GF TRAVEL ACROSS S’PORE TO MEET BF FOR DATE, BUT WHOLE TIME HE PLAYING PHONE GAME

My current boyfriend (30 y/o) and i (27 y/o) have been together for more than 2 years and i started to grow tired of this relationship.

We stay far away from each other (i live in west while he live in the central. ) Henceforth we only meet only 2 to 3 times per month. Sadly, I always have to travel all the way from jurong to his place just to meet him and go back home by myself.

So far, he only drove me home twice in this two years. The first time is when he need to borrow my ipad so he drove me home to take it. The second time was when we went to jem for a midnight movie.

Whenever we spend time together, he would be using his phone playing mobile games or checking his stocks the whole time.

He always treats his friends and their girlfriends better than me. I always got excluded whenever his friends invite to play poker, sing k, mj and even their wedding. Oftentimes, he would last minute gave me lame excuses to cancel our dates.

All my friends are encouraging me to break up and should not be wasting my time on him. Are there any ways i could improve the relationship or i really should break up with him? I have tried communicating with him about this but he always avoid the topic.

Netizens’ comment

1. Tell him about how this is bothering you, and you’re considering a breakup. If he still avoids it, Breakup. It doesn’t seem like he actually cares bout u
2. So many red flags showing that he is not into you. Doesn’t look like he would want to improve the relationship either. Leave asap and find a better one!
3. You deserve better. Based on your description of him, finding a better boyfriend than him seems not a difficult task. The current one does not even qualify as a friend.
4. I think my colleagues that lives in west side have more commitment then both you and your “boyfriend”. I knew quite a few have been working in airport for more then 10 years despite living in mini Johor.
5. Wa.. You’re always the one travelling to meet? In this case, its either he is damm rich, damm handsome, or the after-brush-teeth activity is out of the world