to people around her and claim that others are glutton and she is not! And that’s not all!

She will then continue her curse on others when they don’t finish the food for her!

*when you really had enough and want to tell her off, it becomes you’re super unfilial and lousy daughter again!

Editor’s note: My mother also tell me if I don’t finish my food, I will have many pimples on my face.

GIRL LISTEN TO FRIENDS AND BROKE UP WITH BF, FOREVER ALONE

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A netizen wrote a respond to a cheating bf post.

Here is the story:

I am in the same situation. For context, i was in a rlnship and had a bto with my ex but we broke up. Reading your post, i don’t find you picky but more of looking for a husband material bf.

In my case, my deal breaker was the emotional immaturity (of course both parties have faults as well). I was willing to stay by him and slowly guide him through but He wasn’t willing to grow and bridge the gap, though i was. Even counselling cannot help. I spent countless nights in tears because i was so sad that we could have something great but it couldn’t work out, it ended up affecting my work, my friendships etc. And plenty of sacrifices because he was not earning as much and i wanted to ensure that we have a sustainable future tgt.

Until finally, under the encouragement of my friends, i took a step.

Since the breakup, i no longer have to endure such hurt or pain and am actually excelling in my work again (previously my boss was worried as it was obvious my performance went down). I am getting a condo too on my own, when previously, i had to worry about him as well (since split ownership). Bobian, have to make lemonade out of lemons.

Of course, like you, i worry about loneliness and being left on the shelf etc., but after this process, i realised, finding a correct partner is more important, regardless of age.

Just want to let you know, plenty bash you for being picky or not staying by a man etc.

Don’t let that get to you.

Being happy is the most important. My entire relationship looked like a fairytale on the surface but it was abusive emotionally and physically behind the scenes.

For all those commenting on how she shld just tolerate or lower standards, let’s be honest here. It is not a woman’s job to make her man feel like a man. She is not a lifelong nanny to look after a man and guide him to grow or be better in whatever aspect or heal. And even if she does, lets face it, not every guy is willing to take that step.

And yes, probably the good men are snapped up so we have to decide if we rather be alone and excel or deal with someone that potentially is a deadweight. I made my choice, jiayou!

P.s. We can always go SDN tgt and check out the market!

GIRL JEALOUS OF CO-WORKER WORKING FOR “FUN” BECAUSE FIANCE IS A MILLIONAIRE

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A netizen shared how her colleague got engaged with a millionaire and is working for “fun”, while she works to survive.

Here is the story:

“I have a colleague, we sorta knew each other when we were in NUS, work quite well together. She’s quiet, gets things done. No complains about her one.

We get along quite well. Did not see her for close to a year due to Covid.

Went back office recently and found out she got engaged. I wanted to congratulate her and saw the ring. It is BIG, like confirm multiple 5 figures big. I was shocked…

I met her bf once or twice and he gave me the average/humble vibe. Driving a Toyota.

I kaypohed a bit and found out that her fiance is a self made millionaire and the only reason why she’s still working, not enjoying tai tai life, is because her fiance wants her to work to have her own money and gain experience from society.

Wah, if my future husband ask me to work when I don’t need to, I confirm make a lot of noise one.

Can’t help but feel damn salty. Life is damn unfair sometimes.

We work because we need to survive and she is working for fun? And why some people damn lucky…can just suka do business or invest and become millionaire, or find a millionaire to marry.

I know my view is unpopular la. But it’s my honest feelings and this is anonymous so……”

Editor’s note: I feel you…

MOH DEBUNKS SOCIAL MEDIA VIDEO ABOUT VACCINATION

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The Ministry of Health published on Facebook that they are aware of a video that contains misinformation regarding the COVID-19 vaccination exercise for children aged 5 to 11.

Here is what MOH said:

The Ministry of Health (MOH) is aware of a video circulating on social media which contains misinformation regarding the COVID-19 vaccination exercise for children aged 5 to 11, including claims that the vaccine is experimental and unsafe for children, and that in the event of any severe adverse event (SAE) post-vaccination, it is “not the Government’s problem”.

The Pfizer/BioNTech mRNA COVID-19 vaccine for children aged 5 to 11 years old is not experimental. It has been approved by several regulatory authorities around the world, based on data collated through comprehensive international clinical trials.

During Phase 3 of the clinical trials, the vaccines were administered to over 2,000 children of the age band, with no serious vaccine-related adverse events observed. Since then, millions of children have received the vaccination, with a recorded incidence rate of about 1 in a million for myocarditis, which is one of the serious adverse events of greatest concern. Side effects such as fever, chills, fatigue and headache were reported less frequently and were milder in children aged 5 to 11 years than in adults and adolescents.

