Possibility of non-consensual touching.
This is pretty embarrassing for me to write, and I don’t feel safe asking for advice other than social media.
A few days ago, I spent the night with my boyfriend for the first time. We’ve been together for over a year but due to past experiences I was nervous to stay the night with him.
All was fine until at about 5am when I woke up and he was awake anyway. I spoke to him for about a minute but I was half asleep so turned over to go back to sleep.
He kept grabbing and squeezing my bottom and top, I kept batting his hands away and telling him to stop. He just carried on. He didn’t just do it through clothes either, he put his hands into my pants and bra etc.
This went on for about an hour until I decided to just get up, I left a couple of hours later. I’m confused because it has left me pretty upset but I’m not sure if I have the right to be upset since he’s my boyfriend and didn’t do anything more than what I have described.
He is completely loving to me all of the time, so this really shocked me as I wasn’t expecting him to do this. Am I right to be upset? Please could someone give me advice?
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