Gf made me finish in my pants and now I’m worried I won’t be able to last long enough when we eventually get intimate and sleep together. Advice?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months but we haven’t gotten intimate yet. A few days ago we were making out and fooling around like normal but then she got on top of me and start dry humping me.
It felt amazing and she’s so hot that I ended up finishing in my pants. I felt so embarrassed that I ended up lying to her about it.
Now I’m worried that when it comes time for us to sleep together I won’t be able to last very long. I don’t want it to be a disappointing experience for her but I am kind of clueless. If you have any advice I’d really appreciate it.
ETA: I’m a virgin but she isn’t. She said her last bf was very selfish in bed. I don’t want to be that way.
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- Tell her “Omg you’re so hot, I cannot control myself. Give me a few minutes to regroup and we can do it again.”
Then don’t stop touching her everywhere. The fast finishing thing is only a problem if men just roll over and go to sleep.
Also, the condom might make you a bit less sensitive so that might help a bit. Good luck!!! - You probably won’t. But that’s life.
So communicate and ask what she likes and be willing to try, within reason and comfort obviously, even if you do come quick. Also who knows maybe you’ll get a second wind lol - You’re probably not going to last long the first time. Or even the first five times. It will get better with time though. And even if it doesn’t, making love is so much more than piv. Take breaks when you’re getting close. Go down on her. Get a toy. Most importantly, make sure she finishes first!