How do I tell my boyfriend I just want to be f-ed??
Please advice, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years! We have a child together and for some reason our bedroom activities is suddenly so DRY.
Before we had our child we would f almost everyday and now I’m lucky if we have a quickie once a month!!!!! I’m so confused but he’s such a family man so I don’t think he’s cheating but WTF is happening.
He doesn’t like doing doggy or wild positions with me as he says it’s degrading for me… ummm I do not give a f, that is what I WANT.
It’s all strange and I can’t make sense of it. We get intimate, missionary.. it lasts no more than 10 minutes, I am so bored of it, sick of it. To the point.. I’m like am I really going to break my family up because I’m FRUSTRATED.
I feel awkward to tell him I just want to literally f him like I used to, he wants me to be such a lady and makes me feel awkward when I try to spice things up. Any advice, pleaaase???
Netizens’ comments
- The way you describe wanting to be f-ed, is that something he used to do and no longer does or he never did it at all?
- You’ll have to sit down and talk with him. Schedule a date night, kiddo spends the night with a sitter or family out of the house or y’all go to a hotel. Go out for a movie or dinner and then on the way home have an awkward car talk about how you miss being pushed down and ravished like he can’t get enough of you. Let him know that your needs are not being met
- I found it hard to not put my wife on a pedestal after she had our kids. I looked at her more like something amazing and sacred instead of just wanting to pull her hair and smack her @ss. I got over it, took awhile and a serious conversation, but I did. Still think she’s amazing and something to cover, but now it’s back to just wanting to get nasty with her. Just talk to him. If it’s him putting you on a pedestal, he’ll want to make you happy.