What should I do?
I’m a foreign staff working here in SG. I have been working SG since 2013. I moved here, when my age was 20.
I have 5 siblings including me and I’m the youngest among my siblings. My siblings are married except me. I made a nice and big house to live with my parents and with my future wife.
Unfortunately 2021 my mother had died. I couldn’t visit her due to Covid and my study. My mother was my best friend and I’m still loving her.
I’m remembering her every single day and every single moment and missing our all memories.😢
My father is living alone in my house and sometimes my siblings house as well. Yes I love my father and supporting him as much as I can.
But if compare to my mum, my mum was best that never seen anyone in my life.
Since 5years I don’t go home. I had planned end of 2021 I go home. But my planned didn’t work out, because of my mum leaved me.
I don’t have strength, heart, soul to go home anymore. I can’t imagine without my mum how I’ll live to my house?
I can’t stay here as my expectations to make, create and live with a nice family. What should I do?
Appreciate yours good advices.
Netizens comments
- Your dad is lonely too without his lifetime partner. Go home and visit him, build your relationship with him with the shared memories of your mom. Whether you return to Sg after that is Que Sera Sera…
- Do you see a point in staying in Singapore? If not, please go to a country that helps you to advance and call your father daily and visit him whenever you can. Good luck!
- Unless you have a partner here, I would suggest that you return. You talk about memories of your mom. I promise you time will make things better.. I have also experienced the loss of a parent. Also about your dad. Don’t repeat the same regret when his time comes. Spend more time with him when you can. He also miss your mom. You sound like a resilient guy. I believe you can make a living wherever you go. Hugs.