On the other hand, amongst children who are infected with COVID-19, while the great majority experience mild symptoms and recover well, a small number suffered from Multisystem Inflammatory Syndrome in Children (MIS-C), which is a serious and life-threatening condition. Vaccination for children will be very effective in preventing such adverse outcomes from COVID-19 infection.

These are some of the key considerations that led to the Health Sciences Authority (HSA) and the Expert Committee on COVID-19 Vaccination (EC19V), after reviewing international studies and clinical data, to conclude that the vaccine is safe and efficacious, and that the benefits of vaccination for children outweigh the risks.

In the unlikely event that a child experiences serious side effects that are assessed to be related to the vaccine, the child will be eligible for the Vaccine Injury Financial Assistance Programme (VIFAP), so long as they are Singapore Citizens, Permanent Residents or Long-Term Pass Holders.

The video also distorted the purpose of the vaccination consent form. The consent form is to obtain the informed consent of the parent/guardian for the child/ward to receive the COVID-19 vaccination, after having reviewed and considered the risks and benefits of the vaccination as outlined in the accompanying vaccination information sheet. This practice of obtaining informed consent is consistent with what is done for other medical procedures, including childhood vaccinations, such as Measles, Mumps, Rubella (MMR), Diphtheria, and Tetanus.

The video also falsely exaggerates the dangers and potential long-term side effects of COVID-19 vaccines for young children, and seeks to discourage parents from having their children vaccinated. This is a great disservice to our children, who need to be protected against COVID-19, especially with the impending emergence of an Omicron transmission wave.

We strongly encourage parents to have your children vaccinated if they are medically eligible, to reduce the risk of COVID-19 infection and severe illness, and to keep your families and wider community safe. Remember, COVID-19 does not make you sign consent forms, does not inform you of the risk of infection, nor offer injury assistance. It will just infect and harm us. The fact that the Government is taking all these steps does not mean vaccines are therefore dangerous. They are good and correct policy and administrative practices.

It is up to us as a society to implement and support the right public health policies, and as individuals, to take care of ourselves and of one another, to keep our society and children as safe as possible.

MOH advises the public not to speculate and/or spread misinformation which may cause public alarm, and to refer to credible sources of information instead. Please visit www.moh.gov.sg for the latest information on COVID-19 and COVID-19 vaccinations. For more information on the vaccination exercise for children aged 5 to 11, please visit https://www.moe.gov.sg/faqs-covid-19-infection.

GUY HAS A LOVE-HATE RELATIONSHIP WITH PARENTS – THEY DON’T LISTEN TO HIM

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A netizen shared how he has a love-hate relationship with his parents because they don’t listen to reason or facts.

Here is the story:

“I have a love hate relationship with my parents. I care about them a lot, just because they are my parents. But I can’t stand spending more than an hour with them, and I finally realised why it is so (after moving out and reflecting).

My dad will just keep talking to me about religion and race – which makes me mad because he won’t listen to any reason or facts.

And my mom will just whine to me about random things. If I give my opinion or reply, they don’t care and mostly just cut me off so they can continue talking.

Either that… or they pretend they don’t hear me. it’s not really a conversation. I’m like a sponge . It’s suffocating.

The only decent conversation i can have with them is over WhatsApp, where they don’t cut me off and actually reply to me.

Is anyone’s parents like this?”

EVIL BOSS DEDUCT PAY OF EMPLOYEE OVER EQUIPMENT BREAKDOWN

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I was contracted as a full time employee at this small company, K, under a 6 months probation. During the probation, the metal shutters of K broke down and jam when I closed it at the end of the day. However prior the day, the shutter was showing sign of wear and tear which was made known to my boss, S, multiple times but he did not get it fixed.

Also, considering that the first person to leave for the day is supposed to shut the shutter but failed to do so and she just left the office thus I closed the shutter that day instead.

When the shutter jammed and broke down, I informed S about it. S gotten it fixed, but he blamed it on me for spoiling the shutter instead with excuses such as my negligence in failing to ensure that the shutter shuts properly and as I was the person who last touches it. (If the girl who left first that day closes it, why would I need to last touch the shutter and carry the blame since it’s a shared responsibility for all staff to ensure that doors and shuttler are closed if they leave first)

S told me to compensate for the fixing fee which is over 4K plus, I did not agree as it was not stated in my contract that I will need to compensate for any damage equipment of the company and considering I am still under probation. However he printed out a letter and pressured me to sign on that day to agree to 100 being deducted from my monthly salary for 10 months, after signing the agreement he did not gave me a copy of it for my keepsake. With the fear of losing my job and hoping to pass the probation, I signed the agreement.

