Me (m28) kind of piss off my gf (f26). Need advice on how to apologise.
A little backstory: my gf (foreigner)had to leave her family (singaporean & pr) during covid to go back to her home country. At the start, she would be very excited to share every small little details about her life be it happy things or unpleasant things. but as time go on and a few job changes, i find that she does not share to me about her life anymore. on & off we still video call n msg a little here n there but mostly dependent on her mood. sometimes i feel that i am left to wander if she is still interested in me? in this relationship?
Now recently during the long weekends, her country is also having a long weekends, so i thought she would be free to talk so i videoed called her on fb n a msging app. but she avoided my calls and said to msg her instead. Thus i msged her. But aft sending 2-3 msg, she blocked me on the chat app n fb. Her ig is still open to me though. have tried to apologise to her thru her ig but she is still ignoring me. not even a mention of if she want a breakup.
I kind of unable to move on with this sudden blocking of communication. any suggestion or advice on what can i do?
Here are what netizens think:
I think the LDR is taking a toll on her and she simply want to end it.Here is what I would do: I won’t try to contact her at all for a week. If after a week and she doesn’t even bother to unblock you, that means you need to move on.Honestly, she act like a kid with no sense of responsibility. Why do you even bother?
In this case I think she should be the one who apologize to you isn’t it?She’s probably uncomfortable with confrontations so she’s using this to tire you out. Leave her a message and let her know u hope to have a closure? And hope for the best.
Try give her space, after a while just ask her if she wants to cont or end the rs. Only when ur get a closure u will know what to do. But she blocked u, thats already a bad sign. Just prepare to move on
Got new bf already lah don’t bodoh.