Partner went on holiday for a month with her two kids. Before she left we made arrangements that I was going to let her know if I could pick her up from the airport when she was supposed to be back.
During her trip at firs our communication was great, and she sounded eager to talk to me and speak to me. That was about the time of week one, and I let her know that I was going to pick her up, and that’s how it stayed.
Halfway through week two she started to sound more and more distant. She would usually call me early morning, but she would excessively moan about how she was spending too much money because her cousins weren’t driving her around and she had to pay for taxis, and gradually the calls and text started to be none.
Beginning of week four we had a bit of an argument over the phone because she did something which I deemed dangerous for her and the kids, and she would not want to hear about it and hung up.
We did not speak for two days, understandably since she is on holiday, until I called and she again hung up the phone on me because she said I was trying to cause an argument by saying that sometimes the distance interferes with our communication and we can misunderstand each other.
After that I had enough of being rudely shut down for raising little concerns and did not call or text for the remaining of her trip letting her enjoy her time.
She did the same and I received no calls or texts from her until the day after she was supposed to be back with a bunch of expletives and a long rant on how I could possibly leave her and her kids alone at the airport to have to arrange their way back alone and about the amount of money she had to spend.