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CREEPY GUY LIKES GIRL WHO DOESN’T LIKE HIM, FINDS A GF WHO LOOKS LIKE HER

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A netizen shared a story about how she had a guy friend who liked her for about 5 years and he recently asked her out, lying to his girlfriend about it.

He also made inappropriate comments about her body and hints at being in a relationship with her when he is already attached.

Their friends also noticed that the guy’s girlfriend looks like her.

Here is the story:

“Need to rant. My friend who used to like me (one-sided) for 5+ years recently asked me out for lunch one on one (again). I ghosted him. We know each other for 13 years since JC and are somewhat close friends. He’s currently attached.

Before our previous meetings in the past (we only meet once every 1 or 2 years), I suggested that our other friends could join us but he refused. So, we ended up meeting one on one.

In our first few meetings, he brought up the times when he used to like me and said things like “if this/that didn’t happen, we could’ve ended up together”.

“You have the nicest body”

He also made comments about my body “you are _ cup right? Your future husband is gonna be so lucky” or “you have the nicest body among our friends”.

He’s already attached at that time. Idk if he said these because we are kinda close but I was freaking uncomfortable with that and told him to stop.

What’s more, I thought he told his girlfriend that he was meeting me. But it turned out that he didn’t. I knew because he suddenly got a call from his girlfriend AND he decided to not pick it up the first time, which I thought was something really weird and inappropriate to do to your partners.

After a while, his girlfriend called again. He asked me to keep quiet while he talked to her on the phone?!?! Felt like a freaking third party. That was when I told myself I shouldn’t meet him individually ever again.

Another time he asked to meet again (with another friend), I agreed. We had lunch and walked around. The other friend went to the toilet, leaving me and him.

And guess what? We saw his girlfriend, who was surprised to see him because he didn’t tell her that he went out with us.

Honestly, I don’t even know if the girlfriend knows about me or not. Do guys tell their GFs about their female friends? Honest question because I really don’t know anymore.

Because of all these actions of his, I can’t help but feel like a third party.

Didn’t want to meet him anymore

From then on I kept coming up with excuses to not meet him and kept my distance from him. Also didn’t attend his birthday party, didn’t wish him (which he told me that he was disappointed LOL).

Also, when we were gonna part ways he’d always want a hug. It’s not those quick friendship hugs, but hugs that last for like 5 seconds? IMO I don’t think this is normal, not to mention that he has a girlfriend. Because I don’t want all these to happen between my future bf and the girl he used to like.

Frankly speaking, I don’t feel comfortable meeting him one on one anymore. The fact that our JC friends also said that his girlfriend “looks like me” and that “he’s only together with her to replace me” ain’t helping the situation.

They even asked how I felt about him having a girlfriend after liking me for so long. I mean, what the heck were they expecting me to say, giving such absurd comments.

Recently he asked to meet again and I ignored his messages. Every time when I’m online on WhatsApp I can’t help but be worried that he would see me online lol.

Should I just tell him that we should maintain a distance and not meet individually because of the above reasons? Or am I just being overly paranoid?

I honestly don’t know what guys think but as a girl, or if you were to put yourself in my shoes, when:

– a guy friend doesn’t tell his GF that he’s meeting you

– asks you to shut up when he talks to his GF over the phone

– makes inappropriate comments about you

– mentions the possibility of an rs with you when he himself is attached …

I think it’s really inappropriate and disrespectful to his GF and me??? I’d really appreciate your opinions please.”

Editor’s note: You’re doing the right thing, the guy sounds like he’s off the hinges.

ANGSTY MAN POINTS MIDDLE FINGER AT DRIVER WHILE CROSSING ROAD

A video emerged online showing a pedestrian crossing the road with another man and pointing a middle finger at the camcar, for unbeknownst reasons.

The driver said that he was driving quite slowly and stopped his vehicle a distance away from the pedestrian when he was crossing the road. No honking was heard in the video as well.

The incident happened on Queen Street, on 9 December at around 1.37pm.

The driver shared the video online, captioning it:

“I was driving quite slowly and I stopped my car at a distance when I saw two pedestrians crossing the road, but was shocked to see one of them flashed his middle finger after crossing.”

