Just a rant. My girlfriend is very insecure lately. We have been together for over 2 years and for the last 6 months we are having multiple arguments over our boundaries. Firstly, she found that I have been following 300+ bikini models on IG and we got into a fight over this. Her basis was that she felt disrespected that I had to follow and like every bikini photo these models post to validate them. I mentioned that they’re just mindless likes and it’s not like I would date them or would even have a chance to see them as they’re overseas.
She got angrier and said that if I had the chance I probably would jump at them then and I’m being insensitive towards her feelings.
She then brought up the issue of not posting photos of her on my IG and ig stories. I told her that I do not enjoy posting my private life on social media so as to reduce my digital footprint plus our friends and family all know about our relationship so this shouldn’t be an issue anyway. She had the guts to then bring up how i wanted to remain private but still openly showing likes to kpop idols and influencers posts on social media, calling me a hypocrite.
I personally feel that its two separate issues but now everything feels so messy. Recently she saw that I placed a photo of my fav female idol in my car and she actually got annoyed again because I didn’t have any photos of her/us in my room or car. I told her that I just wanted to look at my bias photo after a tiring work day. She’s now asking me to keep a printed copy of our photo in my wallet now but i really don’t feel like giving in to her demands anymore.
I don’t understand why she’s so insecure about our relationship and find the need to nitpick on my social media behaviours and photos I bring along with me. Isn’t it enough that I chose and waited many months for her to be my gf out of the other girls enough to show that I am dedicating myself to this relationship.