Family are nuts and dirty
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Home is hell and I hate to stay at home. People in my family are nuts, I have no one to talk about this to. Currently left 1 year of study.
People in my family are nuts. (Personal matter) mother doesnt listen and always repeat the same stuff to me although I tell her is not possible. Brother has some sort of personality disorder or sth else and doesn’t want to seek help. Father is stubborn and has old minded thinking.
I live with father and brother, they are f**king dirty and unhygienic plus father treats me like a maid, making a mess.
How far do I have to tolerate until I cannot take it? How much is too much until I have to move out?
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Here are what netizens think:
- Try to give tuition and use the funds to move out completely without turning back. Your studies are important, so is your sanity. It’s also an opportunity to manage your time with studies and work combined to prepare for the working world too. Jia you!
- You need to be financially independent from your parents first before you can even think of moving out and staying on your own. Until you gain independence, try to work your life around your home situation. You may find it intolerable now, but trust me, when you have been through rock bottom at home, you’ll gain a lot of life experience and can use the lessons learnt to tackle working life too.
- I know of a person who have quite a worse family situation. The person situation same as u but was quite worse and more complications. Maybe you can talk to your parents or consider renting. Sometimes we have to endure and tolerate situation that we hate.
- I went through this, once I had a job secured and was in my last semester at uni, I rented a room at a friend’s house and moved out, then I never talked to them again. The mistake I made was not moving out sooner. Move out when you can and get counselling after you’re gone.
- Where does Heaven and Hell comes from? From your own mind. What we like, we call it Heaven. What we hate, we call it Hell. All such discrimination arises only from very own perception shaped by our own upbringing, education, social conditioning. That’s means if you grow up in a different country in a different family, you will become a completely different person from who you are today.