Me and my girlfriend got together 4 months ago, and she is my first. I loved her so much when we just started out, but as we got to know each other better, I’m starting to think otherwise.
She keeps testing me, fighting with me over trivial arguments to see if I will apologise first, when these arguments don’t even need to start in the first place. Most of the time I do apologise, but when I don’t, she uses it to guilt trip me, saying things like “sorry I’m a bad girlfriend” and all… She also can’t seem to understand that I need my own time alone as well, just to watch videos or play games. She wants to keep texting and texting and texting me, and I wouldn’t dare to ask her to stop because she would get angry, so I let her… My life now is literally work, and texting her until I have to sleep, I can’t get time for anything else.
We go out on dates every Friday night after work and occasionally more, but she still pushes to go on even more dates. Immediately after our dates, she tells me she misses me and wants to see me again. I try to put it nicely to her that work is tiring, and minus sleep time and the time I take to go out with her and text/call her, I literally only have a few hours left for myself every week. She gets angry whenever I say I don’t want to go out, saying things like “Oh, I guess I’m just not that important to you” and stuff like that.
I also never thought I’d say this, but her sex drive is insane. She is constantly texting about s**ual things which I shall not go into detail, and she gets extremely mad when I stop replying… Many times I would come home from work tired as hell, and she starts sexual texts, but I will force myself not to sleep and just play along with her, fearing that she will be angry with me.
Can I get a third persons perspective on this? Who is in the wrong? Am I just not a good boyfriend? She’s my first, and I really don’t want to break up with her after just 4 months of being together…