The last part of the story would state on how the boyfriend would make love to his fling girlfriend on their bed which is surrounded by pictures of her and her boyfriend. She even found her underwear missing at his house as well which grossed her out. He even had webcam s*x with a maid who is working in his condo who he met in Wechat.
Here is the last part of the story.
He brings her food and hangs it at her door. Eats the cake she bakes. Brings her to supper places I told him about. He sends her to school. Regular “gf” stuff.
At the same time, every time they meet, he will just want sex. If she refuses, he will get angry. And she is afraid of him, remember?! They do it in the car, outside the car, or when his parents are away or sleeping, IN OUR BED surrounded by our polaroids and a “shrine” for us to put all our travel mementoes and what not. Look at my baby photo! GROSS. When she asked about the photos while doing the nasties, he just says “Ignore it. Just look at me.” Then he will use my stuff on her. Nice. It seems like my clothes/ undies are also always misplaced in his house, but he always has some sort of stupid excuse so I went with it. FML brb I need to throw up.
Sleeping with another woman is one thing, but doing it in a room filled with our memories all around you is really very sick. (Not in picture) Cards I made for you and pictures of us stuck all over the wall. Letters I wrote for you every week while you were in prison. A whiteboard where you drew us as mini characters with the words “best friends!!”. Lego and puzzles we built together; stuff I bought for you; things we collected when we went on trips together all on display. Everything in that room says “clt egg”. We literally have a light box above the bed that says “Clt Loki Egg ❤️“ Even the blanket is something we grossly named “Cloud”. And my baby bolster? That little guy has a name too. For the past 17 fking months, you had the cheek to tell me “I feel so loved when you call it our room, because it’s our room now ☺️“ Do you not have any shame? Have some standards.
On the other hand, he insults J every time to lower her self-worth and at the same time always boasts about himself so she will feel like he’s too good for her and she should treasure him. After all, he thinks he’s the king right? LOL.
He also proudly tells her that he brings girls to his mother’s shop to take (illegal shit) and have sex. Disrespectful. AF. His mother’s shop, his dad’s car, his sister’s toilet. Embarrassment to the family. It’s also kinda satisfying to hear from J that they hardly go away from the east in case I (the legitimate gf) calls him and he has to come pick me. His house is like a minute’s drive away from mine so upon receiving the call he will just throw her at the roadside and make her walk home herself. (JERK ALERT!) According to her, sometimes the seat is still warm from the previous girl. Or me. He can really plan his time well, picking up one girl after another. They often chat on Carousell too because he has history and I don’t like him on Telegram. Fking effort. But a bad bf to both parties. Basically just a scumbag.
Oh and he is SO cocky, he often dares her to tell me or befriend me. He told her that he knows for a fact that she will NEVER tell me. I saw the screenshot of him saying things like “Yes please go talk to her. Go befriend her. Send her your nudes. I would love that.” And he even once wanted to introduce her as his cousin and wanted both of us to go to JB and “have fun” together. What a sick, twisted individual. God knows what he meant. He really thinks women are here to serve men. And his best friend enables and supports him.
6. Bonus history that I never wanted to bring up because I always forgave him. But if you guys haven’t had enough drama, here you go! Might as well.
I urge all the girls out there to be wary of this kind of people around. And have more self-love. Don’t forgive so easily because he will trample all over you. I didn’t have any and look where it got me. These are just a few of the funnier ones, obviously I don’t keep all the receipts because I never thought I’d have to ever do this post. But if there are any red flags in your rls, run as fast as you can. Don’t believe his words even when he’s crying and begging for you to stay, he is not sorry. I wish no one would have ever have to feel the way I’m feeling now. It’s almost unbearable.
More scum of the earth drama:
> In 2017, he lent me his iPad for school and forgot that his icloud was synced. He actually used WeChat to “look for others online” and found this woman. I think she’s a maid in his condo, probably? They were just having some web cam sex but being the sick bastard that he is, he decided to screenshot and save them AND it appeared on his ipad THAT I WAS USING. FOR SCHOOL. LOL oops, busted!
