I’ve been with my new girlfriend for 5 months now and we have regular intercourse, she always finishes and I always finish after her.
However we came to a road block and she wants me to do more foreplay which I have been trying to do she says she want me to be more dominant which I am being.
But last night she was trying to initiate the mood but I didn’t want to I told her no and that was that.
She later was all quiet and didn’t say much. I asked her what was wrong and she said that she just thinks I am boring in bed, which shocked me cause it was out of no where.
I asked how I can improve and spice things up more for her but she only replied with I should just know.
I said I don’t know what you want me to do if you don’t tell me, which she replied to by saying her ex was a virgin and he knew how to keep it entertaining and that he was actually good and better than me in bed.
This hit me extremely hard in my chest and I didn’t know how to respond made me feel like I just wanted to break down and cry.
Does anyone know how I can spice things up with her and how I can get over this heavy numb feeling??
Netizens’ comments
- that’s immature and hurtful..
- Yeah, she’s mad that she got turned down. How sad. She also sounds incredibly spiteful. That was a very low blow. Continue at your own risk.
- Yeah no, I wouldn’t spend any more time on her, communication is massively important in a relationship and especially with intimacy. No one “just knows”
- She’s hinting that she wants to hook up with Professor X i guess.