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COE PRICES INCREASED TO $57K FOR CATEGORY A CARS, HIGHEST IN 6 YEARS

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The COE prices for Category A cars rose to the highest since November 2015.

COE prices for Category A cars (1,600cc and below with horsepower of under 130bhp), saw an increase of about 3.6% from $55,001 to $57,010.

The COE prices for the bigger and more powerful cars increased to $80,401.

COE prices for commercial vehicles like buses and vehicles transporting goods increased to $45,000.

Motorcycle COE prices rose to $9,401, and open category COEs for any vehicle types dropped to $85,000.

A quota of about 1,791 COEs were made available and saw about 2,569 bids.

GIRL’S BF USED TO SLEEP WITH OTHER GUYS – KEEPS IMAGINING HIM ON THE “RECEIVING END”

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A netizen shared how her boyfriend is bi and all his exes are all guys, which she doesn’t have any issues with. But she found out that he is on the “receiving end” of his past relationships and now she feels like he can’t provide her with security.

Here is the story:

“My boyfriend is bi and his exes were all guys. I’m aware and don’t have any issues with IT.

Recently I got to know one of his close friends and he briefly shared that my boyfriend was the bottom in all his relationships and hookups. I thought he was kidding but he laughed it off and said I can ask my boyfriend if I don’t believe it.

I’m a bit thrown off as my boyfriend looks like the top in a gay relationship instead. He’s tall, fit, tanned, and is quite well endowed down there.

I didn’t ask him directly initially and snooped around his room when I stayed over. While rummaging through belongings, I found his adult toy and it’s bigger than mine… wtf.

I confronted him about the adult toy and asked him about his bottom status and he didn’t even deny it. He said he likes the feeling from receiving and uses the adult toy now for his own pleasure now that he’s attached with me.

He even clarified that’s where the male g spot is and there’s nothing to be ashamed of receiving pleasure from there. The only taboo is straight people might see it as gay, which he emphasizes is not as it’s an anatomy thing.

He also reassured me that he enjoys sleeping with me and has never betrayed me with any guys. I trust him on this.

I tried to move past all of this but it’s challenging, especially when we sleep together. I will imagine him being penetrated and dominated and I just lose all my interest in him. I just cannot unsee and unhear that he’s a bottom.

My subconscious self also tells me that he’s less manly and can’t provide me with the security I need. I know it’s selfish of me to think this way but I can’t help it.

Anyone who has the same experience or has advice on how I should deal with this?”

Editor’s note: He’s not cheating on you, so what’s the problem?

AH MA CAUGHT ON CCTV STEALING NETIZEN’S BADMINTON RACKET AT COFFEESHOP

A video emerged online showing an elderly woman caught on CCTV stealing a badminton racket at a coffeeshop.

The netizen who posted the video, captioned it:

“On 2nd Dec at Xin Lai Lai Coffee Shop

My racket was stolen by an old aunty. The reason I had put my racket there is because I was helping my mother out with her shop and there wasn’t enough space to put my racket inside.

Please if u see this aunty please ask her to contact me.”

Potential penalties

The offense of theft under Section 379 of the Penal Code, Chapter 224 carries a jail term of up to 3 years, or a fine, or both.

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MAN SMASHES STRANGER’S PARKED CAR, KNOCKS OFF SIDE-MIRROR FOR NO REASON

A video emerged online showing a man vandalizing a stranger’s car that was parked on the side of the road for no reason, smashing his bonnet and knocking off his side mirror.

The incident happened at Geylang Lorong 1.

The man then made a police report after the incident, and his report read:

“I was having supper around the area and had discovered at around 4 am. that the vehicle that I had rented was damaged.

Upon checking the car dashcam, it was recorded that a group of 4 male individuals were hanging around in front of my vehicle.

Out of the 4 male individuals. 1 male subject had started hitting the hood of my car violently, subsequently also hitting off the side mirror of the car as well.

Afterwards. This group of 4 male individuals then continued talking about damaging my car.

