Gf cold war with me because I don’t support the same presidential candidate as her.
Is this a red flag?
For context she’s a loving gf and have been respectful whenever I need space. She scores very high when it comes to EQ. Often gives me face when my friends are around. Also knows how to get along with my family which my ex gfs failed to do. Gives the most amazing xxxxxxx. I love her very much as she’s the perfect package. I’m so proud to call her my gf as she’s such a wonderful person. I may not be a 10 but being with her made me feel like I’m a 10. She never made me feel lousy about myself unlike my ex gfs.
I know she’s been watching the news so I’ve been avoiding this topic with her as I think politics is a never ending conversation and my mind won’t change no matter what. So she asked who would I be voting for and got upset that we’re not going to vote for the same person. Then she went on this long speech about it. I didn’t want to talk about it and now she told me we won’t be meeting until the results are out. Wtf.
Is this a red flag? How can someone get so upset over something like this?
Here are what netizens think:
If she cant even handle different political opinions over the presidential candidate (which should not even be an issue of concern in both of your daily lives), then imagine the impending chaos and doom that you will face when you both have different opinions on ACTUAL issues that matter (marriage, finances, family, children etc.)
Maybe you should ask her why is she so affected, what caused this. Uncover the root tissue. Is it she feels disrespected, belittled etc.
I would say it is amber flag..for now. But if it lasts for say more than a month, the flag turns red. Life is short, can’t spend it on so many cold wars. Even the one with Russia has ended.
Depends on who you both voted for. If she didn’t vote for thar it means her IQ is below average.