However in my 4th month I was dismissed over a mere complain from customer saying that I rejected customer request after working hours as I had already closed the door and was a few steps away from office (when there are other staff who had yet to leave the office whom could had assisted the customer). In the end I failed on my probation and my last pay was deducted of 800.

Would it be a losing battle if I tries to file a claim from MOM??

GIRL DOESN’T WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN, DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO TELL BF

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A netizen shared how she has been dating her boyfriend who really likes children but she doesn’t want to have children.

Here is the story:

“When did you decide whether to have children or not?

I have been attached for close to two years now. Our relationship was built on the understanding that we’d get married eventually and start a family; my partner likes children very much. But for the past year, I have been considering if I actually don’t want to be a parent after all.

While I think it is meaningful to raise children and build a loving family, the sacrifices to be made are incredibly offputting. Having children requires so much commitment and responsibility, including financial cost, loss of personal time and freedom, the pressure to meet their emotional/developmental needs etc. As a female, there would also be physical changes and health risks I would have to deal with.

People have told me that my views may change over time, especially when I get older. I also suspect that my reluctance to have children is because I haven’t been able to do a lot of the things I want to do as a working adult yet, mainly travelling more and living independently. But the longer I drag this indecision out, the longer I’d be holding back my partner who could have used this time to find someone more compatible and start a family earlier.

I haven’t raised this with my partner seriously yet, because I want to be sure of my own position before engaging in a meaningful discussion with him. He is already clear on his stance and I don’t expect to change his mind for my sake.

Any thoughts please? Thanks in advance!”

16 Y.O AMONG 4 ARRESTED FOR 3,200 CARTONS OF CONTRABAND CIGS & VAPE

According to the Singapore Customs, an operation was conducted against duty-unpaid cigarettes which lead to the arrest of 3 men, 3 Singaporeans, and 1 Malaysian between the ages of 16 and 49-years-old.

The case happened in the vicinity of Loyang Drive and a man was seen approaching a Singapore registered van after leaving an industrial unit.

The authorities moved in and found out that the industrial unit was loaded with cigarettes that are hidden in bedframes.

The operation resulted in the authorities seizing a van, lorry, and 3,232 cartons of duty-unpaid cigarettes, which is equivalent to evading $276,010 and $22,140 respectively in taxes.

1056 boxes of e-cigarettes were also found along with 247 vaporizers and referred to HSA for further investigations.

Here is what Singapore posted in their media release:

“Buying, selling, conveying, delivering, storing, keeping, possessing or dealing with
duty-unpaid goods are serious offences under the Customs Act and the GST Act.
Offenders can be fined up to 40 times the amount of duty and GST evaded and/or
jailed for up to six years. Vehicles used in the commission of such offences are liable
to be forfeited.
Members of public with information on smuggling activities or evasion of customs duty
or GST can call the Singapore Customs hotline on 1800-2330000 or email
[email protected] to report these illegal activities.”

CRAZY CYCLIST BEATS RED LIGHT THEN CRASHES INTO ANOTHER CYCLIST ON ROAD

A video emerged online showing an errant cyclist beating the red light at a traffic junction before crashing into another cyclist who was crossing the road and conforming to the traffic light.

The accident happened at Ang Mo Kio Avenue 1 on 19 December at about 7pm.

The traffic light was seen in the video turning from green to red, with the camcar (who captured the incident on the dashcam) coming to a stop at the red light.

An errant cyclist then sped past the car and beat the red light, and as he was about to reach the other side of the junction, he crashed into the other cyclist.

The stricken cyclist appeared to be unaware of the errant cyclist that was speeding towards him, as both cyclists got knocked off their bicycles.

A few passers-by then came over to help the two fallen cyclists.

FULL VIDEO LOADING…

GUY DOESN’T TRUST GF, WANTS HER TO REPORT LIVE LOCATION & TAKE PHOTOS TO SHOW HIM

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A girl shared how she is dating her boyfriend who doesn’t trust her and that they have been breaking up and patching back together multiple times.

Here is the story:

“Sorry this is gonna be quite long. I need some advice and needed some ranting.

