Boyfriend confessed he is bisexual
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I have a boyfriend of 1+ year who just recently confessed to me that he is attracted to his male colleague.
He said that they only flirt and nothing else. He is asked me to let him explore his sexual orientation while still continuing to date him.
I am so confused. If he like guys, isn’t he gay? Or he is bisexual? It’s a little awkward for me.
I accidentally found out that they have been exchanging photos of their Pe.nis. i confronted him and he said it’s just part of his “exploration”. He say he can stop doing it if I am affected and that he still wants me to be with him.
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Now what? Ladies, what would you do?
Here are what netizens think:
- What do you want from him? Family, kids, comfort, financials, independence, friendship, trust, etc. Plenty of people have open relationships and are happy. Others have no wish for kids while others just want someone to be with at home. Some just enjoy making other people happy. Stop asking other people’s opinions and figure out what you want. At least he’s honest and open. He’s given you a choice which is more than most give.
- If you’re dating to marry, move on. He’s pushing your boundaries now and will continue to do so the longer you stay together.
- Given that it is hard to tell Singaporean males and females apart, isn’t everyone in the country essentially bisexual?
- Nothing wrong with being bi-/exploring his own sexuality but it’s unfair for him to essentially be cheating on the side and still expect to keep you with him!
- Bisexual doesn’t mean he can have one male and one female partner. He may like both males and females, but when it comes to a relationship, he still has to choose one.