The news that I was pregnant was both exciting and devastating.
After all, I had been trying to get pregnant with my partner for months and months. But when I told him the news, his reaction was not at all what I had expected. He said that the baby couldn’t possibly be his, because his “tadpoles” weren’t working.
I had no idea what he was talking about. He said that he had a medical condition that prevented him from producing healthy sperm.
He said he had been told by a doctor that his “tadpoles” weren’t working, and so it was impossible for him to be the father of my baby.
I was completely shocked and devastated. I had no idea that he had a medical condition like this. We had been together for over a year and I had never even heard him mention it before. I felt like he had been keeping something from me all this time. I was angry and hurt.
He exploded on me saying that I was cheating. I kept quiet, I did have a few encounters behind his back.
When I asked him why he hadn’t told me about this earlier, he said he was afraid I would think less of him. He said he wanted to protect me from the truth and he didn’t want to hurt me. He said he knew it would be hard for me to understand and he didn’t want to risk losing me.
I was so confused and upset. I knew I was still pregnant and I had to figure out what to do next. I asked him if he wanted to be involved in the baby’s life, and he said he did. He said he wanted to be there for me and the baby, even if the baby wasn’t his biologically.
At first, I was hesitant to accept his offer because I didn’t want to be with someone who was lying to me. But after talking it through, I realized that he was still willing to be there for me and the baby, and I decided to give him a chance.
But months later he decided to go MIA on me and I could not find him and he refused to answer his door. I finally caught wind of him and my friends told me that He had got together with another girl and said that I was unfaithful.
Now I am stuck, my ONS blocked me my bf left me. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to be a single mother.