Hi guys, is it true that if it were meant to be, it would have happened from the start?
I have been chatting with this girl almost daily for the past two years. We were classmates but and both of us have graduated and we are both working adults. I have a crush on her from the start but i guess she didn’t catch it.
Now we are both working adults, our texting context is usually her ranting to me about her work and some part and bits of her personal life. Did ask her out a few times but it only happen once or twice and was brush away with reasons like her working schedule changed or she got last min plan. Lately we still texts but her reply has been getting slower and slower to like one text a day. Did i missed the chance? Should i be thicked skin and give another shot?
Here are what netizens think:
- Honestly the thing I learned from 2022 was to be direct, upfront with how I felt. Rejected? Either you steel yourself to try again if you deem she’s worth it, or just find someone else. Why waste the time ‘looking for signs’ and ‘waiting for her to catch it’? That’s all your own ego. I gave up mine, told this girl I really liked her, and shortly after I got her sincere, honest reply about how she felt. Since then, it’s been the happiest of times with her. Figured that I should try to put my ego aside in the face of a girl I really wanted
- Don’t waste so much time guessing. Just tell her you like her and ask her if she is willing to give you a chance.Either way you get an answer right away and can move on from there.
- Clearly she’s not interested, or is already involved with someone else. Move on bro, plenty of other fish in the sea.