I (21M) have an issue with my (20F) wetting the bed when she’s drunk. It’s disgusting….
Every-time my GF goes out she gets so unbelievably drunk that she wets the bed. She somehow gets wasted (and I mean wasted to the point she can barely stand) from 2 – 3 drinks, so you can imagine what’s she’s like when under the influence of her friends all night.
Not to mention, she’s just a massive D when she’s drunk. I absolutely hate it when she goes out. It’s Disgusting having to wake up in a wet smelly bed.
I’ve started making her sleep on the floor when she’s at my house as that seems to be the only fix. I fear that this might tip me over the edge as it really is unattractive and embarrassing when your partner has 0 self control on her drinking to the point that she wets the bed constantly. Any advice ?
P.s if she had a genuine issue that meant she couldn’t hold it in, it would be different.
Netizens’ comments
- If you’re asking for permission to break up with your alcoholic girlfriend who doesn’t care that she drinks and pisses herself… constantly. Yea you have our permission.
- She needs to not be drinking at all if she gets that black out after 2 to 3 drinks.
Can you set a boundary that you don’t want her coming over when she’s drunk? - What is her reaction to this the morning after?
- (OP) She’s done it at mine 3 times and 4 times at her place and she did wash the sheets to be fair to her (cos I asked her to). After that I refused to let her back when she was drunk. I make her go to the toilet before she goes to bed (that’s if I’m staying at her place) then I sleep on the floor cos she refuses to sleep on the floor in her own flat.
- If she’s getting blackout, piss yourself drunk after 2-3 drinks, then first of all – I think she’s lying to you about how many drinks she’s having when she goes out. Either that, or she’s got an intolerance to alcohol. Regardless, she should stop drinking.
This isn’t normal behavior. But know this, OP: she won’t stop drinking until she’s ready to stop drinking. It’s completely valid to not want to be with someone who behaves like that when they drink, especially if they refuse to stop drinking. But she won’t get sober until she’s ready, even if it means losing you.