So i have this bf, we met on dating apps and we’re together for 2 years now. I have been staying with him at his place ever since. We have been breaking up and patching multiple of times, and his problem is that he got trust issue with me, so everywhere i go i have to take photo for him.(with who, where i am at), live location, He will also have my whatsapp web on his phone. Mainly because when we “break up” i would download dating apps and use it thinking that we “break” and could never patch back again every single time. I did meet new people from the datings apps here n there. But JUST MAINLY to eat, nothing else i swear on my life. But my bf he don’t believe, therefore he thinks that I cheated on him etc etc. In between those “break n patch” i’ve move back to my own place.

But now is that i’ve given birth to a baby with him. Things still happen.

Firstly, his house is like a zoo. There’s BIRDS, FISH and DOGS.

The hygiene isn’t there at the first place. Well when you think thats maybe ok. His dogs (2 dogs) are not properly trained. They pee and shit everywhere in the living room. The birds take over the balcony and kitchen. Could you imagine cooking with the birds? Everything in the kitchen is covered with cling wrap all etc. And cmon how worst could it be right? THE ONLY WINDOW IS AT THE BALCONY. Can you imagine the smell?

Before i even give birth i’m staying in his room all day like IMH patient. Now my baby do basically the same things as me. WAIT before yall say what why didn’t i talk to him all. I SPOKE TO HIM BEFORE. His dogs very smelly, train his dogs all wait baby come out already whr to learn to crawl walk all. I told him i wanna move away or at least get a rental or sm shit.

He told me. “Now i don’t have the money. I also going enlist already. Cnnt wait meh?” Ya enlist. He’s 23. Say he don’t have the time to shower his dogs all come back take care baby. Guess what. Dogs belongs to him his but his mom  taking care for him buying food for the dogs all. Wow. Nvm i told him i’ll go find jobs, there’s people willing to help me take care baby. He say he don’t trust me therefore i’m still here in his house. Waiting for him to bring back money when he didn’t even have the responsibility, he work as delivery and only 4hr a day.

I tried moved away, but he ended up threatening me. He going suicide all, baby is his everything (his family rs not good), I don’t want my baby noy being able to see his father. At that point of time, i still do have feelings for him and i don’t wanna lose him so i went back. but when i’m preg he kept claiming that baby not his all. FORCED me to abort, didn’t really contributed when i’m preg. But wants everything.

Secondly, his mom has the very traditional thinking. So everything that i do is WRONG TO HER. I’m now a shm. I gave my baby pacifier, his mom started nagging “why give pacifier, now baby so hard to take care. Last time i could just hug her and she’ll sleep.”

Cmon, your THIS SON DIDN’T YOU FEED HIM PACIFIER TOO? YOU’RE THE ONE TAKING CARE OR ME. Also she say don’t speak things about baby infront of baby. Like for example “baby very cute, she very guai, her hand very small.” HIS MOM ownself say those infront of my BABY.

I mean this is my baby, i know my baby best and his mom would wants baby to sleep with her sometimes, then when baby gets fussy, she’ll starts to indirectly says me.

“Why give pacifier, see drop cry drop cry. This baby very hard to take care, keep crying. Baby dw sleep i wan to sleep.”

All nvm, i hand washed my clothes and baby’s. Washing machine spoilt. When i see she’s not drying any clothes. I went to soak my clothes going wash the next day, but instead. She wash her bedsheet and dry it. Till now my clothes has been soaking there for 4 days. I have been re-wearing my clothes for past 3 days.

Thirdly, my bf, me and baby went out on xmas day to buy all of ours cny clothes, cause he going ns right. Guess what, he got me a shirt, i just take one from the shelves cause he were bout to pay for the clothes. If i didn’t take any, he wouldn’t probably rmb getting for me. He spents HOURS LOOKING at his clothes and baby’s but mine?

P.s. he didn’t give me any money, i’ve talk to him before MANY times.

The money that i’ve earned when i’m preg is all used up. Buying baby’s crib all, diaper all. I tried getting from other’s but his mom said very ‘pangtan’ but them taking it from his relative?!?? So? I really don’t get it, but i couldn’t say anything. At least baby could still have it.

I’m slowly getting really exhausted, mentally tired, i really don’t know what to do. For your information, i’ve been disowned by my own mom because of him. He’s been sending message to my mom like “How do you teach your daughter to become a slut.”

And messages to me always “No wonder your father deserve to die because of you.” My father passed way before i met him. I couldn’t complete my studies and my dreams, i’ve got no one left. Friends all drifted because of him ya.

For my baby, i really need some help i guess? I really don’t know what to do anymore…

Thanks for listening to my story “

Editor’s note: Wow how did you even get together with him in the first place… This guy is a villain…