Yet I forgave him.
> He was on Sammyboy, and I first found out about its existence because of this incident. I was just scrolling through his computer when I came across this website. When I clicked into it, I realised it’s a p*rn-ish kind of forum that has a feature that if you post your own content, then you “level up” in your membership and you get to view more content. Needless to say… I found him exchanging my pictures (that he took in secret) for more photos of other girls.Thanks. I still forgave him.
> Whenever he’s angry he goes bonkers. In this instance, he broke the door ON ME. (Apparently he showed J pictures of the broken door and was boasting about it. Wow, talk about the need to boost his own ego regardless of the situation) I still have the scar. But I still forgave him either way.
> There was this one time he was home doing some illegal activity and didn’t go to work. He told his superior that he was sick but told me he’s at work. To keep up with pretences, he even described the seminar he was supposedly attending. And things like “I’m on the way to lunch!” “Pee break!” “Wah sian the seminar is so long” so I really wouldn’t have known right?
The funny thing is that on that day he said he just got home and as a regular gf, I just said“I miss you! Send me a selfie”. He disappeared for 15 minutes then sent me a selfie under his block in his work clothes claiming that he was alighting the bus. I forgot what I asked but later he was forced to admit that he has been home and he was actually lying to me. But LOL the main point is that he rushed to change into his work clothes and rushed downstairs just to take a picture for me. Really a lot of effort.
Lying comes so natural to him, I don’t even know how many things he lies about on a daily basis. It’s not just cheating.
8. Finale – My message to him
I wrote all these not because I don’t love you. You know it. I loved you way too much. Despite the arguments, everyone knows how good a girlfriend I was to you. Your mother just texted me to apologise on your behalf. But you truly betrayed me. And your family. And my family. And our friends. Even your bosses. I gave you so many chances. We spoke about marriage and have already planned our future.
We were so proud to be best friends. I really enjoyed living life with you, having our own “bb language”, “foodventures”, “galavanting!!”, or other coined up terms that I thought was special to us. We had so much fun together, or were you lying through those times too? When we went on new adventures together and laughed till we cried, was it all an act? We shared SO many good moments together; we were so stupid together. Can you really look me in the eye and tell me that they were never real? You were really my bestest friend.
Your friends, our families, all thought we were the Power Couple. People around us were even annoyed that we were so in love, and we were often called the “package deal”. I genuinely thought my life was perfect. Of course, little did I know that it was all nothing but a lie. A very carefully planned out lie. Our entire relationship was a sham. No wonder you were so tired all the time — you had such an exciting life behind my back! I wasn’t enough for you. I’d be lying if I say I wouldn’t miss you, or at least the person I believed to be mine. But it’s okay, now I will never forget this sham of a relationship.
So middle fingers up to you SLWK, I have known about this for a while. Imagine how sick I felt having to act chummy with you and even had to celebrate your birthday with you. I gritted my teeth and tried to carry on with the show on your birthday party. God knows how hard I tried. But as I felt sicker and sicker with every “I love you” at your birthday staycay, I snapped. Every purple heart emoji, every “I love you”, that you’ve ever said to me, I now know your words don’t mean jack shit.
7-11 was not a coincidence. Neither was the Instagram follow.
I hereby break up with you.
You and Ni*el are pure grade A trash.
Also, remember when you said this?
Yes, you really deserve it. Now that this is over, I can finally move on. I fking hate you.
I am not okay, but in the wise words of Beyoncé:
“So since I’m not your everything
How about I’ll be nothing?
Nothing at all to you
Baby, I won’t shed a tear for you
I won’t lose a wink of sleep
‘Cause the truth of the matter is
Replacing you is so easy”
I’m definitely not okay. But one day I’ll wake up and you won’t mean shit to me anymore. Can’t wait.
x,
CLT