We have been together for 25 months and all we do when we meet every week is eat, netflix, be intimate, and sleep.
We dont talk. I ask u about work and all u say is “busy” because either u dont think I am smart enough to understand your work or u just dont like talking about work.
U dont ask me about my work and I will tell u about mine in order to fill in the silence.
When I asked why u dont share with me about your work, U said ”man in general dont like to talk about their problems the way a woman does” , then what do we talk about? Seriously what do couples talk about?
U dont like talking about your work because u say it is a source of stress and u only want to talk about stuff that u feel happy talking about.
But the thing is, we dont talk. Period. All we do is eat, netflix, be intimate and sleep. And we dont even get to watch finish the netflix movie because we will be intimate and fall asleep during the movie.
We used to go for movies dates until I started going to your place and it has been netflix and chill ever since. I dont even know whether to call our weekly meetups, dates or just hangouts. The former is romantic, the latter isnt.
I dont know what our future holds because we rarely talk about our future. We banter about how cute our kids will be and that’s it.
Are we so comfortable with each other that we no longer see the need to talk to each other?
We barely message during the week because you’re so busy with work during the day, which I totally understand, but we also dont talk after work, because you’re probably too busy doing your own things , which I dont know what and I dont know if I should ask maybe hopefully studying for your part time studies, but I think mainly because both of us dont know what to talk about.
I guess its a good thing that we dont talk on the phone like normal couples do, because there will just be awkward silence.
Seriously what do couples talk about??????????? I am feeling almost bored emotionally, and disconnected, but I am not allowed to tell u that, because u will get angry with me and say I am not being understanding and supportive of your busy work and part time studies.
But thats not the issue. We dont even talk f2f. All we do is netflix and chill.