Subsequently, they boarded a taxi together and left.”

Potential penalties

Persons found guilty of vandalism, under the Vandalism Act, faces a fine of up to $2,000 or a jail term of up to 3 years and caning of between 3 to 8 strokes.

TEACHER CATCHES STUDENT FOR LONG HAIR, LETS HIM OFF IF HE BEATS HIM AT ARM WRESTLING

A video emerged online showing a student engaging in an arm-wrestling battle with his teacher inside a classroom in front of the class and another teacher.

According to the poster of the video, the student and his friends were apparently caught for having long hair by the teacher.

However, the teacher then gave him an interesting ultimatum – beat him at arm wrestling and he will let him and his friends off.

And so the two then saw down opposite each other at a table and began their arm-wrestling bout, with the other teacher acting as a referee.

The student ultimately beat the teacher and won the contest, and he then stood up and took a bow in front of the class.

Editor’s note: Walao, how come my time don’t have such cool teachers one…

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MAN RODE E-SCOOTER AGAINST TRAFFIC & CRASHED INTO WOMAN, JAILED

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Jani Basha Mohamed Nizamudeen, a 41-year-old permanent resident, pleaded guilty to one charge of causing grievous hurt and was sentenced on 8 December to 1-week imprisonment.

Another charge of riding a PMD on the road was considered during his sentencing.

What happened?

On 19 July 2019, at about 2pm, Jany was riding his e-scooter on the way to Masjid Chulia at Chinatown from his home.

He was riding legally on the footpath, before switching over to ride on the left lane of South Bridge Road because there were many people on the footpath and he was getting late for his prayers.

Jani then rode against the traffic flow, although there were no vehicles at the time because the cars had stopped at a traffic junction nearby.

The victim, Madam Ng Geong Yan, 65-years-old, was trying to cross the road after checking for traffic and her back was facing Jani.

Jani didn’t keep a proper lookout and crashed into the woman, who fell onto the road as a result of the impact.

Jani then called the police and asked if he needed to wait there because the paramedics had already told him that the police were informed.

The victim was then conveyed to hospital with a broken wrist and head injuries.

Jani was ordered to pay $514 to the victim for her medical expenses, which was rejected by the victim as she had already claimed from her insurance.

CYCLIST DIDN’T STOP AT AMBER LIGHT, CRASHED INTO PEDESTRIAN – FINED $1.5K

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Jessica Mollie Edgill, a 34-years-old British national, pleaded guilty to causing hurt by a negligent act.

She was given a fine of $1,500 on 7 December, as well as being ordered to pay another $1,500 to the victim as compensation.

Edgill had failed to stop at a traffic light that had turned amber and crashed into Madam Lynette Tan, 56-years-old.

What happened?

On 20 October at around 1pm, Edwiull was cycling along Upper Pickering Street in Chinatown and entered the junction of Havelock Road and New Bridge Road.

The traffic light had turned amber and she continued cycling through, just as the victim was crossing the road because the pedestrian traffic light had turned green.

Edgill then crashed into the victim, who was conveyed to SGH in an ambulance and suffered deep cuts on her knee and abrasions on her elbow.

The victim was hospitalized for 3 days after going through surgery, before being given 33 days of hospitalization leave.

22 Y.O NEVER BEEN ON A DATE, LONELY & JEALOUS OF OTHERS IN RELATIONSHIPS

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A netizen shared how she (assuming she is female, according to the comments on the post) is 22-years-old and has never been on a date before.

She says that she is tired of being lonely and hates seeing others being in relationships except her.

Here is her story:

“I’m 22. On dating apps coz of the pandemic. Don’t have much of a social life either. I’ve never dated before or anything.

I just don’t understand, I have been trying over the last 3-4 years.

I have tried to improve and work on myself, but it just honestly sucks seeing people I know being in long term relationships & settling down, whereas I have absolutely no experience.

It is FOMO. Of course, coz everyone else is experiencing it except me. It makes me wonder if something is really wrong with me or if I’m really just not good looking enough.

I’m tired being lonely.”

Editor’s note: You’re only 22, the road is long, your time will come.